Am I wrong????

UrBoSS · May 30, 2009

nah bc he was already doing it

its just tuff bc hes so dam perfect. this 1 flaw, just this 1, it kills me. his excuse is that he just likes to see chics naked...my shit is why cant you stick you wats already posted?? i truly believe he isn't sleeping around tho....we in an in between stage right now. i kicked him out and told him if hes to ever have a chance with me again he needs to get his shit together and prove to me what hes about bc i aint trying no more...i feel like i care too much and he cares somewhat...shit is just upside down.

i feel like a dam teenager with this drama....yea i know ya agree its ok

jucurious · May 30, 2009

wait...is this serious?

yeah i'm all about not feeding the birds...hmmm

PrincessC · May 30, 2009

This is wack. Are you scared of being alone UrBoss? Cause this man is blatantly disrespecting you (even if he isn't fucking--which he probably is), and you are steady making excuses for him. Just leave. Life is too short for this kind of bullshit. Have some self respect and bounce.

UrBoSS · May 31, 2009

im not scared of being alone bc the times i was alone i was great. i just think hes perfect for me aside from this shit. i got my space now, im giving him his, and basically he knows that if he ever wants anything with me again he has work to do.

when things are good, they great. then we fall into these little holes along the way...

SEXY_SCORPIO · May 31, 2009

PrincessC said:
This is wack. Are you scared of being alone UrBoss? Cause this man is blatantly disrespecting you (even if he isn't fucking--which he probably is), and you are steady making excuses for him. Just leave. Life is too short for this kind of bullshit. Have some self respect and bounce.

Thats my girl. PC, I am going to hit you up in pm.

kjxxxx · May 31, 2009

WOW. Another sisters online post where you encourage the lady with the man who she can count on to join you in the single and searching and hating and sleeping with 5 to 10 men before you find one to settle down with if you ever.

None ever asked if there were kids and how long these people been together. She asked about a disagreement and the only advice she gets is to breakup. Can't you people ever focus on conflict resolution without it ending up with breakups. DAMN. I AM SO TIRED OF THE BREAKUP ULTIMATUM.

In the relationship someone is going to have a bad habit that you don't like but you will have to learn to live with. From what the poster is saying she doesn't have a bad guy. She wants him to give up something that he likes. So she discussed it with him and he hasn't given it up just yet. So what is she willing to give up ? Folks here behaving like they have never traded pictures out of curiosity.

FUCK ALL YOU BREAK UP CROWD. YOU WANT THE SISTER TO JOIN YOU IN YOUR INDEPENDENT WOMAN STATUS SEARCHING FOR THE MYSTICAL GOOD MAN, RUNNING THROUGH 5 TO 10 MEN, THEN HAVING TO DEAL WITH WORRYING ABOUT STDs and ALL THE BULLSHIT WITH STARTING OVER AGAIN.

WORK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP GIRL AND TRAIN YOUR MAN. IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS THAT HAVE LASTED 30 or more years the WOMEN WILL LET YOU KNOW THAT IT WASN'T EASY TO GET HIM THIS WELL TRAINED.

PrincessC · May 31, 2009

kjxxxx said:
WOW. Another sisters online post where you encourage the lady with the man who she can count on to join you in the single and searching and hating and sleeping with 5 to 10 men before you find one to settle down with if you ever.

None ever asked if there were kids and how long these people been together. She asked about a disagreement and the only advice she gets is to breakup. Can't you people ever focus on conflict resolution without it ending up with breakups. DAMN. I AM SO TIRED OF THE BREAKUP ULTIMATUM.

In the relationship someone is going to have a bad habit that you don't like but you will have to learn to live with. From what the poster is saying she doesn't have a bad guy. She wants him to give up something that he likes. So she discussed it with him and he hasn't given it up just yet. So what is she willing to give up ? Folks here behaving like they have never traded pictures out of curiosity.

Smoking is a bad habit. Drinking too much is a bad habit. Overspending is a bad habit.
What this man is doing is not just a bad habit. It is disrespectful to the relationship, and he's telling her he doesn't give a shit if it hurts her or not by continuing to do it. She said it lowers her self esteem and she's caught him multiple times. What else is there to say?? When you're in a committed, respectful relationship, there are certain things you just don't do, especially if you know it hurts your mate.

PrincessC · May 31, 2009

SEXY_SCORPIO said:
Thats my girl. PC, I am going to hit you up in pm.

Ok mama

IslandKing · May 31, 2009

PrincessC said:
Smoking is a bad habit. Drinking too much is a bad habit. Overspending is a bad habit.
What this man is doing is not just a bad habit. It is disrespectful to the relationship, and he's telling her he doesn't give a shit if it hurts her or not by continuing to do it. She said it lowers her self esteem and she's caught him multiple times. What else is there to say?? When you're in a committed, respectful relationship, there are certain things you just don't do, especially if you know it hurts your mate.

well said

UrBoSS · Jun 1, 2009

Princess and KJ both of you have good points....most of you on here had a lot to say so thanks to everyone and their input, its appreciated. i think in the end, everyone can agree that you're going to do what you feel is right, regardless of what other think/say. but im glad to have opinions from so many people, just arguing about it between me and him doesn't work. sometimes you need a 3rd party...

so thanks to all.....helped out a lot

jucurious · Jun 1, 2009

kjxxxx said:
WOW. Another sisters online post where you encourage the lady with the man who she can count on to join you in the single and searching and hating and sleeping with 5 to 10 men before you find one to settle down with if you ever.

None ever asked if there were kids and how long these people been together. She asked about a disagreement and the only advice she gets is to breakup. Can't you people ever focus on conflict resolution without it ending up with breakups. DAMN. I AM SO TIRED OF THE BREAKUP ULTIMATUM.

In the relationship someone is going to have a bad habit that you don't like but you will have to learn to live with. From what the poster is saying she doesn't have a bad guy. She wants him to give up something that he likes. So she discussed it with him and he hasn't given it up just yet. So what is she willing to give up ? Folks here behaving like they have never traded pictures out of curiosity.

FUCK ALL YOU BREAK UP CROWD. YOU WANT THE SISTER TO JOIN YOU IN YOUR INDEPENDENT WOMAN STATUS SEARCHING FOR THE MYSTICAL GOOD MAN, RUNNING THROUGH 5 TO 10 MEN, THEN HAVING TO DEAL WITH WORRYING ABOUT STDs and ALL THE BULLSHIT WITH STARTING OVER AGAIN.

WORK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP GIRL AND TRAIN YOUR MAN. IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS THAT HAVE LASTED 30 or more years the WOMEN WILL LET YOU KNOW THAT IT WASN'T EASY TO GET HIM THIS WELL TRAINED.