Are black men starting to hate black women or the stuff they do and co-sign to? You decide.

RoadRage

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Here is a video that perfectly outlines the double standard bullshit that a lot of sisters either co-sign to or turn a blind eye towards. Because in my opinion, this is the type of stuff that has a lot of men asking the question, if we don't stand up for ourselves, who the hell will? Just the fact that they can literally lie to you take thousands of dollars from you, throw you in jail where some die or get an extended sentence, and all they have to say is too bad, man up, and even if they get caught lying nothing is done to them nor are you compensated for your loss. Tell me are you OK with this bullshit that is pissing most real men off!

 
The problem is that you'll find the super rare cases and then act like it's happening to everybody.
Im not talking about the case, I am talking about the fact that there are laws on the books that allow women to lie and men to pay or even go to jail where some die or wind up in there longer, and even if the women are found to be liars nothing is done to them while these men are told to man up and get over it!
 
Nothing but death can make me hate black women solely and even if I die at the hands of a black woman I wouldn't hate them.A lot of brother's are pushing this narrative so they can get views so they can make money and it's an old battle where both sides ended up with scares but our issues as a race is bigger than that whole battle.

I don't hate black women cause I see it for what's it worth and that what's happening is a meer reflection of what's going on in society so to just point it out as a black woman thing would be wrong cause we're all involved into this matrix in some form or fashion.That's not to dismiss any gripe or problem you might of had but for most of us we have to chalk it up to that slogan "that's life" and get out of that negetive zone cause if you stay there for too long you're doing nothing but adding to the problem.These broads that get on the internet and claim this and that are just adding to the gossip section of the newspaper which is a small part of the paper and why waste your time looking for and reading what they have to say?cause there's no photo,name or address attached to it....Da 2 babie daddi baddie can relish in the spolight(hell nooo).
 
Nothing but death can make me hate black women solely and even if I die at the hands of a black woman I wouldn't hate them.A lot of brother's are pushing this narrative so they can get views so they can make money and it's an old battle where both sides ended up with scares but our issues as a race is bigger than that whole battle.

I don't hate black women cause I see it for what's it worth and that what's happening is a meer reflection of what's going on in society so to just point it out as a black woman thing would be wrong cause we're all involved into this matrix in some form or fashion.That's not to dismiss any gripe or problem you might of had but for most of us we have to chalk it up to that slogan "that's life" and get out of that negetive zone cause if you stay there for too long you're doing nothing but adding to the problem.These broads that get on the internet and claim this and that are just adding to the gossip section of the newspaper which is a small part of the paper and why waste your time looking for and reading what they have to say?cause there's no photo,name or address attached to it....Da 2 babie daddi baddie can relish in the spolight(hell nooo).
I don't see too many black men actually hating black women, I know I don't, but guys are starting to hate their actions and the moves they make jeopardizing the lives of thousands of black men and our children.
 
Now ask yourself why are so many women against this.

It's a BIG money maker for the state's ecosystem


Paternity test stats show a dramatic rise in the number of individuals seeking DNA paternity testing. This new trend, along with the increased attention on paternity provided by celebrity scandals, leads to the question: How many people really need a DNA paternity test?

30% of Men: Not the Father?
A quick online search gives frighteningly alarming figures; many articles claim that as many as 30% of men are unknowingly raising another man’s child. This would mean that out of a class of 60 students, 20 of them are growing up calling the wrong man dad. Where did this 30% figure come from?
This is an often misunderstood statistic provided by some paternity test labs regarding the percentage paternity tests with a ‘not the father’ result. Most paternity test labs report that about 1/3 of their paternity tests have a ‘negative’ result. Of all the possible fathers who take a paternity test, about 32% are not the biological father. But remember, this is 1/3 of men who have a reason to take a paternity test - not 1/3 of all men. That is a huge difference! What is the Real Non-Paternity Rate?
To determine a true non-paternity rate, scientists usually turn to various studies of children with genetic disorders. In these studies a large number of children are screened for genetic disorders, like Tay-Sachs disease or cystic fibrosis, in which the child must inherit a copy of the defective gene from both parents to show the disease. In a June 2010 article in the LA times, biology professor Marlene Zuck says:
“When large numbers of families are surveyed for such research, a certain proportion of fathers turn out not to have the gene that their purported child inherited, thus yielding the [non-paternity] figures of 1% to 3.7%. Higher numbers, particularly the often-cited 10%, seem to come from more biased samples, or, more likely, simply turn out to be an urban legend, akin to cell phones being able to pop popcorn.”

With all the media attention on DNA paternity testing and celebrity paternity tests, non-paternity rates are easily sensationalized. However, it seems that we as a society are truly more monogamous than daytime talk shows might make it appear.
 
It's a BIG money maker for the state


Paternity test stats show a dramatic rise in the number of individuals seeking DNA paternity testing. This new trend, along with the increased attention on paternity provided by celebrity scandals, leads to the question: How many people really need a DNA paternity test?

30% of Men: Not the Father?
A quick online search gives frighteningly alarming figures; many articles claim that as many as 30% of men are unknowingly raising another man’s child. This would mean that out of a class of 60 students, 20 of them are growing up calling the wrong man dad. Where did this 30% figure come from?
This is an often misunderstood statistic provided by some paternity test labs regarding the percentage paternity tests with a ‘not the father’ result. Most paternity test labs report that about 1/3 of their paternity tests have a ‘negative’ result. Of all the possible fathers who take a paternity test, about 32% are not the biological father. But remember, this is 1/3 of men who have a reason to take a paternity test - not 1/3 of all men. That is a huge difference! What is the Real Non-Paternity Rate?
To determine a true non-paternity rate, scientists usually turn to various studies of children with genetic disorders. In these studies a large number of children are screened for genetic disorders, like Tay-Sachs disease or cystic fibrosis, in which the child must inherit a copy of the defective gene from both parents to show the disease. In a June 2010 article in the LA times, biology professor Marlene Zuck says:


With all the media attention on DNA paternity testing and celebrity paternity tests, non-paternity rates are easily sensationalized. However, it seems that we as a society are truly more monogamous than daytime talk shows might make it appear.
According to the bgol homosexual representative, its a "super"rare thing and we are acting like its happenign to everybody!

The problem is that you'll find the super rare cases and then act like it's happening to everybody.
 
I don't see too many black men actually hating black women, I know I don't, but guys are starting to hate their actions and the moves they make jeopardizing the lives of thousands of black men and our children.
Its impossible to say you hate the behaviors and actions of a whole group of people without being perceived as hating that group of people. Its like saying I hate the behavior of white people, but I don't hate white people. In reality I hate the behavior of racist white people. I also hate the racist behavior of asian, middle eastern, etc... So, do I hate the behavior of deceitful black women that use false paternity claims to exploit black men? Yes I do, but I don't hate black women.
 
Its impossible to say you hate the behaviors and actions of a whole group of people without being perceived as hating that group of people. Its like saying I hate the behavior of white people, but I don't hate white people. In reality I hate the behavior of racist white people. I also hate the racist behavior of asian, middle eastern, etc... So, do I hate the behavior of deceitful black women that use false paternity claims to exploit black men? Yes I do, but I don't hate black women.
A person's behavior and action can change while the person remains who they are. For example, when I was young I was my actions were that of a knucklehead but my mother still loved me because she knew that with the right nurture and love my actions could be molded and cultivated.
The same can be said for many of these so-called thugs and chicken heads in the streets, I hate their actions but I know they can also be changed into something I can one day love.
 
Well just off how many bitches done ran backstage over the years on Maury can tell you it ain't rare
Lot of episodes of Maury is fake.. in fact a lot of people court is fake..let’s just say I know this to be fact.. hell in peoples court when it comes to lawsuits they literally will pay for it themselves if you appear on the show.. they just use your case as content for tv.. now that you know tv/reality tv is fake are you not going to watch the idiot box? Here’s another thing to ruin your tv shows they literally be offering some girls on love and hip hop money to fake relationships with certain celebrities to create fake storylines for the show and once again create fake content..I know several strippers/ models that were offered to play certain individuals girlfriends.. I can go on with fake scenarios they be pushed at truth on the idiot box..now that you know this stop using the idiot box it as a bible it’s nothing but false prophets
 
Now ask yourself why are so many women against this.


They don't have to be against it. The powers that be loves the laws that are in place. It's just another tool in the system's arsenal.

Think about it...... men didn't get a vote for child support. Why should women get a yah or nah for a mandatory DNA test law?
 
A person's behavior and action can change while the person remains who they are. For example, when I was young I was my actions were that of a knucklehead but my mother still loved me because she knew that with the right nurture and love my actions could be molded and cultivated.
The same can be said for many of these so-called thugs and chicken heads in the streets, I hate their actions but I know they can also be changed into something I can one day love.
I think I understand what you're saying, but to answer your question, no. The black men that are affected by the behaviors you describe would be naïve to hate black women for that. Hating the individuals that perpetrated, and supported behavior that injured them is more reasonable. However, simply stating that black men are starting to hate black women is imho, ignorant.
 
Im not talking about the case, I am talking about the fact that there are laws on the books that allow women to lie and men to pay or even go to jail where some die or wind up in there longer, and even if the women are found to be liars nothing is done to them while these men are told to man up and get over it!

So here's my question to you. How does any of that translate specifically to Black women? Because your title says is this making people hate black women. I got to be honest you dudes in here are kind of weird because any negative thing y'all see y'all try to equate it with black women like this shit don't happen with white women. Or y'all make some real big excuses for the white women you all are lusting after.
 
Lot of episodes of Maury is fake.. in fact a lot of people court is fake..let’s just say I know this to be fact.. hell in peoples court when it comes to lawsuits they literally will pay for it themselves if you appear on the show.. they just use your case as content for tv.. now that you know tv/reality tv is fake are you not going to watch the idiot box? Here’s another thing to ruin your tv shows they literally be offering some girls on love and hip hop money to fake relationships with certain celebrities to create fake storylines for the show and once again create fake content..I know several strippers/ models that were offered to play certain individuals girlfriends.. I can go on with fake scenarios they be pushed at truth on the idiot box..now that you know this stop using the idiot box it as a bible it’s nothing but false prophets

The fact that you got dudes on here thinking Maury is real means you got some seriously lost dudes on bgol.
 
According to the bgol homosexual representative, its a "super"rare thing and we are acting like its happenign to everybody!

You just read the headline of the article to do posted. I swear you niggas in here dumb as fuck. The article the man posted that you're saying it's happening to everybody it said that when they test it's 1 to 3%.

Bunch of broke niggas in this thread acting like chicks are trying to trap them. Y'all live in a fantasy world and it's hilarious to watch.
 
I think I understand what you're saying, but to answer your question, no. The black men that are affected by the behaviors you describe would be naïve to hate black women for that. Hating the individuals that perpetrated, and supported behavior that injured them is more reasonable. However, simply stating that black men are starting to hate black women is imho, ignorant.
Never did I say anything about hating black women, I stated clearly that its their behavior and action that folks are getting fed up with. So bla bla bla, you missed the point.
 
So here's my question to you. How does any of that translate specifically to Black women? Because your title says is this making people hate black women. I got to be honest you dudes in here are kind of weird because any negative thing y'all see y'all try to equate it with black women like this shit don't happen with white women. Or y'all make some real big excuses for the white women you all are lusting after.
My title is a question saying are the black man starting to hate black women or the stuff they do and co-sign with?
 
The fact that you got dudes on here thinking Maury is real means you got some seriously lost dudes on bgol.
One guy brought light-heartedly brought it up, but what about the 30% of the men who turn out not to be the biological father?
 
Lot of episodes of Maury is fake.. in fact a lot of people court is fake..let’s just say I know this to be fact.. hell in peoples court when it comes to lawsuits they literally will pay for it themselves if you appear on the show.. they just use your case as content for tv.. now that you know tv/reality tv is fake are you not going to watch the idiot box? Here’s another thing to ruin your tv shows they literally be offering some girls on love and hip hop money to fake relationships with certain celebrities to create fake storylines for the show and once again create fake content..I know several strippers/ models that were offered to play certain individuals girlfriends.. I can go on with fake scenarios they be pushed at truth on the idiot box..now that you know this stop using the idiot box it as a bible it’s nothing but false prophets

Well Peoples court is NOT fake. Yes, they do pay the parties but that's the price of being on TV
Peoples court works like this:
Each party gets $5,000 for dropping their lawsuit and coming on show (Arbitration)
If you LOSE the winner's money comes OUT of your $5,000
So, the winner can possible take ALL your money depending on the State's limitations (small claims) in which you live.
I know personally 3 people that have went on the show throughout the years and many who have denied going on
Most of their cases are from here in NYC and surrounding areas

Judge Judy works almost the same.....

All the other shows are fake. Judge Mathis, Divorce Court and so on....
 
Well Peoples court is NOT fake. Yes, they do pay the parties but that's the price of being on TV
Peoples court works like this:
Each party gets $5,000 for dropping their lawsuit and coming on show (Arbitration)
If you LOSE the winner's money comes OUT of your $5,000
So, the winner can possible take ALL your money depending on the State's limitations (small claims) in which you live.
I know personally 3 people that have went on the show throughout the years and many who have denied going on
Most of their cases are from here in NYC and surrounding areas

Judge Judy works almost the same.....

All the other shows are fake. Judge Mathis, Divorce Court and so on....
I also personally know people that was cast or gonna be cast for the show and like i said they offered to pay their small claim to be on the show for content.. they all received money for having their case shown on Tv.. hell my cousin was offered the same situation when a tenant owed him about 4,000 on back rent .. only reason why he didn’t go on the show cause the tenant family member ended up paying the owe money cause the tenant was to embarrassed to go on tv looking like a shitty tenant.. that’s why I said shit fake.. they make it seem like people are paying what they owe when it’s really the tv show that’s doing it.. if most audienc members knew that it probably would change their motivation to watch it.. knowing these stipulation changes a lot of things
 
I also personally know people that was cast or gonna be cast for the show and like i said they offered to pay their small claim to be on the show for content.. they all received money for having their case shown on Tv.. hell my cousin was offered the same situation when a tenant owed him about 4,000 on back rent .. only reason why he didn’t go on the show cause the tenant family member ended up paying the owe money cause the tenant was to embarrassed to go on tv looking like a shitty tenant.. that’s why I said shit fake.. they make it seem like people are paying what they owe when it’s really the tv show that’s doing it.. if most audienc members knew that it probably would change their motivation to watch it.. knowing these stipulation changes a lot of things

Which show?
Again, it's Arbitration. People's court isn't "fake" or "scripted"
You have to be paid something for making a damn fool of yourself on TV
Like they say, they cases are real, which they are.
They don't particularly hide the fact that each party is paid. It's in the disclosure when it goes off
I mean, I wouldn't go on there no matter what. It's simply not worth the embarrassment to me.
 
Which show?
Again, it's Arbitration. People's court isn't "fake" or "scripted"
You have to be paid something for making a damn fool of yourself on TV
Like they say, they cases are real, which they are.
They don't particularly hide the fact that each party is paid. It's in the disclosure when it goes off
I mean, I wouldn't go on there no matter what. It's simply not worth the embarrassment to me.
if the person who suing gonna get paid regardless kinda beats the purpose if they win or lose.. like I said the individuals I know who were cast to be on there or were offered to be on there told me they were gonna get paid in full regardless the outcome.. their case is for content.. it kinda beats the purpose of the show if you know the person who sues gonna get the bread.. some people do a lil extra acting/going into character for tv.. I haven’t seen an episode in probably damn near 2 decades so idk if that disclosure part you talking about was always there.. but trust most people aren’t aware of those stipulations
 
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