I bet you black men's educational attainment would go up if black women start raising their sons instead of just loving them and start picking better mates, one's that are actually going to stick around after the babies born.
why black women arent getting married
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I bet you black men's educational attainment would go up if black women start raising their sons instead of just loving them and start picking better mates, one's that are actually going to stick around after the babies born.
Flash and Carolina Boi are the same person. Tariq Nasheed kicked him out of his pack of underlings and flunkies (the mack pack) and flash cant let it go sq he still posting that niggas shit up. Also he's in this thread answering his own questions using both names.
well that much is true. carolina boi and flash are the same person.
Props to Izy and Onyx for seeing what I'm saying.
What I said had zero to do with "settling". Divorce rates are high because people go into marriage without realizing or even understanding what COMMITMENT means. Commitment in marriage means that you are realistic in understanding that there will be change in the future. You wife will not stay the perfect 10 or in the same condition as when you met her (Especially if she has a child...fact of life). Things will not always be "hot" all the time between you. You will have arguments and you will not always agree. When you understand that will happen you can pull together. One of the top reasons given for divorce is finance. But I say the real reason is that the finance issue brings up other issues that were there prior to the financial issue. Issues like commitment, loyalty, being patient, and spending habits. All issues that can be seen prior to the marriage (if you want to see it). But once you have said I am going to marry this person you are obligated to make it work. If you don't believe this to be the case...DON'T GET MARRIED. People take marriage as a feeling or sure ticket to happiness and it's not. It takes ALOT of work and communication. Something people don't really understand because we are in a "we want what we want now mentality" with everything. For most things in life there is a process and marriage is definitely a process.
Flash and Carolina Boi are the same person. Tariq Nasheed kicked him out of his pack of underlings and flunkies (the mack pack) and flash cant let it go sq he still posting that niggas shit up. Also he's in this thread answering his own questions using both names.
lol we are two different people,and tariq didnt kick anyone out of the mack he just ended it i talked to him yesterdaY me and homie are cool
yet you both share the same ip addresses....
now unless you want to admit your both sharing the same bed as well....your the same person.
yet you both share the same ip addresses....
now unless you want to admit your both sharing the same bed as well....your the same person.
i have a router in my house so if he is on his labtop and i am on my desktop it going to show the ip addy right
LoneStar29
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All I know is this...W/ my husbands permission...
This is a pic from my wedding June 26, 2005
Respect It!
I am so sick of hearing this ridiculous myth about black women not getting married. I cant even speak on it anymore...
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Wow. So what yall got from that is that black women are not getting married because they are fat? Well considering what some of the "black" men in this thread have commented it's no wonder black women don't want to lower their standards and marry some of you. I really don't think a black man who does not like black women is in any position to tell me why black women are not married. Thanks
really...
point out a black man in here that does not like black women...
this is "black girl online" after all.
what it comes down to is the majority of the black women on this site are simply "narrow-minded"
"oh he's not married to a black woman so he automatically hates all black women."
that alone shows that many of you just don't have a clue. do your female associates dating/married to other races explicitely state they hate black men?
lol the fact that many of you harp on it shows everyone else your more bothered by it then most. get over it. you act (especially femme) act as if there would have been something between us if i wasn't married.
On topic: i didnt say being fat is what keep all the women from being married but i did say being attracted to somebody does make a big difference in a relationship. if your not attracted to a big person whether your a man or woman, nothing is going to convince you otherwise. you are who you are. your going to like/dislike what you want regardless of what's said to you.
lol excellent could have not said it better
Damn Da Con. I didn't even put anybody's name up there. Why you so sensitive? Did you see me get sensitive when you falsely claimed that I was raised without my father even though he's been with my mother for 33 years? Well the same way you can assume and throw bullshit around, so can I.
but with 2-3 individuals on this board that's what it's really about.
Another female on this board pointed it out to me.
but you are symbolizing what someone with therr shit together is so its a smack in the face hearing you married other. you know whats gon happen your a black woman hater to them. but let them think whatever do you. your not going home to them at night. you better not.
so i'm gonna let you ass-ume whatever. and please nothing you can say or do can hurt my feeling.....
you just don't have a clue.
but with 2-3 individuals on this board that's what it's really about.
Another female on this board pointed it out to me.
so i'm gonna let you ass-ume whatever. and please nothing you can say or do can hurt my feeling.....
you just don't have a clue.
Hmmmmm. I only need one guess as to which "female" you chit chat with. It can only be the biggest female hater on BGOL, the one who is intimidated by other women who actually have a brain and don't look to BGOL men for approval. The fact that she thinks you have "your shit together" shows how lost she is. Don't let one female deceive you. You are lost. Nobody wants to hurt your feelings, it's just sad to see all the potential lost on a black man
Hmmmmm. I only need one guess as to which "female" you chit chat with. It can only be the biggest female hater on BGOL, the one who is intimidated by other women who actually have a brain and don't look to BGOL men for approval. The fact that she thinks you have "your shit together" shows how lost she is. Don't let one female deceive you. You are lost. Nobody wants to hurt your feelings, it's just sad to see all the potential lost on a black man
Say her name, punk!!!
Theres one thing she hates more than black MEN,
Its a black Woman who does not "tow the party line"!!!
Don't you know its supposed to be girls against the boys (in her eyes)
Say it!
I dare ya
I double dare ya!!
Hmmmmm. I only need one guess as to which "female" you chit chat with. It can only be the biggest female hater on BGOL, the one who is intimidated by other women who actually have a brain and don't look to BGOL men for approval. The fact that she thinks you have "your shit together" shows how lost she is. Don't let one female deceive you. You are lost. Nobody wants to hurt your feelings, it's just sad to see all the potential lost on a black man
potential lost? i think not. not even at age 35 and i'm worth close to a million....with an estimation of hitting 1.4 million by dec. 31? thanks to t-mobile's takeover of the carolina's? lol yeah "lost potential"
with several locations under my belt in cleveland, ohio as well as 7 locations in north carolina and 3 in south carolina...trust me i'm just getting started....
Hmmmmm. I only need one guess as to which "female" you chit chat with. It can only be the biggest female hater on BGOL, the one who is intimidated by other women who actually have a brain and don't look to BGOL men for approval. The fact that she thinks you have "your shit together" shows how lost she is. Don't let one female deceive you. You are lost. Nobody wants to hurt your feelings, it's just sad to see all the potential lost on a black man
and no i don't speak to montanta at all....
i speak to several ladies on here from time to time.
LoneStar29
Banned
Hmmmmm. I only need one guess as to which "female" you chit chat with. It can only be the biggest female hater on BGOL, the one who is intimidated by other women who actually have a brain and don't look to BGOL men for approval. The fact that she thinks you have "your shit together" shows how lost she is. Don't let one female deceive you. You are lost. Nobody wants to hurt your feelings, it's just sad to see all the potential lost on a black man
I'm like 99% sure I know who you are talking about
Me too followup
I wanna know if we talking about the same birdpotential lost? i think not. not even at age 35 and i'm worth close to a million....with an estimation of hitting 1.4 million by dec. 31? thanks to t-mobile's takeover of the carolina's? lol yeah "lost potential"
with several locations under my belt in cleveland, ohio as well as 7 locations in north carolina and 3 in south carolina...trust me i'm just getting started....
Yeah followup ... AND he knows the rich and famous so there
and no i don't speak to montanta at all....
i speak to several ladies on here from time to time.
Oh ... I thought it was somebody else she was talking about
Yeah followup ... only call him names on the BGOL side so he can insult you back and then have his goons back him up while they triple tag team you
He follows Femme's rules here then insults her to the highest degree on the other side with them other boysJust helping to clear up the rules for her Don
thank you
LoneStar29
Banned
insults her to the highest degree on the other side with them other boys
When you first saw a penis when you were little, the very first time, what was your reaction . . . did you KICK it???
The banality of your continuous. " Girls vs Boys " attitude . . .
i was too tired to comment on this last night but i'm up and bright eyed now,
why is it some people resort to something so derisory...
yes, your financial status has a lot in defining who you are. not only as how others perceive you but how you perceive yourself as well.
let me guess your one of the ones who enjoys "getting by"..you're comfortable making just enough. someone will hire you making minimum wage and you'll actually work with it.
you have no problems marrying an unemployed man.
you don't give a shit about your credit so you just let it go down the toilet.
you have no intentions on bettering yourself.
so unless you agree with anything i just listed above, please stop with the otiose banter.
LoneStar29
Banned
Girl stop humouring him ... you know that no matter what you say he will have something negative to say back to you and he'll always be right in his own mind so just leave him be ... a person like that isn't even worth your time or energy
LoneStar29
Banned
Judging from her post, she's very deeply hurt.
She couldnt stop if she wanted too!!
(And Im sure Dons time is more valuable than hers.)
(And Im sure Dons time is more valuable than hers.)
Ice cold on the come back.
I wonder how she'll follow that up!?
if you call having a convo being sensitive then do so..
i'll accept not responding directly to statement as a "there's nothing more you can say"
Girl stop humouring him ... you know that no matter what you say he will have something negative to say back to you and he'll always be right in his own mind so just leave him be ... a person like that isn't even worth your time or energy
well let's see....
what exactly was said by me that was negative? maybe that will shed some light on both yours and followup's nescience regarding this topic.
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