Children Out Of Wedlock...Men or Women's Responsiblity!!!

Who's Gonna Take The Weight?

  • Man's Responsibility - Strap Up Fellas

    Votes: 2 3.4%
  • Woman's Responsibility - Look Out For #1 Ladies

    Votes: 17 29.3%
  • Both - It Takes Two

    Votes: 39 67.2%

  • Total voters
    58
And you forgot about another choice you have. You can choose to protect yourself and get a vasectomy until you find a partner you want to have children with. You can also choose to speak to your partner about making sure that a baby isn't on the agenda for you two. I can't speak for every woman, but those who value themselves do not have sex w/o any kind of protection. And as a man, you should be looking at any chick sideways who in this day and age fucks random guys raw.

How is a man at risk, besides financially, for a woman getting pregnant??? It is not logical to have an expensive surgery based on your reasoning. When it comes down to it, people look out for self. I'm sorry, that's basic human response. And let's say he's the lowest denomination of nigga. So he gets a girl pregnant? And? How does that affect him, he'll just kick rocks. Ok, now how does that affect the girl he impregnated? She's the one facing all the consequences of an unwanted pregnancy.

Andey, I shouldn't speak for him, isn't talking about people in committed relationships that have discussions about their futures and do they want kids and yadda yadda yadda. There is an epidemic in the Black community with out of wedlock children.

I don't understand how people can't look at this logically, this is not a gender bias issue, this is not men saying WOMEN do all the work. THIS IS SCIENCE AND LOGIC TALKING HERE. If you are partners and one person is taking all the risk, shouldn't that person take extra steps to insure themselves???? Basic logic. This is a great discussion to be had and if people want to/can argue/debate/discuss the counter to Andey(and my)'s theory, then let's do so. But if the dialogue is going to be the board equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears, closing your eyes and saying "LALALALALALALALALA I CAN"T HEAR YOU" really loudly, then fuck it, let's get back to dick threads and "Ladies I need your help" cornball threads.

This is why I cannot wait until we no longer need men.

Just fuck them and their loser ass mentalities.

We can get off without them. We can have kids without them.

We really should just live without them.

Every time you involve them in your lives, this is what you'll get.

Women are here to procreate yet men have a problem with this very natural behavior...well only if it somehow affects them.

Just leave them be.

:smh: I have no words.
 
Side effects include:
- vision damage
- stroke
- heart attack
- depression
- anxiety
- blood clots
- breast and cervical cancer (controversial, but some say there's a link w/pills and these two types of cancer)
- liver tumors
.... and those are only the "major" side effects.

And you forgot about another choice you have. You can choose to protect yourself and get a vasectomy until you find a partner you want to have children with. You can also choose to speak to your partner about making sure that a baby isn't on the agenda for you two. I can't speak for every woman, but those who value themselves do not have sex w/o any kind of protection. And as a man, you should be looking at any chick sideways who in this day and age fucks random guys raw.

You do know that a vasectomy is irreversible right? It seems we both got something to learn about the other gender. :yes:
 
I gonna have to agree with you on this one. Men and Women, choose your partners more carefully.

Once a child comes into this world no matter what the circumstances are, its the responsibilty of both parents to love and care for the child.

You're missing the point of the thread. No one is talking about after-birth, we are talking PRE-CONCEPTION.
 
This is why I cannot wait until we no longer need men.

Just fuck them and their loser ass mentalities.

We can get off without them. We can have kids without them.

We really should just live without them.

Every time you involve them in your lives, this is what you'll get.

Women are here to procreate yet men have a problem with this very natural behavior...well only if it somehow affects them.

Just leave them be.

not me though...watchin nanny 911 and supernanny allow ta see how hard it would b for a mother on her own...which is u see so many wayward children from single parents most of the time single mothers. ON the show as soon as the father helps out...its much easier fuh stability in d family to exist. I dont wat to X out all men i just would like them to stop the foolish argument about who is more respsonsible and ish like that. And they talk about if they were to get preggers blah blah blah. They fail to understand u can't supress a drive.
 
You're missing the point of the thread. No one is talking about after-birth, we are talking PRE-CONCEPTION.

I think people are missing that point.

Oh yeah, just like vasectomies, tubal ligation is ALSO reversible, but c'mon now, is that really an option alot of people will choose.
 
This is a great discussion to be had and if people want to/can argue/debate/discuss the counter to Andey(and my)'s theory, then let's do so. But if the dialogue is going to be the board equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears, closing your eyes and saying "LALALALALALALALALA I CAN"T HEAR YOU" really loudly, then fuck it, let's get back to dick threads and "Ladies I need your help" cornball threads.

I could not have said this better myself. If all ya'll want to do is talk about bullshit all day then fine. I thought this was a serious discussion. DISCUSSION about how we as a community can turn this shit around because it is sad. :smh: I thought women would appreciate this but all ya'll see is that nigga who fucked you, did you wrong and told you that you wasn't shit when this topic is brought up.

For the record I have a child out of wedlock. I see him every other weekend (but not by my choice). I buy him everything he wears. I give him everything he plays with. I take him to the zoo, to the park, to the movies, to the games. I love him to death. I hate his mother with a fucking passion. :smh: I had my mother and my father in my life, but when it came down to it neither of them knew how to talk to me about this. All they said was that girl is no good for you. But why? I had to learn, but I was smart and had support. Most women don't. :hmm:
 
not me though...watchin nanny 911 and supernanny allow ta see how hard it would b for a mother on her own...which is u see so many wayward children from single parents most of the time single mothers. ON the show as soon as the father helps out...its much easier fuh stability in d family to exist. I dont wat to X out all men i just would like them to stop the foolish argument about who is more respsonsible and ish like that. And they talk about if they were to get preggers blah blah blah. They fail to understand u can't supress a drive.

I didn't say supress it. I said protect it. I am saying take care of yourself. You have a big fucking chip and have not listened to a goddamn word said in here. Go back and read and tell me what is wrong with what I am saying here. :dunno:
 
This is why I cannot wait until we no longer need men.

Just fuck them and their loser ass mentalities.

We can get off without them. We can have kids without them.

We really should just live without them.

Every time you involve them in your lives, this is what you'll get.

Women are here to procreate yet men have a problem with this very natural behavior...well only if it somehow affects them.

Just leave them be.

I'm calling Dr. Phil on you:D

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You're missing the point of the thread. No one is talking about after-birth, we are talking PRE-CONCEPTION.

Ok fair point, but let add my 2 pennies to this discussion.

I'm going to put it quite simple here. If you don't want a child with your partner, its the responsibility to both male and female to ensure that adequate protection is in place to prevent this.

As a man myself I will ensure that when having sex with a woman I'll always be strapped up to prevent this. I don't believe that its just the repsonsibility of just one person.
 
I didn't say supress it. I said protect it. I am saying take care of yourself. You have a big fucking chip and have not listened to a goddamn word said in here. Go back and read and tell me what is wrong with what I am saying here. :dunno:

So aren't u aware that people have already heard these issure 24/7?...studies, teen talk, guidance, tv shows, movies, music, news, tv series.

so where else do u go now? u make a blog about it and think u helping COMMUNITY? Lolol...

where else do u go.

I kno where else...the family. As the fabric of society deteriote to an even worse state aint nothing else we can do but hope that the coming generation has some sort of epiphany and decide to act right although they haven't been taught too and wouldn't kno how:smh:

Fathers...well parents i think u should talk to chilldren much earlier about this and dont let them have to learn every thing in sex ed, the net and on tv.

Society needs to finish with all of these quick fixes and instil values. Cuz next 10 years people gone start dying from they heart changing shape and air bubbles in their blood from takin all these fcuked up pills.

Children growing up haven't been taught about consequences and will continue to not give a fuck till whenever.

:lol::lol::lol: @ u all.
 
Ok fair point, but let add my 2 pennies to this discussion.

I'm going to put it quite simple here. If you don't want a child with your partner, its the responsibility to both male and female to ensure that adequate protection is in place to prevent this.

As a man myself I will ensure that when having sex with a woman I'll always be strapped up to prevent this. I don't believe that its just the repsonsibility of just one person.

I feel you on this. Damn a real answer. :lol:

Here's my point and I think the real point of contention of the night...

There are plenty of reasons that women have babies but only one of them is planned and thought out between two mutual parties. :smh: Now there are plenty of stand up men out there, but then you have those who are not. You know who they are and I know who they are. Women on the other hand always act like they don't. :hmm:

He lied to me. I thought we would be together forever. There is no I THINK when a child's life is involved. It's either you know or you don't give a damn because you can handle it. If it's no to both you might as well keep that nigga out the bed. :hmm:
 
Ok fair point, but let add my 2 pennies to this discussion.

I'm going to put it quite simple here. If you don't want a child with your partner, its the responsibility to both male and female to ensure that adequate protection is in place to prevent this.

As a man myself I will ensure that when having sex with a woman I'll always be strapped up to prevent this. I don't believe that its just the repsonsibility of just one person.


thanx. The type of thinkin that its the womans respsonbility to have or not have a child...would somehow nurture the selfish thoughts by immature women. The same women men complain about, have sex with. Kinda sense is that? Its the respsonsibility of both. This culture of being a village ram...or in ur case a state ram aint exactly helping.

and then to top it off. These men want women to predict the future. IF she thought that he would stay wat do u want her ta do?
 
So aren't u aware that people have already heard these issure 24/7?...studies, teen talk, guidance, tv shows, movies, music, news, tv series.

so where else do u go now? u make a blog about it and think u helping COMMUNITY? Lolol...

where else do u go.

I kno where else...the family. As the fabric of society deteriote to an even worse state aint nothing else we can do but hope that the coming generation has some sort of epiphany and decide to act right although they haven't been taught too and wouldn't kno how:smh:

Fathers...well parents i think u should talk to chilldren much earlier about this and dont let them have to learn every thing in sex ed, the net and on tv.

Society needs to finish with all of these quick fixes and instil values. Cuz next 10 years people gone start dying from they heart changing shape and air bubbles in their blood from takin all these fcuked up pills.

Children growing up haven't been taught about consequences and will continue to not give a fuck till whenever.

:lol::lol::lol: @ u all.

So you laugh at me suggesting that we take a better stake in our lives and the lives of our potential future children? That's where we are at now. :hmm:

This discussion is needed because there are plenty of women who come up pregnant everyday who blame the men for not being around for their fucked up situation and children. Your children are fucked up because you were not prepared to be a single parent.

Now the reason why you are a single parent has many different avenues but not one of them was proper planning otherwise you would be prepared. Here's the facts ladies. Some niggas leave. And when they leave they just may leave you with a kid.

What's the answer? This is the answer. Take them chips down and realize that no matter how much me or anybody else feel for your situation there are obviously enough men who don't to make this a big problem in our community. And teach the women and girls in your life that fact.
 
and then to top it off. These men want women to predict the future. IF she thought that he would stay wat do u want her ta do?

You knew damn well Pookie wasn't going to be no damn good father. :hmm: Women know the men they are fucking. Don't give me that. If you don't know the man you are fucking you shouldn't fuck him. Period. You mean to tell me that these niggas out here are so smooth that they can completely fuck your life up for 18 years or more? Is the nigga dick that good that you couldn't check him out and get to know him first?

Don't sit around here and believe this equality in the sleeping around shit that they push on ya'll. Women have consequences and one of them is a human life. Some of these women are not fit to raise our next generation and you know it. :smh:
 
You knew damn well Pookie wasn't going to be no damn good father. :hmm: Women know the men they are fucking. Don't give me that. If you don't know the man you are fucking you shouldn't fuck him. Period. You mean to tell me that these niggas out here are so smooth that they can completely fuck your life up for 18 years or more? Is the nigga dick that good that you couldn't check him out and get to know him first?

Don't sit around here and believe this equality in the sleeping around shit that they push on ya'll. Women have consequences and one of them is a human life. Some of these women are not fit to raise our next generation and you know it. :smh:

And men don't know any better?
 
And men don't know any better?

exactly. half dese ppl dont understand other people's realitys. If the girl aint had no father figure and if in her small little mind pookie was the man fuh her...aint nuttin u can do besides knowing that when shaquana lateisha faliesha moesha jordan let u go raw 4 months ago and she get preggers...that u raise those chlidren and hopefully dont produce ne more whores and bitch niggas.

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How is a man at risk, besides financially, for a woman getting pregnant??? It is not logical to have an expensive surgery based on your reasoning. When it comes down to it, people look out for self. I'm sorry, that's basic human response. And let's say he's the lowest denomination of nigga. So he gets a girl pregnant? And? How does that affect him, he'll just kick rocks. Ok, now how does that affect the girl he impregnated? She's the one facing all the consequences of an unwanted pregnancy.

Andey, I shouldn't speak for him, isn't talking about people in committed relationships that have discussions about their futures and do they want kids and yadda yadda yadda. There is an epidemic in the Black community with out of wedlock children.

I don't understand how people can't look at this logically, this is not a gender bias issue, this is not men saying WOMEN do all the work. THIS IS SCIENCE AND LOGIC TALKING HERE. If you are partners and one person is taking all the risk, shouldn't that person take extra steps to insure themselves???? Basic logic. This is a great discussion to be had and if people want to/can argue/debate/discuss the counter to Andey(and my)'s theory, then let's do so. But if the dialogue is going to be the board equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears, closing your eyes and saying "LALALALALALALALALA I CAN"T HEAR YOU" really loudly, then fuck it, let's get back to dick threads and "Ladies I need your help" cornball threads.

You are right, this is a good topic. But to be honest, all the replies from you guys are subliminally saying it's up to the woman. Yes birth control shouldn't solely be up to the man because it is ultimately the woman who has to bear the consequence. However, just like we should be choosy in who we have sex with, so should you. Don't have sex with someone who doesn't use any kind of protection, don't assume that because she's "on the pill" nothing is gonna happen (unless you see her taking or applying it, how do you know for sure she's telling the truth?). Just like condoms, female contraceptives have failure rates.

There's an epidemic in this country as a whole as far as children born out of wedlock. The only way to combat that is to have open and honest discussions with your children about sex and it's consequences. Tell your children that people will do and say silly ass shit to get in their pants, and don't trust anyone with their well-being but themselves.

And what is your theory again? You said "Don't let a nigga fuck without protection, it's that simple". Like I've said before, any woman who wants you to have unprotected sex with them needs to be left alone. If you fuck her raw, you are just as silly as she is. Not even because of the threat of having kids, but you have NO CLUE as to what kind of diseases she may/may not have.

You do know that a vasectomy is irreversible right? It seems we both got something to learn about the other gender. :yes:

:rolleyes: Yes I know. I also know that even with a vasectomy you can still get a woman pregnant. The only birth control that is proven to be 100% effective is ABSTINENCE.
 
You knew damn well Pookie wasn't going to be no damn good father. :hmm: Women know the men they are fucking. Don't give me that. If you don't know the man you are fucking you shouldn't fuck him. Period. You mean to tell me that these niggas out here are so smooth that they can completely fuck your life up for 18 years or more? Is the nigga dick that good that you couldn't check him out and get to know him first?

Don't sit around here and believe this equality in the sleeping around shit that they push on ya'll. Women have consequences and one of them is a human life. Some of these women are not fit to raise our next generation and you know it. :smh:

We've established that a man can get a woman pregnant and bounce. But is homegirl's pussy so good that you'd be willing to have sex raw with her? Is it worth the hassle of her hunting you down to pay child support for a child you never wanted but is here, because ya'll wanted one night of pleasure? Stop with the one-sidedness. Yes, there are stupid women in this world. But there are men equally as stupid running around here. Teach your sons to make sure that a condom is worn every time they have sex, and not to have sex with women who do not value their bodies, their health, and their futures. Teach your daughters that some men lie to get the pussy, so don't believe what a man says just because "he loves you". Tell her that birth control of any form is a MUST, do not leave it up to him to do it all.
 
You are right, this is a good topic. But to be honest, all the replies from you guys are subliminally saying it's up to the woman. Yes birth control shouldn't solely be up to the man because it is ultimately the woman who has to bear the consequence. However, just like we should be choosy in who we have sex with, so should you. Don't have sex with someone who doesn't use any kind of protection, don't assume that because she's "on the pill" nothing is gonna happen (unless you see her taking or applying it, how do you know for sure she's telling the truth?). Just like condoms, female contraceptives have failure rates.

There's an epidemic in this country as a whole as far as children born out of wedlock. The only way to combat that is to have open and honest discussions with your children about sex and it's consequences. Tell your children that people will do and say silly ass shit to get in their pants, and don't trust anyone with their well-being but themselves.

And what is your theory again? You said "Don't let a nigga fuck without protection, it's that simple". Like I've said before, any woman who wants you to have unprotected sex with them needs to be left alone. If you fuck her raw, you are just as silly as she is. Not even because of the threat of having kids, but you have NO CLUE as to what kind of diseases she may/may not have.

Beacon in a dense fog, I thank you.

We'll continue in the morrow, Lactosia.
 
exactly. half dese ppl dont understand other people's realitys. If the girl aint had no father figure and if in her small little mind pookie was the man fuh her...aint nuttin u can do besides knowing that when shaquana lateisha faliesha moesha jordan let u go raw 4 months ago and she get preggers...that u raise those chlidren and hopefully dont produce ne more whores and bitch niggas.

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This is very true. My God son's mother was so blinded by love:rolleyes: she would not see the future dead beat in the man she was having a child with. I warned her that the dude was no good, but the heart wants what the heart wants:smh:
 
Life educated me about this topic, not my parent, not society and certainly not the educational system. They are still a lot of common myths being believed when it comes to contraception and birth control which a lot of people still believe like the rhythm and the withdrawal method to name two.

You also have people who are allergic to latex and addicted to raw sex. Then you throw emotions in there and a lot of blood rushing around and you will be surprised to see even the educated people will make uneducated decisions.

I knew of two women who were planning to leave their men and two pin pricks later they were pregnant and vice versa.

Some people just do not have enough blood flowing in their systems to allow for the proper functioning of their brain and their genitals at the same time.

If you got pregnant by a man who you know is worthless you will have to deal with it because the child deserves a chance to make something of itself. If a man gets a woman pregnant who he does not want in his life anymore get your neck strong because that is no longer happening and that millstone will be there for 18 years at least.

People should take responsibilities for all of their actions and give the child a chance to make their mistakes for themselves when they grow up. Because in life mistakes will make or break you but ultimately you choose whether they do.
 
You are right, this is a good topic. But to be honest, all the replies from you guys are subliminally saying it's up to the woman. Yes birth control shouldn't solely be up to the man because it is ultimately the woman who has to bear the consequence. However, just like we should be choosy in who we have sex with, so should you. Don't have sex with someone who doesn't use any kind of protection, don't assume that because she's "on the pill" nothing is gonna happen (unless you see her taking or applying it, how do you know for sure she's telling the truth?). Just like condoms, female contraceptives have failure rates.

There's an epidemic in this country as a whole as far as children born out of wedlock. The only way to combat that is to have open and honest discussions with your children about sex and it's consequences. Tell your children that people will do and say silly ass shit to get in their pants, and don't trust anyone with their well-being but themselves.

And what is your theory again? You said "Don't let a nigga fuck without protection, it's that simple". Like I've said before, any woman who wants you to have unprotected sex with them needs to be left alone. If you fuck her raw, you are just as silly as she is. Not even because of the threat of having kids, but you have NO CLUE as to what kind of diseases she may/may not have.



:rolleyes: Yes I know. I also know that even with a vasectomy you can still get a woman pregnant. The only birth control that is proven to be 100% effective is ABSTINENCE.

Good Post Sin. I was always taught (by my mom) that right or wrong a woman bares the load. It's not about ideal standards of conduct- such exist but few will honor them so I make a conscious decision to protect no 1. my LIFE from HIV and no. 2 my fertility. I like Sinn fail to see the appeal of a woman that cares so little for you or herself that she will let you jump off raw :smh: Are people really still doing that nowadays besides Puff?
 
With those kind of poll results, it looks like there were some hanging chads in the mix.

I hope BGOL members learn how to vote correctly before the presidential election in November. :eek:
 
See, this is what I am talking about ladies. In another thread about what makes a man a man, chicks were going on and on about ambition and great conversation and sensitive and romantic and yada yada yada. I added what to me is the conummate definition of a man, as derived from my daddy: you tote your own fucking water.

Now, ladies, for all this shit on the board I hear about this ninja is fine and that ninja has a big dick, you can read the above and see what you are really sharing your delectable pussies with (why don't ya'll restrict that shit to cats who can REALLY appreciate it?): muthafuckas tryin to get out of paying for kids they bring into to world. I EVER try some shit like that, my old man would resurrect himself and slap the shit out of me.

Don't blame them, ladies. These weak, snivelling bitches are the result, quite often, of not have daddies themselves. You don't know unless you are taught. So they learn, from a sick fucking society, that women are here solely for a man's pleasure, and fuck the consequences to her or society. I love pussy as much as any cat on the face of the earth- I FUCKING LOVE IT!!! But it's clear to me that with every blowjob, every skeet, every pussylick, there are a host of responsibilities and consequences. I am willing to face each and every one of them because I was raised to be a FUCKING MAN, not a little bitch-girl talkin bout- "it's her responsibility, it's her responsibility..."

80/20 split. I'm gonna assume you were joking, nigga, cause you cannot be that fucking stupid. What do want when you get hungry, nigga? FOOD, right? Where does that come from? SOMEBODY (sounds like it ain't you) has to work to provide it. Now you tell me, who the fuck should provide the food for YOUR kids? And don't give me this shit about "well, we were talking about birth control" fuck that. Everytime you stick your dick in a healthy young women a child can result. And, because we are men (MEN, nigga), in the final analysis EVERYTHING is OUR responsibility. Damn ya'll some weak muthfuckas. But then again, I'm just crude and old fashioned, I guess.

Ladies, ya'll amaze me. You got hard working, serious minded cats out here who want to give you the fucking world, but you would rather give that precious shit to some useless asshole because he is "handsome" GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE!!!

80/20 split... that's a damnned shame.
 
Yes. Let's go back to the old times LADIES. To where you didn't have sex with a man until you were married to one. :hmm:

Yeah that's gonna happen any minute now.

Why is this such a touchy subject. Don't accept this bullshit that ya'll don't have power over us ladies, because ya'll have all the power in the world. If you say no sex then we get no sex. Now you may say he will just move on, but if he move on because you won't have sex with him or because he doesn't want to put on a condom then WHY IN THE FUCK DO YOU WANT HIM ANYWAY?

This is my question. Can you not tell this nigga to step off with that bareback shit BEFORE a child is brought into the world. We can't make them if ya'll don't let us. :smh:
:rolleyes: They think that they're doing the right thing by marrying a woman just because she's pregnant with your child.In the Bible your not even suppose to have sex until you get married.I guess people don't read or comprehend that well when It comes to that religion stuff.As long as the parents take care of child,that's all that matters.Another thing people need to be careful about who they lay down with.Don't have unprotected sex with a female that you don't like or you don't really know like that.You don't want to be stuck with a person that you don't like for 18 years & stop making excuses for these dumb ass broads.There's multiple forms of contraception.I don't wanna hear that I'm allergic to latex bullshit or birth control makes me sick.That bitch is trying to get you caught up.
 
:rolleyes: They think that they're doing the right thing by marrying a woman just because she's pregnant with your child.In the Bible your not even suppose to have sex until you get married.I guess people don't read or comprehend that well when It comes to that religion stuff.As long as the parents take care of child,that's all that matters.Another thing people need to be careful about who they lay down with.Don't have unprotected sex with a female that you don't like or you don't really know like that.You don't want to be stuck with a person that you don't like for 18 years.

I REST MY FUCKING CASE...
 
Good Post Sin. I was always taught (by my mom) that right or wrong a woman bares the load. It's not about ideal standards of conduct- such exist but few will honor them so I make a conscious decision to protect no 1. my LIFE from HIV and no. 2 my fertility. I like Sinn fail to see the appeal of a woman that cares so little for you or herself that she will let you jump off raw :smh: Are people really still doing that nowadays besides Puff?

:dunno: Apparently so. Men, it's your dick. If you don't require the use of a condom, that's on you. Just be prepared for the consequences, and don't talk that "she tricked me" or "I didn't think that would happen" shit.

Now, ladies, for all this shit on the board I hear about this ninja is fine and that ninja has a big dick, you can read the above and see what you are really sharing your delectable pussies with (why don't ya'll restrict that shit to cats who can REALLY appreciate it?): muthafuckas tryin to get out of paying for kids they bring into to world. I EVER try some shit like that, my old man would resurrect himself and slap the shit out of me.

Don't blame them, ladies. These weak, snivelling bitches are the result, quite often, of not have daddies themselves. You don't know unless you are taught. So they learn, from a sick fucking society, that women are here solely for a man's pleasure, and fuck the consequences to her or society. I love pussy as much as any cat on the face of the earth- I FUCKING LOVE IT!!! But it's clear to me that with every blowjob, every skeet, every pussylick, there are a host of responsibilities and consequences. I am willing to face each and every one of them because I was raised to be a FUCKING MAN, not a little bitch-girl talkin bout- "it's her responsibility, it's her responsibility..."

Ladies, ya'll amaze me. You got hard working, serious minded cats out here who want to give you the fucking world, but you would rather give that precious shit to some useless asshole because he is "handsome" GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE!!!

80/20 split... that's a damnned shame.

Did you really get that from this thread? I can walk up and down the streets of NY and point out every man I'd like to fuck. But am I going to do it? Not. So I see a pic of a handsome man, and I say "yes I'd fuck", and you think I'm gonna give him my goods? In an ideal world, probably, but not in real life. But then again, this is BGOL, and given the opportunity, all of you would fuck Pinky into oblivion :rolleyes: Spare me. Words and actions are two different things luv.

Like I keep saying throughout this thread: are you as a man, going to willingly have sex without a condom with some chick you do not see a future with? If a woman doesn't want to use one, are you so blinded by the pussy that you'll risk having a baby with her? You can always say no. I'm sorry, but NO dick is that damn good that I'm going to risk my health and well-being and have unprotected sex.

:rolleyes: They think that they're doing the right thing by marrying a woman just because she's pregnant with your child.In the Bible your not even suppose to have sex until you get married.I guess people don't read or comprehend that well when It comes to that religion stuff.As long as the parents take care of child,that's all that matters.Another thing people need to be careful about who they lay down with.Don't have unprotected sex with a female that you don't like or you don't really know like that.You don't want to be stuck with a person that you don't like for 18 years & stop making excuses for these dumb ass broads.There's multiple forms of contraception.I don't wanna hear that I'm allergic to latex bullshit or birth control makes me sick.That bitch is trying to get you caught up.

What I've been saying the whole damn time.
 
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