Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching thug

[ionblast]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

"father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by having a dumb ass fucking daughter"

^fixed^

i can't even blame this stupid nigga, if it wasn't him it would have been another drug dealer. The bitch was stupid and found a boyfriend equally stupid Fuck 'em both

c/s

 

[Darrkman]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

They thought it was cool to talk drugs over the JAIL PHONE? They deserve every minute they get locked up.

This is one of those moves where you say to yourself "He really can't be THAT stupid..can he?!?!"

 

[Sampson]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

this is more common than you think, girls goin out of their way to holler at dudes who they view as more exciting (ie different from what they are used to) than the local dudes and getting caught up.

" I can change him..........deep down he's....."

c/s

exactly, its a girl thinking with her pussy and rationalizing it...we call men who think with their dicks and rationalize it simps,suckers,etc,etc....what do we call those women???



liberated,strong,independent and educated.....

Interesting.

 

[ThaBurgerPimp]

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Afrika Owes​

..her family a explanation as to why she fucked up her life LOL

" 'Cause they'll all come see you, boom, boom, boom, 'cause that's the morning. That's their first high," he counseled.

sound like he was starting to quote black eyed peas or something"theyll all come see you boom, boom, boom, then you get that boom,boom,pow.."

 

[smoovejazz]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

I blame her father.

Of course you do...

 

[bgque12]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

That's obviously not true. She was "with" a drug dealer. Thinking she was living the thug life. So her decision making skills aren't up to par. And who's fault is that? Her parents man. My daughter is 16. She finds the whole drug culture idiotic and boorish. The reason why? We stayed on her constantly and gave her other things to aspire too. Her father stayed on her constantly to make sure she didn't turn into this child here.

There's more to fatherhood, there's more to parenting than just the basics.

I see that way to often the belief that, just because the dad is THERE. Ta Daaaa, everythings going to be rosey. Absolutely not. There's a TON of other things you have to provide children in ways of building them up, morally, consciously. Goals, Values. Building their very personality. All requires care and intense preparation.

And girls need thier fathers not JUST to be their for birthday parties. Or when they need 20 dollars to go to the mall. They need their fathers, there, EVERRRRRYY DAAAAAAY. They need their fathers there, to talk to them. Their fathers need to have an open relationship ENOUGH with their kids to provide access to the point where the child feels there is never any need or reason to hide things from them.

It's obvious this dude failed at this with his daughter. Now of course everyone wants to point the fingers at her and throw her under the bus. She's a little girl. Little girls shouldn't even be thinking of crap like this. This kind of thing shouldn't even enter into their minds.

Sorry, got serious there for a moment.

Here you come with your everything is the man's fault ass This little bytch was out for some excitement and fukked herself up. Pop's gave her an opportunity that not many kids get. This shyt is on her and her alone!

 

[Mack10]

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another dumbass that watched too many episodes of the Wire

On the contrary, if he watched The Wire he would've known that you don't discuss shit on the phone.

 

[POSTERBOY]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Agreed, the father is supposed to set the blueprint for what his daughter looks for in a man. Thats why its crucial that the father is a positive role-model. On the flipside, a negative father can set a negative blueprint for a female as well. This scenario doesnt play out in all cases, but most of them it does.

Positive Father = Most likely daughter wants positive man

Negative Father = Most likely daughter wants negative man

Absent Father = Most likely daughter wants negative man

you're too naive for your own good bruh.

is it also our job as fathers to teach her how to be a woman also?

 

[soulcontroller]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

It's just in alot of their DNA. Just like it is for guys to want pretty thick, big bootied big breasted females.

Yes, this is my confession.

 

[cuzz]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

exactly, its a girl thinking with her pussy and rationalizing it...we call men who think with their dicks and rationalize it simps,suckers,etc,etc....what do we call those women???

 

[stickyfingerz]

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Afrika Owes​

ID ASK THE JUDGE IF I COULD LICK THAT PUSSY B4 THE DYKES GET TO HER.....

 

[ShortyCumStain]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

so me saying that a young woman is responsible for her own actions at that age somehow equates to me having a 'hatred for females'?



you've gotta be the dumbest mutha fuka to ever sit in front of a keyboard

 

[LoneStar29]

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Its funny how her father is being absolved of any wrong doing in this thread with the whole "he tried his best" shit ... but had she come from a single mother home, ALL the blame would be put on the mom and there would be no talk of "she tried her best"

LOL @ Legacy_Infinity's posts going over all you hypocrites heads lmaooooo

Anyways

These 2 are born jackasses ... making drug deals over jail house phones??? smmfh I ... cant

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Its funny how her father is being absolved of any wrong doing in this thread with the whole "he tried his best" shit ... but had she come from a single mother home, ALL the blame would be put on the mom and there would be no talk of "she tried her best"

LOL @ Legacy_Infinity's posts going over all you hypocrites heads lmaooooo

Anyways

These 2 are born jackasses ... making drug deals over jail house phones??? smmfh I ... cant

Nah you have to remember the types of dudes you're dealing with here. Alot of these guys didn't have a good father at home so they don't really comprehend what it is i'm saying. So yeah it goes over their heads. Look at how alot of them respond and react whenever you bring up male accountability for ANYTHING. The fur flies.

And yeah they didn't even get it. I'm sure someone did. lol And you also notice how it went unnoticed in my other posts of course how i spoke on the parents. And the community. Nah nothing there. I like drawing them out you know? Making them show themselves.

 

[jwilliam85]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Its funny how her father is being absolved of any wrong doing in this thread with the whole "he tried his best" shit ... but had she come from a single mother home, ALL the blame would be put on the mom and there would be no talk of "she tried her best"

LOL @ Legacy_Infinity's posts going over all you hypocrites heads lmaooooo

Anyways

These 2 are born jackasses ... making drug deals over jail house phones??? smmfh I ... cant

Nah you have to remember the types of dudes you're dealing with here. Alot of these guys didn't have a good father at home so they don't really comprehend what it is i'm saying. So yeah it goes over their heads. Look at how alot of them respond and react whenever you bring up male accountability for ANYTHING. The fur flies.

And yeah they didn't even get it. I'm sure someone did. lol And you also notice how it went unnoticed in my other posts of course how i spoke on the parents. And the community. Nah nothing there. I like drawing them out you know? Making them show themselves.

 

[LordSinister]

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That's obviously not true. She was "with" a drug dealer. Thinking she was living the thug life. So her decision making skills aren't up to par. And who's fault is that? Her parents man. My daughter is 16. She finds the whole drug culture idiotic and boorish. The reason why? We stayed on her constantly and gave her other things to aspire too. Her father stayed on her constantly to make sure she didn't turn into this child here.

There's more to fatherhood, there's more to parenting than just the basics.

I see that way to often the belief that, just because the dad is THERE. Ta Daaaa, everythings going to be rosey. Absolutely not. There's a TON of other things you have to provide children in ways of building them up, morally, consciously. Goals, Values. Building their very personality. All requires care and intense preparation.

And girls need thier fathers not JUST to be their for birthday parties. Or when they need 20 dollars to go to the mall. They need their fathers, there, EVERRRRRYY DAAAAAAY. They need their fathers there, to talk to them. Their fathers need to have an open relationship ENOUGH with their kids to provide access to the point where the child feels there is never any need or reason to hide things from them.

It's obvious this dude failed at this with his daughter. Now of course everyone wants to point the fingers at her and throw her under the bus. She's a little girl. Little girls shouldn't even be thinking of crap like this. This kind of thing shouldn't even enter into their minds.

Sorry, got serious there for a moment.

So, you're telling me she has no culpability in this? That every woman that makes poor choices should be exonerated due to the failings of their fathers?

I call bullshit on this. Obviously this girl made a conscious decision to jump into the shit pool. She knew that selling crack ruined lives, she just didn't give a fuck.

How do you know her father wasn't just a hard working, boring, everyday nice guy? Maybe she's just a lil bitch that wanted the "glamor" of the lifestyle.

You should read the comments about the school she was enrolled in. It's supposed to be a good place to learn, and if she was on scholarship, that alone was worth 50K. She just through it all away over a thug, like many women do. Especially our women.

 

[Djmarkxr7]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Agreed, the father is supposed to set the blueprint for what his daughter looks for in a man. Thats why its crucial that the father is a positive role-model. On the flipside, a negative father can set a negative blueprint for a female as well. This scenario doesnt play out in all cases, but most of them it does.

Positive Father = Most likely daughter wants positive man

Negative Father = Most likely daughter wants negative man

Absent Father = Most likely daughter wants negative man

Hate to break this to ya bruh but the same qualities exist in both!

A woman wants a strong, confident man that she feels safe with and protected by, EVERYTHING else is secondary.

In other words, it comes down to how you apply yourself, to building a legit business or to selling drugs, BOTH require ingenuity to get off the ground and thrive.

Put it this way, YOU see him as a lowdown, drug-dealing gunrunner, SHE sees him as an innovative, smart-thinking leader.

Even better yet, how do you think Bernie Madoff's mother-in-law felt about him when she first met him vs. how do you think she would feel now???

 

[LoneStar29]

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Look at how alot of them respond and react whenever you bring up male accountability for ANYTHING. The fur flies.

Exactly ... they get very upset when it comes to black men being held responsible for anything ... but they have no issues with calling black women out about their responsibility on everything ... but men are supposed to be the leaders

I like drawing them out you know? Making them show themselves.

I feel that rotfl

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

So, you're telling me she has no culpability in this? That every woman that makes poor choices should be exonerated due to the failings of their fathers?

lol I like how you guys took, it's her fathers fault. To....all women should be exonerated from any wrong doings! lol. I love american males.

I call bullshit on this. Obviously this girl made a conscious decision to jump into the shit pool. She knew that selling crack ruined lives, she just didn't give a fuck.

Was never debated sweetheart.

How do you know her father wasn't just a hard working, boring, everyday nice guy? Maybe she's just a lil bitch that wanted the "glamor" of the lifestyle.

We don't, but it's about odds. Odds are...he wasn't. If someone did some digging on dude i'm betting my car we'd find something to say he was at a lapse of fatherhood here.

You should read the comments about the school she was enrolled in. It's supposed to be a good place to learn, and if she was on scholarship, that alone was worth 50K. She just through it all away over a thug, like many women do. Especially our women.

I read the comments. You're saying things to me that i'm not disagreeing about.

 

[Mr. Met]

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[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Hate to break this to ya bruh but the same qualities exist in both!

A woman wants a strong, confident man that she feels safe with and protected by, EVERYTHING else is secondary.

In other words, it comes down to how you apply yourself, to building a legit business or to selling drugs, BOTH require ingenuity to get off the ground and thrive.

Put it this way, YOU see him as a lowdown, drug-dealing gunrunner, SHE sees him as an innovative, smart-thinking leader.

Even better yet, how do you think Bernie Madoff's mother-in-law felt about him when she first met him vs. how do you think she would feel now???

Ah sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, heh. I like what you did here.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Exactly ... they get very upset when it comes to black men being held responsible for anything ... but they have no issues with calling black women out about their responsibility on everything ... but men are supposed to be the leaders



I feel that rotfl

The problem isn't the MEN. The problem is...it's a LOT of MALES who THINK they're men. And want to be called MEN. And they're not. MEN understand they have to be responsible and accountable for their actions, for their families, and definitely their children and how they're raised. MEN wouldn't just fold up the tent when it comes to an unruly or whatever child, or children, throw up their hands and be like, "ah well whatcha gonna do!".

As a matter of fact calling many of them MALES is even a stretch. That's the problem.

 

[woodchuck]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Right?!

 

[LoneStar29]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

The problem isn't the MEN. The problem is...it's a LOT of MALES who THINK they're men. And want to be called MEN. And they're not. MEN understand they have to be responsible and accountable for their actions, for their families, and definitely their children and how they're raised. MEN wouldn't just fold up the tent when it comes to an unruly or whatever child, or children, throw up their hands and be like, "ah well whatcha gonna do!".

As a matter of fact calling many of them MALES is even a stretch. That's the problem.

Exactly

These males think being a man means you have testicles so now that automatically makes you the leader and now automatically women are supposed to fall at your feet and do whatever you say

They dont get how BIG the responsibility of leader is ... how it really is a selfless act ... its not about "I'm the boss do what I say" ... a real leader is making the most sacrifices cuz he is top dawg ... but these boys dont, cant, wont and are incapable of seeing or understanding that ... thats why we fail overall as a community

I wish I could put the bolded on a bumper sticker or some shit like for fuckin real PREACH!!!!! Real leaders dont look for the "easiest route" ... real leaders fight the good fight and build their peoples up

Fuck boys rolling their eyes and snickering like little bitches are proving both of our points without even realizing it ... brain dead bunch of fags smmfh

 

[big pimp]

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what a dumb bitch

c/s.

 

[LordSinister]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

lol I like how you guys took, it's her fathers fault. To....all women should be exonerated from any wrong doings! lol. I love american males.

That seems to be your premise in these type of situations. You always seem to blame the male for everything.

You have a shitty wife? Your fault for picking her and not being psychic.

Your daughter is a whore? Your fault, you should have hugged her more.

You find out you've been paying child support for a kid that's not yours? Good, someone has to be responsible for the childs welfare and making sure the lying bitch gets her nails and heeer did.

maybe some people are just born fucked up? My woman's cousin has a son, that is pure evil. Seriously, this kid is like Damien. Animals flee the lil bastard and he's just hella creepy. Oh, he also has a father that works and is in the house. His mom is pregnant again, I think he's going to get worse.

As far as the rest of it goes, I grew up with both parents, some of my friends did too, some didn't. We all knew what was right or wrong, but the lil ninjas that sold weed, and were fake thugs attracted some females that had hard working fathers.

Some women perceive the drug dealing scum bag douche as a better mate for them. The guy that does the right thing, goes to work or runs his own business is looked down on by many women of all upbringings.

These same women must be held accountable for their choices of men to procreate with. At some point, every woman decides who she lets ejaculate into them. It would be just as easy for me to put the blame on the state of the black race on the women.

You choose who you fuck, when you fuck and who's seed you bring to life. (Except for rape)Women choose to fuck dudes that have seeds all over the place.

Why?

Are you sisters that weak?

I personally don't think so, but your arguments lead me to this conclusion.

Maybe the reason there are so many deadbeat dads is because years ago, women started fucking men that have those traits. Not to mention the government will assist her if the dude is absent.

Anyway, to place blame on anyone at this point is moot. She's going to jail for a long time and lets agree that's a wasted life and a tragedy.

 

[LordSinister]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Exactly

These males think being a man means you have testicles so now that automatically makes you the leader and now automatically women are supposed to fall at your feet and do whatever you say

They dont get how BIG the responsibility of leader is ... how it really is a selfless act ... its not about "I'm the boss do what I say" ... a real leader is making the most sacrifices cuz he is top dawg ... but these boys dont, cant, wont and are incapable of seeing or understanding that ... thats why we fail overall as a community

Testicles don't make you a man, they only make you male. However, ovaries don't make you a woman, they only make you female.

A leader leads, and if his/her direction is valid, most will follow it. But sheeple will follow anyone that is speaking. That's why Bishop Long can fuck young boys, and the people defending him the most are the females in his church.

Why?

maybe because some women like to follow bullshit types of men.

Some women however, don't take to direction at all. Women that are incapable of following a man, or want to dictate the terms of what they will and will not do, without discussion or a give and take, aren't worth marrying.

My girl for example had to have everything explained to her before she takes action. I told her, baby, sometimes I see things you don't and you need to trust me when I say move now. I trust you enough for the same thing.

She still would have problems with it until the day we were at a drug store. I saw two groups of young men, (Asian and Hispanic) circling each other in the middle of the store. From what I over heard in the conversation let me know it was going down. My girl heard the exact same conversation, but didn't pick up on the same things that I did. She though I was being "over cautious" for nothing.

I told her: "We are not leaving the store until I say so, and when I tell you to move, you move"

Her reply:

So, the Asian young men leave the store first, and I see one of them open the glove box. I can see it cause I'm pretty tall and the back of the checkout has boxes stacked over 6 feet.

I tell her: "Duck"

Her response: Why? I don't see anything.

The next thing, shots ring out, one of the Mexican kids staggers in and drops to the floor, dying, 5 feet from us.

That's when it got very real for her when she had to watch that kid die. That's when she was acting all amazed like how did I know that was going to happen. Needless to say, she is a lot more apt to follow me blindly and ask questions later than she used to be.

Getting back on track, my woman is stubborn, It's actually one of the things I like about her, but, I'm a very hard headed, strong willed individual that is built for that. If she wasn't as intelligent as she is, and as good to me as she is, I would have been left her ass.

But I'm a different guy, any woman that I can just push around, I tire of quickly and dismiss.

On the other hand, I also don't put up with "Bridezillas" "Raging Bitches" and constant "Finger pointing, neck popping, fake everything having from their ass to their hair Loud Mouthed Bitches". Most men will put up with some attitude. But any real Man that's worth his "Testicles" will never allow himself to be emasculated by any woman.

To sum it up, sometimes, some women overestimate themselves and by doing so, eliminate potential good mates. Then they are left with the guy with no self esteem that puts up with all that shit.

Or they end up alone eating chocolate in bed watching bullshit dramas and arguing on BGOL.

You know who you are baby.....

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

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That seems to be your premise in these type of situations. You always seem to blame the male for everything. You came at me quite reasonably so i will respond so. No hijinx or shenanigans.

You have a shitty wife? Your fault for picking her and not being psychic. If you believe that you are the master of your life. The owner of your domain. Then how else do you perceive this to be? Between you and i..., if i get with a woman, and i just invite her into my house, and we form a relationship after not inspecting her carefully......I'll give an example. No woman sleeps at my house? Without a background check. Without probing questions into her childhood. Her beliefs. Even her political views, down to what she thought about Herbert Hoover. This woman cannot CAN NOT. Be introduced or even seen by my family until i am satisfied with all of those answers. When i feel like i definitely know who this woman IS. Then and only then will she meet them. If she shows herself to be a liability in any fashion. If i don't like ANY thing she says. She's not girlfriend material. It's intensely picky. Yes. But i'd rather be intensely picky...then endanger my childrens lives. My life. Our future. Because if i let any of that happen Mr. Sinister the 1 who is to blame? Is me? If EYE can accept that burden, and be responsible for my decisions, why can't a MAN?

Your daughter is a whore? Your fault, you should have hugged her more.Not just a hug. A whole lot. You mean to tell me the thought wouldn't even cross your mind? If you see wild butt kids out doing wild butt things, the first thing you don't think of is "where are your parents?" Or if a child is doing something rude or crude you don't think "your parents must've raised you wrong..." OR....On BGOL as an example, how often is it seen about women in porn or even MODELING, the people here say, "she had no father..."?

You find out you've been paying child support for a kid that's not yours? Good, someone has to be responsible for the childs welfare and making sure the lying bitch gets her nails and heeer did. Mr. Sinister you'll never find anywhere on earth, in the ultranet and beyond where i've said anything like this.

maybe some people are just born fucked up? My woman's cousin has a son, that is pure evil. Seriously, this kid is like Damien. Animals flee the lil bastard and he's just hella creepy. Oh, he also has a father that works and is in the house. His mom is pregnant again, I think he's going to get worse.Realistically speaking, do you feel that this "father in the house" is doing everything he possibly can for the tike? I mean developmentally.

As far as the rest of it goes, I grew up with both parents, some of my friends did too, some didn't. We all knew what was right or wrong, but the lil ninjas that sold weed, and were fake thugs attracted some females that had hard working fathers. This is an example of what i mean. I know this will be taken the wrong way...But screw it. Hard working dad does not = GOOD FATHER. Lets be a little more in depth.

Some women perceive the drug dealing scum bag douche as a better mate for them. The guy that does the right thing, goes to work or runs his own business is looked down on by many women of all upbringings. There are extenuating circumstances, but you are not speaking an untruth here.

These same women must be held accountable for their choices of men to procreate with. At some point, every woman decides who she lets ejaculate into them. It would be just as easy for me to put the blame on the state of the black race on the women. Not an untruth either...but also oversimplification. I do not disagree, but there is more to it.

You choose who you fuck, when you fuck and who's seed you bring to life. (Except for rape)Women choose to fuck dudes that have seeds all over the place. Never disagreed with this either.

Why?

Are you sisters that weak?
Yes they are. Why are they that weak? Your explanation is......they just are? I don't believe this to be true. Just like i'd say the same thing for males, and the explanation about why they're such weaklings.
I personally don't think so, but your arguments lead me to this conclusion.

Maybe the reason there are so many deadbeat dads is because years ago, women started fucking men that have those traits. Not to mention the government will assist her if the dude is absent.It's never the males fault is it?

Anyway, to place blame on anyone at this point is moot. She's going to jail for a long time and lets agree that's a wasted life and a tragedy.

Don't disagree with this either.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Testicles don't make you a man, they only make you male. However, ovaries don't make you a woman, they only make you female.

A leader leads, and if his/her direction is valid, most will follow it. But sheeple will follow anyone that is speaking. That's why Bishop Long can fuck young boys, and the people defending him the most are the females in his church.

Why?

maybe because some women like to follow bullshit types of men.

I ask YOU. Why DO they like to follow those types??

Some women however, don't take to direction at all. Women that are incapable of following a man, or want to dictate the terms of what they will and will not do, without discussion or a give and take, aren't worth marrying.

I believe that a man's home is his castle. And all inside that castle are his responsibility. If someone is disagreeable in that castle, you banish them. It's how it's been for thousands of years. Just about all of human history.

No sir, i'm not saying that there are NO different scenarios. But lets not play that role that the few are the many either.

My girl for example had to have everything explained to her before she takes action. I told her, baby, sometimes I see things you don't and you need to trust me when I say move now. I trust you enough for the same thing.

This is how things run in our house as well.


Or they end up alone eating chocolate in bed watching bullshit dramas and arguing on BGOL.

You know who you are baby.....[/QUOTE]

It's not chocolate! They're raisins!

 

[DV8ed]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

This used to be my song back in the day!!!

 

[Mr. Met]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Peep her mom out...

It's seems this girl might have been raised by her mother alone.

And based on her mom's modeling photo, I curious as to what type of mother or model she was. A stripper maybe.

The plot thickens.

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/...y_no_gun_molly_hs_girl_Wlm5XMvMxT6uqnfsaFNZ9M

Oh, good golly! I'm no gun molly - HS girl

By DOUGLAS MONTERO, IKIMULISA LIVINGSTON and JEANE MacINTOSH

Last Updated: 8:42 AM, February 19, 2011

Posted: 2:04 AM, February 19, 2011

A prep-school girl arrested this week in a Harlem drug-and-weapons gang takedown says she's no gun moll -- she's an honors student determined to get into an Ivy League college, and she's even studying in jail for her SATs.

"My life is over," Afrika Nora Owes, 17, told The Post during an emotional reunion with her mom at Rikers Island yesterday.

Until this week, Owes was known as a popular, poised, sweet "A" student at Manhattan's super-competitive Millennium HS in the Financial District. She worked part-time at McDonald's, made the school basketball team and was looking forward to visiting the campuses of Barnard and the University of Pennsylvania.

She recently visited Harvard and Yale, and wants to become a lawyer.

But Owes' charmed life came crashing down Wednesday when she was rounded up with 13 pals from her Harlem neighborhood and accused by the Manhattan DA's Office of ferrying firearms to the members of a West 137th Street crack and gun gang.

Prosecutors said Owes' boyfriend, Jaquan Layne, 20, was running the gang from Rikers while jailed for armed robbery, and gave Owes her orders in phone calls recorded by the jail.

Afrika was hit with conspiracy and gun charges.

"I'm not guilty of these things," she said yesterday.

Yesterday, Afrika's mother, Karen, visited her daughter in jail to drop off an SAT prep manual.

The concerned mom said that while those arrested with Afrika did not hang out at their West 138th Street home, it's possible that without her knowledge her daughter communicated with them via Facebook and text messages.

Karen said it's so hard to stay on top of even good kids -- and that she and other parents need to better monitor their children's social lives.

"This could happen to anyone's daughter," said the woman, who is also a mother to twin 6-year-old girls and an 11-year-old son. "Parents need to be more savvy."

Owes had previously strayed off course last May, when she withdrew from the elite, $44,000-a-year Deerfield Academy in Massachusetts, where she'd had a full scholarship and was on the student council.

School spokesman David Thiel said Afrika left Deerfield "while facing a disciplinary investigation based on issues of academic and personal integrity that merited expulsion."

Thiel said the investigation was "in no way" related to any of the criminal charges Owes currently faces.

A former classmate told The Post that Owes got caught cheating on a Spanish essay in the fall of 2009, and was on probation when, the next spring, she skipped school and claimed she was going to a doctor's appointment. The school checked, and learned there was no appointment, Owes' schoolmate said.

"She was well-liked by students and teachers," the friend recalled. "She was a bright student and she obviously went down a wrong path."

Karen Owes said her daughter since childhood had known several members of the group with whom she was arrested, and Afrika and Layne played together.

"No mother wants her daughter in this situation . . . I don't know how it will unfold," she said.

"My daughter said, 'My life is over.' I told her it's not."

Additional reporting by Andrew Bruss in Deerfield, Mass., and Amber Sutherland in NY

douglas.montero@nypost.com

 

[smoovejazz]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Nah you have to remember the types of dudes you're dealing with here. Alot of these guys didn't have a good father at home so they don't really comprehend what it is i'm saying. So yeah it goes over their heads. Look at how alot of them respond and react whenever you bring up male accountability for ANYTHING. The fur flies.

And yeah they didn't even get it. I'm sure someone did. lol And you also notice how it went unnoticed in my other posts of course how i spoke on the parents. And the community. Nah nothing there. I like drawing them out you know? Making them show themselves.

I don't think it's going over ANYONE'S heads...we understand that there are times when a man is at fault...

HOWEVER...

The problem with your posts is that you INVARIABLY, WITHOUT FAIL have a knee-jerk reaction that ANYTHING - yes, goddamnit, ANYTHING - that a woman does is a MAN'S fault, and you ALWAYS absolve a woman from ANY responsibility for her actions, as if she's a child or a mentally handicapped individual...you are not balanced with your criticisms at all...

Obviously, there are situations where a woman's father has something to do with how said woman sees men in terms of relationships...there are, however, some cases where the father can do everything for his daughter, but she still wants to test the waters and rebel (so your sensors won't light up, boys do the same thing).

What would you, Legacy, say about Kemba Smith, the Virginia woman who served almost 8 years for money laundering and taking drug money across interstate lines for her drug-dealing boyfriend? She came from a STABLE home with a mother and a father who tried to give her what she needed...her father was there for her, taught her right from wrong...when she went off to college, she rebelled and went against what her parents taught her, and you see the result...she NEVER blamed her father (or her mother, for that matter) -

wait for it - watch this! -

SHE TOOK FULL RESPONSIBLITY FOR THE DECISIONS THAT SHE MADE!

Now, that's a new concept for you to wrap your hands around - a woman took responsibility for her actions! As we ALL should, I might add!

 

[woodchuck]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

It's seems this girl might have been raised by her mother alone.

Cue the chirping crickets!!! Yeah, the last 2 pages, muhfuckas were going back and forth like a conversation, talking shit about dudes giving the dad a pass for his part in all of this. Since this shit got posted, them muhfuckas let this thread drop to the 4th page!

 

[Sampson]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Cue the chirping crickets!!! Yeah, the last 2 pages, muhfuckas were going back and forth like a conversation, talking shit about dudes giving the dad a pass for his part in all of this. Since this shit got posted, them muhfuckas let this thread drop to the 4th page!

You can't win with these brain dead bitter broads. If the girl is raised by a single parent, it's the father's fault for being absent. If the father is there, it's his fault that the girl didn't make better decisions.

 

[LoneStar29]

Re: Father's worst nightmare: Boarding school beauty's life ruined by dry snitching t

Or they end up alone eating chocolate in bed watching bullshit dramas and arguing on BGOL.

You know who you are baby.....

Lmaooooo

mmmmkay yeah I see you too