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Pre-Maritial Counseling

I think it's a good idea

Nowadays people get married too quickly and for the wrong reasons ... I think that has alot to do with the high divorce rate
 
jucurious said:
y not?
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I would like to believe that I am thorough enough to cover all or most of the bases regarding what is important in a relationship without a 3rd parties involvement.




and as long as I have this...
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and these...
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I can't fail......:D
 
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if you get married in some kind of church setting don't you usually have to go through some pre maritial classes with the rev who is to do the ceremony?
 
doggish_098 said:
if you get married in some kind of church setting don't you usually have to go through some pre maritial classes with the rev who is to do the ceremony?
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iono

i think u have an option to opt out

also, non-religious places offer the counseling also
 
jucurious said:
iono

i think u have an option to opt out

also, non-religious places offer the counseling also
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I dont think it could help. You know you get the little take home projects to help you learn each other better. I guess it also would depend on who is doing the counseling.
 
I would, and would definitely recommend it.

Most people would like to think that they got it all sewed up though and it's unnecessary.

It's mad stuff you take for granted and don't formally discuss with your S/O or fiancee before you get married. Stuff that inevitably comes up. And it always does.

Mostly stuff you think is mad trivial, like, time devoted to family like holidays, career moves and how they'd affect where the couple chooses to settle down, how many kids, religious dispositions etc.

trust me, most of this shit seems pretty obvious but stats (supported by empirical data) prove it.

I have spoken.
 
sean69 said:
I would, and would definitely recommend it.

Most people would like to think that they got it all sewed up though and it's unnecessary.

It's mad stuff you take for granted and don't formally discuss with your S/O or fiancee before you get married. Stuff that inevitably comes up. And it always does.

Mostly stuff you think is mad trivial, like, time devoted to family like holidays, career moves and how they'd affect where the couple chooses to settle down, how many kids, religious dispositions etc.

trust me, most of this shit seems pretty obvious but stats (supported by empirical data) prove it.

I have spoken.
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I'm afraid to say this, but...




























I agree with Sean on this one. :puke:
 
sean69 said:
I would, and would definitely recommend it.

Most people would like to think that they got it all sewed up though and it's unnecessary.

It's mad stuff you take for granted and don't formally discuss with your S/O or fiancee before you get married. Stuff that inevitably comes up. And it always does.

Mostly stuff you think is mad trivial, like, time devoted to family like holidays, career moves and how they'd affect where the couple chooses to settle down, how many kids, religious dispositions etc.

trust me, most of this shit seems pretty obvious but stats (supported by empirical data) prove it.

I have spoken.
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Please take your empirical data and place in your rectum...forcefully !!
 
sean69 said:
I would, and would definitely recommend it.

Most people would like to think that they got it all sewed up though and it's unnecessary.

It's mad stuff you take for granted and don't formally discuss with your S/O or fiancee before you get married. Stuff that inevitably comes up. And it always does.

Mostly stuff you think is mad trivial, like, time devoted to family like holidays, career moves and how they'd affect where the couple chooses to settle down, how many kids, religious dispositions etc.

trust me, most of this shit seems pretty obvious but stats (supported by empirical data) prove it.

I have spoken.
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Yes you have:yes::yes::yes:

SWATLANTA said:
Please take your empirical data and place in your rectum...forcefully !!
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Swat eugh :puke: :lol:
 
sean69 said:
I would, and would definitely recommend it.

Most people would like to think that they got it all sewed up though and it's unnecessary.

It's mad stuff you take for granted and don't formally discuss with your S/O or fiancee before you get married. Stuff that inevitably comes up. And it always does.

Mostly stuff you think is mad trivial, like, time devoted to family like holidays, career moves and how they'd affect where the couple chooses to settle down, how many kids, religious dispositions etc.

trust me, most of this shit seems pretty obvious but stats (supported by empirical data) prove it.

I have spoken.
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:) :yes: ;)
 
jucurious said:
do you see it as potentially beneficial or a waste of time?

have/would you do it?
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Very beneficial....Maybe if I had of actually went through with it, I would have avoided marrying the person I did. Geez thank GOD I moved on from that train wreck.
 
I think it's a great idea...if your spouse would do it...

I have had 2 relationships that were leading towards marriage...One woman refused to do it unless she had a ring on her finger...

The other woman didn't think we needed to do it until after we got married.

In both of these relationships, we were having major disconnects, and we weren't on the same page in several major areas...

Needless to say, I am not with either of them now...and that's probably a good thing...
 
There are billboards here and all around cities in Texas that are encouraging pre-marital counseling or marriage help. It seems like theres a really big push to save the institution of marriage here.

For me, I wouldn't get married without pre-martial classes...or a pre-nup. But that's just me.
 
PrincessC said:
There are billboards here and all around cities in Texas that are encouraging pre-marital counseling or marriage help. It seems like theres a really big push to save the institution of marriage here.

For me, I wouldn't get married without pre-martial classes...or a pre-nup. But that's just me.
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hmmm you say pre-marital classes OR a pre-nup...are you saying one is an exchange for the other?

I see them as very different but that is the 2nd time in this thread they have been mentioned in the same sentence and I wonder why.
 
jucurious said:
hmmm you say pre-marital classes OR a pre-nup...are you saying one is an exchange for the other?

I see them as very different but that is the 2nd time in this thread they have been mentioned in the same sentence and I wonder why.
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i read that as her saying both were a requirement:confused: i could be wrong
 
Crown&Coke said:
For those that said no. . .why?​
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to me, that is the epitome of americans needing to be coddled, they can't do ANYTHING without involving some type of agency or 3rd party :smh: think about it its not good at all :smh:

also, no offense Jo, but in general, counselors and therapists are a big bunch of fuck and lonely americans need them because they have no real friends or family

sorry but i tell it like i see it :hmm:
 
bigirl said:
to me, that is the epitome of americans needing to be coddled, they can't do ANYTHING without involving some type of agency or 3rd party :smh: think about it its not good at all :smh:

also, no offense Jo, but in general, counselors and therapists are a big bunch of fuck and lonely americans need them because they have no real friends or family

sorry but i tell it like i see it :hmm:
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I disagree. Alot of people would not have made the mistake or gettin married or would have had an easier start if they had some type of counseling. Even if its not with a therapist, they could talk with their parents or some friends or someone that could give insight. Ur hate for americans has nothin to do with this. People get counseling in other places of the world too. . .



And btw. . .take ya ass back to ur island u lentil eating muddascunt. . . .

:lol::lol::lol:​
 

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