For those in a relationship with a woman.

[God's Gift]

For those in a relationship with a woman...

Outside of a medical issue needing professional help

Has your woman ever suffered a blowout?
Has she fallen the fvck off?
Has she let herself go?

Some of these females are definitely a different sub-species than those from 2 generations ago.

 

[RoomService]

I mean, the board is predominantly male, probably around 95%. I would hope they are in a relationship with a woman, but then again, this bgol and you never know.

 

[doe moe]

According to the woman in the video.

If my girl lets herself go, its my fault because I didn't love on her enough or give her a soft life.

 

[the artist]

Thread title is weird

 

[knightmelodic]

 

[Smoke Van Gundy]

Man fuck what that bish talking bout

 

[bgbtylvr]

I mean, the board is predominantly male, probably around 95%. I would hope they are in a relationship with a woman, but then again, this bgol and you never know.

 

[bgbtylvr]

 

[RoadRage]

Yo Slick was wild as fuck with this one.

 

[yaBoi]

Thread title is weird

word

 

[mcguyver]

For those in a relationship with a woman...

Outside of a medical issue needing professional help

Has your woman ever suffered a blowout?
Has she fallen the fvck off?
Has she let herself go?

Some of these females are definitely a different sub-species than those from 2 generations ago.

Stop listening to dumb bitches.

 

[RoadRage]

The key is to avoid dating women with poor discipline while being able to keep yourself fit and in shape. Because if I had a dime for every time I heard a brother complain about their fat, lazy broad, while them being fat and out of shape themselves, I'd own BGOL by now. All the women I lived with knew how to cook, clean, and keep themselves up, which is different from looking good while they are younger, only for it to catch up to them after they have children, and the poor habits catch up to them.

 

[34real]

for-those-in-a-relationship-with-a-woman

 

[God's Gift]

Doesnt it SEEM to always circle back to the man? He didn't find her with hairy legs and a bonnet. She maintained herself before there was an us.

God forbid she try therapy when dealing with HER mind and / or HER emotions.

Avoid the self responsibility and accountability when she has a man to blame for X, Y and Z.

The key is to avoid dating women with poor discipline while being able to keep yourself fit and in shape. Because if I had a dime for every time I heard a brother complain about their fat, lazy broad, while them being fat and out of shape themselves, I'd own BGOL by now. All the women I lived with knew how to cook, clean, and keep themselves up, which is different from looking good while they are younger, only for it to catch up to them after they have children, and the poor habits catch up to them.

 

[Database Error]

how sway. Reality she let herself go because she knows the fool she's with loves her too much to say anything.

 

[Moving Target]

According to the woman in the video.

If my girl lets herself go, its my fault because I didn't love on her enough or give her a soft life.

EXACTLY.......STILL BLAME ALL WOMENS PROBLEMS IN MEN...ITS STILL OUR FAULT EVEN WHEN WE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH IT.

 

[Princenubian]

For those in a relationship with a woman...

Outside of a medical issue needing professional help

Has your woman ever suffered a blowout?
Has she fallen the fvck off?
Has she let herself go?

Some of these females are definitely a different sub-species than those from 2 generations ago.

Yo Slick was wild as fuck with this one.

Two of the biggest things wrong w society today

-you justifiably felt the need to say men who r w a woman

-if Slick made this song today, he would be tarred feathered and cancelled.



Carry on……

 

[knightmelodic]

Two of the biggest things wrong w society today

-you justifiably felt the need to say men who r w a woman

-if Slick made this song today, he would be tarred feathered and cancelled.



Carry on……

Nobody in this universe except you understands this

 

[God's Gift]

Sadly, I had to specify about being in a "relationship" with a woman. Why be in a relationship when they want to be the man... Next to a man. When they're willing to be friends with benefits or be happy with a piece of a man. None of that benefits them though.




... Slick has made some single eye opening songs about what societal problems he sees including this and
"Hey young world"

Two of the biggest things wrong w society today

-you justifiably felt the need to say men who r w a woman

-if Slick made this song today, he would be tarred feathered and cancelled.



Carry on……

 

[Hey Julian!]

Generation X raised of a bunch "Live Your Truth", victim mentality ass kids and this what the adult them sound like. Just a bunch of people who refuse to live in reality who take no personal responsibility. I can't stand it.

 

[World B Free]

 

[blaze]

I been married for a minute, that is to say almost a quarter century. I never thought about it, but it really comes down to the habits you carry into the marriage is generally what you carry through the marriage. If you (dude or chick) get into a relationship with a somebody that works out because it makes her feel good, then that's who they going to be. Conversely, if you get with a person that either is working out because they trying to catch or just look good without working out, that's what they are going to be. When that person gets older, their bodies are going to change. It would take a monumental shift to make somebody start being a gym rat and eating super healthy later in life. Certainly, things are going to change as your relationship matures. At the end of the day, the more you are into your mate, the less that shit is going to matter. My lady certainly does not look the way she did when we got together, but I'm just so into her. She can get whenever she want it. That whole beauty is in the eye of the beholder is some real shit.

BTW, holding your man responsible for maintenance of your fragile mental state is nasty work. I would run from a broad like that. There is real value in really trying to get to know people when you are dating. That means paying attention to red flags. When somebody tells you who they are, you need to believe them.

 

[Dr. Truth]

The thread title

 

[trstar]

According to the woman in the video.

If my girl lets herself go, its my fault because I didn't love on her enough or give her a soft life.

I had a classmate whose wife went thru a deep depression. My guy was working Three jobs to keep this household afloat. He had a stroke and died. A year after he died she got therapy, and she was fine. Cured. Started working and went on with her life.

I learned my lesson. I will throw you a lifesaver, but I’m not drowning with you.

These internet women want to be house cats, no responsibility, no accountability, and no self awareness. And yet demanding everything from a mythical male archetype

 

[Princenubian]

Nobody in this universe except you understands this

Sadly, I had to specify about being in a "relationship" with a woman. Why be in a relationship when they want to be the man... Next to a man. When they're willing to be friends with benefits or be happy with a piece of a man. None of that benefits them though.




... Slick has made some single eye opening songs about what societal problems he sees including this and
"Hey young world"

Welp @knightmelodic you might want to correct your post to indicate one other person in the universe

That might be better than facing the real issue.

Hope this post was coear

That’s all

Carry on…….

 

[The Plutonian]

For those in a relationship with a woman...

Outside of a medical issue needing professional help

Has your woman ever suffered a blowout?
Has she fallen the fvck off?
Has she let herself go?

Some of these females are definitely a different sub-species than those from 2 generations ago.

What can the man do? Fuck outta here! Some of you hoes get too comfortable and lazy. Get fat lose your dude, then lose the weight and get some residual dick for how you'll be looking temporarily until you eventually get fat again.

 

[4 Dimensional]

I been married for a minute, that is to say almost a quarter century. I never thought about it, but it really comes down to the habits you carry into the marriage is generally what you carry through the marriage. If you (dude or chick) get into a relationship with a somebody that works out because it makes her feel good, then that's who they going to be. Conversely, if you get with a person that either is working out because they trying to catch or just look good without working out, that's what they are going to be. When that person gets older, their bodies are going to change. It would take a monumental shift to make somebody start being a gym rat and eating super healthy later in life. Certainly, things are going to change as your relationship matures. At the end of the day, the more you are into your mate, the less that shit is going to matter. My lady certainly does not look the way she did when we got together, but I'm just so into her. She can get whenever she want it. That whole beauty is in the eye of the beholder is some real shit.

BTW, holding your man responsible for maintenance of your fragile mental state is nasty work. I would run from a broad like that. There is real value in really trying to get to know people when you are dating. That means paying attention to red flags. When somebody tells you who they are, you need to believe them.

Habits definitely changes, so adaptability is also key as well. You can always create new good habits while in the relationship that you didn’t have before because your adapting.

When the wife (or husband) faces the death of a parent or sibling, especially unexpectedly, then this introduces an entire new realm of caring. That’s unfamiliar territory for many men. Other trials exist, too (job loss, sick child, etc.)

The problem with some ideas we have about relationships is the stability factor and not thinking your partner will hit rough patches that explicitly need intervention and assistance from the mate. And you can’t put a time table on it either.

I don’t agree that, men are responsible for upholding certain mental states of a woman. I also don’t 100% disagree with what she said in the video.

I’ve been with my wife for 20 years now. We’ve experienced a lot together and we’ve had to bring each other out of certain states of mind at some point. That’s how it should be, imo.

 

[4 Dimensional]

I had a classmate whose wife went thru a deep depression. My guy was working Three jobs to keep this household afloat. He had a stroke and died. A year after he died she got therapy, and she was fine. Cured. Started working and went on with her life.

I learned my lesson. I will throw you a lifesaver, but I’m not drowning with you.

These internet women want to be house cats, no responsibility, no accountability, and no self awareness. And yet demanding everything from a mythical male archetype

Honestly, I don’t know too many guys my age that know how to assist a depressed partner. The emotional support can be taxing to an individual that doesn’t know how to handle it.

And like you, I know more than enough black men that’s checkout because they wasn’t talking care of themselves. That’s accountability, too.

 

[scullydog]

For those in a relationship with a woman...

Outside of a medical issue needing professional help

Has your woman ever suffered a blowout?
Has she fallen the fvck off?
Has she let herself go?

Some of these females are definitely a different sub-species than those from 2 generations ago.

Damn, no accountability. So, everything is our fault? So, it's gonna be our fault when most of us go to other countries and wife up women who gives a fuck about us. Wow. We need to really sit down with them before it's too late.

 

[blaze]

Habits definitely changes, so adaptability is also key as well. You can always create new good habits while in the relationship that you didn’t have before because your adapting.

When the wife (or husband) faces the death of a parent or sibling, especially unexpectedly, then this introduces an entire new realm of caring. That’s unfamiliar territory for many men. Other trials exist, too (job loss, sick child, etc.)

The problem with some ideas we have about relationships is the stability factor and not thinking your partner will hit rough patches that explicitly need intervention and assistance from the mate. And you can’t put a time table on it either.

I don’t agree that, men are responsible for upholding certain mental states of a woman. I also don’t 100% disagree with what she said in the video.

I’ve been with my wife for 20 years now. We’ve experienced a lot together and we’ve had to bring each other out of certain states of mind at some point. That’s how it should be, imo.

I get what you're saying. Me and my wife are actually in therapy right now. When she suggested it, I almost said no, but I will do anything to make sure that I'm doing my part to be a partner. It turns out, most of our problems are communication and follow through. That shit could have broken us. That's how you see people that love each other and still get divorced.