Real Talk: would u have a problem if ur daughter brought home a whiteboy?

[Tony Soprano]

Hell yes!!!!! I have a 19 yr old and I have told her that I will slap the ever loving shit out her if she does !!!!!!

My grandmother did not play that bullshit when I was growing up and I now understand what she ment by that. My grandmother's youngest brother was hung by white men in the late 20's for looking at white woman. She never got over that shit. She would tell me if she can't use your comb and hair grease don't bring it to this house. I feel the same way. All that inter-racial dating and getting wed to them is for the fucking birds.

My current girlfriends father is married to a white woman and I have told her if we have kids...they aint going to grandpa's house or to Uncle Joel's house.....EVER...they will not learn that bullshit. If you want to fuck with a white chick that is your business, but I don't have to have that bullshit around me or my family...

Wow.

 

[Blaq]

You didn't address this to me bruh, but I want to address your points.

At the end of the day there are a whole bunch of problems that children can bring into their and your life that make "bringing home a white boy" seem like nothing in comparison.

I wouldn't disown my daughter for that, but I wouldn't be happy about it either.

But I think that its very telling about some of us so-called Black men, that we look so nonchalantly at our daughters marrying outside of their ethnicity, culture, and heritage.

Any man that values his culture and his heritage would want to see that preserved. If you don't then I would have to question what kind of cultural knowledge you have as a Black man.

I was just reading that Barrack Obama's Kenyan grandfather wrote his white mother's father saying that he would not let his son (Barrack Sr.) marry Barrack's mother and have his family name disgraced.

That is a natural reaction for a man, a Kenyan, who had just lived through the years of the Kenyan people fighting to liberate their country from white rule. Although what came out of the union was good, Barrack's grandfather had the natural inclination to reject his son marrying into the family of his open enemy.

Now I don't believe that we as Black men should act crazy trying to keep our daughters from bringing home the face of our 400 year oppressors, cause in the grand scheme of things its not worth losing your daughter over that kind of thing.

But I have to wonder why some us don't even have that natural inclination to want to have our daughters marry into their own culture and kind....or atleast.....if they marry outside of your ethnicity.....marry into an ethnicity that doesn't have the history of enslaving, burning, and lynching your people for hundreds of years.



Young Berg

Thanks for summing it up perfectly. Some of these kats are either white frontin' as black or young as hell.

 

[Shotta042807]

I'd be mad and even a lil hurt at first, but what u gonna do? If he ever treated her bad I'd castrate the motherfucka regardless of the race dog!!!!!!

I'd prefer she married some other minority so they could relate to her struggles and have an idea what she would have to go through. B/c no matter what white people (men) say... they have no idea!

 

[The Black HHH]

I'd kick his ass.

 

[sigma_blu_phi_1914]

Please these white boys are fucking these young sistas left from right.Especially the dark skinned sistas with the small waiste and a big booty.I used to care about seeing a white boy with black woman.However,with the stank nasty attitudes black women have against black men these days who gives a shit.

 

[KipDinamyte]

Like another cat said, earlier in the thread, my Ex and I were talking about this about an hour ago. I think anyone trying to step to any of my baby girls has to come correct. I will most likely have an issue regardless, but it would damn sure be nice for them to might some decent young brothas. Thank God I have a minute to worry about that. I definitely have to deal with and face my own issues before that time, so I can handle it all properly. Good question/post. One

 

[therealjondoe]

remember though, the more you tell a kid not to do somthing the more curious they are and the more they want to try it....

 

[cthomas0964]

I'm going to have a problem with any boy she brings him. Black, white it doesn't matter.

 

[PJN]

as long as he treats her right....im cool

Tru dat! I'm not bring up my princess for no bum, white, black, blue, yellow, aliens...

 

[Gemini]

not at all