To the men, annoying trends and styles that turn you off about sistas
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ya'll are crazy!
anyways, as a woman, i can't stand see other women who:
1) are too matchy matchy. no need for the lime green top to match the lime green belt, lime green pumps, lime green fingers and toes, lime green purse an lime green hair streaks.
2)too much 80's jewelry. who needs five door knocker on each ear, a herringbone chain and a name plate, and the bangles
3) wear clothes that don't flatter your body. not everything is for everybody
4) visible bra straps. they didn't make the strapless bra because they were bored
5) panty lines.
6) show too much skin. i have a philosophy if you show a lot on the top, keep it tasteful on the bottom. vice versa. can't stand chicks who wear tube tops and booty shorts together. pair the tube top with some sexy skinny jeans. wear your short shorts, but pair it with a dolman or something. you can still be sexy and have some clothes on. and some chicks have the audacity to be offended by getting "unwanted" attention. it's because you're wearing a bra top and some hot pants!
7) who said havig your hair fried, dyed and to the side was cute?
8) look cheap. you can find nice clothes at affordable prices. spandex, glitter, and rhinestones scream cheap. you can find decent clothes at the most affordable of stores...rainbow, dots, ross, marshall's, tjmaxx, rave, forever 21, charlotte russe. the list can go on forever.
anyways, as a woman, i can't stand see other women who:
1) are too matchy matchy. no need for the lime green top to match the lime green belt, lime green pumps, lime green fingers and toes, lime green purse an lime green hair streaks.
2)too much 80's jewelry. who needs five door knocker on each ear, a herringbone chain and a name plate, and the bangles
3) wear clothes that don't flatter your body. not everything is for everybody
4) visible bra straps. they didn't make the strapless bra because they were bored
5) panty lines.
6) show too much skin. i have a philosophy if you show a lot on the top, keep it tasteful on the bottom. vice versa. can't stand chicks who wear tube tops and booty shorts together. pair the tube top with some sexy skinny jeans. wear your short shorts, but pair it with a dolman or something. you can still be sexy and have some clothes on. and some chicks have the audacity to be offended by getting "unwanted" attention. it's because you're wearing a bra top and some hot pants!
7) who said havig your hair fried, dyed and to the side was cute?
8) look cheap. you can find nice clothes at affordable prices. spandex, glitter, and rhinestones scream cheap. you can find decent clothes at the most affordable of stores...rainbow, dots, ross, marshall's, tjmaxx, rave, forever 21, charlotte russe. the list can go on forever.
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THINK OF WHEN I SEE THEM JEANS...WITH THE DOOR KNOCKERS AND SIDE PONYTAILS LOL
Maybe you should read my post again. it's not about maintaining it once it is natural, its about the transition to going natural that is the difficulty. And you don't know what the difficulty is until YOU have to do it. Not your last girlfriend.
One reason she went natural was because of the damage done to her hair running to the salon every couple of weeks . If you fucked up your head, just grin and bear it until the damage grows out, or wear a wig. I guess this is gods punishment for trying to be something your aren’t.
Well thats what happens when you put your hair in someone else's hands. I've done my own hair for years and it can be healthy without going natural. So you look down on other ppl for not going natural and the reason she went natural was because her hair was fucked up? Then you tell me to wear a wig? That's not trying to be someone else? You're quite the character.
Well that was her decision,it doesn't make her any better or any worse than me because I choose to relax my hair. You make it seem like she is more of a black woman than we are because she chose to wear her hair naturally. And lmao@at god's punishment. You have got to be kidding me. As a matter of fact my hair is in the middle of my back with or without a relaxer but the relaxer allows me to manage it more. Just like HA, I do my own hair and it is very healthy with a perm in my head.
You were using the excuse that there was a problem in the transition from chemically treated hair to natural hair. I was just stating that if you think there is an issue in that process, then wear a wig until you hair became healthy again. You couldn’t extrapolate that from my post?
You equate long hair with some type of beauty? What is your idea of manage. If I let my hair grow to a massive bush, it wouldn’t be easy to “manage” either. Like I said, I rarely, if ever see white women wearing their hair curly, plaited or braided. Why are Black women so fixated in wearing their hair straight?
You're ridiculous. Leave me alone.
Finally the mouth that has all the answers has none!
Where the fuck did I say that long hair equates beauty? Dont put words in my mouth.
Uhm...there are black people with naturally straight hair too you know
dont try to explain he will just twist your words.
I am the devil for perming my hair
You're so obviously an idiot. The way you make assumptions is crazy. You have no idea what it is to manage a woman's hair natural or relaxed, yet you speak as if you do. you may not see them wearing their hair curly (probably because you choose not to see) but you do see them running to the tanning salon and layin on teh beach tryna look like us, you do see them dating black men, you do see them playing our instruments, you do see them singing along to our music.... So what exactly is your point?
Also many white women and other races besides black women have chemically treated hairstyles called perms.Do you think the curls they have are natural,if so you really dont know what the hell you are talking about
Where did I say because you didn't wear your hair natual that you were less Black.
Ok, I see that is all the same as assimilating physically. I get it. Next thing you will say is that look at all of the white people getting nose jobs to be like us. Great logic!
I never said you said that,but thats what I took from your earlier posts.My exact words were "you make it seem like",not you said. My comment about my hair being long was to emphasize the reason why I got a relaxer in the first place. But you made it seem like I said you have to have long hair in order to be beautiful which I didn't.
Uhm...there are black people with naturally straight hair too you know
Well then their hair is natual, right?
How many?
Don't assume!
Are you serious thousands hun,thousands have perms in their hair.The same as when they color their hair,is that natural??
man stop arguing with dudes, dont explain shit... you know you got it going on
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WHAT IS YOUR POINT?
DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT IS TO BE A WOMAN AND TO DEAL WITH WOMEN'S HAIR?
IF SO, I APOLOGIZE AND WE HAVE A WHOLE NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS.
LoneStar29
Banned
Seriously to every woman in here arguing with "thoughtone" don't even bother ... he is nothing more than an internet bully who picks on women cuz he can't get any pussy in real life ... real talk ... and if I'M telling you not to argue then you know it's a lost cause
i agree with all those...
may i add
1. chicks that wear low rise jeans/skirts and have the top of thier thong showing...very trashy
2. chicks who wear bootleg designer clothing...clearly louis does not make an entire outfit...i hate when men do it also...thier bootleg shit fools no one
3. chicks who gel down thier baby hair
4. women who are over 30 who still dress like they are 21...grow up
5. CHICKS WHO STILL WEAR WHITE EYELINER and CHICKS WHO STILL WEAR BLACK LIP LINER
new trends i hate
1. crocks and brirkenstocks
2. short overalls...expecially when they are super short and super tight...just looks tacky
3. chicks who wear a shirt with a belt...booty shorts and pumps to the club...im sick of seeing 3048390483904 females wearing the same exact outfit
4. ugg boots with short skirts
5. any clothing line that turns you into a billboard for thier brand (i.e. baby phat)
Seriously to every woman in here arguing with "thoughtone" don't even bother ... he is nothing more than an internet bully who picks on women cuz he can't get any pussy in real life ... real talk ... and if I'M telling you not to argue then you know it's a lost cause
you tell em BOO
.................................................you tell em BOO
LoneStar29
Banned
but seriously... how do yall wipe yall asses with those long ass fingernails
Seriously that's a good question though cuz I've always wondered the same thing ... I keep my nails short cuz I do alot of housework and I find that long nails always seem to get in the way
My point was made 23 posts ago. Your so busy trying to be clever it past your ass right by!
Seriously to every woman in here arguing with "thoughtone" don't even bother ... he is nothing more than an internet bully who picks on women cuz he can't get any pussy in real life ... real talk ... and if I'M telling you not to argue then you know it's a lost cause
Oh yea? who you fuckin' now?
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