I know there is more to this than the headline may suggest.
But 20k in debt is far from crushing.
But my sympathy definitely isn’t with him.
Just like that girl that killed herself in the other thread.
Are niggas out here really depressed like that??
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I know there is more to this than the headline may suggest.
But 20k in debt is far from crushing.
But my sympathy definitely isn’t with him.
Just like that girl that killed herself in the other thread.
Not if you don't have the means to pay it off... depending on who and where you got the loan from people can get fucked up with a 5k loan.
You don't know everyone's situation.
It’s wild that this thread got bumped
I pretty much had the same situation happen a few weeks ago
Ran into one of my old homies at the gas station. Nigga had the saddest look on his face. Growing up, he was one of the few other Black boys that had potential. We always had a bond because we were the only Black kids in the honors/advanced classes in school. Not to mention this nigga was a D1 linebacker
But he made some terrivle decisions in high school and college, and now I see he’s paying for it. That shit hurt a Nigga lowkey
I pretty much had the same situation happen a few weeks ago
Ran into one of my old homies at the gas station. Nigga had the saddest look on his face. Growing up, he was one of the few other Black boys that had potential. We always had a bond because we were the only Black kids in the honors/advanced classes in school. Not to mention this nigga was a D1 linebacker
But he made some terrivle decisions in high school and college, and now I see he’s paying for it. That shit hurt a Nigga lowkey
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You’re, right. I don’t know.
He’s a single dad. Maybe some BGOL negro was banging his baby mama, caught em, he cried in horror, and then left wife the kids. Bitch can’t pay child support because she was a stay at home mom. So now he has exhausted his income while he can’t get the vision of Killagram defiling his woman out of his head. Who knows?
But I still stand by what I said. 20k ain’t shit. I’ve been around enough folks in debt. I’ve been there myself. They find ways to make it. Not off themselves because of it. Hence, why I said it was more to it. It just wasn’t mentioned.
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It’s wild that this thread got bumped
I pretty much had the same situation happen a few weeks ago
Ran into one of my old homies at the gas station. Nigga had the saddest look on his face. Growing up, he was one of the few other Black boys that had potential. We always had a bond because we were the only Black kids in the honors/advanced classes in school. Not to mention this nigga was a D1 linebacker
But he made some terrivle decisions in high school and now I see he’s paying for it. That shit hurt a Nigga lowkey
I see it all the time now.
Mofo was bullshittin in their 20s and let life catch ‘em with. Now they are 40 struggling with life they created themselves.
Decision a person makes in the 20s may not come back until later in life. Wild how that happens.
It’s never too late for a person to find purpose. Teaching adults and watching them become successful or start a new journey in their late 40s and 50s is humbling.
It’s one thing for a knucklehead to be struggling. IMO that’s expected
But to see a smart cat from a good family taking Ls. That shit will hit you different. Especially if it’s your man’s
I didn’t even have the heart to chop it up with him. Just dapped him up and kept it moving
matriarchy + men are useless narrative + women are only attracted to successful men + shitty economy and designed for only a two income household to be middle class = depression
A lot of cats don't know you could live in Thailand for $250/month.
If you are knee deep in debt and can't afford your situation, don't be afraid to up and move when you can.
A lot of cats don't know you could live in Thailand for $250/month.
If you are knee deep in debt and can't afford your situation, don't be afraid to up and move when you can.
Sorry but I could never see how people can allow situations take them over..I have 3 baby mommas..went through the bull crap with one.. but I still had to pay for all three..my check was just enough for me to do me...and sometimes I couldn't... just had to put gas in the ride n keep it moving... but never did I let any of that take me to a dark space...I remember fighting (in court)against the baby momma that gave me issues... bank account went in the red...I didnt even know until I went to subway n my card didn't work..being that I went there all the time the dude let me slide n told me to pay it back when I get my money right.. the following week I went back there and told him thanks very much and here is the money for the samich n here's a tip... that was my low point... but from there I was back on my way up! Been blessed since! n helping brothas around me with the best advice I can give..and even though it was a low point I was still blessed just had, because in life u get these challenges and it's how u tackle them is how u move forward!!
Great story and very inspiring. You never know peoples journey
It would be ignorant to think depression hit every person the same way. People may exhibit the same symptoms of depression, but that internal battle can be harder for some to overcome, especially if you have a chemical imbalance. Then you mix in drugs, alcohol, and other factors. Its not a cut and dry thing. And some people just don't love themselves enough to overcome the feelings that come with depression. I've been suicidal, but I'm also too cocky and self absorbed to ever actually do it. I love myself too much, but what if I didn't? Would probably be gone by now.
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