SOL Ladies: I have a strange situation

bigirl

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SO bf from home is coming and staying by me for a week. Now he on some new "I a good Christian an don't want to fuck" type of ish. I really don't feel like being sexually frustrated like that for a whole week. He has been known to pull this type of thing and try and give me a hard time before though. So I will most def act like i don't want to fuck at all and make sure I dressed real sexy without being too obvious the whole time. I also sleep naked and will not change that. Any other input for me? :confused: :smh:
 
SO bf from home is coming and staying by me for a week. Now he on some new "I a good Christian an don't want to fuck" type of ish. I really don't feel like being sexually frustrated like that for a whole week. He has been known to pull this type of thing and try and give me a hard time before though. So I will most def act like i don't want to fuck at all and make sure I dressed real sexy without being too obvious the whole time. I also sleep naked and will not change that. Any other input for me? :confused: :smh:

that is gonna make u more frustrated than u think. your lying to urself and playing games cuz if he don't "break" after the sexy dressing, u actin indifferent and sleeping naked ur ass is gonna be HELLA MAD

i really don't know what to tell you

just mentally prepare urself for NOT getting sex and if u do then hey...nice surpise lol :dunno:
 
first you shouldn't address this dude as your boyfriend. He is your penpal.

Not true :angry:
We just have been separated by a few thousand miles for a year and a few months.

Why don't you please give me some useful info like how do I make this dude fuck?
 
Not true :angry:
We just have been separated by a few thousand miles for a year and a few months.

Why don't you please give me some useful info like how do I make this dude fuck?

you cant make someone fuck you. Maybe he doesnt like you in all orange. :lol::lol::lol:
 
SO bf from home is coming and staying by me for a week. Now he on some new "I a good Christian an don't want to fuck" type of ish. :smh:

After a year and a half he should be ripping your clothes off. Sounds like he's not interested. Ask him what's really good.:yes:
 
OK let me put this a different way; why the hell would a man want to travel thousands of miles to sleep in a bed for a week with a woman he doesn't want to fuck? How am I supposed to survive that week? WTF? Like I said he likes to play give me a hard time sometimes...
 
If I didn't know any better I'd swear you're actually surprised by his behavior. If he's played games like this before you should be used to it by now. Whatever you did to trick....I mean convince him to hit you off should still work.

P.S. He knows that this drives you crazy which probably makes the sex better for him.
 
OK let me put this a different way; why the hell would a man want to travel thousands of miles to sleep in a bed for a week with a woman he doesn't want to fuck? How am I supposed to survive that week? WTF? Like I said he likes to play give me a hard time sometimes...

Free rent in NYC??

Beats a hotel.
 
^^^^^ mean!

I don't know what to tell you BG, he sounds like he is interested on the strength of coming all this way but what you should tell him is you respect his decision but you don't think you can survive like that for a whole week....so maybe he should stay in a hotel and yall can just hang out in the day!
 
you truly are an asshole by nature :hmm:

:dunno::confused:

You said:
OK let me put this a different way; why the hell would a man want to travel thousands of miles to sleep in a bed for a week with a woman he doesn't want to fuck?

To which the only reasonable answer to me was:
Free rent in NYC??

Beats a hotel.

Meaning, I can't understand why anyone would fly thousands of miles to see their "girlfriend", sleep in the same bed, and not fuck.
 
^^^^^ mean!

I don't know what to tell you BG, he sounds like he is interested on the strength of coming all this way but what you should tell him is you respect his decision but you don't think you can survive like that for a whole week....so maybe he should stay in a hotel and yall can just hang out in the day!

This is one of the most bizarre situations I've ever heard off. But mzmillion, I think your correct. Why allow him to place himself (technically) in your way? Possibly blocking your potential action.

But I'm unsure how you can call someone your bf/gf if they're celibate, just doesn't make sense to me. If I'm celibate I don't want that type of temptation. So I think its best he stays by himself.
 
This is one of the most bizarre situations I've ever heard blocking your potential action.

But I'm unsure how you can call someone your bf/gf if they're celibate, just doesn't make sense to me. If I'm celibate I don't want that type of temptation. So I think its best he stays by himself.

I think celibate people in relationships are selfish. Unless it is agreed by both partners. Celibate people should just be with other willing celibates. If you don't want to fuck keep it moving. Why leave yourself open to be cheated on?:cool:
 
Maybe he really did change and is looking for your support? Maybe he travelled all this way to enjoy your company-you are a cool person to be around right? We get mad if niggas just wanna fuck and mad when they don't...

:lol: :lol:
 
I think celibate people in relationships are selfish. Unless it is agreed by both partners. Celibate people should just be with other willing celibates. If you don't want to fuck keep it moving. Why leave yourself open to be cheated on?:cool:

I couldn't agree more. My take on this is if your in a relationship and then decide to be celibate then what your saying is, "I'm ending this relationship." Your now free to do what you want with whoever you want. Don't ask me why because I don't have a damn a clue, except that I'm slefish and stupid. All I know is I would rather sit at home and play with myself.

I think its crazy to even think about going to someone's home expecting to lay up there and not give it up.
 
Where is he going to sleep? Do you feel like getting into sex with him? Are you still emotionally attached? How did it come about that he, wants to stay with you?

My best advice is hold out and get thru it, don't get into anything with him, he is leaving and probably involved or unsure of himself, Trust Me, he will respect you, after-the-fact...
 

Hi sexylegz33, I don't believe we have been formally introduced ... I'm Sean. :)

Tel. 212-646-2281
Fax. 212-785-9271

Bye. :)

:hmm: Do I HAVE to come over there Sean :hmm:






BG you know what you need to do yes. If his intent is to stay with you then why would he want to hold out on you?
 
SO bf from home is coming and staying by me for a week. Now he on some new "I a good Christian an don't want to fuck" type of ish. I really don't feel like being sexually frustrated like that for a whole week. He has been known to pull this type of thing and try and give me a hard time before though. So I will most def act like i don't want to fuck at all and make sure I dressed real sexy without being too obvious the whole time. I also sleep naked and will not change that. Any other input for me? :confused: :smh:

Not true :angry:
We just have been separated by a few thousand miles for a year and a few months.

Why don't you please give me some useful info like how do I make this dude fuck?

OK let me put this a different way; why the hell would a man want to travel thousands of miles to sleep in a bed for a week with a woman he doesn't want to fuck? How am I supposed to survive that week? WTF? Like I said he likes to play give me a hard time sometimes...

If this guy can actually travel 1000s of miles, stay with, and sleep with a naked woman who is READY, WILLING, AND ABLE to get down and FUCK (AND HASN'T FOR A WHILE), and still resists, then my dear he is not human and your BF is a damn robot.

If upon opening your door he doesn't get glassy-eyed, begins to drool, mumble in tongues, and grab your ass and lay it to you HARD for the entire week straight, then you need to IMMEDIATELY kick his ass to the curb LITERALLY, tell him you are done and break open all that DICK IN A GLASS you have been letting collect dust all this time and get that damned frustration out your system. :angry:

SHIT -- DO YOU. Whichever way it goes down (with BF or others), just try to keep the noise down and not be waking my ass up on the other side of Brooklyn :lol:
 
BG, try this...don't be subtle. When ya want some from him, just start masturbating furiously, RIGHT IN FRONT OF HIM! Don't hold back. Let him watch. If THAT don't work, he's NEVER gonna fuck and ya need to get yours somewhere else.
 

Hi sexylegz33, I don't believe we have been formally introduced ... I'm Sean. :)

Tel. 212-646-2281
Fax. 212-785-9271

Bye. :)

You're killing me Sean:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

Bigirl why don't you just get the guy you're fucking now to come over and knock the bottom out of it the night before your boyfriend shows up, surely you can wait a week to get some more, can't you? if not sneak out one night and get some more.
 
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