Fair or foul? Baby daddy didn't bring food for other 3 kids, just for his son.

[daTiger]

1) You know the shit fake when faces are blurred. Hood rat bitches don't know shit about face-blurring technology.

2) Judging by the litter on the ground, at least 2 other baby-daddies have tried unsuccessfully to deliver one meal.

3) Stop fucking with hood rats.

 

[SamSneed]

Eat in the car

 

[Shadow]

1) You know the shit fake when faces are blurred. Hood rat bitches don't know shit about face-blurring technology.

2) Judging by the litter on the ground, at least 2 other baby-daddies have tried unsuccessfully to deliver one meal.

3) Stop fucking with hood rats.

false. Them hoes know more about bullshit as that how to make their children productive people with decent relationships wi the their non-custodial parent.

because they can use it and continue to “turn up”.

 

[Pworld297]

Are they together? If so then yeah you have to get the other kids something.

 

[godofwine]

Do you do all your co-workers work to? When does it stop?
Stupid ass comparison. We are talking about kids not adults
Do you buy her kids three Christmas presents each because you bought your kid 3 Christmas presents
If they are invited to my house then yes I am buying them presents too. I buy xmas gifts for everyone in my house When my grandkids some I buy shit for their parents too
You can choose to do more, but that's if you feel like it. If you don't feel like it, you don't do it. I'm glad you would opt in, but whether I opt in or not depends on whether the fuck I feel like it or not
I don't have to think about it I was raised right.Kids don't pick their parents and I don't feel the need to add to their fucked up circumstance to prove a point.If the mother is fucked up then on't buy shit for her to eat.

If you ass was at my house and I got a drink I would offer you one too, not because I have to because I a not an asshole Sure you can walk your happy ass to the store and get your own.

Yeah. Honestly, I don't like other peoples' kids. I don't like being forced to take on responsibilities that ain't mine

Someone else's kids are a chore

You are cleaning up after a party you weren't invited to. How motivated are you to handle that party...not very.

I'm not

Now if I decide to be with a woman with kids, I will bring food for all the kids. If I'm in a relationship with a woman with kids I will bring food for all the kids.

If the relationship ends, depending on how long we were together and how close I am to the kids is what's going to determine what happens in the future

That sounds like the republicans and their no abortions no matter what.


Her husband died so remarried and got divorced ...multiple baby daddies

She believed the dude when he said he loved her and they would be together forever....He lied and said what he had to to get the skins

Don't have multiple fukked up in-the-head baby daddies.

Guess its easy to put it all on her, immaculate conception and all.

Yes it's easy to put it on her, but the women are the one that stuck with it so it's fucked up as it sounds they got to be more careful

For example, I was married and I bought a house with my ex-wife. My ex-wife left, we got divorced, but she left me with the mortgage (the house, but really the mortgage). Next time I get married I'm damn sure going to be more careful about who I marry

Yes, men will do and say whatever the fuck they need to say to get the skins, but I was having a conversation like this on Facebook:

Would you marry someone you've only known 6 months or less than a year?

So I would you have a kid with someone you've known for 6 months or less than a year?

Yes, marriages fail, but at least you tried to do it right. Dealing with a chick who was married and divorced who has a kid is different from some chick who's just fucking one dude, and then fucking another dude and has a kid from each

It boggles my mind to see women with three or more baby daddies. Do you use condoms at all bitch? You just getting seeded up in and not even thinking about marriage, huh?

 

[Darrkman]

Y'all know that entire exchange was fake.

 

[daTiger]

Yeah. Honestly, I don't like other peoples' kids. I don't like being forced to take on responsibilities that ain't mine

Someone else's kids are a chore

You are cleaning up after a party you weren't invited to. How motivated are you to handle that party...not very.

I'm not

Now if I decide to be with a woman with kids, I will bring food for all the kids. If I'm in a relationship with a woman with kids I will bring food for all the kids.

If the relationship ends, depending on how long we were together and how close I am to the kids is what's going to determine what happens in the future

Yes it's easy to put it on her, but the women are the one that stuck with it so it's fucked up as it sounds they got to be more careful

For example, I was married and I bought a house with my ex-wife. My ex-wife left, we got divorced, but she left me with the mortgage (the house, but really the mortgage). Next time I get married I'm damn sure going to be more careful about who I marry

Yes, men will do and say whatever the fuck they need to say to get the skins, but I was having a conversation like this on Facebook:

Would you marry someone you've only known 6 months or less than a year?

So I would you have a kid with someone you've known for 6 months or less than a year?

Yes, marriages fail, but at least you tried to do it right. Dealing with a chick who was married and divorced who has a kid is different from some chick who's just fucking one dude, and then fucking another dude and has a kid from each

It boggles my mind to see women with three or more baby daddies. Do you use condoms at all bitch? You just getting seeded up in and not even thinking about marriage, huh?

As a realtor, I once had a couple in my office with a new born sitting in a baby-carrier on my desk. I found out they lived together, but they were not married. While I'm doing some paperwork, dude gets up to go to the bathroom. The chick whispers to me that she does not want to buy a house with this dude. I looked at her, then looked. at the baby...

It's mind-boggling, the fucked up decisions chicks make. You create a whole nother life with this sorry nigga, but buying a house with him is where you draw the line. The fuck

 

[PsiBorg]

As a realtor, I once had a couple in my office with a new born sitting in a baby-carrier on my desk. I found out they lived together, but they were not married. While I'm doing some paperwork, dude gets up to go to the bathroom. The chick whispers to me that she does not want to buy a house with this dude. I looked at her, then looked. at the baby...

It's mind-boggling, the fucked up decisions chicks make. You create a whole nother life with this sorry nigga, but buying a house with him is where you draw the line. The fuck

I had a similar situation. A young woman and her boyfriend wanted me to help them find a house, and they wanted me to qualify them for a loan. No problem. They have three kids: The oldest boy 8 is just hers, and the next boy 6 and the girl 4 belongs to the both of them.

So, I called her one evening to get documentation etc... He wasn't there. She said, "Do you think that this is something I can do on my own; because he's between jobs again?"

I said, "Okay... here's some off the record advice. If you think he's going to be in between jobs for a while. You may need to prepare yourself to do all of this by yourself. That way, if anything unwanted happens in the relationship, you will own the house and you won't have to worry about relocating yourself and the kids or selling the home.

She said, "You know this negro ain't doin' shit but playing Call of Duty all day. Let's do it with just me."

I was like, "That's wise."

 

[scullydog]

Fucked up man. The petty in me agrees, but as a father I'd buy alladem kids some food, not just my own.

I hear you bruh. The kids ain't got shit to do with it. But, why do we have to give her a pass for her past fuck ups? Because I fucked her I am responsible for her other kids. Man, what kind of shit is that? These women about to get their niggah wake up call because these young dudes ain't going for that bullshit.

 

[scullydog]

-The right thing to do is bring food for the other kids,feed all of them.
-He does have a right to only provide for his child,that's his obligation.
-He got with her,while she had other children and they produced a child so he knew what he signed up for so don't go to complaining now because she was a dirty unhappy woman before you and she's going to be all of that after you.
-She has a lot to learn being a mother because when she called him she could of explained to him the situation and he probably would of been more than ok to buy food for all of the kids but then again she would of been unhappy because he didn't bring her anything to eat.

Be careful who you laydown with and decide to make a child with cause it might just be a nightmare for you.....til that child turns 18 or for the rest of your life.

What's with you dudes with this know what you sign up for? Bruhs don't sign up for bullshit because you trying to get pussy.

 

[godofwine]

I had a similar situation. A young woman and her boyfriend wanted me to help them find a house, and they wanted me to qualify them for a loan. No problem. They have three kids: The oldest boy 8 is just hers, and the next boy 6 and the girl 4 belongs to the both of them.

So, I called her one evening to get documentation etc... He wasn't there. She said, "Do you think that this is something I can do on my own; because he's between jobs again?"

I said, "Okay... here's some off the record advice. If you think he's going to be in between jobs for a while. You may need to prepare yourself to do all of this by yourself. That way, if anything unwanted happens in the relationship, you will own the house and you won't have to worry about relocating yourself and the kids or selling the home.

She said, "You know this negro ain't doin' shit but playing Call of Duty all day. Let's do it with just me."

I was like, "That's wise."

Then why stay with the man? Why be with a man when that's who he is? I swear these people don't think this shit through. Kick his ass out. He is not contributing. He doesn't want to work or look forward.

He wants to play video games while you go to work everyday

You can do bad all by yourself

 

[woodchuck]

Y'all know that entire exchange was fake.

I think we all know, I think we're speaking for real world situations like this, because it does happen. Shit, my evil step-grandmother would get her natural grandkids expensive ass gifts for Xmas, and me and my 2 brothers would get shit like flannel shirts, tube socks and ski masks (One year). Shit, I remember when I was in 9th grade, that bitch got me a fucking dickie! The fuck a 14 year old kid gon' do with a fucking dickie?! That bitch couldn't even spring for the rest of the turtleneck! Hell yeah, I'm still mad!

 

[scullydog]

I can’t believe this is an argument….

the days when we worked this as a community are GONE.

I don't think this is a community problem. It is more so an accountability problem, hubris and entitlement. The woman thinks that you are responsible for all because she is responsible. You don't know how many times that brother brought food for all. Might not be the first time. Second, she said she was trying to expose him because everybody calls him a good dad. This is a problem where you have a woman who is fucking entitled. Sound likes some hater shit to me.

 

[BKF]

Personally I would have brought food for all the kids (even though I would be under no obligation to do so). I would expose those other kids to many of the things I expose my own kid to.
Let's not forget your kid/s will grow up with and around his sisters and brothers.
Besides, why wouldn't you as a black man not want to try, and create a better out come for young black children.

 

[pookie]

He tried that. She said, "No."

Expose me for not feeding you other children? BITCH!!!

I'd hate to see what happens on Christmas.

But...

Here's the video in full. Most of the women in the comments surprisingly are agreeing that it's not his responsibility.

My daughter has 3 kids and 2 baby daddy's that do absolutely nothing. She's wrong for calling him out but he's also wrong for not bringing food for the kids. My daughter has a sister who I'm not the dad but I always included her whenever I brought food.

Is she saying the other kids were going to go hungry while his kid was the only one eating? If she is not saying this then that mean the other kids are eating food and it's just that his kid is eating something different

 

[scullydog]

Personally I would gave brought food for all the kids (even though I would be under no obligation to do so). I would expose those other kids to many of the things I expose my own kid to.
Let not forget your kid/s will grow up with and around his sisters and brothers.
Besides, why wouldn't you as a black man not want to try and create a better out come for young black children.

I like what you said there at the end, but those kids wouldn't be in that shitty situation if their mother would have made the man use protection or used protection herself.

 

[pookie]

so if he was swinging by to take his kid to Chucky Cheese or Dave N' Busters........does he supposed to take them other lil mufuckas along to?
im just sayin.....
i would understand if he was in a relationship with her still....that would be different.
but i also understand how sensitive little kids are.....and also McDonalds aint expensive.
the nigga coulda went to Wendys and got all of em a Fo Fa Fo or somn.....

My brother started dating a woman with a kid, he had 2 kids with her and when they broke up he would still treat all 3 like his, the woman then had a child by another guy and sometimes you'd see him with the kid she had before they met, the 2 kids he had with with anddddddd the kid she had with another guy after they broke up..lmaooo. He said he didn't want to just take the first 3 and just leave the youngest one looking sad so he'd let her come too

 

[BKF]

I like what you said there at the end, but those kids would be in that shitty situation if their mother would have made the man use protection or used protection herself.

You can’t leave the father of those children out of the equation. He/they help create those kids and it's not simply the women's responsibility to be responsible.

 

[geechiedan]

Personally I would have brought food for all the kids (even though I would be under no obligation to do so). I would expose those other kids to many of the things I expose my own kid to.
Let's not forget your kid/s will grow up with and around his sisters and brothers.
Besides, why wouldn't you as a black man not want to try, and create a better out come for young black children.

personally I'd use a condom or my pull out game would be on point! But thats just me

 

[neptunes007]

Buddy asked the perfect question "So where are those other kids daddy at?"

 

[geechiedan]

okay...lets flip it....how would you feel as an active father to a kid with multiple half siblings if you heard that one of the other kids father was paying for YOUR kid's meals, school clothes, trips, maybe even college education..etc...

how would you feel about that??

 

[scullydog]

You can’t leave the father of those children out of the equation. He/they help create those kids and it's not simply the women's responsibility to be responsible.

One kid, yeah, but the rest of them? Seems like she is more then willing to bring life into this world without any aspects of responsibility. You right, the man has his share, but if you don't want any children, then you do what it takes to not have any. Its that simple.

 

[pookie]

Personally I would have brought food for all the kids (even though I would be under no obligation to do so). I would expose those other kids to many of the things I expose my own kid to.
Let's not forget your kid/s will grow up with and around his sisters and brothers.
Besides, why wouldn't you as a black man not want to try, and create a better out come for young black children.

How far would you go with that though, so you're saying if you wanted to take your kid to DisneyWorld you'd take the other kids too, like someone else asked during Christmas would you buy all the other kids gifts on the level as your kid, clothes and shoes for all the other kids too? Then what if you did all that and then your kid tells you how his brother's dad was taking him to SixFlags but said he couldn't go because he wasn't his child

 

[InTheMind]

A older lady told me this until they are older and see for themselves The child doesn't see the money you give them in child support only the mother! To spend time with them is valuable! So if the child asks for certain stuff do it for the child so if my child says they want a pizza or a burger I'm there even if the mother cooked it could've been something that the child won't eat! I'm not responsible for the other child and they shouldn't be interacting with me anyway while I'm interacting with my child! They should be calling their daddy! Saw the other day a dude had one child that wanted to go swimming but the mom hoped in the car with her other kids too he gets there and she thinks he was going to pay for her and the other kids to get in also nope he told her if he did that he'd be taking their me time money!

 

[Texas Catdaddy]

In a real situation like this, how long before the other kids start making him run his shit?

fugg that, hopefully he the oldest ..... if his pops went raw aft 2 or 3 others nukkas, oh welp .....

 

[peterlongshort]

One of the kindest things ever done for me was when my uncle on my mother’s side took me and my two brothers to disney world. Me and my older brother have the same father, the youngest has a different dad. He allowed us to experience that together, as brothers.

 

[EchoCrash]

Throw down an extra $10-$20 for some happy meals and baby mama won't be able to say shit about you in front of those kids again.

She'll see him roll up in the driveway and be like "oh look there's your no good daddy". Meanwhile the kids are like "yay nuggets"

Peace.
The issue is that this behavior will create a culture and foster entitlement on her part. In principle, it does not cost a lot to buy something off the value menu for the others. However, it’s been said already that his direct responsibility is to his seed and no one else. If his kid had a bday and bought him a tablet, is he supposed to purchase three more?
There are matters of principle and there is harsh realities.

 

[BKF]

How far would you go with that though, so you're saying if you wanted to take your kid to DisneyWorld you'd take the other kids too, like someone else asked during Christmas would you buy all the other kids gifts on the level as your kid, clothes and shoes for all the other kids too? Then what if you did all that and then your kid tells you how his brother's dad was taking him to SixFlags but said he couldn't go because he wasn't his child

As I said I would expose those kids to many (not all) of the things I expose my kid to. I wouldn’t and sometimes more than likely couldn't take them everywhere. Yet I would try to especially if my kid/s want their brother/sisters to be around. No different than bringing your kids cousins and friends on different things. I mean you don't have to carry all of the expense and some things like taking them to the beach/amusement park (not Disney) wouldn't be all that expensive (for me).

 

[BKF]

One kid, yeah, but the rest of them? Seems like she is more then willing to bring life into this world without any aspects of responsibility. You right, the man has his share, but if you don't want any children, then you do what it takes to not have any. Its that simple.

Yes that goes for both women and men. If you are having sexual relations with someone, then you should expect that a pregnancy can possibly occur.
That's why my advice to people is that if you are going to be fucking. You best be fucking with somebody you like, that get along with and most importantly that you know (and have intentions on being more than just a ine night stand, or fuck buddies).

 

[pookie]

As I said I would expose those kids to many (not all) of the things I expose my kid to. I would and sometimes more than likely could take them everywhere. Yet I would try to especially if my kid/s want their brother/sisters to be around. No different than bringing your kids cousins and friends on different things. I mean you don't have to carry all of the expense and something like taking them to the beach/amusement park (not Disney) wouldn't be all that expensive (for me).

That's why I asked how far would you go with it because the other kid and your kid aren't going to understand that your sibling can come this time but not this time

 

[Jumbodicc]

I feel bad for those children...

 

[pookie]

okay...lets flip it....how would you feel as an active father to a kid with multiple half siblings if you heard that one of the other kids father was paying for YOUR kid's meals, school clothes, trips, maybe even college education..etc...

how would you feel about that??

If you're an active father then that means your kid would be getting double of everything right so I don't see how anyone could have a problem with it. Your son says “hey dad my brother's dad is taking all of us to Florida for vacation I'm so excited“ how are you gonna have a problem with that

 

[BKF]

If you're an active father then that means your kid would be getting double of everything right so I don't see how anyone could have a problem with it. Your son says “hey dad my brother's dad is taking all of us to Florida for vacation I'm so excited“ how are you gonna have a problem with that

Ego..it has ruined many of men.

 

[geechiedan]

If you're an active father then that means your kid would be getting double of everything right so I don't see how anyone could have a problem with it. Your son says “hey dad my brother's dad is taking all of us to Florida for vacation I'm so excited“ how are you gonna have a problem with that

Ego..it has ruined many of men.

exactly...especially if he taking your kid to disney world and YOUVE never been to disney world yourself much less taken your kid for his first time. I mean that can make a man feel some kind of way.

lets continue....baby daddy 2 takes his kids to events and stuff but not your kid.... he brings food for his kids but not yours . I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong but kids feelings can come into play here.

 

[pookie]

Ego..it has ruined many of men.

exactly...especially if he taking your kid to disney world and YOUVE never been to disney world yourself much less taken your kid for his first time. I mean that can make a man feel some kind of way.

lets continue....baby daddy 2 takes his kids to events and stuff but not your kid.... he brings food for his kids but not yours . I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong but kids feelings can come into play here.

I knew “EGO“ was going to be an answer but that says more about the dad than the situation, your kid is happy so that should be the main concern. I've seen guys who don't care anything about their kids get into fights with the guy who the kids mother is dating doing stuff with the kid