Luke Says Goodbye To Brooklyn
Dude is trying to do the right thing, but, his Baby's mother is using the kid as a weapon! Am I the only one who is sickened by this?
Real Talk, How Many Fathers Been Through This Scene
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Luke Says Goodbye To Brooklyn
Dude is trying to do the right thing, but, his Baby's mother is using the kid as a weapon! Am I the only one who is sickened by this?
one too many times and it dont get easier.
come on no way it was that easy unless your bm is a piece of shit. a daughter? i would be more apt to believe this if it was a son.
muthafucka shut UP. white bitches do it too.
but in this scene, how is this broad using the baby as a weapon?
Luke asked when he they was gonna visit again and she said "when it's cooler".... They live in Miami and plus it had to be the summertime because had shorts and no sleeves on. She was bein a bitch. Then when Luke said they would come see him she gave a stupid look with no response. Fuck these hoes.
No. Don't fuck hoes.
My daughter's mom acted like that before I put my highly paid lawyers on her. I got custody when my daughter was 1. She's 7 now. Happened when I went back home to the Midwest for a year to live. Now I live on the West Coast and my daughter's mom lives on the East Coast. There is a God!
kids need both parents. wtf is you doin?My daughter's mom acted like that before I put my highly paid lawyers on her. I got custody when my daughter was 1. She's 7 now. Happened when I went back home to the Midwest for a year to live. Now I live on the West Coast and my daughter's mom lives on the East Coast. There is a God!
It was that easy... me and my daughters mom knew each other since 12 I think... had daughter at 21... so anyway when we broke up i moved out and well my daughter was with me at least 5 nights a week... there was never a custody battle or anything like that... but for real man there was no fight... she knew from time my daughter was born that I had one purpose in life from that point... so fast forward... school... daughter went to school in my area so again means she with me at least 5 nights a week right... fast forward a bit more... she gets married to this next cat who lives across country and she moves... daughter still with me... fast forward a bit more and daughter still with me... thats 11 years homie...
as for her mom... hard to explain... piece of shit in a way.... was she some whore... naw... was she in the clubs every night... nope again... just did not have that mothering instinct... for instance when daughter was a baby... i be the one up feeding her and changing her at night because she would kick shit that she was to tired... we both in university and all... but yet she is to tired and has to study so she cant take our daughter... feeling me... dont think some ghetto chick... think some chick without that nurturing nature... daughter sees her every weekend still as she has moved back to my area after a divorce... real fucked up to explain her... she is great with our daughter when she does have her... but the problem was she could never accept she was a mom and let that be the focus... i did... hence why she is with me...
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if one party is fucked up then they dont need both parents!
I agree. It wasn't me that wanted to leave the relationship. It was my daughter's mom. I wanted to marry her years before our kid was born and after but she like many women turned into a straight up bitch after she had the kid. She thought she could call all the shots and didn't even want my daughter to have my last name. That would never happen. Even with all that, I tried to make it work with her. She filed the shit with the court. The process took years even after I got custody. Even during the process I still tried to get her to stay so we could raise the child together. Thing is she thought she had a slam dunk ghetto dream...a well paid baby daddy that had to bend to her every desire. No sir, not me. Once I realized that she wasn't going to stay no matter what and that my kid would only live with one of us I decided that one would be me. My $$ is right so I can play the court game all day. Rule #1 of going to court: who ever has the most $ to battle for years has the best chance of winning. I won. She can go play those games with someone who doesn't give a fuck about their kid. And after all these years, the bitch calls me up last week wanting us to get back together. And me take care of the kid she had after she left? Hell no. Bitches. Fam, women leave men more than men leave women. Fact. It wasn't my call. I had to play the cards I was given.
I truly believe that if the mom does not have her intention correct, one day the son will only grow to resent her for the choice she has made for him. If she feels, that he is more less a meal ticket, it will also come to the light as well. The good things is Luke, and those who may have the financial backing will eventually work out.
For example, I have been with out my daughter for almost 2 years now. In my case, my ex- did a going to visit family, and filed while she was there, I never saw it coming. Now.. at first I was pissed, but I send for my daughter would qualify as if I had 3 children, granted I'm not balling, however I feel that this is an opportunity for her mom to get herself together, as well as take care the needs of my daughter. Granted, I always told here one day she would come to regret her choice, and now I'm starting to see this through my daughter's conversations. My thing is right is right, do dirt, and karma will come back, Everything I talked about wanting to pursue is starting to come to life, the funny thing is she is starting to realize I am doing what I envisioned, and she made a mistake, I plan to take her to court before Christmas, this time I plan to relocate to have a lawyer, something she can't afford. All you can do is stay the course, and if will work out.
For example, I have been with out my daughter for almost 2 years now. In my case, my ex- did a going to visit family, and filed while she was there, I never saw it coming. Now.. at first I was pissed, but I send for my daughter would qualify as if I had 3 children, granted I'm not balling, however I feel that this is an opportunity for her mom to get herself together, as well as take care the needs of my daughter. Granted, I always told here one day she would come to regret her choice, and now I'm starting to see this through my daughter's conversations. My thing is right is right, do dirt, and karma will come back, Everything I talked about wanting to pursue is starting to come to life, the funny thing is she is starting to realize I am doing what I envisioned, and she made a mistake, I plan to take her to court before Christmas, this time I plan to relocate to have a lawyer, something she can't afford. All you can do is stay the course, and if will work out.
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Luke Says Goodbye To Brooklyn
Dude is trying to do the right thing, but, his Baby's mother is using the kid as a weapon! Am I the only one who is sickened by this?
Hard stuff.
My daughter was 2 weeks old when the mom's split. When she came back 2 years later and tried to see my kid...it was bad. My kid did not know her and was like "Who dat?" - She has regular visitation now but the initial contact visitation was murder on the heart.
She is 8 now - Still hurts when she has to see her mom but you learn to live with it so that your child knows you did not prevent them from knowing their other side.
I feel you on that player... and can I borrow a dollar or some shit since you got that long money... lol... but for real only advice I can drop is you make sure you let your child decide what to think of mommy... no negative talk and all that shit about the mom... cause you will be the villian in the end...
Sorry to hear you got blindsided... I remember when she asked me to file for a passport for my daughter to come visit her the first summer she moved... damn I was all in this lawyers friend ears I knew finding out what the deal was... good luck with the court case son...
Naw, fam, only women talk grimy about the other parent. I let her have more visitation than the judgment decree says. I urge my daughter to call her mom. I put up with the mom's b.s. about not having enough $ to buy her daughter a plane ticket for visitation so I end up kicking in part of the fare. Then when she's there the mom always hits me up for more $ especially during summer visitation. "I don't have enough to put her in a camp". Happens like clockwork. Just imagine if she had custody! I also always remember her birthday, mother's day, etc. and have my daughter call and send gifts on those days. You know any women that do this for their baby's daddy?
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Luke Says Goodbye To Brooklyn
Dude is trying to do the right thing, but, his Baby's mother is using the kid as a weapon! Am I the only one who is sickened by this?
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NOTICE THE BITCH SAID COME OUTSIDE TO THE CAR TO SAY GOODBYE. SHE COULDN'T TAKE A DOOR (ANY DOOR) BEING CLOSED ON HER. SHE WANTED TO CLOSE THE DOOR ON LUKE ( A CAR DOOR OR ANY DOOR). ALSO, JUST MORE AIRTIME FOR HER ASS TO BE ON TV. I BET YOU LUKE WANTED TO CLOSE THE DOOR ON HER AFTER LITTLE MAN CAME INSIDE AND ALSO WHEN HE WAS PICKED UP. I DON'T TOLERATE A BITCH IN MY HOUSE FOR MORE THAN A FEW SECONDS IF YOU ACT LIKE SHIT TO ME. MEET ME BY THE DOOR I SAY.
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My 1 yr old just started daycare. I had to sit with her for the first two days, she would not let me leave her sight. Now i take her and she cries when i leave, but i call the school as soon as i get to work, and they tell me shes fine and she stops right after i leave. But still, to see your child cry, no matter for how long, is the worst feeling.
RESPECT.
I guess you didn't come out of a black woman.
Major Props to you. Too many brothers have kids with women they see no future with. then blame black women. For the young bros, get to know these women before you bust up in em. We need more united families today. I hope I never have to send my kid away sunday night
Well I don't have any kids, but the way I see it, having a child with a woman is like giving her the ultimate leeway... like if you notice when you let a bitch know you like them the start to act up more, let them know you love them they act up even worse, etc... So when they have your child, subconsciously (or consciously for the real evil bitches) they gonna look at that as their right to make life for you as difficult as they can if you don't comply to their desires.
That's some ill sh!t. It's usually the other way around... where the dad splits. How the hell do you leave a 2-week old baby? No breastfeeding no coddling w/ mommy... none of that sh!t?? That's f*cked up!
So... LUKE is the victim here? 
You seem confused about how to post...
I still don't know what your first comment means or who it is a reply to.
So... LUKE is the victim here?
NO, the KID is the victim here... and the MOTHER is the villain!
If I didn't understand how to post you wouldn't be replying to me.
My “I guess you didn't come out of a black woman.” comment was in response to the ignorant comment below.
"If you have a kid with a black women then prepare for her to use the kid as a weapon.....thats it!"
Hope we're clear now.
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