13 reasons for a single man not to date a women with kids!
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Damn number 13#.. That is some next level BS. Sounds like no shacking or moving in together in Cali...
Well, from my experience white women just use birth control, and alot of single black women don't, or forget to take a pill and get pregnant. I've worked with mostly white people my entire career, and the white women that I have worked with,and went to college with fuck like there is no tomorrow, but just are responsible with their birth control. That's just from my experience.
i hit the jackpot with my girl
mid thirties no kids and she's self employed
mid thirties no kids and she's self employed
8) Your Not My Dad. - You hook up with the woman, eventually the issue of discipline is going to come up. Some kids being resentful or just being a bratty prick is going to eventuallly pull the "YOU CAN'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!! YOUR NOT MY DAD!!!" card. Personally if I did date single mothers and some dumba$$ kid pulled that stunt on me, I would say, "Your right. I'm not your father. Since I have no authority over you and you refuse to listen to me, you need to pack your sh*t and go live with your dad." This would be a deal breaker for me. In addition some mothers or the dad would have problem with you disciplining their kid. I'm sorry, if some kid broke my laptop, I'm whooping his a$$.
I know who I am and after all I would try to do for him or her...that shit right there would crush me!
I know who I am and after all I would try to do for him or her...that shit right there would crush me!
Yo!!
How many of you have heard a female say the phrase
"Don't get me wrong....I love my children...blah blah blah"
After saying something fucked up
How many of you have heard a female say the phrase
"Don't get me wrong....I love my children...blah blah blah"
After saying something fucked up
That birth control is oh so true. Be talking about it makes me sick or causes cancer. Shit try paying child support for 18 years.
Cosign....avoid the costs, drama, and headaches@!!!!
I agree with a lot of it .....but ,trying to find quality Women without kids
cosign.
plus #13 is a BIG TIME deal breaker.
these women and the states are getting completely out of control with these child support laws.
damn.
Don't assume every "baby daddy" is a loser. I should know, my brother and several other cats I know are not losers. Rather, the women are the losers, but empowered by safety nets of our nanny state.
2,3 and 6 are the main reasons I just REFUSE to do the shit again. She was a pretty good woman and had her shit together, college degree, good job, nice townhouse...and far from being dramatic of having any kind of drama. But when the weekend came around I got so sick and tired of hearing "I can't find anyone to watch my daughter" that the shit just got old real fast.
And on top of that she used to like to have sex, but we agreed on the fact that we shouldnt do it while her daugher was up. Honestly she didn't even like me to come over while her daughter was still up. I had a lot of respect for that because you have a lot of triflin ass women that would fuck with their kids in the same room. So usually it was one of those kinds of situations where she's calling me to come over 11 or 12 at night and i'm tryin to drive across town knowing damn well I have to go to work the next day. And once we were dead in the middle of sex and her lil girl knocks at the door...she damn near panics and tells me to hide under the covers.
Shit just got REAL old REAL fast.
And on top of that she used to like to have sex, but we agreed on the fact that we shouldnt do it while her daugher was up. Honestly she didn't even like me to come over while her daughter was still up. I had a lot of respect for that because you have a lot of triflin ass women that would fuck with their kids in the same room. So usually it was one of those kinds of situations where she's calling me to come over 11 or 12 at night and i'm tryin to drive across town knowing damn well I have to go to work the next day. And once we were dead in the middle of sex and her lil girl knocks at the door...she damn near panics and tells me to hide under the covers.
Shit just got REAL old REAL fast.
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trying to whip some else's kids is just asking for trouble. If you think it something you have to do then I suggest you refrain from ever getting serious with someone who already has kids.
Plenty of women with children are fucked up in the head, that's undeniable. But, in my experience, the women I have held conversation with, with children tend to be more grounded and focused. My woman was a fresh divorcee' with two children from her marraige when we met, and I can honesltly say that the only thing that has interfered in our relationship ever was her crazy ass mother (who she no longer speaks to but that's another story for another time.).
Shit, since we've been together, she's lost weight, started geting her credit straight, takes much better care of herself.. I just can't relate to the women with kids horror stories. I will admit that the five year old I had with her cockblocks religously, but I charge that to the game with him being 5.
Shit, since we've been together, she's lost weight, started geting her credit straight, takes much better care of herself.. I just can't relate to the women with kids horror stories. I will admit that the five year old I had with her cockblocks religously, but I charge that to the game with him being 5.
This is the one that keeps me from getting serious with one of those women
better question is, how many niggas pops made their Mom the chicks we talking about???
Shit somebody has to say it. Its fucked up when you spit the truth and they act liek you putting white women on a higher level. You aint. Them bitches get knocked up they will cut the baby out themselves.
But white folks have another problem also, they get married like at 19 and start having kids and end up poor for life, its kind of like their answer to black women having kids out of wedlock.
Either way you should wait til your late 20's(for most people) to have kids.
This isn't true.
You need to get a new screen name.
Eh...doesn't apply to me. My folks were married before I came about.
Is this the thread for Immature closed minded niggas???
Seriously For every Woman out there with a kid there is some dude out there who is supposed to be the responsible father and if women followed this same dumb ass advice a lot of you niggas would never get any pussy.
This goes int the category where you cannot lump every woman into the same category, Just because somebody had a bad experience with a woman with kids does not mean that all experiences will be bad. If we(black people) were more selective and careful in our sexual practices then we would not have these type of issues within our communities.
Every woman is different and dating a woman with children has it's own unique circusmstances that must be dealt with in order to make the relationship suscessful
just my .02cents
Seriously For every Woman out there with a kid there is some dude out there who is supposed to be the responsible father and if women followed this same dumb ass advice a lot of you niggas would never get any pussy.
This goes int the category where you cannot lump every woman into the same category, Just because somebody had a bad experience with a woman with kids does not mean that all experiences will be bad. If we(black people) were more selective and careful in our sexual practices then we would not have these type of issues within our communities.
Every woman is different and dating a woman with children has it's own unique circusmstances that must be dealt with in order to make the relationship suscessful
just my .02cents
Spoken like a true woman with kids....
I'm not mad at cat's that date women with kids, but 9 times outta 10 the shit is problems and I personally will pass.
one thing i've learned over the last few years:
white boys are REALLY, REALLY, REALLY hard on single mothers, whether they are products of divorce or not.
if the lady has multiple kids by different guys, white boys steer 1000000% clear of them. but in the hood, if that body is banging, niccas get in the mix.
who the fuck is talking to you... about you?
who fucking cares?
my parents were NOT married when i was born, but they've been together now for 45 yrs. i know women who've gone thru 2 or 3 different husbands in that timeframe, and the kids of those divorces are more fucked up than either parent.
Spoken like a true young ass lil nigga
I am not mad at you niggas who limit ya selves more pussy for the rest of us!
This thread isnt based on original thought?
