Grown boys need to think about more than sex. Many grown boys are oversexed. Its sex, weed and beer/liquor for them. They need to become the person they want to be with ie a responsible well put together black man and go find the sista they want.
Far too much reckless procreation, too much indiscriminate promiscuity. Too many men are having babies, and too few are actual fathers. Too many men are seduced by the novelty of having children, but not so much in actually raising them. And that goes for in or out of wedlock. Too many children are being abandoned by men who willingly participate in their conception, only to fill their lives with rejection. Young men are being carelessly discarded by the very men that should be teaching them lessons in manhood. Unknowingly, the become an apprentice of the streets, where an internship leads only to poverty, prison, or even death. And what about our daughters? Your absence invites predatory guidance that can seize innocence and disrupt her life forever. Mentally. Physically. Emotionally. Her first male contact should be you. However, where are you? A responsible gentleman understands the power & significance of rearing his children. The power of being present and accountable for his family. A part of being a man means knowing how to be a father, and a wise gentleman fully understands this. So, be there!
The following is a gentleman's public service announcement: An intelligent gentleman understands and appreciates the delicate nature of a recovering job market. Certainly, the employment forecast is becoming brighter, but an astute gentleman demonstrates due diligence during his job search. Never stagnant, he works tirelessly to improve his chances of landing his job of choice. And once the moment arrives when a gentleman is standing before a potential employer, he fully realizes what his primary role is at that time-salesperson. He is a salesperson and the product that he is selling is himself. He soundly demonstrates that his experience and expertise are viable commodities that a future employer wants...no...needs at their company. His career goals are perfectly aligned with the company's mission and vision. He is supremely confident, yet humble. He superbly demonstrates the ability to work independently, but he is a team player. He clearly shows the drive to continually improve himself and become a valuable asset to the company. By the time his pitch is done, the job is his. No questions about it!
A successful gentleman understands that he does not approach life insufficiently prepared for what might arise. He has a carefully devised strategy. He has meticulously formulated a plan for his future. The better the preparation, the better the ability to handle adversity. No crisis or dilemma will seem insurmountable. Think about it: A coach does not haphazardly send his players into a game without a game plan. Even football audibles, though deviating from an original set play, have a purpose. Sure, a play may be broken, but an intelligent player makes the necessary adjustments and adaptations. Life will not perfectly proceed as you might imagine. A gentleman will encounter setbacks. A gentleman might face innumerable obstacles. Nevertheless, a smart gentleman has a mission. He has a vision. He has a plan. He even has a contingency plan even when the original plan doesn't go according to plan. He has strategically placed himself in position for optimal reward. You can do the same-if you have a game plan. So, do you have one?
