Real Talk: would u have a problem if ur daughter brought home a whiteboy?
- Thread starter Otis Supreme
- Start date
That's it in a nutshell.
My daughter dates a white boy. It's not what I would prefer. I'd like to say something, but her brother married a white girl.
damn your kids hate themselves huh? no black grandkids for you they're gonna come out lookin like GARCELLE BEAUVAIS's devil seedsThat's it in a nutshell.
My daughter dates a white boy. It's not what I would prefer. I'd like to say something, but her brother married a white girl.
Fuck that.I plan on pointing out white people's devilish ways from birth so this will never happen with my daughter or son.
I agree with those points.
I have no issue if these conditions are met
1. The man is treating her right
2. She not interesting in him JUST because he is white and she "want's to have lighter skinned kids" - yea, my sister said that to me and I was like WTF
3. She is knowledgeable and knows her peoples roots, history, and struggles.
Yes. If I set the proper example for her as to what to look for in a Black man she shouldn't stray from the fold. I just could not trust a white man (or woman) enough to accept him (or her) into my family. Just too many issues.
More of her please!
i got you
im too lazy to find the pics where she actually shows her pussy
ummmm just because that shit might sound good, it's not true. how many realblack men did their job, and their daughters are hoing themselves, are lesbos just because thats the thing to be now, strippers, porn stars etc..... doing your job as a " black man " doesn't mean shit, especially considering black women are the most impressionable women on the planet. do you mean to tell me that every black chick that decides to date a latino, asian, white, lizard or whatever has a father who didn't do his damn job as a black man? i hate those stupid shits you guys say, cause they are the furthest thing from the truth
co sign what adonis said. some of u cats kill me. dont u know that if u try 2 DRIVE ur kids away from somethin their more likely 2 go TO it? ur philosophy is CRAZY. so u think if u tell ur kids all their lives "ALL white people r bad" that they wont date 1? how many times have we seen this happen w/racist white folks? they tell their daughters "dont bring no ****** home" and they go get the blackest, thugged out gold grill wearin nigga they can find.
so i guess none of u niggas ever banged a freak b4 huh? i cant begin 2 tell u bout the straight up freaks i done had whose parents was strict as FUCK but they gave up the pussy like government cheese. by the time i said "whats ur name?" they acted like my dick was the best tastin popsicle they ever had in their life.
do yall not know nothin about preacher's kids? theyre FORCED into religion their whole lives and 98% of the time theyre straight heathens. i suggest if u DONT want ur daughter bringin home opie, u better not try 2 force nothin. u cant control what they do once theyre grown but u got a better chance of it NOT happenin if u dont try 2 control the decision.
but if u do, then "guess who's comin 2 dinner?"
More of her please!
i got you
im too lazy to find the pics where she actually shows her pussy
"now u listen 2 me and u listen good bub. u get off ur ass and u FIND THOSE PICS!! NOW!!"
@ u niggas that just "KNOW it wont happen" hey, heres a dollar.....
tell us ALL our futures.
so would u rather ur daughter b w/a white guy that worshipped the ground she walked on or a nigga like this....
or maybe u prefer this...
not sayin she would b w/black men like that^^ but if u HAD 2 pick 1, u tellin me youd choose those?^^
whats up with the white supremest dichotomy? there are some where around 15-18 million brothas in america---so all of us are on some nat turner shit?
stop letting the white man poison your mind.
I would have a bigger problem if she brought home a ignorant, self-hating, pants sagging, black boy.
niggu better throw me some chips
I'd be very dissapointed. She knows her history. She knows the racism in this country. That being said, nobody can choose who they fall in love with. I'd also frown on anybody using the N word.
Co-sign on both. I really dont see what the big deal is. It's as if people continue to set their own set of outdated values and standards against their children ultimately being happy.
I would just want my daughter to bring home a good, honest and hardworking man who already has a cape wating for her.
Isn't that what every father wants for his daughter?
Last edited:
I would never allow my daughter to marry a white boy while I yet draw breath. My feelings on this subject are best summed up by excepts from to well known Shakespearean plays, one a tragedy and the other a comedy.
First: "The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet" Act 3, Scene 5
Second: "A Midsummer Night's Dream" Act 1, Scene 1
First: "The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet" Act 3, Scene 5
Second: "A Midsummer Night's Dream" Act 1, Scene 1
I'd have a problem with it son or daughter. I might mellow out more as I get older though
^^^ Supports my current views to the MAX............
Co-sign on both. I really dont see what the big deal is. It's as if people continue to set their own set of outdated values and standards against their children ultimately being happy.
I would just want my daughter to bring home a good, honest and hardworking man who already has a cape wating for her.
Isn't that what every father wants for his daughter?
exactly.
cbm answer me this: if ur daughter is grown, how in the HELL u gon stop her from marrying ANYBODY? u might hate it w/every fiber of ur being; but if she wants 2 marry whoever, its NOTHIN u can do 2 stop it. and if u disown her completely, is that love? if u do that u will die a lonely man. and believe me, u WILL suffer. ive seen it happen. youll b a miserable old man.
ur supposed 2 love ur kids UNCONDITIONALLY. so if u were 2 disown her what kind of father does that make u?
I would definitely have a problem with the shit. And it wouldn't necessarily be anything AGAINST dude or anything AGAINST white people. Dude might be a great white guy, but my problem is why couldn't she have found a great black guy? No reverse racism, just a feeling of betrayal. It would make me feel like she has given up on black men, like we aint shit.
Then you have to think about her well being. Just because this white man loves her, it doesn't mean that her family will like her black ass. Would you want your daughter to be a part of a bigoted family?
If someone is racist towards her, dude won't even be able to RELATE cause he aint black. That's what RELATIONSHIPS are all about, being able to RELATE to one another.
Then you have to think about her well being. Just because this white man loves her, it doesn't mean that her family will like her black ass. Would you want your daughter to be a part of a bigoted family?
If someone is racist towards her, dude won't even be able to RELATE cause he aint black. That's what RELATIONSHIPS are all about, being able to RELATE to one another.
Next question.
Allow me to quote the Bard one more time, just in case you missed this in my previous post.
My daughter will know of hardship whites have done to us. For her to still go ahead with a white boy relationship would be a purposeful slap in the face. She'd be an out of the will, college not paid for, looking for another place to live daughter with the quickness.
Secondly, we as a black race are facing real destruction. Your 'Talented Tenth' as Dubois designated must keep our best in our community. Whenever one of our 'Talented Tenth' leaves our community it kills are part of all of our future.
Secondly, we as a black race are facing real destruction. Your 'Talented Tenth' as Dubois designated must keep our best in our community. Whenever one of our 'Talented Tenth' leaves our community it kills are part of all of our future.
I would definitely have a problem with the shit. And it wouldn't necessarily be anything AGAINST dude or anything AGAINST white people. Dude might be a great white guy, but my problem is why couldn't she have found a great black guy? No reverse racism, just a feeling of betrayal. It would make me feel like she has given up on black men, like we aint shit.
Then you have to think about her well being. Just because this white man loves her, it doesn't mean that her family will like her black ass. Would you want your daughter to be a part of a bigoted family?
If someone is racist towards her, dude won't even be able to RELATE cause he aint black. That's what RELATIONSHIPS are all about, being able to RELATE to one another.
Chhhuuuuuccccchhhh
Hell yes!!!!! I have a 19 yr old and I have told her that I will slap the ever loving shit out her if she does !!!!!!
My grandmother did not play that bullshit when I was growing up and I now understand what she ment by that. My grandmother's youngest brother was hung by white men in the late 20's for looking at white woman. She never got over that shit. She would tell me if she can't use your comb and hair grease don't bring it to this house. I feel the same way. All that inter-racial dating and getting wed to them is for the fucking birds.
My current girlfriends father is married to a white woman and I have told her if we have kids...they aint going to grandpa's house or to Uncle Joel's house.....EVER...they will not learn that bullshit. If you want to fuck with a white chick that is your business, but I don't have to have that bullshit around me or my family...
My grandmother did not play that bullshit when I was growing up and I now understand what she ment by that. My grandmother's youngest brother was hung by white men in the late 20's for looking at white woman. She never got over that shit. She would tell me if she can't use your comb and hair grease don't bring it to this house. I feel the same way. All that inter-racial dating and getting wed to them is for the fucking birds.
My current girlfriends father is married to a white woman and I have told her if we have kids...they aint going to grandpa's house or to Uncle Joel's house.....EVER...they will not learn that bullshit. If you want to fuck with a white chick that is your business, but I don't have to have that bullshit around me or my family...
You didn't address this to me bruh, but I want to address your points.
At the end of the day there are a whole bunch of problems that children can bring into their and your life that make "bringing home a white boy" seem like nothing in comparison.
I wouldn't disown my daughter for that, but I wouldn't be happy about it either.
But I think that its very telling about some of us so-called Black men, that we look so nonchalantly at our daughters marrying outside of their ethnicity, culture, and heritage.
Any man that values his culture and his heritage would want to see that preserved. If you don't then I would have to question what kind of cultural knowledge you have as a Black man.
I was just reading that Barrack Obama's Kenyan grandfather wrote his white mother's father saying that he would not let his son (Barrack Sr.) marry Barrack's mother and have his family name disgraced.
That is a natural reaction for a man, a Kenyan, who had just lived through the years of the Kenyan people fighting to liberate their country from white rule. Although what came out of the union was good, Barrack's grandfather had the natural inclination to reject his son marrying into the family of his open enemy.
Now I don't believe that we as Black men should act crazy trying to keep our daughters from bringing home the face of our 400 year oppressors, cause in the grand scheme of things its not worth losing your daughter over that kind of thing.
But I have to wonder why some us don't even have that natural inclination to want to have our daughters marry into their own culture and kind....or atleast.....if they marry outside of your ethnicity.....marry into an ethnicity that doesn't have the history of enslaving, burning, and lynching your people for hundreds of years.
Young Berg
Similar threads
