Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop them

[darkninja7000]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

The difference between BM and BW is Black Men rarely deny theirs a problem,even the street niggaz knows they are fucking up their lives...Men have always tell these type of guys to take care of their kids and get a job, you cant deny that...You also cant deny that this system was developed this system to hold non-white people down epecially Black Men...Im the first to say that Black Men shouldnt use the government or white people as an excuse but this system wasnt for us to succeed.

Black Women have always blame BM for whatever going on in their lives but not themselves...Hell they still blame men even though they know its their fault...to say that BM is fucking up is stupid...Black Men have always been blamed for everything whats going on in the world and you cant deny that period....

Black Men is blamed by the media,BW , other Black Men, other races of people and etc....

Dont you think its time for the woman to stop blaming black men and look at themselves first..





I dont understand this Alpha male non-sense...we are the only group of people to put a name of sumthing....I dont even like the term baby daddy

 

[The Dark Mind]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Watch the video... and understand.

NYOIL - Cap'n Save a Hoe

 

[Amajorfucup]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

OP, i gotta question.

Lets say you're right and woman are the problem. What part does a guy play when he leaves the child he creates and doesnt take responsibility in raising them and showing them how to become a responsible adult (especially the males) and productive member of society and our community?

Just wondering.

 

[darkninja7000]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

OP, i gotta question.

Lets say you're right and woman are the problem. What part does a guy play when he leaves the child he creates and doesnt take responsibility in raising them and showing them how to become a responsible adult (especially the males) and productive member of society and our community?

Just wondering.

dude....... of course the guy has responsibility for that... but what the op is sayin is that they are boys not men... boys do not take care of their responsibilities. MEN will stand up and do the right thing. again all MEN are males but not all males are MEN. the woman is ultimately at fault because she chose to spread her legs to the boy who is a thug, low life, bum nigga with "swagga" instead of planning a family with a responsible MAN . a MAN who works... not hustles.... a MAN who is responsible.... not tryin ta be down or have "swag".

 

[Entrepronegro]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

 

[Amajorfucup]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

dude....... of course the guy has responsibility for that... but what the op is sayin is that they are boys not men... boys do not take care of their responsibilities. MEN will stand up and do the right thing. again all MEN are males but not all males are MEN. the woman is ultimately at fault because she chose to spread her legs to the boy who is a thug, low life, bum nigga with "swagga" instead of planning a family with a responsible MAN . a MAN who works... not hustles.... a MAN who is responsible.... not tryin ta be down or have "swag".

With all due respect i wasnt asking you. Allo wthis man to articulate his own point. Thanks.

btw- The same bullshit argument you presented can go both ways. "Woman" are handling their business. "Girls" arent..."Woman dont open their legs to just anyone". "Girls" do...

 

[The Dark Mind]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

OP, i gotta question.

Lets say you're right and woman are the problem. What part does a guy play when he leaves the child he creates and doesnt take responsibility in raising them and showing them how to become a responsible adult (especially the males) and productive member of society and our community?

Just wondering.

I'm glad you asked the question.


Here's the answer.

He is what he is.


...It's that simple.


Allow me to explain...

You remember the story of the scorpion and the frog right?

If not here's the quick version...
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The frog and the scorpion both needed to cross the river. The scorpion asked for a ride on the frog's back. The frog at first said no because, well... it was a scorpion. The scorpion promised not to sting the frog and eventually talked the frog into it. Then when the frog was halfway across the river, the scorpion stung the frog.

The frog as they were sinking asked, "why did you do that? We're both going to drown."

The scorpion just shrugged and said,"I didn't want to but I can't help it. I'm a scorpion, it's what I do."

The frog and scorpion drowned.
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You see the scorpion stung out of instinct because well that's what scorpions do. They sting.

Same thing goes for bad boys and thugs. When they act that way, you can't blame them for doing what they do, because it is what they are.

You're job is to avoid them.

The frog should not have listened to or tried to change a scorpion because a scorpion is going to be a scorpion. They sting. Because that's what scorpions do.

The same thing is true with women and thugs...

Women should not try to change thugs/players/gangsters. They should avoid them! thugs/players/gangsters are going to do what thugs/players/gangsters do. It's what they are.

There's only two people who can change those types of dudes. That's the person themselves, and God... And even God won't go against free will.

At the end of the day, it is the females job to avoid those type of dudes, not try to change them from what they are.

 

[darkninja7000]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

With all due respect i wasnt asking you. Allo wthis man to articulate his own point. Thanks.

btw- The same bullshit argument you presented can go both ways. "Woman" are handling their business. "Girls" arent..."Woman dont open their legs to just anyone". "Girls" do...

with all do respect I just repeated what he said numerous times through out the thread. but if you was payin attention you would know that

secondly yes the same thing can be said but by staistics and just lookin through communities..... it seems that there are wayyyyyyyyyyy more girls than women. just my two cents. now go ahead and read his rebuttal cause it's a good one.

 

[Amajorfucup]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

with all do respect I just repeated what he said numerous times through out the thread. but if you was payin attention you would know that

secondly yes the same thing can be said but by staistics and just lookin through communities..... it seems that there are wayyyyyyyyyyy more girls than women. just my two cents. now go ahead and read his rebuttal cause it's a good one.

OK, just read his "rebuttal". It was just the inane bullshit i would expect from someone creating a thread like this. It excuses the behavior of one while condeming the behavior of another.

Discounting the men as mere bad seeds while labeling the woman as the source of the problem is naive, counterproductive, and ignorant. Theres more than enough blame to go around without putting it all at the feet of the woman. This is divisive bullshit that only serves to further alienate us from within. There are pieces of shit on both sides of the gender table which contribute to the deterioration of our community. It takes two...

btw- Those same statistics also seem to say that theres wayyyyy more deadbeat men then there are woman.

 

[Mello Mello]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

black women are causing global warming.

That's how they gonna respond

 

[The Dark Mind]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

OK, just read his "rebuttal". It was just the inane bullshit i would expect from someone creating a thread like this. It excuses the behavior of one while condeming the behavior of another.

To put it politely... You're full of shit.

Discounting the men as mere bad seeds while labeling the woman as the source of the problem is naive, counterproductive, and ignorant.

No. It's the fucking truth.

And guys like you need to figure that shit out. You ain't uplifting nothing. You're just perpetuating an old myth that needs to die!

Theres more than enough blame to go around without putting it all at the feet of the woman.

No. There's no equal blame here. Black women, and simps who run cover for them or responsible for this.

If black men have any responsibility, it is because we have been silent while all of this has been going on.

This is divisive bullshit that only serves to further alienate us from within.

Oh shit, save it. Division from within is what we're talking about. We're talking about the literal internal destruction of the black community by women who choose to date and reward the mos delinquent and juvenile amongst us, while shunning those who are about something. The destruction it has caused is far and wide and must be stopped.

There are pieces of shit on both sides of the gender table which contribute to the deterioration of our community. It takes two...

Wrong it doesn't take two. It takes one. The female is the one who decides who the fathers of the next generation is going to be. That's the reason it's on them, and not on the men.

She get's to decide who climbs in her womb and reproduces. She decides whether the badboys get rewarded for their behavior or goodguys get rewarded for their behavior for sex. Black women collectively have decided to put thugs/badboys at the top and to help reinforce that they should be the standard of what's best in our community.

btw- Those same statistics also seem to say that theres wayyyyy more deadbeat men then there are woman.

Yeah and those dead beats didn't become deadbeats after they got with the woman. They were deadbeats before they got with her!

THAT'S THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!! We have women who insist on getting with these deadbeats and producing more children. You know that this joker got 3 kids by other women and ain't taking care the kids he got. What da hell make you think he's going to take care of yours?

But she wants him because he's "cool and sexy" and "got so much thug in him." She wants to have his baby! Which again is stupid because he ain't taking care of the kids he got from the other baby mamas.

 

[LoneStar29]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Oh is that what you tell yourself to feel better?

You hear something you don't like so it's because that person's "hurting" and "full of hatred".

Whatever you've gotta tell yourself to make yourself feel better... You go for it!


You know...

you sound like those women who, when they get rejected, run around telling themselves, and others, that the guy must be gay. That way the hurt won't be as bad.

Well babes, feel free to live in your fairytale and do whatever helps you best. Ok?

And you sound like a loser who got rejected and now spends his days talkin' shit and complaining about Black women with other losers online Just go fuck a White girl and get it over with ... cuz really we don't need punks like ya'll in our lives anyways

 

[ANGRY MAN]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

C/S this thread,women can change the community,since most men do certain things to get a women attention.Back then it was if a guy didn't have a car,he was shit out of luck with the ladies they demanded a guy to have A car.So we made it our point to have a car.It's a double standard type of thing we make sure our shit is right,to attract a certain type of female.But it's ok for a women to not have a car and live at home.My point is we follow the standards of what women want..So if they change there standards eventually we'll change our direction.

They do have the final decision in having babies,if a black male could have the Final decision if his childs going to be born,I guarentee you there would be less single parents out here.


I was listening to the radio last week and this lady called in..basically the topic was Do women want nice guys.And the lady said it's ok for him to be nice but I don't like him to be TOO NICE.I thought about that line and is it a bad thing to be TOO NICE WTF? That's like saying I like a guy to sell crack but TOO much crack??

But overall it's not going to change,we got another chance of a black president then unity in the black cimmunity.My 2 cents is date outside your race,other cultures are amazing to me this girl told me the other day,How come black women have a black guys baby and then they don't end up with the kids father

 

[darkninja7000]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

C/S this thread,women can change the community,since most men do certain things to get a women attention.Back then it was if a guy didn't have a car,he was shit out of luck with the ladies they demanded a guy to have A car.So we made it our point to have a car.It's a double standard type of thing we make sure our shit is right,to attract a certain type of female.But it's ok for a women to not have a car and live at home.My point is we follow the standards of what women want..So if they change there standards eventually we'll change our direction.

They do have the final decision in having babies,if a black male could have the Final decision if his childs going to be born,I guarantee you there would be less single parents out here.


I was listening to the radio last week and this lady called in..basically the topic was Do women want nice guys.And the lady said it's ok for him to be nice but I don't like him to be TOO NICE.I thought about that line and is it a bad thing to be TOO NICE WTF? That's like saying I like a guy to sell crack but TOO much crack??

But overall it's not going to change,we got another chance of a black president then unity in the black cimmunity.My 2 cents is date outside your race,other cultures are amazing to me this girl told me the other day,How come black women have a black guys baby and then they don't end up with the kids father

son dont even waste your time. these niggaz dont and will neva get it. niggaz can say what they want. these are grown ass professional women talkin that nonsense. I know mad women with degrees, professional women who only like and date deadbeat niggaz and "thugs". talkin about "nice guys are boring" "they're push overs"

 

[The Dark Mind]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

And you sound like a loser who got rejected

Sorry. Wrong on both points.

But as I stated before you can continue to live in your fantasy world if it makes you feel better ok?

and now spends his days talkin' shit and complaining about Black women with other losers online

No. We have jobs, degrees, and date real women.

The only losers we're talking about are the ones that chickenheads like you date.

Just go fuck a White girl and get it over with ... cuz really we don't need punks like ya'll in our lives anyways

Yep. You're definitely the disgusting type of thug-chasing slut-bitch, that we've been talking about.

The truth hurts, hunh?

It hurts to hear the truth that you've been destroying the community. And it hurts even more to know that we're on to you and talking about you in the open.

 

[dzlkdd]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

My first impression is that you got beat up a lot in high school. My second is that you're actually still in high school, and still get beat up. You also seem like one of them mommy-issues guys on the board... the kind that gets angry when women enter the room.

Not that what you said is inaccurate... but truly, white guys say the same thing about white women. That's what immature women do. They date bad guys. But white guys don't present the bad boy on the level that we do, or with as high a percentage.

Meaning, at what point is our responsibility to avoid doing people dirty?

 

[Andros the magician]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Sigh . . . . yeah.

I don't know man, I don't see it getting any better. It would be nice if having Obama in office makes these bitches wake up and aspire to have an intelligent man like him, the leader of the free world, as the father to their fucking children. But if that doesn't work, nothing will. And I don't really think it will.

I don't put too much stock into these bitches man. This shit is biological with them. Many of them don't think logically about their selection, they let their pussy think for them. So I just don't put too much stock into them. A good black woman is the exception these days, despite all the shit they talk. That's the fuckin truth. Most of the stats point towards 70%.

If they ain't ghetto, they fat as hell. If they ain't fat, they got kids. If they aint got kids rolleyes, they gotta have a thug. If they don't want a thug, they stripping. And SOME bitches have the nerve to be ghetto, fat, want a thug AND strip/trick all at the same time.

Fuck em dude, they won't hesitate hold me accountable to my actions if I fuck up, so I'm shonuff holding them to theirs.

Well well well...

I had to highlight the words said here to illustrate how I feel about this. I'm going to say how we can stop black women from destroying us.

But first...

Some background.

College grad here, ex infantryman, single dad, and a traveler of the world. I've had many women in my life. Friends, lovers, fiancés, dates, casual things, and coworkers. I have a strong realistic emotion about black women.

70% of all black women are single mothers for a reason.

I stand by that. Let me explain to the best of my ability.

I love black women but there are things that are all too common in most that make them unappealing and not realistic for long term relationships. Reasons such as:

1. Low intelligence.

Yea, yea, yea, yea. Most will say that a lot of them go to college. While that may be true.... How many times do you meet black women with just really broken English? The same women with no real understanding of basic life contents? No grasp of politics? No interest in news? Absolutely no interest in anything unless it is something all black. Smarter people often make more logical decisions.

2. Narrow minded.

Usually, this is due to being raised in a select non-changing environment. If it’s not dancing, rapping, clubbing, or acting stereotypical black they don't want to talk about it. No interest in trying new foods, places, new sex ideas, or anything different. Any attempts for anything new is met with a comment of "white people do that". Broad minds complete a more round person.

3. Media controls them.

Anything they see on music videos, just music, low level all black shows, clubbing and all kinds of nonsense. How many times have you seen a woman trying to act out some role or crap she has heard on a song? How many times have you met a woman with two kids that know every damn rap song about clubbing and sex but can't talk correctly or have any real social skills? Speaking of that...

4. Lack of Social skills.

Seriously, I know all of us are tired of the ugly attitudes. Who needs that shit? Quick to argue in public. Yelling like its casual talk. Booming voices in any form of conflict. Rude with no sense of what’s not considered "ok" in public. Etc...

5. Trying to act like a woman but THINKING like a man.

WTF? Seriously, I don't know about the rest of you guys but I like dating women because... well I don't know...

THEY ARE FUCKING WOMEN!!!

Women that try to act hard. Women that have male mannerisms. Women that spout that "strong woman" Bullshit. Ha just because you are single and can't keep a man, refuse to back down, refuse to be somewhat submissive, rude, lose control with your anger problem, act like a bitch all the time, don't understand when to shut the fuck up, and have had to get everything you own on your own because no man can stand your horrible presence does not mean you are "Strong". Any war leader knows the power of retreat and recover. There are plenty of us men that can act sweet to women and treat them good. At the same time, know how to act like a man to put the foot down. How the hell can that work when she already has it in her feeble mind she's not going to take any crap, has no concept of being slightly submissive, and thinks everyone is trying to control her? Don't flatter yourselves females. Makes you wonder when you hear a woman say a guy is too nice. When he trys to regulate balance between nice and being a man. These black women are too stupid to grasp the concept of them being women!

6. No loyalty or honor.

Now lots of women cheat regardless of race. Although, we are talking about black women. These women perceive as doing this as "macking", acting like players, or just in the game. How fucking stupid can you get? Beauty is temporary, dumb is forever. How many black women do you meet over 40 that are single? LOTS! Why is it 70% of all black women statistically are single mothers? Why? They don't embrace this crap. They are too busy trying to find the next best thing. When they have someone that treats them good, they instead chase after men that emulate crap they see on music videos. HELLO!! THAT CRAP ISN'T REAL!!!

7. Priorities all fucked up.

Do some questioning with women you know or work with in your life. It seems to me on average most black women way up close to their mid 40's are mainly concerned about the lifestyle that involves...

CLUBBING!

They base their entire lives around it. They need to stay focused on videos to get all the new dances, songs, and cultures. They spend the majority of their money on club outfits and alcohol. They indirectly raise their children around the social environment of clubbing. It’s all they do. All they want to do. Nothing else inspires them. This is their lifelong passion. This is why nothing else is important to them. Why nothing else matters. It all comes way after clubbing.

8. No hobbies!!

This one is a huge. They almost always never have hobbies. Sure most will come back and say shopping or some crap like that. They almost never have any hobbies at all. Not only that they will frown upon anyone pursing ANY hobby outside of what they consider black as acting "white".

9. My favorite. The pursuit of "thugs"

This one is great. We all know the in's and out's of this one. Why women are attracted to this nonsense blows me out of the water. What kills me is that usually these so called "thugs" are nothing but TV emulators. See it on a music video...

I'll act that way! Dress that way! Talk that way!
I'm a thug!!

It's not real! Damn these women are stupid as hell. Can't tell you how many of these so called tough pussies I've met that are afraid to do ANYTHING. Here I am been in real life dealing with bills, family drama, workplace nonsense, military life, combat, other countries, firefights, camping, mountain climbing, hiking, and etc. These pussies can only talk about becoming the usual rapper, hustling for cash, going to the club, going to jail, and the next chick they can get. That's it! That's a thug! Haha! It's comical. They get a thug who's emulating crap he's seen on a video 100%. He's too damn stupid to get a skill or education. He has no concept or loyalty or honor because he's too much of a pussy to take any chances in life to try anything. Hence, shooting instead of handling things like men. No idea how to control anger with no social skills so they get physical and start hitting. I can go on but... pfft...

In a nutshell, black women are great but really a lot of hassle. Not all by any means. Lord knows, I'm not saying that. I have a little sister, daughter, a mom, grandmother, and fiancé. It would never cross my mind that all black women are destroying our community but I agree with the OP a lot of them hurt us as a whole. Personally I've gotten tired of that funky attitude, that nasty ass confrontation demeanor, the "me first" mentality, that quick to yell behavior, and the low level of thinking.

So how can we logically stop this?

Our daughters are the key. There is no other way. We can't stop the hordes of females that are just bad seeds. We can only direct and guide our daughters at a young age and keep at it. Since my daughter was ten I've been talking to her about dating, making good decisions, planning for the future, acting like a lady, understanding how to identify a man, family life, social skills, and keeping her mind broad with many topics. Topics and events based around science, history, cooking, languages, computers, and as much as possible.

True change my friends must come from the new and young. It's too damn late for these current hordes of trouble.

Start the new seeds while they are young. Let the weeds die by their own destruction.

 

[Cristar Mymine]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

You may think I'm not joking. I'm not. I'm being dead serious.

I stopped reading after this. This doesn't make sense (like the rest of the article).

 

[kboogs]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Tis a shame... for the problem is now cyclical and one series of behaviors perpetuates the other. If you REALLY CARE go down to your local junior highschool(In a hood near you), volunteer some of your time and talk to the children. You will then see what Nas said, MANY of todays parents (educated/un-educated) are in their second or third childhood!

 

[Laughing Man]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Dark Mind

Leave it be

All we've been doing is plugging the dam with our fingers, but its still leaking

Just get as far away as you can, the damn will burst and that will be that

Black men have been told they wanst shit ever since black women bought into feminism and welfare programs

Black men have been told they wanst shit by their own mothers

But as Shaharazad Ali stated over 20 yrs ago, black women have been coddled, protected, but that still wont stop the onslaught thats visiting them

Shaharzad warned black women all those years ago about this shit

Some of us black men listened, and now just have to bear witness to the shit we see now

And say nothing

 

[Mr MajestiK]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

He doesn't want to help us ... he wants to hurt us cuz he is hurting himself

The OP is full of hatred

The OP is anything but full of hatred and I would expect someone of your intelligence to see and recognize this.

Not everything posted is a direct assault or indictment of you specifically especially as you happen to be one of the only sistas on here honest enough to accept where you've personally made mistakes.

I know that a lot of these threads have the tendency to imply that all the ills in the black women are solely the fault of black women in their entirety.

I don't think that this is one of those threads though.

The OP has gone to great lengths to clearly illustrate the fact that the woman has the final say on who she allows to share her bed with and eventually impregnate her.

No amount of deflection can change this fundamental truth.

The thugs and general assholes have a field day with some sistas because for the most part, what constitutes as desirable within sizable sections of the black community has been warped almost beyond repair.

It's getting to a point where some women who complain that they're constantly meeting assholes just seem to give up and refuse to see the large number of positive dudes they kept passing over just because they felt his swagger wasn't cool enough.

Maybe it's time for our collective perception of this term "swagger" is readjusted to only reflect success and status informed by hard work, healthy living and a deep respect for black men based on their readiness and ability to provide for family and respect their women.

That would be nice if that was what swagger grew to embody.

 

[Mr MajestiK]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Well well well...

I had to highlight the words said here to illustrate how I feel about this. I'm going to say how we can stop black women from destroying us.

But first...

Some background.

College grad here, ex infantryman, single dad, and a traveler of the world. I've had many women in my life. Friends, lovers, fiancés, dates, casual things, and coworkers. I have a strong realistic emotion about black women.

70% of all black women are single mothers for a reason.

I stand by that. Let me explain to the best of my ability.

I love black women but there are things that are all too common in most that make them unappealing and not realistic for long term relationships. Reasons such as:

1. Low intelligence.

Yea, yea, yea, yea. Most will say that a lot of them go to college. While that may be true.... How many times do you meet black women with just really broken English? The same women with no real understanding of basic life contents? No grasp of politics? No interest in news? Absolutely no interest in anything unless it is something all black. Smarter people often make more logical decisions.

2. Narrow minded.

Usually, this is due to being raised in a select non-changing environment. If it’s not dancing, rapping, clubbing, or acting stereotypical black they don't want to talk about it. No interest in trying new foods, places, new sex ideas, or anything different. Any attempts for anything new is met with a comment of "white people do that". Broad minds complete a more round person.

3. Media controls them.

Anything they see on music videos, just music, low level all black shows, clubbing and all kinds of nonsense. How many times have you seen a woman trying to act out some role or crap she has heard on a song? How many times have you met a woman with two kids that know every damn rap song about clubbing and sex but can't talk correctly or have any real social skills? Speaking of that...

4. Lack of Social skills.

Seriously, I know all of us are tired of the ugly attitudes. Who needs that shit? Quick to argue in public. Yelling like its casual talk. Booming voices in any form of conflict. Rude with no sense of what’s not considered "ok" in public. Etc...

5. Trying to act like a woman but THINKING like a man.

WTF? Seriously, I don't know about the rest of you guys but I like dating women because... well I don't know...

THEY ARE FUCKING WOMEN!!!

Women that try to act hard. Women that have male mannerisms. Women that spout that "strong woman" Bullshit. Ha just because you are single and can't keep a man, refuse to back down, refuse to be somewhat submissive, rude, lose control with your anger problem, act like a bitch all the time, don't understand when to shut the fuck up, and have had to get everything you own on your own because no man can stand your horrible presence does not mean you are "Strong". Any war leader knows the power of retreat and recover. There are plenty of us men that can act sweet to women and treat them good. At the same time, know how to act like a man to put the foot down. How the hell can that work when she already has it in her feeble mind she's not going to take any crap, has no concept of being slightly submissive, and thinks everyone is trying to control her? Don't flatter yourselves females. Makes you wonder when you hear a woman say a guy is too nice. When he trys to regulate balance between nice and being a man. These black women are too stupid to grasp the concept of them being women!

6. No loyalty or honor.

Now lots of women cheat regardless of race. Although, we are talking about black women. These women perceive as doing this as "macking", acting like players, or just in the game. How fucking stupid can you get? Beauty is temporary, dumb is forever. How many black women do you meet over 40 that are single? LOTS! Why is it 70% of all black women statistically are single mothers? Why? They don't embrace this crap. They are too busy trying to find the next best thing. When they have someone that treats them good, they instead chase after men that emulate crap they see on music videos. HELLO!! THAT CRAP ISN'T REAL!!!

7. Priorities all fucked up.

Do some questioning with women you know or work with in your life. It seems to me on average most black women way up close to their mid 40's are mainly concerned about the lifestyle that involves...

CLUBBING!

They base their entire lives around it. They need to stay focused on videos to get all the new dances, songs, and cultures. They spend the majority of their money on club outfits and alcohol. They indirectly raise their children around the social environment of clubbing. It’s all they do. All they want to do. Nothing else inspires them. This is their lifelong passion. This is why nothing else is important to them. Why nothing else matters. It all comes way after clubbing.

8. No hobbies!!

This one is a huge. They almost always never have hobbies. Sure most will come back and say shopping or some crap like that. They almost never have any hobbies at all. Not only that they will frown upon anyone pursing ANY hobby outside of what they consider black as acting "white".

9. My favorite. The pursuit of "thugs"

This one is great. We all know the in's and out's of this one. Why women are attracted to this nonsense blows me out of the water. What kills me is that usually these so called "thugs" are nothing but TV emulators. See it on a music video...

I'll act that way! Dress that way! Talk that way!
I'm a thug!!

It's not real! Damn these women are stupid as hell. Can't tell you how many of these so called tough pussies I've met that are afraid to do ANYTHING. Here I am been in real life dealing with bills, family drama, workplace nonsense, military life, combat, other countries, firefights, camping, mountain climbing, hiking, and etc. These pussies can only talk about becoming the usual rapper, hustling for cash, going to the club, going to jail, and the next chick they can get. That's it! That's a thug! Haha! It's comical. They get a thug who's emulating crap he's seen on a video 100%. He's too damn stupid to get a skill or education. He has no concept or loyalty or honor because he's too much of a pussy to take any chances in life to try anything. Hence, shooting instead of handling things like men. No idea how to control anger with no social skills so they get physical and start hitting. I can go on but... pfft...

In a nutshell, black women are great but really a lot of hassle. Not all by any means. Lord knows, I'm not saying that. I have a little sister, daughter, a mom, grandmother, and fiancé. It would never cross my mind that all black women are destroying our community but I agree with the OP a lot of them hurt us as a whole. Personally I've gotten tired of that funky attitude, that nasty ass confrontation demeanor, the "me first" mentality, that quick to yell behavior, and the low level of thinking.

So how can we logically stop this?

Our daughters are the key. There is no other way. We can't stop the hordes of females that are just bad seeds. We can only direct and guide our daughters at a young age and keep at it. Since my daughter was ten I've been talking to her about dating, making good decisions, planning for the future, acting like a lady, understanding how to identify a man, family life, social skills, and keeping her mind broad with many topics. Topics and events based around science, history, cooking, languages, computers, and as much as possible.

True change my friends must come from the new and young. It's too damn late for these current hordes of trouble.

Start the new seeds while they are young. Let the weeds die by their own destruction.

This is one of the realest and most well presented posts I've seen in this thread.

I truly thank you for taking the time to post this as it reflects and mirrors many of my own thoughts on this subject.

Once again, thank you for posting this realness.

 

[Rick Ronson]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Nah weak ass niggas giving in to what bitches want is the problem.

Sad but bitches dictate what is in cause niggas are weak about who they are.

I wish I would act like a thugg or plan my life around what a bitch wants.

A bitch dont know what the fuck she wants till she watches tv.

Any of these older cats can probably tell a story about a bitch and her choices and the results.

I have stories and many aren't pretty.

Be who the fuck you are......you are weak for changing who you are for a bitch.

That makes you a bitch.

 

[Laughing Man]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

The OP is anything but full of hatred and I would expect someone of your intelligence to see and recognize this.

Not everything posted is a direct assault or indictment of you specifically especially as you happen to be one of the only sistas on here honest enough to accept where you've personally made mistakes.

I know that a lot of these threads have the tendency to imply that all the ills in the black women are solely the fault of black women in their entirety.

I don't think that this is one of those threads though.

The OP has gone to great lengths to clearly illustrate the fact that the woman has the final say on who she allows to share her bed with and eventually impregnate her.

No amount of deflection can change this fundamental truth.

The thugs and general assholes have a field day with some sistas because for the most part, what constitutes as desirable within sizable sections of the black community has been warped almost beyond repair.

It's getting to a point where some women who complain that they're constantly meeting assholes just seem to give up and refuse to see the large number of positive dudes they kept passing over just because they felt his swagger wasn't cool enough.

Maybe it's time for our collective perception of this term "swagger" is readjusted to only reflect success and status informed by hard work, healthy living and a deep respect for black men based on their readiness and ability to provide for family and respect their women.

That would be nice if that was what swagger grew to embody.

co-sign

Listen, black men have had to endure "niggas aint shit" for all these years, and men will not hide from the fuckery caused by other men

But black women, who have been coddled all this time can freely say that shit, but when it comes to "why did you pick that man, knowing he wanst shit" they turn stupid and immediate shame you into saying you're bashing them, you hate them, you cant handle a strong black woman

Shaharazad Ali warned us all over 20 yrs ago, but we chose not to lsiten, call her insane and hateful, but that sista was a damn prophetess, and look at the shit we have now

Black men have no trouble acknowledging the shit a few dumb niggas do

How come black women cant do the same

No one puts a gun to your heads, but when it all goes bad, its still our fault, and its high time this shit ends

 

[Laughing Man]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Well well well...

I had to highlight the words said here to illustrate how I feel about this. I'm going to say how we can stop black women from destroying us.

But first...

Some background.

College grad here, ex infantryman, single dad, and a traveler of the world. I've had many women in my life. Friends, lovers, fiancés, dates, casual things, and coworkers. I have a strong realistic emotion about black women.

70% of all black women are single mothers for a reason.

I stand by that. Let me explain to the best of my ability.

I love black women but there are things that are all too common in most that make them unappealing and not realistic for long term relationships. Reasons such as:

1. Low intelligence.

Yea, yea, yea, yea. Most will say that a lot of them go to college. While that may be true.... How many times do you meet black women with just really broken English? The same women with no real understanding of basic life contents? No grasp of politics? No interest in news? Absolutely no interest in anything unless it is something all black. Smarter people often make more logical decisions.

2. Narrow minded.

Usually, this is due to being raised in a select non-changing environment. If it’s not dancing, rapping, clubbing, or acting stereotypical black they don't want to talk about it. No interest in trying new foods, places, new sex ideas, or anything different. Any attempts for anything new is met with a comment of "white people do that". Broad minds complete a more round person.

3. Media controls them.

Anything they see on music videos, just music, low level all black shows, clubbing and all kinds of nonsense. How many times have you seen a woman trying to act out some role or crap she has heard on a song? How many times have you met a woman with two kids that know every damn rap song about clubbing and sex but can't talk correctly or have any real social skills? Speaking of that...

4. Lack of Social skills.

Seriously, I know all of us are tired of the ugly attitudes. Who needs that shit? Quick to argue in public. Yelling like its casual talk. Booming voices in any form of conflict. Rude with no sense of what’s not considered "ok" in public. Etc...

5. Trying to act like a woman but THINKING like a man.

WTF? Seriously, I don't know about the rest of you guys but I like dating women because... well I don't know...

THEY ARE FUCKING WOMEN!!!

Women that try to act hard. Women that have male mannerisms. Women that spout that "strong woman" Bullshit. Ha just because you are single and can't keep a man, refuse to back down, refuse to be somewhat submissive, rude, lose control with your anger problem, act like a bitch all the time, don't understand when to shut the fuck up, and have had to get everything you own on your own because no man can stand your horrible presence does not mean you are "Strong". Any war leader knows the power of retreat and recover. There are plenty of us men that can act sweet to women and treat them good. At the same time, know how to act like a man to put the foot down. How the hell can that work when she already has it in her feeble mind she's not going to take any crap, has no concept of being slightly submissive, and thinks everyone is trying to control her? Don't flatter yourselves females. Makes you wonder when you hear a woman say a guy is too nice. When he trys to regulate balance between nice and being a man. These black women are too stupid to grasp the concept of them being women!

6. No loyalty or honor.

Now lots of women cheat regardless of race. Although, we are talking about black women. These women perceive as doing this as "macking", acting like players, or just in the game. How fucking stupid can you get? Beauty is temporary, dumb is forever. How many black women do you meet over 40 that are single? LOTS! Why is it 70% of all black women statistically are single mothers? Why? They don't embrace this crap. They are too busy trying to find the next best thing. When they have someone that treats them good, they instead chase after men that emulate crap they see on music videos. HELLO!! THAT CRAP ISN'T REAL!!!

7. Priorities all fucked up.

Do some questioning with women you know or work with in your life. It seems to me on average most black women way up close to their mid 40's are mainly concerned about the lifestyle that involves...

CLUBBING!

They base their entire lives around it. They need to stay focused on videos to get all the new dances, songs, and cultures. They spend the majority of their money on club outfits and alcohol. They indirectly raise their children around the social environment of clubbing. It’s all they do. All they want to do. Nothing else inspires them. This is their lifelong passion. This is why nothing else is important to them. Why nothing else matters. It all comes way after clubbing.

8. No hobbies!!

This one is a huge. They almost always never have hobbies. Sure most will come back and say shopping or some crap like that. They almost never have any hobbies at all. Not only that they will frown upon anyone pursing ANY hobby outside of what they consider black as acting "white".

9. My favorite. The pursuit of "thugs"

This one is great. We all know the in's and out's of this one. Why women are attracted to this nonsense blows me out of the water. What kills me is that usually these so called "thugs" are nothing but TV emulators. See it on a music video...

I'll act that way! Dress that way! Talk that way!
I'm a thug!!

It's not real! Damn these women are stupid as hell. Can't tell you how many of these so called tough pussies I've met that are afraid to do ANYTHING. Here I am been in real life dealing with bills, family drama, workplace nonsense, military life, combat, other countries, firefights, camping, mountain climbing, hiking, and etc. These pussies can only talk about becoming the usual rapper, hustling for cash, going to the club, going to jail, and the next chick they can get. That's it! That's a thug! Haha! It's comical. They get a thug who's emulating crap he's seen on a video 100%. He's too damn stupid to get a skill or education. He has no concept or loyalty or honor because he's too much of a pussy to take any chances in life to try anything. Hence, shooting instead of handling things like men. No idea how to control anger with no social skills so they get physical and start hitting. I can go on but... pfft...

In a nutshell, black women are great but really a lot of hassle. Not all by any means. Lord knows, I'm not saying that. I have a little sister, daughter, a mom, grandmother, and fiancé. It would never cross my mind that all black women are destroying our community but I agree with the OP a lot of them hurt us as a whole. Personally I've gotten tired of that funky attitude, that nasty ass confrontation demeanor, the "me first" mentality, that quick to yell behavior, and the low level of thinking.

So how can we logically stop this?

Our daughters are the key. There is no other way. We can't stop the hordes of females that are just bad seeds. We can only direct and guide our daughters at a young age and keep at it. Since my daughter was ten I've been talking to her about dating, making good decisions, planning for the future, acting like a lady, understanding how to identify a man, family life, social skills, and keeping her mind broad with many topics. Topics and events based around science, history, cooking, languages, computers, and as much as possible.

True change my friends must come from the new and young. It's too damn late for these current hordes of trouble.

Start the new seeds while they are young. Let the weeds die by their own destruction.

Man, I dont think they hear you, Andros

 

[Mr MajestiK]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

co-sign

Listen, black men have had to endure "niggas aint shit" for all these years, and men will not hide from the fuckery caused by other men

But black women, who have been coddled all this time can freely say that shit, but when it comes to "why did you pick that man, knowing he wanst shit" they turn stupid and immediate shame you into saying you're bashing them, you hate them, you cant handle a strong black woman

Shaharazad Ali warned us all over 20 yrs ago, but we chose not to lsiten, call her insane and hateful, but that sista was a damn prophetess, and look at the shit we have now

Black men have no trouble acknowledging the shit a few dumb niggas do

How come black women cant do the same

No one puts a gun to your heads, but when it all goes bad, its still our fault, and its high time this shit ends

To my knowledge, Lonstar29 is probably the only sista who has ever acknowledged where she's made mistakes and I have immense respect for her having done that.

Unfortunately, as she's the only one actually stepping up to the plate she usually catches a lot of flack.

She still tries to bring her own type of balance to these debates too which is cool.

The only area I disagree with her on is her belief that the OP is bitter.

Other than that, it's all good.

 

[Mr MajestiK]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Man, I dont think they hear you, Andros

And that's the tragedy right there.

 

[Laughing Man]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

To my knowledge, Lonstar29 is probably the only sista who has ever acknowledged where she's made mistakes and I have immense respect for her having done that.

Unfortunately, as she's the only one actually stepping up to the plate she usually catches a lot of flack.

She still tries to bring her own type of balance to these debates too which is cool.

The only area I disagree with her on is her belief that the OP is bitter.

Other than that, it's all good.

I see your point Majestik

But once you get into that "you must be bitter" because you want to call out black women who are actually doing the fuckery stated by the OP, what can I say

When women who want to do better defend those who dont, they leave themselves to be painted with the same brush, and its unfair.

If more sistas start calling out these women who make it hard for them and make them look bad, we could be so much better

But the sisterhood and painting black men with the same brush seems to be the better option for them

And that is hurtful to the community as a whole

It may be already too late to do shit about it

And that's the tragedy right there.

As long as you have those who are willfully ignorant to the shit they see, say there is nothing wrong, or worse.......WHITE PEOPLE DO IT TOO.............forget about it

Just sip a colada, enjoy the end of the world

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Damn some people really missin the point

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=375443

 

[Rick Ronson]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

I sure hope these bitches dont start going for faggots in mass numbers as weak as these niggas are.

 

[Mr MajestiK]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

I been falling back lately reading all these threads about the black communities and the problems that are setting us back. And it seems to me that instead of black women and black men listening to each other, we rather fight to show each other who's right. But, the sad part is that both parties is right....now what(still not getting anywhere). First, I'm going to say this about black women and I think I'm talking for most black men when I say this, "Black men love black women, we just hate the ones that make it hard for good decent black women." So why are the good black women defending these types of women that black men are always talking about....I will never understand that shit(Black women separate yourselves from these types of women). Secondly, Black men need to understand that any man can make a baby, but it takes a real man to raise one. Black men need to also understand that we have to change the cycle and the way that most of us were raise is bullshit! If you see a bad women with a crazy body go ahead do your thing, but if she have problems don't make it worse by having a bady with the bitch and trying to wife her...I mean what the fuck do you expect, she was a bitch when you met her and the same goes for women....We need to understand that ******s(yes I said it) and Black hoes, bitches..etc is setting back good decend black people. And the only way we can move forward is to seperate ourselves from them with the quickness....

Real talk!!!

 

[Mr MajestiK]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

I see your point Majestik

But once you get into that "you must be bitter" because you want to call out black women who are actually doing the fuckery stated by the OP, what can I say

When women who want to do better defend those who dont, they leave themselves to be painted with the same brush, and its unfair.

If more sistas start calling out these women who make it hard for them and make them look bad, we could be so much better

But the sisterhood and painting black men with the same brush seems to be the better option for them

And that is hurtful to the community as a whole

It may be already too late to do shit about it



As long as you have those who are willfully ignorant to the shit they see, say there is nothing wrong, or worse.......WHITE PEOPLE DO IT TOO.............forget about it

Just sip a colada, enjoy the end of the world

^^^I can't argue with that.

I got my keg of iced down cider beside me as I sit back and watch the world die.

Ignorance reigns supreme and the bliss of the stupid comforts them as they see weakness where there is none.

 

[Rick Ronson]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Growing up without men in the home, niggas don't know how to handle these bitches.

But then if the father left...i guess he couldn't handle the bitches mother.

Wait ...what?

I married an immigrant and Im immune to all the bullshit.

 

[Rick Ronson]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

At least they look good though.

 

[DAYNE]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

This is one of the realest and most well presented posts I've seen in this thread.

I truly thank you for taking the time to post this as it reflects and mirrors many of my own thoughts on this subject.

Once again, thank you for posting this realness.

my sentiments exactly