Nothing's foolproof. It's just a suggestion. And who hasn't been lied to? I don't know how old you are and I don't know the age range of men you deal with. However, I use the " where do you see yourself in 10 years" question sort of like a job interview. For example, (and I'm being extreme here), if a female tells me, "I wanna be a model". If that's all she gives me, that's a dream. Nothing wrong with dreams. "Aim at nothing and you'll surely hit it" my Moms always said. But, where's the rest of the plan? and I don't mean a business plan. But, what's your contingency plan if that doesn't work out? Is that really a realistic goal or just a dream? Now, if I'm asked that question, well, I think I have about another 10 years in the workforce after I retire from the military. (3 more years and change for Uncle Sam). after that, I just wanna sit on my porch with my lady/wife and watch my grand kids play. Most of the things I wanted to do in life, I've been blessed enough to do. I'm ready to chill. Now, I made the answers "extreme" on purpose for affect. But, you feel what I'm sayin'? hell, my answer may not be what whomever wants to hear but, at least she knows where I've been and where I'm goin'. She can make up her own mind from there.
