
@ the lizard story ... you are silly
Ok I have a question that actually just came up in a thread I was in and also seems to come up alot on BGOL as a whole
Is it true that White men ONLY see Black women as a means for sex??? I ask this cuz the brothas on here are insisting that not only do they not want us but that White men don't want us either (outside of sex that is). I think they say that to make us feel bad and undesirable cuz they hate us but that is just IMO
BTW I have only dated brothas in my life
WOW... I'm not an "insightful White guy". I'd refer to my self as a "No B/S Brother". As a No B?S brother I will admit that most of the times when we have questions, we already know the answers.
Being a single black man I have to say that the replys in this thread is depressing and embarrassing. Seriously, when approached by a white man who is offering this type of insght ( granted he's failed miserably), the first and only question the sisters can come up with is...
"Do you want to have sex with me or do you really view me as an equal to white women"
This is really Fuggin Sad!!! This speaks volumes about the person that asked this question. And Lonestar this may seem like a personal attack, and in some ways it is. But, I'm hoping that since I'm calling you out on this it will make you think.
Since, I'm a "No B/S kind of brother. Like all no B/S kind of brothers, I'm going to inject an answer to this question, though my opinion was not requested.
The problem here is that the person asking this question is placing way too much thought into how another person values her. Thus showing that she either hasn't considered that she has value, values her self very little, or feels that she has no value; and is a waiting someone to assign her a value. So the real question is "What value will you a white man assign me since I am not presenting my own"... And the answer is you will be what ever he decides you will be.
FYI,
When you ask a question, you also give a lot of information. Since the first question is about black women being sex objects, what do you think you're telling him you are???
I'm going to start a Ask a No B/S brother thread...I wonder how many questions that will get...