Am I wrong????

[UrBoSS]

If over the course of a year you've caught your man (numerous times) trading pics with his ex, some random hoes, having bs convos and what not, what would you do? Apparently it's not that serious and he should be able to get away with it...??? No it's not cheating but does that justify that shit?

 

[heiesuke]

Really if he's trading pix with other women then maybe "he's just not that into you".

 

[onyxfemme]

Am I in on the convo and pic's? or is it all behind my back-

There is harmless online flirting and then there is just blatant disrespect.
If you dont know about it-I consider it cheating.

 

[UrBoSS]

Really if he's trading pix with other women then maybe "he's just not that into you".

thats what i said....but the shit is all these bitches are corny! i put a thread up exposing these bitches. n i keep telling him if u dont love me no more n u not feeling me...LEAVE!!! wtf...

 

[UrBoSS]

Am I in on the convo and pic's? or is it all behind my back-

There is harmless online flirting and then there is just blatant disrespect.
If you dont know about it-I consider it cheating.

i didnt know about it till 1 day i was using his phone and seen an email between him and his ex and a coworker, then i got curious. come to find out hes talking and trading with his ex, a co worker, someone like his cuz, someone he used to fuck, and 3 random hoes.

i dont think u should even be flirting. if u happy at home whats the need for it?? and if u feel the need for that shit, get out my house...

 

[onyxfemme]

Yeah cut that ass loose......NOW!

In regards to flirting-I am a big flirt, but I am in a happy/healthy relationship. I love my baby-
But I flirt-normally w/ other women which is why maybe he doesnt care It's harmless though, I dont have a want or desire for anyone but him and his curve.

What yours was doing was more then flirting-he was being a whore. He can kick rocks.

i didnt know about it till 1 day i was using his phone and seen an email between him and his ex and a coworker, then i got curious. come to find out hes talking and trading with his ex, a co worker, someone like his cuz, someone he used to fuck, and 3 random hoes.

i dont think u should even be flirting. if u happy at home whats the need for it?? and if u feel the need for that shit, get out my house...

 

[LoneStar29]

Really if he's trading pix with other women then maybe "he's just not that into you".

C/S ... and I highly doubt he's just trading pics ... he's most likey doing more

Am I in on the convo and pic's?

I love Onyx

 

[UrBoSS]

Yeah cut that ass loose......NOW!

In regards to flirting-I am a big flirt, but I am in a happy/healthy relationship. I love my baby-
But I flirt-normally w/ other women which is why maybe he doesnt care It's harmless though, I dont have a want or desire for anyone but him and his curve.

What yours was doing was more then flirting-he was being a whore. He can kick rocks.

well i dont count women bc i do the same and he didnt care. def a whore....rocks have been kicked...his reaction shows a lot about how he feels. that shit lowers self esteem like a mf even though i know im the shit compared to all of them.

 

[UrBoSS]

C/S ... and I highly doubt he's just trading pics ... he's most likey doing more



I love Onyx

hes never away from home tho....if he is he can always be accounted for. i dont get it....i have no issues with porn n all that bc i look at it myself but come on...localz hoes ??!!

 

[onyxfemme]

NO NO NO! Never ever let the actions of someone else dictate your self esteem! You are the shit (lil wayne said that's the only thing you smell about me) and the urine (Kanye West Swagga 08). Seriously I wouldnt even go here if I didnt think you were about something. Fuck him girl-Keep your head up.
This has been Onyx real talk 101.

well i dont count women bc i do the same and he didnt care. def a whore....rocks have been kicked...his reaction shows a lot about how he feels. that shit lowers self esteem like a mf even though i know im the shit compared to all of them.

I'm just saying he doesnt have to be all stingy-I like ass and tittys too I hate selfish mofos!

I love Onyx

 

[UrBoSS]

NO NO NO! Never ever let the actions of someone else dictate your self esteem! You are the shit (lil wayne said that's the only thing you smell about me) and the urine (Kanye West Swagga 08). Seriously I wouldnt even go here if I didnt think you were about something. Fuck him girl-Keep your head up.
This has been Onyx real talk 101.





I'm just saying he doesnt have to be all stingy-I like ass and tittys too I hate selfish mofos!

im trying not to, i always have my im the boss of the universe mentality, its gotten me far in life so far...i know i could have anyone but i want HIM! shit...ima miss his big ass hugs n shit n all that....that shit could never be replaced...fukn men. its always something...

thanks for the words

 

[onyxfemme]

I got you ma-
Now get your girls and go out-if you were in Nap we would do it up big-
For real...From the 1:30 on point I am doing this dance step now....
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Girl shake it off-it's easier said than done-but trust he is the one that is missing out on a good thing.

**back to dancing**
Drop down low and sweep the floor w/ it

im trying not to, i always have my im the boss of the universe mentality, its gotten me far in life so far...i know i could have anyone but i want HIM! shit...ima miss his big ass hugs n shit n all that....that shit could never be replaced...fukn men. its always something...

thanks for the words

 

[jjUSTAZZ]

Am I in on the convo and pic's? or is it all behind my back-

There is harmless online flirting and then there is just blatant disrespect.
If you dont know about it-I consider it cheating.

Onyx I have missed your comments more than I realized....

thats what i said....but the shit is all these bitches are corny! i put a thread up exposing these bitches. n i keep telling him if u dont love me no more n u not feeling me...LEAVE!!! wtf...

That is where you make a mistake... He isn't going to leave because he knows where it's good even if he isn't respecting you the way he should.... If you can't handle what he is doing and YOU feel it is disrespectful to you then take a stand. He will either stop or continue. If he continues YOU have to leave for your self...

 

[onyxfemme]

That is where you make a mistake... He isn't going to leave because he knows where it's good even if he isn't respecting you the way he should.... If you can't handle what he is doing and YOU feel it is disrespectful to you then take a stand. He will either stop or continue. If he continues YOU have to leave for your self...

 

[P.L.]

Follow ur heart, and yes i've been through similar and i consider it can turn into cheating physically. It's already a mental cheat and u might not catch him now. Oh and i've heard that b.s. about when and where would i have the time,,,,,,,,,, trust me, where there's a will there's a way

 

[P.L.]

If over the course of a year you've caught your man (numerous times) trading pics with his ex, some random hoes, having bs convos and what not, what would you do? Apparently it's not that serious and he should be able to get away with it...??? No it's not cheating but does that justify that shit?

Do it back to him and see if he gets upset, if he does then the same things he's imagining can happen with u and someone else is probably what he's doing already. If he does not get upset then maybe he's just chatting without hidden intentions.

 

[onyxfemme]

That has to be the internationals cheater quote!

Follow ur heart, and yes i've been through similar and i consider it can turn into cheating physically. It's already a mental cheat and u might not catch him now. Oh and i've heard that b.s. about when and where would i have the time,,,,,,,,,, trust me, where there's a will there's a way

 

[LoneStar29]

Follow ur heart, and yes i've been through similar and i consider it can turn into cheating physically. It's already a mental cheat and u might not catch him now. Oh and i've heard that b.s. about when and where would i have the time,,,,,,,,,, trust me, where there's a will there's a way

Exactly

 

[RESPECT]

i didnt know about it till 1 day i was using his phone and seen an email between him and his ex and a coworker, then i got curious. come to find out hes talking and trading with his ex, a co worker, someone like his cuz, someone he used to fuck, and 3 random hoes.

i dont think u should even be flirting. if u happy at home whats the need for it?? and if u feel the need for that shit, get out my house...

I THINK YOU ALLOWED IT TO GO ON SO MUCH THAT HE THINKS NOTHING OF IT ANYMORE. MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO HAVE OUTSIDE FRIENDSHIPS BUT YOU LET HIM TAKE IT TO FAR. I HAVE OUTSIDE WOMEN I KNOW I CAN GET SEX FROM SO I JUST DON'T COMMUNICATE WITH THEM BECAUSE I'M NOT TRYING TO FUCK UP WHAT I HAVE AT HOME. NO PICS, CONVO, TEXT, E, NADA. NEVER ALLOW SOMEONE TO START SOMETHING YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH FROM JUMP.
JUST MY 2

 

[LoneStar29]

I THINK YOU ALLOWED IT TO GO ON SO MUCH THAT HE THINKS NOTHING OF IT ANYMORE. MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO HAVE OUTSIDE FRIENDSHIPS BUT YOU LET HIM TAKE IT TO FAR. I HAVE OUTSIDE WOMEN I KNOW I CAN GET SEX FROM SO I JUST DON'T COMMUNICATE WITH THEM BECAUSE I'M NOT TRYING TO FUCK UP WHAT I HAVE AT HOME. NO PICS, CONVO, TEXT, E, NADA. NEVER ALLOW SOMEONE TO START SOMETHING YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH FROM JUMP.
JUST MY 2

Very good advice

 

[BrownTurd]

If over the course of a year you've caught your man (numerous times) trading pics with his ex, some random hoes, having bs convos and what not, what would you do? Apparently it's not that serious and he should be able to get away with it...??? No it's not cheating but does that justify that shit?

Come on be real with yourself. You already know the type of guy you are dealing with. My question is why are you still putting up with it? There are good men out there that will do the right thing and treat you right....I am not talking about the guy who may be fucking you on the side while you go through all this drama with you current.

 

[BrownTurd]

Yeah cut that ass loose......NOW!

In regards to flirting-I am a big flirt, but I am in a happy/healthy relationship. I love my baby-
But I flirt-normally w/ other women which is why maybe he doesnt care It's harmless though, I dont have a want or desire for anyone but him and his curve.

What yours was doing was more then flirting-he was being a whore. He can kick rocks.

Female logic You just contradicted yourself.

 

[BrownTurd]

im trying not to, i always have my im the boss of the universe mentality, its gotten me far in life so far...i know i could have anyone but i want HIM! shit...ima miss his big ass hugs n shit n all that....that shit could never be replaced...fukn men. its always something...

thanks for the words

Actually you don't love "Him". You love the Idea of being in "Love"What you have done is subconsciously tie the feeling of love with "Him" He does not provide everything you need out of a man and a loving relationship. Remember Love does not hurt.

 

[UrBoSS]

I got you ma-
Now get your girls and go out-if you were in Nap we would do it up big-
For real...From the 1:30 on point I am doing this dance step now....
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Girl shake it off-it's easier said than done-but trust he is the one that is missing out on a good thing.

**back to dancing**
Drop down low and sweep the floor w/ it

i love it!

yea i know...this is the 2nd time i kicked him out for it. the first was not even 2 weeks ago. i told him he either needs to leave me period or get out until he gets his shit together then we talk. then i found out he did it again so i made him get out for good....
im not stressn it as much as b4, if he loves me it wuld show, if not then good luck to me in finding a real man

 

[UrBoSS]

Follow ur heart, and yes i've been through similar and i consider it can turn into cheating physically. It's already a mental cheat and u might not catch him now. Oh and i've heard that b.s. about when and where would i have the time,,,,,,,,,, trust me, where there's a will there's a way

thats how i feel and his shit is "ma u act like i fucked someone" to me im like my man, maybe u didnt but thats were that shit leads to.. and wtf do u get out of these ugly birds pics that u cant get off bgol every goddam day??

 

[UrBoSS]

Do it back to him and see if he gets upset, if he does then the same things he's imagining can happen with u and someone else is probably what he's doing already. If he does not get upset then maybe he's just chatting without hidden intentions.

i thought about that but 1) hed kill me 2) im not going to lower myself to his level. i dont take part in bird activities. i dont understand...ill never get why men do this shit.

 

[UrBoSS]

I THINK YOU ALLOWED IT TO GO ON SO MUCH THAT HE THINKS NOTHING OF IT ANYMORE. MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO HAVE OUTSIDE FRIENDSHIPS BUT YOU LET HIM TAKE IT TO FAR. I HAVE OUTSIDE WOMEN I KNOW I CAN GET SEX FROM SO I JUST DON'T COMMUNICATE WITH THEM BECAUSE I'M NOT TRYING TO FUCK UP WHAT I HAVE AT HOME. NO PICS, CONVO, TEXT, E, NADA. NEVER ALLOW SOMEONE TO START SOMETHING YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH FROM JUMP.
JUST MY 2

i caught him easily 5 times, we had beef then it was back to normal for the most part aside from him feeling like he had a PO. i mean how would i know wassup if im not asking him questions n sometimes even being nosy....i dont OD either...but believe i wanted pws to emails and shit, considering he made up like 2 new ones...

 

[UrBoSS]

Come on be real with yourself. You already know the type of guy you are dealing with. My question is why are you still putting up with it? There are good men out there that will do the right thing and treat you right....I am not talking about the guy who may be fucking you on the side while you go through all this drama with you current.

i ask myself that all the time, the truth is a love his ass. theres so much more good than bad and i have so much faith that he'll change once he truly sees what he's losing, which is why i kicked him out.

 

[BrownTurd]

i ask myself that all the time, the truth is a love his ass. theres so much more good than bad and i have so much faith that he'll change once he truly sees what he's losing, which is why i kicked him out.

You don't love him. You love the idea of being in love. There are a lot of things that you don't like about him...and those are things that make you unhappy an unable to maintain a healthy relationship. Love is complete..meaning unconditional. That means loving everything including the flaws. It is obvious you don't love all of his flaws. Stop trying to convince yourself this is Love...because sista it is not. You are suffering from infatuation and not love.

 

[UrBoSS]

You don't love him. You love the idea of being in love. There are a lot of things that you don't like about him...and those are things that make you unhappy an unable to maintain a healthy relationship. Love is complete..meaning unconditional. That means loving everything including the flaws. It is obvious you don't love all of his flaws. Stop trying to convince yourself this is Love...because sista it is not. You are suffering from infatuation and not love.

the only thing i cant deal with is this trading pics shit. is it a phase?? is it just a part of him?? if its something hes just dong bc hes a moron and he can get over it then i can deal with that, but if its a part of him and he wont change i want nothing to do with it.

we've gone thru enuf drama lately and ive allways stuck by him thru wateva. i wish i could know for sure if he was serious about changing. he fucks up, then he claims he loves me and tells me how its diff than with the others....i can only agree to a certain extent...

 

[BrownTurd]

the only thing i cant deal with is this trading pics shit. is it a phase?? is it just a part of him?? if its something hes just dong bc hes a moron and he can get over it then i can deal with that, but if its a part of him and he wont change i want nothing to do with it.

we've gone thru enuf drama lately and ive allways stuck by him thru wateva. i wish i could know for sure if he was serious about changing. he fucks up, then he claims he loves me and tells me how its diff than with the others....i can only agree to a certain extent...

What do you mean by trading pics?

Matter of fact. Go post this in the main board. You will get most of the answers you are looking for.

 

[UrBoSS]

What do you mean by trading pics?

Matter of fact. Go post this in the main board. You will get most of the answers you are looking for.

meaning he and about 6 or 7 girls were trading nude pics of each other. 1 being an ex, 1 a co worker...

ill do that next, i like getting mens opinion too on this shit....i put the bitches on blast on the main, still deciding if it was wise or not. but it sure as shit made me feel good

 

[BrownTurd]

meaning he and about 6 or 7 girls were trading nude pics of each other. 1 being an ex, 1 a co worker...

ill do that next, i like getting mens opinion too on this shit....i put the bitches on blast on the main, still deciding if it was wise or not. but it sure as shit made me feel good

Wow if they were nude pics then he has slept with one or all of them. You a female so you understand the game. What female is going to share pics of themselves if they wasn't planning to sleep with the guy. You being a female does that happen a lot where females send nude pics and not sleep with the guy or plan on it?

 

[UrBoSS]

Wow if they were nude pics then he has slept with one or all of them. You a female so you understand the game. What female is going to share pics of themselves if they wasn't planning to sleep with the guy. You being a female does that happen a lot where females send nude pics and not sleep with the guy or plan on it?

i honestly dont believe he's slept with anyone tho, yea its easy to say "how do i have time" but if he's not at work (which i know when he is/isnt) he's home. dude chose to never go out....maybe like 3 or 4 times a month n he had pics n shit from where he was at, which is recording at the same place...

to be real, theres MAD chics that send out naked pics n talk shit to men n never meet them....as far as the online chics go. now the coworker i know he didnt sleep with bc i see emails between them, as much of a whore as i think she is, she isn't the type to go and just break up a relationship like that.

this shit is just fucked up. i'm torn as a mf.

 

[LoneStar29]

i honestly dont believe he's slept with anyone tho, yea its easy to say "how do i have time" but if he's not at work (which i know when he is/isnt) he's home. dude chose to never go out....maybe like 3 or 4 times a month n he had pics n shit from where he was at, which is recording at the same place...

to be real, theres MAD chics that send out naked pics n talk shit to men n never meet them....as far as the online chics go. now the coworker i know he didnt sleep with bc i see emails between them, as much of a whore as i think she is, she isn't the type to go and just break up a relationship like that.

this shit is just fucked up. i'm torn as a mf.

STOP BEING SO NAIVE ... seriously ... I'm sure a few months ago you woulda said "oh my man would never exchange naked pics" ... but guess what ... he is ... so him fuckin' them broads is not a stretch ... you are still giving him waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much credit ... I don't mean to be harsh ... I just hate to see a sista let herself get played which is exactly what is happening here