Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks dont

[ditto101]

im thinking on my college career.. i graduated this past semester..and when i compare the other ethnic groups..like whites, indians, asian..MOST times before they leave college they're already coupled up with someone of the same calibre and often same ethnic group...

but when you compare to the blacks that leave..a lot of us still come out single with no true prospective s/o...

the way i understand it ..back in the day our parents would go to college meet each other.."both with the same goals and direction...and educationally matched...

that way there's a progress...cz you get these educated black who enter workforce have kids etc etc etc..

its just one of those weird things i noticed......

in your experience though did a lot of your black friends or even you found your partner in college and moved through life together?

 

[Rocky Miavia]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

The neverending chasing of pussy instead of growing the fuck up.

 

[alexw]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

dude post your trannies and get banned already

nobody has serious relationships in college or immediately after

college is one huge fuckfest....and that shit lasts a yr or two after you leave

especially the white girls...those hoes are wild...one beer turns them into sluts


fuck outta here

 

[REDLINE]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

Too many options.

 

[ditto101]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

The neverending chasing of pussy instead of growing the fuck up.

u know?

im looking at all my school mates from other ethnic groups and most are married or in a relationship with someone they met there.. im like . i wonder why it doesnt often work out that way for us

 

[P03t]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

The neverending chasing of pussy instead of growing the fuck up.

PREACH....

 

[alexw]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

lmao, I can tell who went to college by the posts in this thread

or u niggas were the str8 squares

its either one or the other....no middle ground

serious relationships are rare in college...period!!

 

[Mentor B]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

The neverending chasing of pussy instead of growing the fuck up.

Shoo', I went to college when I was 17 man...

What the hell is a guy to do?

 

[tekk]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

better question, why do trail members have da privilege to start threads?

 

[Frank Wilson]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

im thinking on my college career.. i graduated this past semester..and when i compare the other ethnic groups..like whites, indians, asian..MOST times before they leave college they're already coupled up with someone of the same calibre and often same ethnic group...

but when you compare to the blacks that leave..a lot of us still come out single with no true prospective s/o...

the way i understand it ..back in the day our parents would go to college meet each other.."both with the same goals and direction...and educationally matched...

that way there's a progress...cz you get these educated black who enter workforce have kids etc etc etc..

its just one of those weird things i noticed......

in your experience though did a lot of your black friends or even you found your partner in college and moved through life together?

Well it could be all that damn R&B music such as the stuff R. Kelly sings. It could be the wrap music as well. None of these music that our young express the value of having a relationship. That could be the reason why many of us blacks don't have any serious relationships in college.

It can also be that unlike other racial and ethnic groups, many of us blacks still need to get settled after we get out of college.

 

[formallyDaRedOne]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

Niggahs love to chase college pussy, they get all they can get.
The women chase the niggahs thats barely going to school, but got full time jobs to afford the shyt they want.

Niggahs graduate and broads continue to date them fulltimers until they realize the bread aint enough, so all of a sudden the relationship is "going nowhere".

Broads are 30-35 and getting treated like shyt by college guy turned moneymaker because the clock is ticking. Broads get pissed cause dude wont take shyt, women turn into the "men aint shyt" monsters, and here we are.



Nah seriously white women view college as breeding grounds, something that sistas view a lil differently.

 

[ditto101]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

thanks for "answering".

but thats the thing..college isnt supposed to just one fuckfest is it??.......................

but even the white hoes..by junior/senior yr they're coupled up with some white dude they meet there..and they progress in life.....

meanwhile we fucking them up till our graduation..come out with no one...and gotta marry keisha from around the way ...who gets pregnant with our baby and screws us with child support cuz she claims 'shes not educated enough to get a real job"..

as opposed to us going after Keisha that was our classmate in college who chances are is doing well with her college degree and is educated enough to not just get a baby daddy and has a career.and might even inspire us to go higher in the education ladder.....cuz we're both in the same mindstate oand progression..?

no??

lol...................im just saying

dude post your trannies and get banned already

nobody has serious relationships in college or immediately after

college is one huge fuckfest....and that shit lasts a yr or two after you leave

especially the white girls...those hoes are wild...one beer turns them into sluts


fuck outta here

 

[kdogg3270]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

i see the point of this, but IMO it's usually wiser to wait till later in life when you're more mature and ready to handle adult responsibilites. Especially if a person grew up sheltered and never experienced life.

 

[P03t]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

lmao, I can tell who went to college by the posts in this thread

or u niggas were the str8 squares

its either one or the other....no middle ground

serious relationships are rare in college...period!!

so everyone that goes to college and doesn't wildout is a square?

i'm not paying money out my ass to fuck hoes and scallywags...

and most black men that enter college don't finish...or don't finish on time....

i'm there to get an education and better myself for the future....

 

[Blu Diablo]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

Two things:

#1.) Fuck you FTP

#2.) If you think other ethnicities don't just fuck and bounce you are living in a fantasy world and there is a reason when the divorce rate is around 50%.

Mod head this shit off at the pass.

Peace.

 

[M.H.C.]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

alexw, You Aint Gotta Be A Square To Have A Relationship In College. The Shit Definitely Aint Easy But I've Met Couples In College And They Turned Out To Be Cool As People Who Knew What They Wanted And They Went For It. They're Still Together. Much Respect. A Person Is Not A Lame Because They Are Grown And Mature Enough To Honor A Commitment When Everyone Else Around Them Choose To Live Carelessly. But Back To Op

Man, My Fam Goes To Howard University And Even The Females Up There Aint Fucking With A Relationship. Just Straight Fucking. I Wouldn't Want To Date A Female In College Because 95% Of These Girls Are Not Mature Or Stable Enough For That Shit. I'm In College Know And There's Not One Chick Up Here That I Would Even Think About Getting In A Relationship With.

Gone Are The Days, Where We Meet In College And Form A Relationship. Sad To Say But Alex Is Right. Most Of The People In College Think Just Like Him And That Is Why Relationships Don't Form In College. I Agree With Rocky On This One.

 

[kdogg3270]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

so everyone that goes to college and doesn't wildout is a square?

i'm not paying money out my ass to fuck hoes and scallywags...

and most black men that enter college don't finish...or don't finish on time....

i'm there to get an education and better myself for the future....

nothing more needs to be said

 

[M.H.C.]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

BY THE WAY, GOOD TOPIC FAM. FUCK THE NAYSAYERS.

 

[DLateshow]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

I gotta agree because college is a great place to meet a mate. Both will have career goals and the woman has proved to be a doer instead of talker IMHO. I knocked off plenty women in my college days but I should settled down with a college educated sister when I got close to graduating. Two professionals having kids is the best foundation you can have. My roomate married his college sweetheart and they are living the life. Good thread OP.


Dlateshow

 

[rNubb]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

My wife and I met in college, dated in college, and married in college. 19 years married. My brother did the same thing. Got married in Grad school. 18 years married. Sister in Law too. They got married 2 years after graduation. 17 years married.

3 black married couple that all met in college and coupled up in college. We were goal and family oriented. We were each other keepers.

Folks have to value marriage in order to focused on getting married and staying married.

We turned 21 together and 40 together. Our oldest will be 18 at the end of this month.

If my wife got struck by lightning. I would be crushed, but I strongly believe I would marry again.

Marriage has been good to me. My wife sit right next to me at times as I read thru the various threads of BGOL. I can't even relate to 90% of the hardship stories most cats tell about the females in their lives.

Black love is real. The strong black family is real. I live it everyday.

 

[SamSneed]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

 

[D-TOWN REP]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

All I can say is you dont have to be a straight up man whore but if you aint getting a nice supply of pussy while you are in college you are cheating the fuck out of yourself.

 

[bfj04]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

stop comparing social issues across racial lines.
you'll never get your questions answered that way.

 

[LegalMoney]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

Why the hell you trying to get wifed up in college?? I mean yeah a girlfriend here and there, but a serious relationship that leads to marriage?? College is the new high school bruh; you should be focused on starting and maintaining a career, trust the women aren't going anywhere. At 24/25 why do you want to basically end one phase of your wonderful life to undertake a more serious and stressful one?

I'm turning 28, in law school, no kids, and I'm getting types of pussy I couldn't even imagine back in college. I was one of them relationship types in college and looking back if I had focused more on myself I would have been done with school way before 28. Trying to take care of a woman at 24/25 when your making chump change in comparison to grown men will lead to stress and bad credit.

Whites don't have to deal with nearly as many issues we do, so they can afford to marry young when they can fall back on inherited wealth, families can provide them significant down payments for their starter homes, etc. We need to be able to stand on our own completely before we can provide for a Queen. Until then, deal with these loose women and be safe. Peace.

 

[M.H.C.]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

Why the hell you trying to get wifed up in college?? I mean yeah a girlfriend here and there, but a serious relationship that leads to marriage?? College is the new high school bruh; you should be focused on starting and maintaining a career, trust the women aren't going anywhere. At 24/25 why do you want to basically end one phase of your wonderful life to undertake a more serious and stressful one?

I'm turning 28, in law school, no kids, and I'm getting types of pussy I couldn't even imagine back in college. I was one of them relationship types in college and looking back if I had focused more on myself I would have been done with school way before 28. Trying to take care of a woman at 24/25 when your making chump change in comparison to grown men will lead to stress and bad credit.

Whites don't have to deal with nearly as many issues we do, so they can afford to marry young when they can fall back on inherited wealth, families can provide them significant down payments for their starter homes, etc. We need to be able to stand on our own completely before we can provide for a Queen. Until then, deal with these loose women and be safe. Peace.

Now although I am not against relationships in college, this man has a very strong point. Good shit my dude

 

[Jordan Diddy Buk]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

why are people always so concerned about what other people do?

 

[LegalMoney]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

That's because our race is at the bottom of the totem pole in everything other than sports, spending money on bullshit, and acting a damned fool.

Where's the pride in being a Black man? People believe we have big dicks, can run fast, and jump high. Wow! Whatever great things we accomplished in the past, "we" seem hell-bent on not repeating.

The only positive Black thing associated with Barack Obama is his swagger. No President ever had swagger like Barack. What a great achievement. People used to say Clinton was the first Black president because he smoked weed, and fucked women while he was supposed to be working...



Let me go to bed before I puke all over my keyboard.

I understand your frustration, but what does all that you just wrote have to do with OPs topic?

 

[D-TOWN REP]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

That's because our race is at the bottom of the totem pole in everything other than sports, spending money on bullshit, and acting a damned fool.

Where's the pride in being a Black man? People believe we have big dicks, can run fast, and jump high. Wow! Whatever great things we accomplished in the past, "we" seem hell-bent on not repeating.

The only positive Black thing associated with Barack Obama is his swagger. No President ever had swagger like Barack. What a great achievement. People used to say Clinton was the first Black president because he smoked weed, and fucked women while he was supposed to be working...



Let me go to bed before I puke all over my keyboard.

*adds to ignore*

 

[M.H.C.]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

why are people always so concerned about what other people do?

I think that it's more of a concern with society. I mean pertaining to the OP's subject it seems right to be concerned about societal beliefs and habits regarding relationships IF a person is looking to develop one.

Think about it this way:


Think of society as an 18 pack of eggs and let's pretend that society thought that being a box of broken eggs was cool. The problem is that a box of broken eggs is useless if you want to cook them right? Well if a person wanted to cook some eggs but every box in the store had broken ones, he/she wouldn't be able to eat any eggs now would they?

So that person would be concerned about why everyone wanted to be a box of broken eggs. Not the best example but hopefully it works

 

[LegalMoney]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

Now although I am not against relationships in college, this man has a very strong point. Good shit my dude

Thanks bruh, I appreciate the props. Don't get me wrong I'm not completely against relationships in college, I just think they should not be our principal focus; especially for us brothas.

 

[VWchrisATL]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

why are people always so concerned about what other people do?

C/S! 100%

 

[jucurious]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

hmm i see what ur saying but i know a group of black ppl that were together for majority of their college career and are still together STRONG but they come from strong big families that value marriage soooo hmmm, that would be an interesting lil study

 

[Jam_Jam]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

Its a cultural thing. Prior to the 70's, the only reason white women went to college was to get a husband. Women were not working outside the home like we do now. College was the place to go to find a man what would be a good provider. Now women go to college to get an education so they can get a job. White women are still telling their daughters to get that husband while you're in college because they have been doing that for generations.

 

[Freedom Of Chat]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

y dont u try looking for a job/starting a career

 

[LegalMoney]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

BTW, what the hell is Serios? A new cereal??