And you forgot about another choice you have. You can choose to protect yourself and get a vasectomy until you find a partner you want to have children with. You can also choose to speak to your partner about making sure that a baby isn't on the agenda for you two. I can't speak for every woman, but those who value themselves do not have sex w/o any kind of protection. And as a man, you should be looking at any chick sideways who in this day and age fucks random guys raw.
How is a man at risk, besides financially, for a woman getting pregnant??? It is not logical to have an expensive surgery based on your reasoning. When it comes down to it, people look out for self. I'm sorry, that's basic human response. And let's say he's the lowest denomination of nigga. So he gets a girl pregnant? And? How does that affect him, he'll just kick rocks. Ok, now how does that affect the girl he impregnated? She's the one facing all the consequences of an unwanted pregnancy.
Andey, I shouldn't speak for him, isn't talking about people in committed relationships that have discussions about their futures and do they want kids and yadda yadda yadda. There is an epidemic in the Black community with out of wedlock children.
I don't understand how people can't look at this logically, this is not a gender bias issue, this is not men saying WOMEN do all the work. THIS IS SCIENCE AND LOGIC TALKING HERE. If you are partners and one person is taking all the risk, shouldn't that person take extra steps to insure themselves???? Basic logic. This is a great discussion to be had and if people want to/can argue/debate/discuss the counter to Andey(and my)'s theory, then let's do so. But if the dialogue is going to be the board equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears, closing your eyes and saying "LALALALALALALALALA I CAN"T HEAR YOU" really loudly, then fuck it, let's get back to dick threads and "Ladies I need your help" cornball threads.
This is why I cannot wait until we no longer need men.
Just fuck them and their loser ass mentalities.
We can get off without them. We can have kids without them.
We really should just live without them.
Every time you involve them in your lives, this is what you'll get.
Women are here to procreate yet men have a problem with this very natural behavior...well only if it somehow affects them.
Just leave them be.
I have no words.




Yes I know. I also know that even with a vasectomy you can still get a woman pregnant. The only birth control that is proven to be 100% effective is ABSTINENCE.