Lets talk about Black men who chase women away

Why are you putting the blame on men for your poor judgement? You are the one that picked these dudes

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I mean no disrespect to you in any way ... and I don't mean to put you on the spot right now

But you and I have spoken in another thread about how you have passed up on women you knew were good, cared for you and held you down because they weren't "dimes" as you put it

Brothas with that sort of mentallity are a BIG part of the problem and the reason why I have stopped caring so much for ya'll

Being a good woman and holding your man down doesn't guarantee you any sort of love from a Black man because Bi Girl is right alot of you do think with your dicks

Ya'll want us to be physically perfect when first of all you aren't yourselves and second of all that is unrealistic ... we can of course control our weight but we can't control our facial features, or how big or small our breasts and asses are, or the exact curve of our thighs ... but sadly that is what alot of you seem to base your opinions of us on ... so you look for these video hoe types then act confused when they are gold diggers and can't cook all the while screaming "bitches aint shit" ... then you have all the average looking girls getting bitter because we can cook and we will hold you down but you wont give us the chance cuz you don't think we are cute enough ... or (this has happened to me) you stay with us until something "better" comes along ... or you put us in the "only fuckable" zone based off of our looks :smh: I'm talking about real men here too so I don't wanna hear any of this "oh that's only on BGOL shit" cuz that is BULL

The so called good men always seem to chase the prettier girls so that leaves us average broads to choose from the best loser ... yes I said the best loser ... he is the one who isn't the worst but he still sucks ... hence the bitterness

I'm so over it ... Bi Girl, the day you realize that there is no "fairytale prince" for you the better your life will be I guarantee it ... push all of them aside and worry about your own happiness ... I am realistic now and I know there is no prince charming coming for me so I just do me and my life has become much less complicated and some of the bitterness I felt (being honest) has gone away ... it's all about realizing where you stand with them then using that to your advantage

Wow Lone you said a lot here, and I co-sign, this and your post above too.

You live and learn, keep your head up and Bi, it will get better now that you are seeing your worth to yourself.
 
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Why thank you oh fellow caped one. :lol:


Nah, but seriously, i'm sayin tho...like... u know...


Shit.



I doth not don the cape my simp-leton caped crusader. You are alone in your simpish ways. . . . .



But if Bria Myles come around. . . .a cape will magically appear, a rose will materialize in my hand, and a ralph tresvant song will be playing in the background.
 
I doth not don the cape my simp-leton caped crusader. You are alone in your simpish ways. . . . .





But if Bria Myles come around. . . .a cape will magically appear, a rose will materialize in my hand, and a ralph tresvant song will be playing in the background.

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Being a good woman and holding your man down doesn't guarantee you any sort of love from a Black man because Bi Girl is right alot of you do think with your dicks

Ya'll want us to be physically perfect when first of all you aren't yourselves and second of all that is unrealistic ... we can of course control our weight but we can't control our facial features, or how big or small our breasts and asses are, or the exact curve of our thighs ... but sadly that is what alot of you seem to base your opinions of us on ... so you look for these video hoe types then act confused when they are gold diggers and can't cook all the while screaming "bitches aint shit" ... then you have all the average looking girls getting bitter because we can cook and we will hold you down but you wont give us the chance cuz you don't think we are cute enough ... or (this has happened to me) you stay with us until something "better" comes along ... or you put us in the "only fuckable" zone based off of our looks :smh: I'm talking about real men here too so I don't wanna hear any of this "oh that's only on BGOL shit" cuz that is BULL

The so called good men always seem to chase the prettier girls so that leaves us average broads to choose from the best loser ... yes I said the best loser ... he is the one who isn't the worst but he still sucks ... hence the bitterness

I'm so over it ... Bi Girl, the day you realize that there is no "fairytale prince" for you the better your life will be I guarantee it ... push all of them aside and worry about your own happiness ... I am realistic now and I know there is no prince charming coming for me so I just do me and my life has become much less complicated and some of the bitterness I felt (being honest) has gone away ... it's all about realizing where you stand with them then using that to your advantage



interesting...maybe this is what the majority of women are thinking...
 
Thanks Majestik … yeah I wont settle and I don't suggest any other woman should either

Thanks Coco

Sean honestly I don’t give a fuck if you think I am ranting or all over the place … I was typing how I was feeling not a school essay so spare me the format lecture

I had a special place in my heart for brothas that is what I meant by taking them off the pedestal ... you would have realized that if you weren't so busy talkin' shit

And you missed me with all that woe is me fuckery … all I was trying to do is give some insight into how I felt about it ... everything may be a big joke to you but there are people who take things especially regarding love seriously

Your post is a perfect example of why I said earlier in the thread people should keep stuff to themselves … can never open up on here without mothafuckas runnin' in thinking they better then somebody tryin' to make you feel stupid and shit SMMFH
 
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Thanks Majestik … yeah I wont settle and I don't suggest any other woman should either

Thanks Coco

Sean honestly I don’t give a fuck if you think I am ranting or all over the place … I was typing how I was feeling not a school essay so spare me the format lecture

I had a special place in my heart for brothas that is what I meant by taking them off the pedestal ... you would have realized that if you weren't so busy talkin' shit

And you missed me with all that woe is me fuckery … all I was trying to do is give some insight into how I felt about it ... everything may be a big joke to you but there are people who take things especially regarding love seriously

Your post is a perfect example of why I said earlier in the thread people should keep stuff to themselves … can never open up on here without mothafuckas runnin' in thinking they better then somebody tryin' to make you feel stupid and shit SMMFH

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well this is not something I care to do and is a HUGE turnoff for me especially when he is depending on me :smh:
If I paying everything its my fucking house and my fucking rules :hmm:
Anyway I real happy to have a skunt free household and life :yes:

Yooooooo, what do I have to do in order to find a Woman who let me mooch off her?
 
I mean no disrespect to you in any way ... and I don't mean to put you on the spot right now

But you and I have spoken in another thread about how you have passed up on women you knew were good, cared for you and held you down because they weren't "dimes" as you put it

Brothas with that sort of mentallity are a BIG part of the problem and the reason why I have stopped caring so much for ya'll

Being a good woman and holding your man down doesn't guarantee you any sort of love from a Black man because Bi Girl is right alot of you do think with your dicks

Ya'll want us to be physically perfect when first of all you aren't yourselves and second of all that is unrealistic ... we can of course control our weight but we can't control our facial features, or how big or small our breasts and asses are, or the exact curve of our thighs ... but sadly that is what alot of you seem to base your opinions of us on ... so you look for these video hoe types then act confused when they are gold diggers and can't cook all the while screaming "bitches aint shit" ... then you have all the average looking girls getting bitter because we can cook and we will hold you down but you wont give us the chance cuz you don't think we are cute enough ... or (this has happened to me) you stay with us until something "better" comes along ... or you put us in the "only fuckable" zone based off of our looks :smh: I'm talking about real men here too so I don't wanna hear any of this "oh that's only on BGOL shit" cuz that is BULL

The so called good men always seem to chase the prettier girls so that leaves us average broads to choose from the best loser ... yes I said the best loser ... he is the one who isn't the worst but he still sucks ... hence the bitterness

I'm so over it ... Bi Girl, the day you realize that there is no "fairytale prince" for you the better your life will be I guarantee it ... push all of them aside and worry about your own happiness ... I am realistic now and I know there is no prince charming coming for me so I just do me and my life has become much less complicated and some of the bitterness I felt (being honest) has gone away ... it's all about realizing where you stand with them then using that to your advantage

That is so untrue in my case. I'm highly attracted to the average girl next door types. I don't go crazy over the typical pretty girl BGOL dudes go for. I think short hair is much sexier than long hair. As long as a Woman's body is proportionate, it doesn't bother me when she ballons up and down, I got the same problems too babe (At 6ft tall, I was 220lbs of Feb this year, as of today I'm 194.6lbs)...Now I will show concern if I feel if it's getting out of hand.

Regular chicks you are appreciated!
 
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