Fuck Gerald ford and child support

[nawlinsn931]

I hope all his surviving relatives die in the most slow painful way
This POS started child support in 1975 and there’s no telling how many lives have been ruined
I get the mail today that they finna add insurance to my check which will destroy my pay and I’m38 hot, my wife trying calm me down and I’m not hearing it
I’m going thru all types of scenarios in my head and then I read that one of my teammates committed suicide because of child support
He broke up with this female and she waited YEARS to put him on and even though the child isn’t his, in TN because he’s the only father figure the child ever knew he got hit with the 3 years of back pay etc
Shortly after court he took his life
My ex wife ain’t work in over 7 years and they not making her do shit
Child support needs a reform in the worst way, shit is borderline illegal
And no, lawyers don’t touch it without charging arm and a leg and when you show up with one, the judge increases your support amount “because if you can afford an attorney you can afford more support “

 

[havelcok]

What’s the custody arrangement?

 

[nawlinsn931]

What’s the custody arrangement?

I have split custody and still pay $500 for one

Tn is the worst

 

[chitownsfinest]

Glad my pull-out game was immaculate.

 

[DWBass]

What's the insurance for? Back when I had CS, I was required to have health insurance for my daughter which I did. Is your child not covered?

 

[DWBass]

Glad my pull-out game was immaculate.

Pussy was too good! Got me twice but I only had to pay CS for one. I was married to the other mother. NYC is a muthafucka! I had to pay until she was 21!

 

[nawlinsn931]

What's the insurance for? Back when I had CS, I was required to have health insurance for my daughter which I did. Is your child not covered?

Covered thru the state I recently switched jobs but my employer informed me that the state gave insurance especially because my ex wife is considered “low income” because she doesn’t work and for some reason they don’t include her husbands income into things

 

[Mask]

Glad my pull-out game was immaculate.

 

[Chiyo]

Covered thru the state I recently switched jobs but my employer informed me that the state gave insurance especially because my ex wife is considered “low income” because she doesn’t work and for some reason they don’t include her husbands income into things

If shes legally married and living with the husband then the state(At least in Georgia) is REQUIRED to take his income into account. Are you in Louisiana? I think the law is the same there no?

 

[DC_Dude]

Pussy was too good! Got me twice but I only had to pay CS for one. I was married to the other mother. NYC is a muthafucka! I had to pay until she was 21!

Yeah that’s how DC is if the kid goes to college. You still have to pay until they graduate.

Bitch tried to get my homeboy like that using her grand parents address in DC vs using her real home address in MD where CS ends at 18. She failed miserably lol

 

[mcguyver]

I hope all his surviving relatives die in the most slow painful way
This POS started child support in 1975 and there’s no telling how many lives have been ruined
I get the mail today that they finna add insurance to my check which will destroy my pay and I’m38 hot, my wife trying calm me down and I’m not hearing it
I’m going thru all types of scenarios in my head and then I read that one of my teammates committed suicide because of child support
He broke up with this female and she waited YEARS to put him on and even though the child isn’t his, in TN because he’s the only father figure the child ever knew he got hit with the 3 years of back pay etc
Shortly after court he took his life
My ex wife ain’t work in over 7 years and they not making her do shit
Child support needs a reform in the worst way, shit is borderline illegal
And no, lawyers don’t touch it without charging arm and a leg and when you show up with one, the judge increases your support amount “because if you can afford an attorney you can afford more support “

Explain those two things in red bruh.

 

[Princenubian]

Glad my pull-out game was immaculate.

Mine was semi-immaculate. But I got by w a lil help from my friends.

Carry on……

 

[mcguyver]

 

[nawlinsn931]

Explain those two things in red bruh.

38 hot
Originating Down south ,this term refers to someone being pissed off to the point of pulling out a gun.
(38 Referring to a popular hand gun easily obtained at the local pawn shops)

I play semi pro football, my teammate took his life

 

[nawlinsn931]

If shes legally married and living with the husband then the state(At least in Georgia) is REQUIRED to take his income into account. Are you in Louisiana? I think the law is the same there no?

Not in TN bruh

 

[dasmybikepunk]

Just raise your kids until they are grown and then you don't have to pay child support. Problem solved.

 

[DiGeneral]

Pussy was too good! Got me twice but I only had to pay CS for one. I was married to the other mother. NYC is a muthafucka! I had to pay until she was 21!

My Daughter turned 21 last year, my dumb ass thought that NYS would automatically stop the garnishment... Nope, I had to submit an amendment order, it took those fucks 8 months to stop snatching my shit. I was told that I would get a refund check for the over-payment, but they taxed that shit before releasing it via a paper check that took 7+ weeks to get to me. Needles to say, NYSCS can go suck dem STINKIN SOUR CROTCHES MUMA!

 

[notreally]

Not in TN bruh

I feel for you. No joke.

As bad as things can be in the Midwest (Detroit is no picnic), seems like the south has always been stuck in 1944.

I hate I have to stop in Florida when I leave the country. I despise the south. This exemplifies why.

 

[Coldchi]

My brother has a vindictive bm.
But her vindictiveness cost her in getting CS.
Out of spite, she didnt put my brother's name on the birth certificate just to make him mad.....and instead put her current boyfriend.
Under Georgia law, since my brother's name is not on the birth certificate, he isnt required to pay.
So she shot herself in the foot.
Neither she nor her boyfriend works.
Told em to stop fuckin with them welfare and Snap ass hoes....lol

 

[CrucialOne]

My dad was paying child support in 1969. So, I think Gerald Ford didn't start it. He may have made it a federal law or something.

 

[dasailr03]

I hope all his surviving relatives die in the most slow painful way
This POS started child support in 1975 and there’s no telling how many lives have been ruined
I get the mail today that they finna add insurance to my check which will destroy my pay and I’m38 hot, my wife trying calm me down and I’m not hearing it
I’m going thru all types of scenarios in my head and then I read that one of my teammates committed suicide because of child support
He broke up with this female and she waited YEARS to put him on and even though the child isn’t his, in TN because he’s the only father figure the child ever knew he got hit with the 3 years of back pay etc
Shortly after court he took his life
My ex wife ain’t work in over 7 years and they not making her do shit
Child support needs a reform in the worst way, shit is borderline illegal
And no, lawyers don’t touch it without charging arm and a leg and when you show up with one, the judge increases your support amount “because if you can afford an attorney you can afford more support “

so your ok with having a child and not supporting said child? cmon son.. you got to do better than that. if you really about your business you wouldn't need a white man to tell you how to take care of your kids. If the BM starts all that yapping shit, bring her ass to court and let her make her case, if your coming true and correct with the $$. you good.

 

[nawlinsn931]

so your ok with having a child and not supporting said child? cmon son.. you got to do better than that. if you really about your business you wouldn't need a white man to tell you how to take care of your kids. If the BM starts all that yapping shit, bring her ass to court and let her make her case, if your coming true and correct with the $$. you good.

You clearly haven’t been in TN
I was married for 12 years
My ex wife waited 3 years to take me to court, everything I did for my kids was considered a “gift” and they hit me with back support I take care of my children bro
Neither one of my children’s mothers work and haven’t worked in over 7 years
It’s all about money here in TN

 

[donwuan]

You clearly haven’t been in TN
I was married for 12 years
My ex wife waited 3 years to take me to court, everything I did for my kids was considered a “gift” and they hit me with back support I take care of my children bro
Neither one of my children’s mothers work and haven’t worked in over 7 years
It’s all about money here in TN

Why not get a joint custody agreement during the divorce? Did you pay alimony too?

 

[nawlinsn931]

Why not get a joint custody agreement during the divorce? Did you pay alimony too?

No alimony
Got joint custody but they give parental custody to the mom here in TN

 

[doug777]

Child support needs a reform in the worst way, shit is borderline illegal.

Your partner in Tenn. has a gripe, I definitely don't believe someone should be legally obligated to care for a child that isn't theirs, but it is in no way borderline illegal to pay for your own child. If your ex isn't paying what she should then court is your only option. When you go to court you have to be prepared to show that she's making more money than she claims, a little detective work can help you out.

 

[doug777]

My ex wife waited 3 years to take me to court, everything I did for my kids was considered a “gift” and they hit me with back support.

I feel you on this point, but that's still on you, a handshake deal means nothing without a court order.

 

[dHustla]

38 hot
Originating Down south ,this term refers to someone being pissed off to the point of pulling out a gun.
(38 Referring to a popular hand gun easily obtained at the local pawn shops)

I play semi pro football, my teammate took his life

I always thought it was hot as a .38 after being fired. Ever try to tuck one in your waist & run after its been shot?

Sorry to hear about your teammate, my condolences.

 

[havelcok]

My brother has a vindictive bm.
But her vindictiveness cost her in getting CS.
Out of spite, she didnt put my brother's name on the birth certificate just to make him mad.....and instead put her current boyfriend.
Under Georgia law, since my brother's name is not on the birth certificate, he isnt required to pay.
So she shot herself in the foot.
Neither she nor her boyfriend works.
Told em to stop fuckin with them welfare and Snap ass hoes....lol

He can’t take the child?
I’d be damned if I live my kids with two adults that don’t work

 

[Gods_Debris]

Look at these dumbass niggas guessing at the child support arrangement and laws in states they don't reside in . Trying to say my man is trying to be a deadbeat, I bet that nigga want to kick a hole in a couple of you forrest gump niggas' backs.

 

[Bawse Nigguh]

Good thing I had all my kids killed…Pro Choice 4life

 

[BlackGoku]

No alimony
Got joint custody but they give parental custody to the mom here in TN

That's not necessarily true. If you live in TN, and you live near the kids and can see them on a reasonable basis, you can definitely setup parental custody where you see them one week and then they go back to her. I know you're saying attorneys cost an arm and a leg, but if you need someone that can advocate for you that knows the law and how the local judges work. Paying more upfront will cost less in the long run, even if you still have to pay for child support and I'm not just talking "financial".

 

[Gods_Debris]

That's not necessarily true. If you live in TN, and you live near the kids and can see them on a reasonable basis, you can definitely setup parental custody where you see them one week and then they go back to her. I know you're saying attorneys cost an arm and a leg, but if you need someone that can advocate for you that knows the law and how the local judges work. Paying more upfront will cost less in the long run, even if you still have to pay for child support and I'm not just talking "financial".

If you dont have more up front how can you do that.15 year mortgage is cheaper than a 30 year. Paying for a car outright in cash is cheaper than a 60 month agreement but if people could just do that then they wouldnt take on car payments.

 

[BlackGoku]

If you dont have more up front how can you do that.15 year mortgage is cheaper than a 30 year. Paying for a car outright in cash is cheaper than a 60 month agreement but if people could just do that then they wouldnt take on car payments.

You didn't read the last part about it not just being "financial". You are paying to be in the children's lives and to be there for them for their football practices, recitals, and being able to take them to dances, etc. etc. My point was that what you pay in getting an attorney now (and truth be told, you don't necessarily have to go to court) will go further in the long run. once my bm filed child support, i got some funds together and went and talked to a few attorneys (just advice) and went and filed the paperwork myself to setup a temporary parenting agreement until we could go through mediation. Once we had mediation, the mediator helped us setup a permanent parenting agreement and thats how it's been for almost 10 years now. You dont have to break the bank just because you get an attorney. I spent about 500 bucks and talked to 3 different attorneys. Also, you have to make sure you document everything. Keep receipts even if it's only just a "gift".

 

[nawlinsn931]

That's not necessarily true. If you live in TN, and you live near the kids and can see them on a reasonable basis, you can definitely setup parental custody where you see them one week and then they go back to her. I know you're saying attorneys cost an arm and a leg, but if you need someone that can advocate for you that knows the law and how the local judges work. Paying more upfront will cost less in the long run, even if you still have to pay for child support and I'm not just talking "financial".

Man the judges weren’t trying hear that
Told me it created unstable environment for my kids
My 16 yr old (my profile pic) is actually coming live with me next year and so is my youngest son so I’m ok

 

[BlackGoku]

Man the judges weren’t trying hear that
Told me it created unstable environment for my kids
My 16 yr old (my profile pic) is actually coming live with me next year and so is my youngest son so I’m ok

Unstable? Maaan, not sure where youre at, but I know someone up in Knoxville that has been doing this for the past 5 years. No issues.