If black women dont want you it's you...or is it?

[Mello Mello]

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[DAYNE]

All these women out here and dudes having trouble. Part of the game is that? Average is as average does I guess. There are plenty of great black women out there, most cats are just average and unremarkable. Some of you guys. Just like the women you attract.

Gene sister, didn't gene tell you to stop logging in to bgol under his username?

 

[African Herbsman]

Three pages of cats whining like bitches. Wow.

 

[Adam Knows]

Three pages of cats whining like bitches. Wow.

basically....

*sniff
*sniff

[WHINE]nobody likes me[/WHINE]

 

[Top_Bunk]

no beef but if that's what you got out of smoovejazz's post then you are really dense. just make yourself happy and tell yourself that it's everyone else's fault - that seems to be what you're searching for - some kind of validation that you have no flaws.

= sarcasm

 

[Top_Bunk]

All these women out here and dudes having trouble. Part of the game is that? Average is as average does I guess. There are plenty of great black women out there, most cats are just average and unremarkable. Some of you guys. Just like the women you attract.

What do you define as great? Sure there are a lot of fat women that are great. Or women that after several baby daddies later they finally get it and want to settle down with the right guy.

I'll pass on those two.

Now there are also a lot of tramatized sisters.....

i dont know what you consider as great but i dont see them that often.

They are out there yes. I'm crushing on 4 chicks. They seem great to me on the outside....but it's not like i see them on a regular

 

[The Dark Mind]

What did I lie about faggot?

Sorry. Not my fault you can't read.

But don't worry you maggot infested faggot. I'll help you out.

See first you posted this lie...

I just broke rule number one by replying to you however, I shall continue. I have had plenty of experiences with other races of women and I have never been disrespected by a black female like I got from White/Asian/Hispanic females.

Then I called you on that lie...

First of all, I'm going to call bullshit on your statement right now for the simple fact that...

1. if you constantly dated women who constantly disrespected you then somethings wrong with you

and

2. if you say you weren't constantly being disrespected because you didn't date outside your race that many times, then that means you didn't date enough white Hispanic/Asian females to know what you're talking about.

So either way you're lying.

See??? Now from now on,

please try actually reading the posts first

and that way you won't be so confused, ok?

Need to go and get a life and retire at least 6 of them screen names.

Sooo... you have 6 screen names now???

Dude you're starting to confuse yourself.

I keep telling you, the rest of us only use one screen name. You should do the same. It's better that way.

 

[KTD]

Sorry. Not my fault you can't read.

But don't worry you maggot infested faggot. I'll help you out.

See first you posted this lie...



Then I called you on that lie...



See??? Now from now on,

please try actually reading the posts first

and that way you won't be so confused, ok?

Sooo... you have 6 screen names now???

Dude you're starting to confuse yourself.

I keep telling you, the rest of us only use one screen name. You should do the same. It's better that way.

Your mother.

 

[SaKem]

I am a Black male professional that is the type of man that Black women say they want, but I've been turned down many times. I used to think there was something wrong with me until I talked with my circle of confidantes (who are mostly Black men and women of varying ages) that know me well and are brutally honest with me. We have reviewed the women that I have been attracted to over the years, and the conclusion was that there was nothing wrong with me except I was not seeing early on the red flags a woman may put up that tell you that she is not worth pursuing. I would tend to pursue these types of women, only to get dogged in the process. The women would always say that there were some things that they did not like (they were often bullshit reasons like the "too nice" thing (hey, my parents taught me how to treat a woman, so I'm not gonna deviate from that), the "swagger" thing (which is a term that is so overused and played out these days), etc.) Many of these women were very opinionated, but did not allow me to have an opinion. Many of them expected me to do all the changing, but did not feel that they had to change a thing. Many of them were superficial in terms of material possessions, money, looks, etc. Many of these women ended up in relationships with men that were "thuggish" in their behavior, or had money, "swagger", status, etc., but the one thing that was lacking was mutual love and respect in their future relationships...they may appear happy, but down inside, they really weren't. Many of these women did not have adequate male role models in their lives, so they didn't learn how to be loved and respected in a relationship, and many learned early on to "use what they've got to get what they want". The women in question were in the 25-45 age range.

Thanks to my circle of confidantes, I have come to realize that many Black women make life difficult for themselves and the men they want, and the men who want them. Granted, there are some non-desirable men, but there are an underestimated number of undesirable women as well. I still hold out hope that there will be a Sister that I will be compatible with (no, I have not given up yet, but I have come damn close), but I will no longer accept the entire blame if a woman is not attracted to me. I have learned to see that they are missing out on the fullness of spirit and individuality that I possess (that's not being cocky - we all have it, but many of us go a lifetime without actually realizing it fully, if at all). I will, however, hold up my responsibility by being the best person that I can, and by doing that, I will eventually attract someone who does not have negativity within themselves, which was what I had been doing for far too long.

You're gonna continue to be shitted on cuz ur a punk bitch, and you need to realize that. Women DO NOT like that. All that "my momma taught me how to treat a women, I'll never deviate from that" shit needs to stop. Get real. Women like a challenge just like any other human being, quit being a bitch push-over. Stop over-respecting women. When ur dating a women get other womens numbers, talk, get out there, thats the only way you'll gain some respect. And quit getting your feelings tied up in these bitches, act in the laws of abundance, just like women do, thats why she's not sweating you. Women adhere to the laws of abundance when it comes to dick, dick practically falls out of the sky, you need to act as if pussy falls from the sky and not sweat her pussy. C'mon man, man up.

 

[Top_Bunk]

You're gonna continue to be shitted on cuz ur a punk bitch, and you need to realize that. Women DO NOT like that. All that "my momma taught me how to treat a women, I'll never deviate from that" shit needs to stop. Get real. Women like a challenge just like any other human being, quit being a bitch push-over. Stop over-respecting women. When ur dating a women get other womens numbers, talk, get out there, thats the only way you'll gain some respect. And quit getting your feelings tied up in these bitches, act in the laws of abundance, just like women do, thats why she's not sweating you. Women adhere to the laws of abundance when it comes to dick, dick practically falls out of the sky, you need to act as if pussy falls from the sky and not sweat her pussy. C'mon man, man up.

Chill out you going too hard my nigga

 

[DAYNE]

Your mother.

KTD be easy, peps always catch you in lies

 

[weisdaclick]

This is a thinking thread that requires about 120 points of I.Q so i thought i'd give you a fair warning.


Why do people insest .....

Set yourself up for a fall there dude.


Word to the wise, work on your game. Sort your shit out, body, mind, career - everything.

Then you'll be fighting them off.

 

[4North1Side2]

You're gonna continue to be shitted on cuz ur a punk bitch, and you need to realize that. Women DO NOT like that. All that "my momma taught me how to treat a women, I'll never deviate from that" shit needs to stop. Get real. Women like a challenge just like any other human being, quit being a bitch push-over. Stop over-respecting women. When ur dating a women get other womens numbers, talk, get out there, thats the only way you'll gain some respect. And quit getting your feelings tied up in these bitches, act in the laws of abundance, just like women do, thats why she's not sweating you. Women adhere to the laws of abundance when it comes to dick, dick practically falls out of the sky, you need to act as if pussy falls from the sky and not sweat her pussy. C'mon man, man up.

Quoted for the motherfuckin TRUTH!

 

[streetdreamer]

You're gonna continue to be shitted on cuz ur a punk bitch, and you need to realize that. Women DO NOT like that. All that "my momma taught me how to treat a women, I'll never deviate from that" shit needs to stop. Get real. Women like a challenge just like any other human being, quit being a bitch push-over. Stop over-respecting women. When ur dating a women get other womens numbers, talk, get out there, thats the only way you'll gain some respect. And quit getting your feelings tied up in these bitches, act in the laws of abundance, just like women do, thats why she's not sweating you. Women adhere to the laws of abundance when it comes to dick, dick practically falls out of the sky, you need to act as if pussy falls from the sky and not sweat her pussy. C'mon man, man up.

Ok, I'll just make it clear as to what the problem and solution is...

Imagine a scale, you have Poindexter all around good guy, pure in morals pure in motive amazingly sensitive in feelings and never violent. He's a 1.

Next you have Jamal Jenkins, aka "Black" hardcore thug, gangster, drug dealer, don't give a fuck about shit and has no qualms about throwing a female from a moving car should she act up or refuse to give up the pussy. He's a 100. All men fall in between 2 to 99.

When Poindexter leaves the toilet seat up, he gets yelled at in front of his friends, family or has water thrown on him in the middle of the night because his girl fell in. He will adjust and try to remember to leave the toilet seat down but because his girl was able to get away with acting stank, she will continue to do so on any issue. Hence, she will eventually lose respect for him.

Jamal Jenkins leaves the toilet seat up without even caring if its an issue and if his girl raises stank, she knows he will shove her face in that same said toilet. She doesn't want to call the police because he's hustling in the home and she'll go to jail too.

Therefore Jamal Jenkins automatically recieves a higher level of respect over Poindexter and is never challenged. Hence, Poindexter walks on eggshells to his girl, Jamal Jenkins walks on water to his girl.

Solution: Never get married. Keep your options open. Make sure you're in a situation where you can kick your girl out the house anytime you please(keep her off the lease, etc) and she wont act shitty when she knows she has to leave if she doesn't please you.

Whats unfortunate, most sisters can only respect a man thats 85+ on that scale despite wanting a good guy all the way down to Poindexter.

 

[humble]

Ok, I'll just make it clear as to what the problem and solution is...

Imagine a scale, you have Poindexter all around good guy, pure in morals pure in motive amazingly sensitive in feelings and never violent. He's a 1.

Next you have Jamal Jenkins, aka "Black" hardcore thug, gangster, drug dealer, don't give a fuck about shit and has no qualms about throwing a female from a moving car should she act up or refuse to give up the pussy. He's a 100. All men fall in between 2 to 99.

When Poindexter leaves the toilet seat up, he gets yelled at in front of his friends, family or has water thrown on him in the middle of the night because his girl fell in. He will adjust and try to remember to leave the toilet seat down but because his girl was able to get away with acting stank, she will continue to do so on any issue. Hence, she will eventually lose respect for him.

Jamal Jenkins leaves the toilet seat up without even caring if its an issue and if his girl raises stank, she knows he will shove her face in that same said toilet. She doesn't want to call the police because he's hustling in the home and she'll go to jail too.

Therefore Jamal Jenkins automatically recieves a higher level of respect over Poindexter and is never challenged. Hence, Poindexter walks on eggshells to his girl, Jamal Jenkins walks on water to his girl.

Solution: Never get married. Keep your options open. Make sure you're in a situation where you can kick your girl out the house anytime you please(keep her off the lease, etc) and she wont act shitty when she knows she has to leave if she doesn't please you.

Whats unfortunate, most sisters can only respect a man thats 85+ on that scale despite wanting a good guy all the way down to Poindexter.

Great point. One of the most interesting phenomena that I have realized with a few black woman corresponds to the scale you mentioned and towards the concept of "swagga" and cool. What I have found is that some black woman (b/c I haven't met all black woman) are more accepting and will date a pointdextor or cat with little to no "swagga" if that person is not a black guy. But if a black guy exhibits characteristics of an all around "nice guy" or is on your scale from 1-85 chances are a sista will not fuck with him. Thus, it seems that sista's are very particular about the brotha's they date, but are more willing to try a "nice guy" from a different race.

Have any of the brothers on this board witnessed this phenomenon? Or am I just bugging

 

[Top_Bunk]

Great point. One of the most interesting phenomena that I have realized with a few black woman corresponds to the scale you mentioned and towards the concept of "swagga" and cool. What I have found is that some black woman (b/c I haven't met all black woman) are more accepting and will date a pointdextor or cat with little to no "swagga" if that person is not a black guy. But if a black guy exhibits characteristics of an all around "nice guy" or is on your scale from 1-85 chances are a sista will not fuck with him. Thus, it seems that sista's are very particular about the brotha's they date, but are more willing to try a "nice guy" from a different race.

Have any of the brothers on this board witnessed this phenomenon? Or am I just bugging

What's wrong with a guy with swag? All swag is is just strong character and confidence.

 

[wiZe]

Great point. One of the most interesting phenomena that I have realized with a few black woman corresponds to the scale you mentioned and towards the concept of "swagga" and cool. What I have found is that some black woman (b/c I haven't met all black woman) are more accepting and will date a pointdextor or cat with little to no "swagga" if that person is not a black guy. But if a black guy exhibits characteristics of an all around "nice guy" or is on your scale from 1-85 chances are a sista will not fuck with him. Thus, it seems that sista's are very particular about the brotha's they date, but are more willing to try a "nice guy" from a different race.

Have any of the brothers on this board witnessed this phenomenon? Or am I just bugging

You r not alone. Its called sop...standard operating procedure...for certain communities within the greater black community. Try getting with a Muslim chick (raised as a devout Muslim), sista that follows MAAT (seriously) or something along those lines and are strong in those communities. Otherwise, you will continue to find more of the same.

 

[Chiyo]

Great point. One of the most interesting phenomena that I have realized with a few black woman corresponds to the scale you mentioned and towards the concept of "swagga" and cool. What I have found is that some black woman (b/c I haven't met all black woman) are more accepting and will date a pointdextor or cat with little to no "swagga" if that person is not a black guy. But if a black guy exhibits characteristics of an all around "nice guy" or is on your scale from 1-85 chances are a sista will not fuck with him. Thus, it seems that sista's are very particular about the brotha's they date, but are more willing to try a "nice guy" from a different race.

Have any of the brothers on this board witnessed this phenomenon? Or am I just bugging

I see it all the time...Its a damn shame too.

 

[HALO2]

Three pages of cats whining like bitches. Wow.

not mad, very happy actually that I don't have to deal with that kind of woman. Found my future wife already thank God.

 

[SaKem]

Great point. One of the most interesting phenomena that I have realized with a few black woman corresponds to the scale you mentioned and towards the concept of "swagga" and cool. What I have found is that some black woman (b/c I haven't met all black woman) are more accepting and will date a pointdextor or cat with little to no "swagga" if that person is not a black guy. But if a black guy exhibits characteristics of an all around "nice guy" or is on your scale from 1-85 chances are a sista will not fuck with him. Thus, it seems that sista's are very particular about the brotha's they date, but are more willing to try a "nice guy" from a different race.

Have any of the brothers on this board witnessed this phenomenon? Or am I just bugging

Yea I've noticed this. Cept I still think the white guy has confidence he's just not required to act like an ignorant "******"

 

[SaKem]

not mad, very happy actually that I don't have to deal with that kind of woman. Found my future wife already thank God.

What if she leaves you for a basketball player or CEO or something?

 

[The Dark Mind]

Your mother.

I love it!!!

Great comeback!!!

It's a sad and pitiful comeback.

But it's great! And I love it! Beautiful!!! Thanks!!!

KTD be easy, peps always catch you in lies

Yup!

 

[SaKem]

Ok, I'll just make it clear as to what the problem and solution is...

Imagine a scale, you have Poindexter all around good guy, pure in morals pure in motive amazingly sensitive in feelings and never violent. He's a 1.

Next you have Jamal Jenkins, aka "Black" hardcore thug, gangster, drug dealer, don't give a fuck about shit and has no qualms about throwing a female from a moving car should she act up or refuse to give up the pussy. He's a 100. All men fall in between 2 to 99.

When Poindexter leaves the toilet seat up, he gets yelled at in front of his friends, family or has water thrown on him in the middle of the night because his girl fell in. He will adjust and try to remember to leave the toilet seat down but because his girl was able to get away with acting stank, she will continue to do so on any issue. Hence, she will eventually lose respect for him.

Jamal Jenkins leaves the toilet seat up without even caring if its an issue and if his girl raises stank, she knows he will shove her face in that same said toilet. She doesn't want to call the police because he's hustling in the home and she'll go to jail too.

Therefore Jamal Jenkins automatically recieves a higher level of respect over Poindexter and is never challenged. Hence, Poindexter walks on eggshells to his girl, Jamal Jenkins walks on water to his girl.

Solution: Never get married. Keep your options open. Make sure you're in a situation where you can kick your girl out the house anytime you please(keep her off the lease, etc) and she wont act shitty when she knows she has to leave if she doesn't please you.

Whats unfortunate, most sisters can only respect a man thats 85+ on that scale despite wanting a good guy all the way down to Poindexter.

C/S it's just nature. Women want the perceived alpha male

 

[smoovejazz]

Women don't like you because you hold feminine traits. You couldn't even answer a question as simple as "how old are you".

So because I didn't want to answer the question the way you thought I should, that's a feminine trait? Man, GTFOH with that shit...

 

[smoovejazz]

You're gonna continue to be shitted on cuz ur a punk bitch, and you need to realize that. Women DO NOT like that. All that "my momma taught me how to treat a women, I'll never deviate from that" shit needs to stop. Get real. Women like a challenge just like any other human being, quit being a bitch push-over. Stop over-respecting women. When ur dating a women get other womens numbers, talk, get out there, thats the only way you'll gain some respect. And quit getting your feelings tied up in these bitches, act in the laws of abundance, just like women do, thats why she's not sweating you. Women adhere to the laws of abundance when it comes to dick, dick practically falls out of the sky, you need to act as if pussy falls from the sky and not sweat her pussy. C'mon man, man up.

First off, my brother, name calling is not gonna help you get your point across...come at me like an adult, and I'll talk with you like an adult. You really don't know me.

Second of all, it's not about "my momma"...my PARENTS taught me to respect people at all times until they give me a reason not to. It's not about over-respecting women or anybody else...it's about treating people the way you want to be treated...didn't you read that that the women who acted that way I later found to be very unhappy despite what appearances looked like? My basic point is that I needed to learn to recognize unhappy women before I even got remotely involved with them...life became a lot easier when I did so...and for the record, I don't sweat women...I just keep living life...they will come...we're basically saying the same thing in this regard, only I didn't have to insult anyone to do it...ONE...

 

[water]

Great point. One of the most interesting phenomena that I have realized with a few black woman corresponds to the scale you mentioned and towards the concept of "swagga" and cool. What I have found is that some black woman (b/c I haven't met all black woman) are more accepting and will date a pointdextor or cat with little to no "swagga" if that person is not a black guy. But if a black guy exhibits characteristics of an all around "nice guy" or is on your scale from 1-85 chances are a sista will not fuck with him. Thus, it seems that sista's are very particular about the brotha's they date, but are more willing to try a "nice guy" from a different race.

Have any of the brothers on this board witnessed this phenomenon? Or am I just bugging

It's just dating, she is being treated to something she craves, may exchange the pussy in return but at the end of the day the likelihood of him taking her home is very slim.

She knows this, he knows this.
Similarly some of you all date white girls on the brink of obesity while complaining about over-weight black women

 

[water]

Ok, I'll just make it clear as to what the problem and solution is...

Imagine a scale, you have Poindexter all around good guy, pure in morals pure in motive amazingly sensitive in feelings and never violent. He's a 1.

Next you have Jamal Jenkins, aka "Black" hardcore thug, gangster, drug dealer, don't give a fuck about shit and has no qualms about throwing a female from a moving car should she act up or refuse to give up the pussy. He's a 100. All men fall in between 2 to 99.

When Poindexter leaves the toilet seat up, he gets yelled at in front of his friends, family or has water thrown on him in the middle of the night because his girl fell in. He will adjust and try to remember to leave the toilet seat down but because his girl was able to get away with acting stank, she will continue to do so on any issue. Hence, she will eventually lose respect for him.

Jamal Jenkins leaves the toilet seat up without even caring if its an issue and if his girl raises stank, she knows he will shove her face in that same said toilet. She doesn't want to call the police because he's hustling in the home and she'll go to jail too.

Therefore Jamal Jenkins automatically recieves a higher level of respect over Poindexter and is never challenged. Hence, Poindexter walks on eggshells to his girl, Jamal Jenkins walks on water to his girl.

Solution: Never get married. Keep your options open. Make sure you're in a situation where you can kick your girl out the house anytime you please(keep her off the lease, etc) and she wont act shitty when she knows she has to leave if she doesn't please you.

Whats unfortunate, most sisters can only respect a man thats 85+ on that scale despite wanting a good guy all the way down to Poindexter.

You describe 2 extremities.

Then you conclude:
"Solution: Never get married. Keep your options open. "


WTF happened to everyone in the 50 range?

For every range you describe for men, it also applies to women.

A 25 range woman may need a 75 range man.

Similarly a 25 range man may need a 75 range woman.


The key is COMPATIBILITY toward some shared goal

If you don't have goals for a relationship, aspiration for where you want a partnership to go then guess where you are going............


NOWHERE no matter how many years pass between you all.

 

[streetdreamer]

Great point. One of the most interesting phenomena that I have realized with a few black woman corresponds to the scale you mentioned and towards the concept of "swagga" and cool. What I have found is that some black woman (b/c I haven't met all black woman) are more accepting and will date a pointdextor or cat with little to no "swagga" if that person is not a black guy. But if a black guy exhibits characteristics of an all around "nice guy" or is on your scale from 1-85 chances are a sista will not fuck with him. Thus, it seems that sista's are very particular about the brotha's they date, but are more willing to try a "nice guy" from a different race.

Have any of the brothers on this board witnessed this phenomenon? Or am I just bugging

Yeah, I've said that before. A sister won't date a black man who will put on a pair of Spock ears to watch a star trek marathon but if she's the type that dates white dudes, she will accept that white guy as a mate.

 

[streetdreamer]

You describe 2 extremities.

Then you conclude:
"Solution: Never get married. Keep your options open. "


WTF happened to everyone in the 50 range?

For every range you describe for men, it also applies to women.

A 25 range woman may need a 75 range man.

Similarly a 25 range man may need a 75 range woman.


The key is COMPATIBILITY toward some shared goal

If you don't have goals for a relationship, aspiration for where you want a partnership to go then guess where you are going............


NOWHERE no matter how many years pass between you all.

The 75 range man is still gonna get you set on fire. The 1 range is the biblical standard, not 50 to 75. Anything after 1 the closer and closer you get to insensitivity and bad news drama.

 

[water]

The 75 range man is still gonna get you set on fire. The 1 range is the biblical standard, not 50 to 75. Anything after 1 the closer and closer you get to insensitivity and bad news drama.

Man..... what kind of chick you messing with



Where do you normally meet the chicks you have dated in the past?

You may need to switch that up

 

[wiZe]

The key is COMPATIBILITY toward some shared goal

If you don't have goals for a relationship, aspiration for where you want a partnership to go then guess where you are going............


NOWHERE no matter how many years pass between you all.

 

[ansatsusha_gouki]

A lot of lame dudes on this board.




If you can't bag a sista KILL YOURSELF​

So you saying just because a guy who hasnt dated a black woman he's lame....that makes no sense at all

I am a Black male professional that is the type of man that Black women say they want, but I've been turned down many times. I used to think there was something wrong with me until I talked with my circle of confidantes (who are mostly Black men and women of varying ages) that know me well and are brutally honest with me. We have reviewed the women that I have been attracted to over the years, and the conclusion was that there was nothing wrong with me except I was not seeing early on the red flags a woman may put up that tell you that she is not worth pursuing. I would tend to pursue these types of women, only to get dogged in the process. The women would always say that there were some things that they did not like (they were often bullshit reasons like the "too nice" thing (hey, my parents taught me how to treat a woman, so I'm not gonna deviate from that), the "swagger" thing (which is a term that is so overused and played out these days), etc.) Many of these women were very opinionated, but did not allow me to have an opinion. Many of them expected me to do all the changing, but did not feel that they had to change a thing. Many of them were superficial in terms of material possessions, money, looks, etc. Many of these women ended up in relationships with men that were "thuggish" in their behavior, or had money, "swagger", status, etc., but the one thing that was lacking was mutual love and respect in their future relationships...they may appear happy, but down inside, they really weren't. Many of these women did not have adequate male role models in their lives, so they didn't learn how to be loved and respected in a relationship, and many learned early on to "use what they've got to get what they want". The women in question were in the 25-45 age range.

Thanks to my circle of confidantes, I have come to realize that many Black women make life difficult for themselves and the men they want, and the men who want them. Granted, there are some non-desirable men, but there are an underestimated number of undesirable women as well. I still hold out hope that there will be a Sister that I will be compatible with (no, I have not given up yet, but I have come damn close), but I will no longer accept the entire blame if a woman is not attracted to me. I have learned to see that they are missing out on the fullness of spirit and individuality that I possess (that's not being cocky - we all have it, but many of us go a lifetime without actually realizing it fully, if at all). I will, however, hold up my responsibility by being the best person that I can, and by doing that, I will eventually attract someone who does not have negativity within themselves, which was what I had been doing for far too long.

co-sign

basically....

*sniff
*sniff

[WHINE]nobody likes me[/WHINE]

Ok, I'll just make it clear as to what the problem and solution is...

Imagine a scale, you have Poindexter all around good guy, pure in morals pure in motive amazingly sensitive in feelings and never violent. He's a 1.

Next you have Jamal Jenkins, aka "Black" hardcore thug, gangster, drug dealer, don't give a fuck about shit and has no qualms about throwing a female from a moving car should she act up or refuse to give up the pussy. He's a 100. All men fall in between 2 to 99.

When Poindexter leaves the toilet seat up, he gets yelled at in front of his friends, family or has water thrown on him in the middle of the night because his girl fell in. He will adjust and try to remember to leave the toilet seat down but because his girl was able to get away with acting stank, she will continue to do so on any issue. Hence, she will eventually lose respect for him.

Jamal Jenkins leaves the toilet seat up without even caring if its an issue and if his girl raises stank, she knows he will shove her face in that same said toilet. She doesn't want to call the police because he's hustling in the home and she'll go to jail too.

Therefore Jamal Jenkins automatically recieves a higher level of respect over Poindexter and is never challenged. Hence, Poindexter walks on eggshells to his girl, Jamal Jenkins walks on water to his girl.

Solution: Never get married. Keep your options open. Make sure you're in a situation where you can kick your girl out the house anytime you please(keep her off the lease, etc) and she wont act shitty when she knows she has to leave if she doesn't please you.

Whats unfortunate, most sisters can only respect a man thats 85+ on that scale despite wanting a good guy all the way down to Poindexter.

Good point....I've said this many times Im more a geek because I into anime and other technical stuff but alot of my female friends knows Im no push over at all...I learned the hard way when I was younger.....

Great point. One of the most interesting phenomena that I have realized with a few black woman corresponds to the scale you mentioned and towards the concept of "swagga" and cool. What I have found is that some black woman (b/c I haven't met all black woman) are more accepting and will date a pointdextor or cat with little to no "swagga" if that person is not a black guy. But if a black guy exhibits characteristics of an all around "nice guy" or is on your scale from 1-85 chances are a sista will not fuck with him. Thus, it seems that sista's are very particular about the brotha's they date, but are more willing to try a "nice guy" from a different race.

Have any of the brothers on this board witnessed this phenomenon? Or am I just bugging

Its called switching up

You're gonna continue to be shitted on cuz ur a punk bitch, and you need to realize that. Women DO NOT like that. All that "my momma taught me how to treat a women, I'll never deviate from that" shit needs to stop. Get real. Women like a challenge just like any other human being, quit being a bitch push-over. Stop over-respecting women. When ur dating a women get other womens numbers, talk, get out there, thats the only way you'll gain some respect. And quit getting your feelings tied up in these bitches, act in the laws of abundance, just like women do, thats why she's not sweating you. Women adhere to the laws of abundance when it comes to dick, dick practically falls out of the sky, you need to act as if pussy falls from the sky and not sweat her pussy. C'mon man, man up.

If thats the case dont you think they shouldnt be complaining about the type of guy they get..I can careless what a female wants but if she into the guys who are thuggish,she have no right to complain because thats the type of men she likes...

 

[HarlemPerv]

it's usually because "ghetto broads" end up looking stupid or feeling uncomfortable out of their element and they know it.

Yup! I am telling you. Ghetto broads cannot stand me, but I am cool with that. They always hit me with that "Oh, you think you better than somebody" BS.

 

[HALO2]

Yup! I am telling you. Ghetto broads cannot stand me, but I am cool with that. They always hit me with that "Oh, you think you better than somebody" BS.

Same here, especially when I'm with my girl out in public. These ghetto trash with vagina's feel obligated to let us know that they disaprove of our mixed relationship.

 

[Top_Bunk]

Same here, especially when I'm with my girl out in public. These ghetto trash with vagina's feel obligated to let us know that they disaprove of our mixed relationship.

Timeout.

you have a white girl?