Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop them

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Its been statistically proven that black men and women raised with a single mother are more inclined to fall to the waist side in society

No father guidance leads black men:
-go to jail
-drop out of highschool
-early death

No father guidance leads black women:
-single mothers
-section 8
-whores and prostitutes
-highest cases of aids/hiv
-bottom of the barrel when it comes to marriage

Now wtf does those factors and much more have to do with a black man being conscious of his community in regards to whether or not he gets pussy?

...and this is why, as the OP said, that "Black Women are destroying our community?" Is this the kind of warped consciousness that you are dealing? That they want to have a thug to hit it, become a single mother, and then look to you to take care of the kid?

Really?

Well, I see two sides to that coin. First of all, it is stupid and prejudicial to say that the black woman is the source of this problem. The black man who has sex with that woman and ignore his responsibilities are also at equal fault. And don't give that crap about how the woman picked the thug out, like the thug is some inanimate object that can be picked off the shelf. That man had a choice and say in it. So it is a simp's role that only pulls out the faults of the black woman.

And it's also your fault that you don't, as a member of the community, to not take that kid and mentor him or her. It's my fault, too.

And it's their parent's fault for not teaching them how to live and take care of their responsibilities. And their community's fault.

So- now that we've taken care of all of the faults, let me get to a deeper issue:

This thread really isn't a thread about responsibility. This thread is about attraction... if you look at the OP. So let's dispel from the "Higher Black Consciousness" shit.
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

I HAD A FEMALE TELL ME THAT I AM "SOFTER" THAN THE DUDES THAT SHE NORMALLY TALKS TO BUT SHE STILL GIVES ME THE TIME OF DAY.
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Its been statistically proven that black men and women raised with a single mother are more inclined to fall to the waist side in society

No father guidance leads black men:
-go to jail
-drop out of highschool
-early death

No father guidance leads black women:
-single mothers
-section 8
-whores and prostitutes
-highest cases of aids/hiv
-bottom of the barrel when it comes to marriage

Now wtf does those factors and much more have to do with a black man being conscious of his community in regards to whether or not he gets pussy?

Oh..I get it now.."success" with a black women TO YOU means getting pussy.:yes:

When I speak of success with a black women or any women for that matter it indicates a combination of the following:
-sharing an attraction
-being able to communicate effectively to each other
-good sex
-being able to work towards a common goal
-starting and raising a family
-etc etc etc

Men who are succesful with [black] women are on another level completely and do not agree with you or the OP...trust.
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

I bet that whole fuckin room smelled like...


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Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

I absolutely understand you family.
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

A lil nigga from the hood born in a single mother house hold comes and robs yo ass, you be complaining then.

First of all, I know of no niggas.

Second, I'm no simp. In my neighborhood it is generally understood that I'm not the kind of person you should rob.
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Oh..I get it now.."success" with a black women TO YOU means getting pussy.:yes:

When I speak of success with a black women or any women for that matter it indicates a combination of the following:
-sharing an attraction
-being able to communicate effectively to each other
-good sex
-being able to work towards a common goal
-starting and raising a family
-etc etc etc

Men who are succesful with [black] women are on another level completely and do not agree with you or the OP...trust.

:lol: you putting words in my mouth, I'm only reiterating what you fucks are accusing the Op of.

your going to try to pull this bs on defining success with black women, yet you don't address the issues, GTFOH
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

...and this is why, as the OP said, that "Black Women are destroying our community?" Is this the kind of warped consciousness that you are dealing? That they want to have a thug to hit it, become a single mother, and then look to you to take care of the kid?

Really?


Well, I see two sides to that coin. First of all, it is stupid and prejudicial to say that the black woman is the source of this problem. The black man who has sex with that woman and ignore his responsibilities are also at equal fault. And don't give that crap about how the woman picked the thug out, like the thug is some inanimate object that can be picked off the shelf. That man had a choice and say in it. So it is a simp's role that only pulls out the faults of the black woman.

And it's also your fault that you don't, as a member of the community, to not take that kid and mentor him or her. It's my fault, too.

And it's their parent's fault for not teaching them how to live and take care of their responsibilities. And their community's fault.

So- now that we've taken care of all of the faults, let me get to a deeper issue:

This thread really isn't a thread about responsibility. This thread is about attraction... if you look at the OP. So let's dispel from the "Higher Black Consciousness" shit.

yeah motherfucker yeah
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Here's a statistic for you....

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4865449

(And yes there was even a BGOL thread on this topic.)
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=286641

So...

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.

But who are these children born to??? Who are the fathers of these children???


More than likely these dead beats are the bad boys who you see these females chasing after.

I've seen more than my fair share of these sob stories and they all tend to follow the same track.

Yeah there are exceptions to the rules.

It is said. Men should man up and take care of their children.

Bullshit.

MEN already take care of their children. THAT"S WHAT MAKES THEM MEN.

MEN take care of their responsibilities.

MEN get real jobs.

MEN are fathers to their children.

Oh yeah and most importantly...

real MEN are GOOD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they get real jobs and not sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

Of course a lot of black women in our communities don't date men like that. No instead that date badboys and THUGS.

Nobody ever wants to talk about this. Instead they want to blame black men for shit we didn't do!!!!

Let's be honest about this. BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!

A large portion of our women want and mate with thugs.... PERIOD!

Yes they're MALES.

But remember this...

All men are males, BUT ALL MALES AREN'T MEN!


THUGS are the OPPOSITE of men....

THUGS DON'T take care of their responsibilities. Thugs and badboys don't have a reputation for looking out for others. No they too busy looking out for self.

THUGS DON'T get real jobs. They rather shoot steal sell drugs, or try to get that ever elusive rap career rapping about.... what else?? Shooting stealing, and selling drugs!!!

THUGS usually aren't fathers to their children. They're too busy fucking the next female, and talking about how they don't love the bitches for that. Plus being a good father means having affection and these guys are to cool or too "Hard" for that. They got to keep it "Real" and "Street" you know.
There are exceptions to the rule... but they are just that... exceptions.

THUGS are BAD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they DON'T get real jobs! Instead, they sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

But this is who these females are having these out of wedlock kids with!!!!
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Here's a statistic for you....

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4865449

(And yes there was even a BGOL thread on this topic.)
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=286641

So...

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.

But who are these children born to??? Who are the fathers of these children???

More than likely these dead beats are the bad boys who you see these females chasing after.

I've seen more than my fair share of these sob stories and they all tend to follow the same track.

Yeah there are exceptions to the rules.

It is said. Men should man up and take care of their children.

Bullshit.

MEN already take care of their children. THAT"S WHAT MAKES THEM MEN.

MEN take care of their responsibilities.

MEN get real jobs.

MEN are fathers to their children.

Oh yeah and most importantly...

real MEN are GOOD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they get real jobs and not sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

Of course a lot of black women in our communities don't date men like that. No instead that date badboys and THUGS.

Nobody ever wants to talk about this. Instead they want to blame black men for shit we didn't do!!!!

Let's be honest about this. BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!

A large portion of our women want and mate with thugs.... PERIOD!

Yes they're MALES.

But remember this...

All men are males, BUT ALL MALES AREN'T MEN!


THUGS are the OPPOSITE of men....

THUGS DON'T take care of their responsibilities. Thugs and badboys don't have a reputation for looking out for others. No they too busy looking out for self.

THUGS DON'T get real jobs. They rather shoot steal sell drugs, or try to get that ever elusive rap career rapping about.... what else?? Shooting stealing, and selling drugs!!!

THUGS usually aren't fathers to their children. They're too busy fucking the next female, and talking about how they don't love the bitches for that. Plus being a good father means having affection and these guys are to cool or too "Hard" for that. They got to keep it "Real" and "Street" you know.
There are exceptions to the rule... but they are just that... exceptions.

THUGS are BAD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they DON'T get real jobs! Instead, they sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

But this is who these females are having these out of wedlock kids with!!!!
:eek::eek:Co-signing this ether!:eek::eek:

And adding the homothug factor to these so-called thug simps.
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Here's a statistic for you....

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4865449

(And yes there was even a BGOL thread on this topic.)
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=286641

So...

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.

But who are these children born to??? Who are the fathers of these children???

More than likely these dead beats are the bad boys who you see these females chasing after.

I've seen more than my fair share of these sob stories and they all tend to follow the same track.

Yeah there are exceptions to the rules.

It is said. Men should man up and take care of their children.

Bullshit.

MEN already take care of their children. THAT"S WHAT MAKES THEM MEN.

MEN take care of their responsibilities.

MEN get real jobs.

MEN are fathers to their children.

Oh yeah and most importantly...

real MEN are GOOD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they get real jobs and not sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

Of course a lot of black women in our communities don't date men like that. No instead that date badboys and THUGS.

Nobody ever wants to talk about this. Instead they want to blame black men for shit we didn't do!!!!

Let's be honest about this. BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!

A large portion of our women want and mate with thugs.... PERIOD!

Yes they're MALES.

But remember this...

All men are males, BUT ALL MALES AREN'T MEN!


THUGS are the OPPOSITE of men....

THUGS DON'T take care of their responsibilities. Thugs and badboys don't have a reputation for looking out for others. No they too busy looking out for self.

THUGS DON'T get real jobs. They rather shoot steal sell drugs, or try to get that ever elusive rap career rapping about.... what else?? Shooting stealing, and selling drugs!!!

THUGS usually aren't fathers to their children. They're too busy fucking the next female, and talking about how they don't love the bitches for that. Plus being a good father means having affection and these guys are to cool or too "Hard" for that. They got to keep it "Real" and "Street" you know.
There are exceptions to the rule... but they are just that... exceptions.

THUGS are BAD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they DON'T get real jobs! Instead, they sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

But this is who these females are having these out of wedlock kids with!!!!

NOW WATCH HOW THESE COCKSUCKERS TWIST AND TURN THE FACTS AS A DEFLECTION TO YOU FOR NOT BEING SUCCESSFUL WITH BLACK WOMEN
WATCH
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Not sure who posted it but the poster who said that it is the women who choose the next generation of fathers by their selections is 100% correct.

Those choices make up the vast majority of the absent father who does no child raising..

The poster who excused the choices made because thugs and bad boys offer security......you must be out your damn mind. What security does a thug or bad boy really offer? Most are users who bring nothing to the table..Most are undereducated and don't have legitimate jobs so there is no financial security..bad boys usually end up pathetic men. O h yeah your example was the dumb ass mike tyson in the club analogy..senseless...

blunts example of the murder and assault rate in the black community actually confirms the original post...most of that is perpetrated by the thugs and bad boys..

lastly not being a bad boy or thug does not mean the man is a simp.being responsible does not equate with weakness..being a damn fool that disrespects women and hold no value for their family does not mean swagger is present but usually means there is insecurity in self., those who hold those definitions are usually young and don't understand that manhood is not worn on the sleeve...

Now the problem is going on three generations long and a lot of that is because boys were being raised by women who have no idea how to raise a man but that all goes backthe choices in mates made by women in the first place.
 
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Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Here's a statistic for you....

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4865449

(And yes there was even a BGOL thread on this topic.)
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=286641

So...

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.

But who are these children born to??? Who are the fathers of these children???


More than likely these dead beats are the bad boys who you see these females chasing after.

I've seen more than my fair share of these sob stories and they all tend to follow the same track.

Yeah there are exceptions to the rules.

It is said. Men should man up and take care of their children.

Bullshit.

MEN already take care of their children. THAT"S WHAT MAKES THEM MEN.

MEN take care of their responsibilities.

MEN get real jobs.

MEN are fathers to their children.

Oh yeah and most importantly...

real MEN are GOOD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they get real jobs and not sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

Of course a lot of black women in our communities don't date men like that. No instead that date badboys and THUGS.

Nobody ever wants to talk about this. Instead they want to blame black men for shit we didn't do!!!!

Let's be honest about this. BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!

A large portion of our women want and mate with thugs.... PERIOD!

Yes they're MALES.

But remember this...

All men are males, BUT ALL MALES AREN'T MEN!


THUGS are the OPPOSITE of men....

THUGS DON'T take care of their responsibilities. Thugs and badboys don't have a reputation for looking out for others. No they too busy looking out for self.

THUGS DON'T get real jobs. They rather shoot steal sell drugs, or try to get that ever elusive rap career rapping about.... what else?? Shooting stealing, and selling drugs!!!

THUGS usually aren't fathers to their children. They're too busy fucking the next female, and talking about how they don't love the bitches for that. Plus being a good father means having affection and these guys are to cool or too "Hard" for that. They got to keep it "Real" and "Street" you know.
There are exceptions to the rule... but they are just that... exceptions.

THUGS are BAD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they DON'T get real jobs! Instead, they sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

But this is who these females are having these out of wedlock kids with!!!!

:eek:I'm with you brotha..but they're still not listening:smh:
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Here's a statistic for you....

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4865449

(And yes there was even a BGOL thread on this topic.)
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=286641

So...

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.

But who are these children born to??? Who are the fathers of these children???


More than likely these dead beats are the bad boys who you see these females chasing after.

I've seen more than my fair share of these sob stories and they all tend to follow the same track.

Yeah there are exceptions to the rules.

It is said. Men should man up and take care of their children.

Bullshit.

MEN already take care of their children. THAT"S WHAT MAKES THEM MEN.

MEN take care of their responsibilities.

MEN get real jobs.

MEN are fathers to their children.

Oh yeah and most importantly...

real MEN are GOOD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they get real jobs and not sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

Of course a lot of black women in our communities don't date men like that. No instead that date badboys and THUGS.

Nobody ever wants to talk about this. Instead they want to blame black men for shit we didn't do!!!!

Let's be honest about this. BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!

A large portion of our women want and mate with thugs.... PERIOD!

Yes they're MALES.

But remember this...

All men are males, BUT ALL MALES AREN'T MEN!


THUGS are the OPPOSITE of men....

THUGS DON'T take care of their responsibilities. Thugs and badboys don't have a reputation for looking out for others. No they too busy looking out for self.

THUGS DON'T get real jobs. They rather shoot steal sell drugs, or try to get that ever elusive rap career rapping about.... what else?? Shooting stealing, and selling drugs!!!

THUGS usually aren't fathers to their children. They're too busy fucking the next female, and talking about how they don't love the bitches for that. Plus being a good father means having affection and these guys are to cool or too "Hard" for that. They got to keep it "Real" and "Street" you know.
There are exceptions to the rule... but they are just that... exceptions.

THUGS are BAD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they DON'T get real jobs! Instead, they sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

But this is who these females are having these out of wedlock kids with!!!!

can't argue with that shit. :smh:
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Not sure who posted it but the poster who said that it is the women who choose the next generation of fathers by their selections is 100% correct.

Those choices make up the vast majority of the absent father who does no child raising..

The poster who excused the choices made because thugs and bad boys offer security......you must be out your damn mind. What security does a thug or bad boy really offer? Most are users who bring nothing to the table..Most are undereducated and don't have legitimate jobs so there is no financial security..bad boys usually end up pathetic men. O h yeah your example was the dumb ass mike tyson in the club analogy..senseless...

blunts example of the murder and assault rate in the black community actually confirms the original post...most of that is perpetrated by the thugs and bad boys..

lastly not being a bad boy or thug does not mean the man is a simp.being responsible does not equate with weakness..being a damn fool that disrespects women and hold no value for their family does not mean swagger is lacking., those who hold those definitions are usually young and don't understand that manhood is not worn on the sleeve...

Now the problem is going on three generations long and a lot of that is because boys were being raised by women who have no idea how to raise a man but that all goes backthe choices in mates made by women in the first place.

PREACH MOTHERFUCKA PREACH
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

That last post was on point.
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Here's a statistic for you....

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4865449

(And yes there was even a BGOL thread on this topic.)
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=286641

So...

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.

But who are these children born to??? Who are the fathers of these children???


More than likely these dead beats are the bad boys who you see these females chasing after.

I've seen more than my fair share of these sob stories and they all tend to follow the same track.

Yeah there are exceptions to the rules.

It is said. Men should man up and take care of their children.

Bullshit.

MEN already take care of their children. THAT"S WHAT MAKES THEM MEN.

MEN take care of their responsibilities.

MEN get real jobs.

MEN are fathers to their children.

Oh yeah and most importantly...

real MEN are GOOD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they get real jobs and not sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

Of course a lot of black women in our communities don't date men like that. No instead that date badboys and THUGS.

Nobody ever wants to talk about this. Instead they want to blame black men for shit we didn't do!!!!

Let's be honest about this. BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!

A large portion of our women want and mate with thugs.... PERIOD!

Yes they're MALES.

But remember this...

All men are males, BUT ALL MALES AREN'T MEN!


THUGS are the OPPOSITE of men....

THUGS DON'T take care of their responsibilities. Thugs and badboys don't have a reputation for looking out for others. No they too busy looking out for self.

THUGS DON'T get real jobs. They rather shoot steal sell drugs, or try to get that ever elusive rap career rapping about.... what else?? Shooting stealing, and selling drugs!!!

THUGS usually aren't fathers to their children. They're too busy fucking the next female, and talking about how they don't love the bitches for that. Plus being a good father means having affection and these guys are to cool or too "Hard" for that. They got to keep it "Real" and "Street" you know.
There are exceptions to the rule... but they are just that... exceptions.

THUGS are BAD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they DON'T get real jobs! Instead, they sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

But this is who these females are having these out of wedlock kids with!!!!


:eek:GOOD POINTS
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Not sure who posted it but the poster who said that it is the women who choose the next generation of fathers by their selections is 100% correct.

Those choices make up the vast majority of the absent father who does no child raising..

The poster who excused the choices made because thugs and bad boys offer security......you must be out your damn mind. What security does a thug or bad boy really offer? Most are users who bring nothing to the table..Most are undereducated and don't have legitimate jobs so there is no financial security..bad boys usually end up pathetic men. O h yeah your example was the dumb ass mike tyson in the club analogy..senseless...

blunts example of the murder and assault rate in the black community actually confirms the original post...most of that is perpetrated by the thugs and bad boys..

lastly not being a bad boy or thug does not mean the man is a simp.being responsible does not equate with weakness..being a damn fool that disrespects women and hold no value for their family does not mean swagger is lacking., those who hold those definitions are usually young and don't understand that manhood is not worn on the sleeve...

Now the problem is going on three generations long and a lot of that is because boys were being raised by women who have no idea how to raise a man but that all goes backthe choices in mates made by women in the first place.

Truth right here!:yes:
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

To the OP

I agree that some Black women have made bad judgement calls in regards to relationships and that some could do better in picking a “man”/husband/role model for their children

However ... those men being thugs and dogs isn’t our fault so some responsiblty has to lie with some Black men who have made choices to behave in that manner ... not all of these thugs/dogs came from single parent homes ... some had fathers who "lived that life" as well so they followed in those foot steps

Another problem in the Black community (on top of what you say is women with multiple "baby daddies") is some Black men who are overly sexually active ... having unprotected sex with numerous women ... I mean if a man has 10 kids by 9 women is it really only the womens fault??? Of course the women play a part in it due to their bad judgement ... but putting all the blame of ones actions on somebody else will never resolve any problems

In order for us to get a real solution we all need to acknowledge our faults and collectively move forward together

And I need to ask what is your suggestion on “stopping us”?:rolleyes:
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

To the OP

I agree that some Black women have made bad judgement calls in regards to relationships and that some could do better in picking a “man”/husband/role model for their children

However ... those men being thugs and dogs isn’t our fault so some responsiblty has to lie with some Black men who have made choices to behave in that manner ... not all of these thugs/dogs came from single parent homes ... some had fathers who "lived that life" as well so they followed in those foot steps

Another problem in the Black community (on top of what you say is women with multiple "baby daddies") is some Black men who are overly sexually active ... having unprotected sex with numerous women ... I mean if a man has 10 kids by 9 women is it really only the womens fault??? Of course the women play a part in it due to their bad judgement ... but putting all the blame of ones actions on somebody else will never resolve any problems

In order for us to get a real solution we all need to acknowledge our faults and collectively move forward together

And I need to ask what is your suggestion on “stopping us”?:rolleyes:
SINGLE MOTHER ALERT, A FUCKING STATISTIC, MOVING ON, DAMAGE GOODS
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Had a Black female co-worker (with a fat-ass) recently tell me she didn't want NO 'soft ass nigga', but was bitching complaining about her ex-thuggish boyfriend not doing her right and she was thru with him. He did some time (twice) and she took him back a couple of times already (and we discuss this at the time 3-4 years ago). The thing I seen in this senario is that even thou she left him (for now at least) this guy got what he wanted out of her (money, pussy, attention) and 'the nice guy' never had a chance. And she never gave me a chance neither. :D
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

more deflections, you have no answers but only to deflect back to the OP

Because the entire thread concerns the op's own perceptions based upon his personal experiences.

Why not at least say, " Black girls " if their is a distinction between black men and black males based upon the maturity of their behavior?

All my female cousins are black women. Only one is unmarried, no children.

My mother is a black woman, my 96 year old grandmother is a black woman.

My younger cousin who started her own film/video company before she was 21, is a black woman.

I know a lot of black women I have great respect for.


But then I read this:

Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop them.


they go out and chase THUGS and DOGS and bring them into the home.

choosing them over good black men, or the nice guys, that is the epicenter of a great many problem in the black community.

Where are all the good men at??
Translation: Where are all the simps at? Where are all those men we used to bypass and turn our noses up at because we thought they were weak and we wanted thugs instead??? They couldn't have possibly gone on with their lives??? Right??"

Well guess what? We have gone on. And we don't want women like you?

Vengeful glee? Sounds like the same old BGOL rant.

I don't know black women doing these things? So why does it say black women.

An DAYNE, if this is a discussion why are you now typing in all caps and size 5?

Do you talk to people like that in real life?
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

see how the bitch can't defend the truth, only she could come up with is a gif file:smh:

So black women are destroying the black community all by ourselves...unbelievable. And now "We" need to find a way to stop them. How in the hell are "we" gonna stop grown people from doing what they want to do? Some women have their preferences and that just happens to be thugs. Just like some men prefer fat bitches, or white bitches or asian bitches or grimey bitches. That is their preference. And who do you think these thugs are? Are they white men, asian men....no, they are black men. Women are only as social as their options. When we cut down on the thugs we'll cut down on the options. So what we need to do is teach our sons not to be thugs. Teach our sons that the road to success doesn't have to include a detour to a jail cell. Teach our sons to get an education. Teach our sons to be leaders...so they don't blame black women for all that ails the black community.
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

...and the pendulum swings back to the other extreme. :smh:
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

How can people, in this case black women, destroy the so called "black community" when they don't control and dominate it? You should first understand under what context the "black community" exists in. Once you have done that then you can pose your question or statements. oNE!!!
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

SINGLE MOTHER ALERT, A FUCKING STATISTIC, MOVING ON, DAMAGE GOODS

:)

Well since we are bringing up "damaged goods" I guess you're throwing the woman who raised you to be a self hating/half racist/ignorant/big mouthed/heartless/cold/stupid jackass into the mix:yes:Poor woman:smh:

:)

An DAYNE, if this is a discussion why are you now typing in all caps and size 5?

Do you talk to people like that in real life?

Shane stop being silly ... you know he doesn't talk to anybody in real life:)
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Because the entire thread concerns the op's own perceptions based upon his personal experiences.

Why not at least say, " Black girls " if their is a distinction between black men and black males based upon the maturity of their behavior?

All my female cousins are black women. Only one is unmarried, no children.

My mother is a black woman, my 96 year old grandmother is a black woman.

My younger cousin who started her own film/video company before she was 21, is a black woman.

I know a lot of black women I have great respect for.


But then I read this:





Vengeful glee? Sounds like the same old BGOL rant.

I don't know black women doing these things? So why does it say black women.

An DAYNE, if this is a discussion why are you now typing in all caps and size 5?

Do you talk to people like that in real life?

when people don't hear me, yeah
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

:)

Well since we are bringing up "damaged goods" I guess you're throwing the woman who raised you to be a self hating/half racist/ignorant/big mouthed/heartless/cold/stupid jackass into the mix:yes:Poor woman:smh:

:)



Shane stop being silly ... you know he doesn't talk to anybody in real life:)

STOP SHOWING PICTURES OF YOUR WASH UP TIDDIES AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR GAWD DAMN CHILDREN
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Here's a statistic for you....

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4865449

(And yes there was even a BGOL thread on this topic.)
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=286641

So...

70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock.

But who are these children born to??? Who are the fathers of these children???


More than likely these dead beats are the bad boys who you see these females chasing after.

I've seen more than my fair share of these sob stories and they all tend to follow the same track.

Yeah there are exceptions to the rules.

It is said. Men should man up and take care of their children.

Bullshit.

MEN already take care of their children. THAT"S WHAT MAKES THEM MEN.

MEN take care of their responsibilities.

MEN get real jobs.

MEN are fathers to their children.

Oh yeah and most importantly...

real MEN are GOOD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they get real jobs and not sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

Of course a lot of black women in our communities don't date men like that. No instead that date badboys and THUGS.

Nobody ever wants to talk about this. Instead they want to blame black men for shit we didn't do!!!!

Let's be honest about this. BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!

A large portion of our women want and mate with thugs.... PERIOD!

Yes they're MALES.

But remember this...

All men are males, BUT ALL MALES AREN'T MEN!


THUGS are the OPPOSITE of men....

THUGS DON'T take care of their responsibilities. Thugs and badboys don't have a reputation for looking out for others. No they too busy looking out for self.

THUGS DON'T get real jobs. They rather shoot steal sell drugs, or try to get that ever elusive rap career rapping about.... what else?? Shooting stealing, and selling drugs!!!

THUGS usually aren't fathers to their children. They're too busy fucking the next female, and talking about how they don't love the bitches for that. Plus being a good father means having affection and these guys are to cool or too "Hard" for that. They got to keep it "Real" and "Street" you know.
There are exceptions to the rule... but they are just that... exceptions.

THUGS are BAD ROLE MODELS to their children.
In other words they DON'T get real jobs! Instead, they sell drugs, commit crimes, go to jail, and talk and dress like complete imbeciles!!!

But this is who these females are having these out of wedlock kids with!!!!

Bravo!
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

So black women are destroying the black community all by ourselves...unbelievable. And now "We" need to find a way to stop them. How in the hell are "we" gonna stop grown people from doing what they want to do? Some women have their preferences and that just happens to be thugs. Just like some men prefer fat bitches, or white bitches or asian bitches or grimey bitches. That is their preference. And who do you think these thugs are? Are they white men, asian men....no, they are black men. Women are only as social as their options. When we cut down on the thugs we'll cut down on the options. So what we need to do is teach our sons not to be thugs. Teach our sons that the road to success doesn't have to include a detour to a jail cell. Teach our sons to get an education. Teach our sons to be leaders...so they don't blame black women for all that ails the black community.

address the op before you address me...
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

So black women are destroying the black community all by ourselves...unbelievable. And now "We" need to find a way to stop them. How in the hell are "we" gonna stop grown people from doing what they want to do? Some women have their preferences and that just happens to be thugs. Just like some men prefer fat bitches, or white bitches or asian bitches or grimey bitches. That is their preference. And who do you think these thugs are? Are they white men, asian men....no, they are black men. Women are only as social as their options. When we cut down on the thugs we'll cut down on the options. So what we need to do is teach our sons not to be thugs. Teach our sons that the road to success doesn't have to include a detour to a jail cell. Teach our sons to get an education. Teach our sons to be leaders...so they don't blame black women for all that ails the black community.

The truth is that both black males and black females don't control (politically, economically, etc) the so called "black community". This is the same as saying that Africans are destroying the African continent. This is not possible because black people don't control and dominate politically and economically the African continent. Please people do some reading and research in order to find out and analyze the context in which "black communities" exists. oNE!!!
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

And I need to ask what is your suggestion on “stopping us”?:rolleyes:

That's what I'm waiting to hear...but the thread title does say "we need to find a way..." implying that this is a call for solutions more so than offering any.
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

STOP SHOWING PICTURES OF YOUR WASH UP TIDDIES AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR GAWD DAMN CHILDREN

Is that what you used to have to tell mommy when you were little?:(

Please don't take your motherly issues out on me ... before I have to "son" you:yes:;):rolleyes::)

The truth is that both black males and black females don't control (politically, economically, etc) the so called "black community". This is the same as saying that Africans are destroying the African continent. This is not possible because black people don't control and dominate politically and economically the African continent. Please people do some reading and research in order to find out and analyze the context in which "black communities" exists. oNE!!!

Good point:yes:
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Is that what you used to have to tell mommy when you were little?:(

Please don't take your motherly issues out on me ... before I have to "son" you:yes:;):rolleyes::)



Good point:yes:

take care of your kids bitch

hell i want to speak to your childs father, you know your husband:rolleyes:
 
Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

However ... those men being thugs and dogs isn’t our fault so some responsiblty has to lie with some Black men who have made choices to behave in that manner ... not all of these thugs/dogs came from single parent homes ... some had fathers who "lived that life" as well so they followed in those foot steps

Another problem in the Black community (on top of what you say is women with multiple "baby daddies") is some Black men who are overly sexually active ... having unprotected sex with numerous women ... I mean if a man has 10 kids by 9 women is it really only the womens fault??? Of course the women play a part in it due to their bad judgement ... but putting all the blame of ones actions on somebody else will never resolve any problems

First paragraph is correct but actually agrees with the OP thread...So the question is why are the thugs not on the outside looking in instead of being chosen by the women who see them as defective men? Who is enabling this behavior as not only accepted but desired? We have alot of wannabe bad boys who have seen that is the behavior that attracts the women instead of being considerate responsible you know the so called simps..


The second paragraph also does not offer any sound reasoning on the female perspective..If thses dudes are overly sexually active and making babies they don't raise and provide for why are they being invited to continue that behavior? More enabling? The answer is quite simple,either the women are to quick with the panty drawers and don't know anything about who they invite to their beds or they just don't give a damn.

either way we are back to the choices women make in chosing the next generation of fathers..

If you chose to lay down with dogs be prepared to get up with fleas..If you chose to have sex and unprotected sex with m3en who have none of the real positive traits you want as a father to your child then you had better make sure you are not procreating.

As far as some men becoming this way because that was their exposure in childhood again why are you choosing to sleep with them?

The issue is why are the so called good men (simps) on the outside while the defects are the ones with the attention being enabled to continue their behavior with reward?
 
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