Get on your soapbox...

It just goes to show that you shouldn't judge people. The same people talking about phat asses and cooch are talking about the economic crisis and religion. It's refreshing to see that the same dudes I though were just "typical man pervs" are actually pretty knowledgeable and brainy!! Even in areas like child support and the never ending "black woman bashing." Which also I must say to the all the black woman on BGOL, I have yet to see anyone truly flip on one of these lames for all the shit they talk...

Again...props to all of you.
 
Lately two males from my past have been blowing up my phone. I am not your friend, I don't want to catch up, and no I don't ever wonder about us. If I dated you more than a year ago, and we either 1) abruptly stopped talking (random guy #1) or 2) did not end on good terms (ex boyfriend #1), kindly keep it moving in 2009. Do not call me, text me, or leave me voicemails, because I DO NOT WANT to talk to you. And honestly, I don't even really remember you like that. Trust me, we have nothing to discuss! Lose my number, or give it to one of your cuter, smarter, single friends. Please and thank you.

LOL!!! I Just had a conversation with a female about the same exact thing.. She pretty much shut dude the same way too.. Felt sorry for the dude standing lonely at the bus stop! :smh:
 
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TGIF!!!
 
(((((((Hugz)))))))):yes:
This is kinda off topic but I actually want to give props to most of the ladies and gents on here. When hubs put me onto BGOL it was obviously bc of the porn. So I gotta give to a lot of ppl, for all the porn and bs talking, there are MANY educated ass people here!! Props to all of you with a good head on your shoulders...regardless of how much porn you watch :)

That's what's up. People need to hear/read stuff like this. For as much negative shit we see and hear each day I think we all could use some positive re-enforcement at times. This is great soapbox material.
 

The bashing of black men and women needs to stop no matter where it comes from. Let's not complain about it anymore, let's just stop it all together. If you've got an issue with a member of the opposite sex, work it out with them. If/when you post your gripes here on the board let us know what you think is the best solution. Also when others post in those threads they should be focused on constructive solutions as well. When that happens the people who need the advice can pull from what was said in the thread, their own thoughts, and the thoughts and opinions of friends and family to find what works best. Let's stop all the fuckin' complaining and dead horse beating. Yes we are all flawed, but let's start trying to figure out how to correct those flaws and move on from them. Places like BGOL and SOL SHOULD offer advice to those who seek it so we can use it in the real world.

There was such a great feeling when Obama was running then won the presidency! That feeling is gone now.




When I share this same sentiment the "holier than thou ers" tell me I am taking the net too seriously and spreading negativity ... I feel where you are coming from 100%

I am not privy the "holier than thou ers" and their comments but i did read your post and pretty much agree with what you had to say.



This is kinda off topic but I actually want to give props to most of the ladies and gents on here. When hubs put me onto BGOL it was obviously bc of the porn. So I gotta give to a lot of ppl, for all the porn and bs talking, there are MANY educated ass people here!! Props to all of you with a good head on your shoulders...regardless of how much porn you watch :)

I can NEVER watch too much porn!!!!
 
There was such a great feeling when Obama was running then won the presidency! That feeling is gone now.






I am not privy the "holier than thou ers" and their comments but i did read your post and pretty much agree with what you had to say.





I can NEVER watch too much porn!!!!


That's because it's time to get our hands dirty and get to work. Don't lose faith or focus MTL. Things will get better, but we all have to be a part of the process. As I said we as a people and as citizens of the world all need to be solutions driven. It will take time, but we can make it. Stick with it Ms. Lady, we need you to help us do it...
 
Some people are ignorant beyond repair. It's a damn shame to see that shit, and it's even worse when one of these douche bags has married in to your family. Shit I'll take it a step further and say what's worse than those things is when some of the people affected by that ignorance the most are too dumb to see it and make excuses for the person causing all the drama...What the fuck?!?!?!?! :hmm::smh::smh::hmm:
 
*approaches box....grabs brush...strokes hair 4 times to get wave pattern just right...grabs mic*


I hate people who come to work every fucking day and complain about how tired they are and how they don't feel like doing anything. I can understand one day or a tough week, but two and three month stretches of bitching and moaning is pathetic !! I feel like driving their ungrateful asses to the unemployment office and let them see all the people standing outside in the line that is wrapped around the building who would give anything in the world to be working a steady job (for half of what they get paid). Recognize your blessings and be thankful before that shit is taken from you and you get humbled by life...


*hops off of soapbox, grabs Lone by the arm and walks her to a secluded spot to get that stress off of her back...i'm just saying*


Would you care to elaborate on what you're just saying? It was starting to get steamy. and it was shortening my breath.
 
*Stands on soapbox*


Ladies and gentlemen...


NEW SHIT FROM REFLECTION ETERNAL!!!

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"No matter where you fall I will always be in your corner"
 
A few blasts from the past...

J Mac...

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Jimmy V...


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More inspiration...

Ben Comen


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Terry Fox


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...Take a moment to check these out if you haven't. Notice the determination, and drive in these people, and try to think about how fortunate you are to be healthy, and "able bodied"...The laughter and cool shit will return, but I wanted to drop some real shit on you all. I HOPE this will not fall on blind eyes or deaf ears...
 
I'm taking issue with the fat bitch community.

Fat bitches have made my life a living hell for the past 25 years of my life, and this year it is time for change.

Here's how you know that you are in the fat bitch community.

1. If you rather eat than have sex.

2. If you think a chick that's 150 lbs is a skinny bitch.

3. If it seems that no dude wants you to ride on them.

4. If you have to keep telling yourself you are "thick". *most men will tell you YOU are thick if you really indeed.....THICK*

5. If you can't ride a exercise bike, on the easiest level, for 10 minutes NONE STOP, and keep your breath.

6. You don't like the mall because of all the walking.

7. You only shop at lane bryant's *for all your clothes...not just bra's*.

8. If you break up with a dude because he invites you to go work out with him.

9. If you are big, prudish, and single. *nothing is worst than a prudish big girl....*

10. If you lift up, spread your legs, and your belly covers up your pussy.....

Please be offended.....I don't give a fuck!!!
 
I'm taking issue with the fat bitch community.

Fat bitches have made my life a living hell for the past 25 years of my life, and this year it is time for change.

Here's how you know that you are in the fat bitch community.

1. If you rather eat than have sex.

2. If you think a chick that's 150 lbs is a skinny bitch.

3. If it seems that no dude wants you to ride on them.

4. If you have to keep telling yourself you are "thick". *most men will tell you YOU are thick if you really indeed.....THICK*

5. If you can't ride a exercise bike, on the easiest level, for 10 minutes NONE STOP, and keep your breath.

6. You don't like the mall because of all the walking.

7. You only shop at lane bryant's *for all your clothes...not just bra's*.

8. If you break up with a dude because he invites you to go work out with him.

9. If you are big, prudish, and single. *nothing is worst than a prudish big girl....*

10. If you lift up, spread your legs, and your belly covers up your pussy.....

Please be offended.....I don't give a fuck!!!

Stop fuckin' with repulican pussy. :smh:
 
*Stands on soapbox*

Since this has been a hot topic on this side lately...

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http://www.thesecret.tv/

...Check out The Secret here and in Lone's new thread...
 
man I'm tired of political correctness.

I'm going to start using the word bitch more often. You can call it "degrading women", but how can I degrade a woman, when she's degrading herself trying to put on a fake ass persona. Bitch, you made my job easier by being a fake ass bitch instead of a woman. BTW, just like many bitches wanna tell us how to be "real men", I'm going to tell how a bitch can change her status. Have goals, cook food, suck a dick, good credit, and have some positive ideas. If you missing 3 out of the 5, you're a bitch in my book. If you get mad right now, chances are, I might be telling the truth.

I know a woman's worth, but a bitch ain't worth shit....

BTW, a real man will hold his end of the bargain also. Some men can be bitch ass niggas too.
 
man I'm tired of political correctness.

I'm going to start using the word bitch more often. You can call it "degrading women", but how can I degrade a woman, when she's degrading herself trying to put on a fake ass persona. Bitch, you made my job easier by being a fake ass bitch instead of a woman. BTW, just like many bitches wanna tell us how to be "real men", I'm going to tell how a bitch can change her status. Have goals, cook food, suck a dick, good credit, and have some positive ideas. If you missing 3 out of the 5, you're a bitch in my book. If you get mad right now, chances are, I might be telling the truth.

I know a woman's worth, but a bitch ain't worth shit....


BTW, a real man will hold his end of the bargain also. Some men can be bitch ass niggas too.

Good points...
 
Actin what if she has 4 out of 5 but the one missing is giving head??? LOL

The head thing can come out.

Most women use the type of sex for leverage to keep a nigga wanting more out of the relationship.

If you have four out of five, then you are still considered a woman. Now when you broke, can't cook, and don't give head, then you're a boring ass bitch. Bottomline.
 
The head thing can come out.

Most women use the type of sex for leverage to keep a nigga wanting more out of the relationship.

If you have four out of five, then you are still considered a woman. Now when you broke, can't cook, and don't give head, then you're a boring ass bitch. Bottomline.

Another good point...
 
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