There's not enough eligible black males to fit the needs of black women.

Damn brotha, thats the truth!! The sad part is, the majority of our folks aint listening!!!

Ya know,

but actually some sistars are speakin out

letting other chicks know..its psychotic to one minute

wanting to be this modern day women expressing her

freedom and sexuality..

then wondering why nobody tryin to bag that ten years later

for a traditional marriage..

and also some folks just have to learn the hardway

ladies if you want a traditional man and marriage

you gotta live a traditional lifestyle...

that modern day woman slang pussy willy nilly shit

aint gonna do it, if you want a real knigga,

now you will have your thirsty simps to fall back on tho...

there is always that..
 
The real problem is that these women have been sold a lie that more money equates to more happiness, and when these types of women sacrifice so much to get the money they always wanted, they quickly realize they are not as happy as they should be, especially when they see white women their age married and looking so happy. So instead of looking back at the path they chose to get to where they are, they do what they have been conditioned to do, that is blame the black man for their woos. When in reality, there are plenty of high value single black men out there, but just like these women have preferences on how much they want their man to make, these men have preferences on how they want their women to look and act, and sorry those broads do not make the cut!

Bruh, say it louder!! I dont believe they hear a word you said!! Good feedback!!
 
Black men are sold the bill of goods that being a thug gets you the women. Well, this may be true when you are younger and living with your moms. That scrip flips around the age of 27 when these guys go from getting all the premo-pussy to barely able to get any. Around this age, many of these guys wind up with at least two kids and many end up with some kind of criminal record. Also around this time, they get kicked out of their mom's apartment to fend for themselves. So almost overnight they go from top choice to top scrub. So these guys often are forced to go into survival mode where they become prone to criminal activity, fucking dusty bitches and/or shacking up with fat bitches with kids just for shelter. This is where you see so many former players shacked up with fat chicks with kids Of course this is not absolute but everyone in the hood knows a few guys who life fit this to a tee so its a problem that we rather sweep under the rug than actually deal with by talking about it.

Damn brotha, you hit that straight out the damn park!! Well said!!
 
I'll disagree slightly only that SOME women will marry a good dude, get pregnant by that good dude, but will run that dude into the ground! Divorce him and then expect the next guy to come in and take care of another mans child.

Look I don't want this to turn into a He-Mans Woman Hater Bash All Women club. Men have our fair share of problems as well. The dynamic has changed. You can't have 1950 values with a 2020 mindset! The two conflict with each other.

So DAMN TRUE!!!
 
I agree. I dated a divorce lawyer. The table talks were scary. I found myself unattracted to her because she always said “that’s the job”. You make a man sell everything to owns to pay a debt to someone who didn’t earn it. “He shouldn’t have cheated” The bitch doesn’t get a house because he got fresh pussy. She’s one of one two exes that I never spoke to after it ended. What man can listen to stories of men being railroaded, look down at the steak on his plate, knowing this is how she puts food on the table. Those women become soulless. Calloused. She was twice divorced by the way and had a sick car collection. She was the perfect best friend but you cannot get an erection knowing your lady flips the switch on the electric chair of mens lives. THAT is why a moral man can’t date powerful, cut throat women. It’s hideous. Women are to be soft. What you need to come home to after the storm; but when SHE is the storm. :smh:
Point. After fighting the outside world all day who wants to come home to another fight?
 
The Gay Agenda is just a ruse to get Pedophilia legalize. That's why you see all this transgender nonsense about Men identify as women.

Soon you will see men claiming that they identify as 12 year old and why they can't sleep with young children.

You may laugh but if you can make people believe that a man with a whig can be a women. You can make people believe anything.

A lot of the LGBT movement started with a Group Called NAMBLA. Since the 1970's they were trying to get pedophila legalize.

Its only until the late 80's and the 1990's LGBT drop pedos from there movement, To Gain more acceptance and more traction.

But they still have the same goals. If you read they're manifesto.



So true!!! The conditioning and programming aka INDOCTRINATION is done at a very slow pace and the majority of folks never ever see whats going on!! Wait until they use another popular so-called star(more popular than bruce jenner) to come out as a full blown trans!!
 
If you look at pictures during the CIvil Rights movement, black women were on the forefront, putting in work! Then the feminist movement came and moved black women from civil rights to feminism almost crippling civil rights

Good information, bruh!! Right on!!

This system was designed for our destruction since the day those pilgrims landed on this land!! They knew we were better than them at every fucking thing, but thats a different story!!
 
Damn brotha, you hit that straight out the damn park!! Well said!!

He did and IMO it's the main reason so many black men in jail, either undereducated and fighting for survival or chasing tail then life kicks in and it's the earlier option or chasing a rep (usually chasin hoes) and they go out shooting and killing.

The hardest dudes out there play playstation and chill so it's something else triggering the crime, alot of them are either forced into situations that they feel they gotta change and get caught up.

We call white people racist and crazy but anytime we get too close to that culture they go off. They want us to be who they think we are.
 
Within her frame of reference, I see with what she's saying. However, black women being in the upper tax bracket doesn't mean they're in the top tier dating bracket for blk men. That's where some black women got the game messed up.

The receptionist at the bank that's a 7 (not even a 8 thru 10) can blow away a 5 who makes six figures. Not saying it's always the case, but just having money and a degree doesn't entitle you to a "qualified" black man.

And, the "unqualified" black men still getting chose by women. Best believe a woman making $10/hr at popeyes will get with a guy making $25/hr. Hell, she'll get with the guy working the fries in the back if she wants.

Sometimes, maybe you're just not that dope. That's why you ain't got no man. Has nothing to do with the lack of options.
 
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There are ~23 Million black women in America, one percent of that (230k) is a lot in terms of absolute number, but it's still not close to representing the group as a whole. She was asked about the challenges that black women face when becoming a wife. 99% of black women aren't in the situation she's talking about, so income for most of them shouldn't be an issue when it comes to finding a husband.

Plus, however many black women are making 150k, there will be a larger number of black men making that, so I'm not sure where she's getting the running circles around men from.

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I'm married and only have to deal with this bullshit occasionally especially now that we still aren't having people over due to covid. :lol: Making 6 figures isn't really a big deal especially if you live in or near any city. The problem is that the same 35+ morbidly obese woman screaming she makes 120K a year omits that she is obese, saddled with crippling student loan debt and possibly a kid or two. What man making the same or, realistically, much more would want any part of that bullshit? :smh: No man on this board who is in shape and doing well professionally has ever asked "Where are the good women?" Similarly, I know very few women 45 or under doing well professionally and in shape who are struggling to find a Black peer with those same attributes. A lot of women get delusions of grandeur with shit and refuse to live in reality. Men aren't intimidated by your "success" they just don't like that double chin, cankle, beer belly etc. :lol:
 
.... on the flip side I know many brothers who can say the same, in fact most black men do want relationships with black women but rather than looking for financial status and educational level we are more interesting in a woman's pride, dignity and attitude... having a degree and financial security does not automatically make a women a prime choice to be wifey material.



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Yeah I mean imagine you gotta disassociate yourself with your past, everything you did is considered a failure. Single parent home = bad, hang out with the fellaz bad, everything and take on a new identity just to get with a chick who came from the same place you did? It's a turn off to alot of men, if we gotta change ourselves, might as well go to a white woman and call it a day.

They act like men, I'm sure all women love money but black females too vocal about it, this conservation shouldn't be had on TV in front of other groups but in black America, stuff like this pisses men off.

Imagine the high income brother out there balling, he from that struggle too but he don't respect them either.

Women are to be soft, another reason i don't watch porn cuz that sex got too masculine, lay a bitch down and stroke, no need to for reverse whatever garbage... America pushes this so much gender is no longer what it was, hoes act like men, men act like women.. people are all messed up.

No one respect when a female acts like a man, look at simmamin love? It's not that she did porn that's the problem she's a old broad selling pussy trying to make it a business, old hoes with kids who can't even get a dude to lay up with full time.

That's their future.

Right on, write on, brotha!! Well said!!!

Ill keep pointing it out!! The television isnt for our entertainment, the television serve two purposes(many more) and thats to Indoctrinate and mindfuck our subconscious mind!!
 
.... on the flip side I know many brothers who can say the same, in fact most black men do want relationships with black women but rather than looking for financial status and educational level we are more interesting in a woman's pride, dignity and attitude... having a degree and financial security does not automatically make a women a prime choice to be wifey material.

Black women got it twisted. The programming by music, movies, tv, msm....all of it worked and it's intentional.

I don't need a man

Strong, independent blah blah

Black Girl Magic

Bad By Myself


And I won't even begin on the narrative of these women only wanting a man engaging in socially deviant behavior.

Everything opposite to building a strong black family unit is pushed. Everything conducive to it is rejected. Now you got chicks working in call centers recoiling at the honest working brother making 40-60k. These women are so full of themselves, a millionaire athlete can say that he wants a woman who cooks and is peaceful and the women think they have ground to be offended.

But it ultimately lies with us and that's what they need to understand. We're the gatekeepers to serious relationships and marriages....they are the gatekeepers to sex and they're not very good at that gatekeeping but that's another conversation.

But yes, we're the gatekeepers and need to hold these broad's feet to the fire. Require more than a BBL from these bitches....make them fall in line.
 
In general people don't realize how fleeting life is. 20 years can go by like nothing and many are still in the same place mentally.

That's the issue. Physically people are adults but mentally they want to live as 20 year olds. And it's always the other person's fault. No....you're responsible for your own happiness.

bruh you're preaching...as I've gotten older PEACE and QUIET have become paramount for me and I personally won't compromise that for anyone.
 
Right on brotha!! We are being conditioned and programmed to be attracted to any and everything fake!! And turn a blind eye on anything that is real or close to real!! Good ass reply
I actually went to cosmetology school to learn how to do most of the stuff that I do in that line of work. other stuff I learned in the salon/ barber shop or @ a training class. I made a business out of arching brows, doing lashes & make-up... 1 of my best friends makes custom wigs for a & b-list black actresses on the movie sets he works on. he even has his own line of wigs & lace front pieces that get made in china. I know exactly what Im looking @ when I see it & it fucks me up! This shit is on some extra bugged out shit.

I honestly believe its the faggy fags who do their best to act like women & the drag queens that both equally hate women the same got these women looking stupid when they come to them to get their shit done & sell them on how "good" they look knowing gotdamn well they look super stupid laughing to the bank. As much as i love the money a bitch cant pay me to make her look stupid. I just cant do it.

Walk on the campus of any hbcu..... damn near NONE of the women rock their own hair! They ALL have those hair hat weave wig with the fake baby hair that needs foundation so it can blend in with the scalp. They keep if for 2 - 3 months..... face & body riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight!!!! but her head musty as fuck & you cant say shit to her about it cause she cant smell herself! :roflmao3:

I walk around laughing until I cry on the inside sometimes. the shit is sad as fuk.
 
Good information, bruh!! Right on!!

This system was designed for our destruction since the day those pilgrims landed on this land!! They knew we were better than them at every fucking thing, but thats a different story!!

See that is giving white folks WAY too much credit. To orchestrate a movement just to cripple another? No fcuking way! White women saw black women the same way that white men see black men during wars. They get real Kumba-fcuking-ya when they need our numbers to win a war, but the minute that war is over they don't want shyt to do with us. Same thing with the feminist movement, once white women got what they wanted they shipped black women "back to the ghettos". Then white women went back to being housewives!!! All that fighting just to go back to the same fcuking job!!
 
She said, we ain’t shit. That’s what she said, and we’re not going to be shit. Or it’s a flat out shit show. She spoke for the masses who are the shit. Who also think their shit don’t stink. Well, ain’t that some shit.
 
She said, we ain’t shit. That’s what she said, and we’re not going to be shit. Or it’s a flat out shit show. She spoke for the masses who are the shit. Who also think their shit don’t stink. Well, ain’t that some shit.
There is truth in what she said, just you have to rearrange the words to get to the truth.
From this:
There's not enough eligible black males to fit the needs of black women.

To this.
There's not enough fit black women for the needs of eligible black males.
 
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