There's not enough eligible black males to fit the needs of black women.

Black men are sold the bill of goods that being a thug gets you the women. Well, this may be true when you are younger and living with your moms. That scrip flips around the age of 27 when these guys go from getting all the premo-pussy to barely able to get any. Around this age, many of these guys wind up with at least two kids and many end up with some kind of criminal record. Also around this time, they get kicked out of their mom's apartment to fend for themselves. So almost overnight they go from top choice to top scrub. So these guys often are forced to go into survival mode where they become prone to criminal activity, fucking dusty bitches and/or shacking up with fat bitches with kids just for shelter. This is where you see so many former players shacked up with fat chicks with kids Of course this is not absolute but everyone in the hood knows a few guys who life fit this to a tee so its a problem that we rather sweep under the rug than actually deal with by talking about it.

Most women that want so called Thugs, are Women that come usually from single mother households.

Women that have strong fathers in there life will look past a thug. Most women that come from Single Mothers don't really know what a real man is. So they think a Thug or they mistake (aggression) is what a real man is.

Women especially from the hood, Fall Prey to predators. They are a lot of women that are sexual assaulted and molested and that's why they are attracted to thugs. They look at thugs as protection. Its a primal instinct of human beings. Women need a man to be provider and to protect there offsprings.
 
I have a question, what are the needs of these women,
Most women that want so called Thugs, are Women that come usually from single mother households.

Women that have strong fathers in there life will look past a thug. Most women that come from Single Mothers don't really know what a real man is. So they think a Thug or they mistake (aggression) is what a real man is.

Women especially from the hood, Fall Prey to predators. They are a lot of women that are sexual assaulted and molested and that's why they are attracted to thugs. They look at thugs as protection. Its a primal instinct of human beings. Women need a man to be provider and to protect there offsprings.
Correct, except after they turn 27 and then they hook up with their girlfriends to have a hot girl summer, then realize they no longer want a thug and switch up to want the bag and whoever is holding it. This epiphany usually happens right about the time they get their first student loan bill, causing them to realize that thug loving ain't going to pay the bills.
 
I have a question, what are the needs of these women,

Correct, except after they turn 27 and then they hook up with their girlfriends to have a hot girl summer, then realize they no longer want a thug and switch up to want the bag and whoever is holding it. This epiphany usually happens right about the time they get their first student loan bill, causing them to realize that thug loving ain't going to pay the bills.

Thugs become unpopular when women get older because that’s when they have more responsibility’s. They usually have kids, rent, mortgage, etc.. So having a dusty thug that’s usually a bum gets old.

They usually want Rich guys, but it’s too late because they are usually old with kids, and Rich guys have a lot of options. Why would he want to fuck some old bitch with 2-3 kids when he can get fresh new pussy that turned 18 with no kids or baggage. It’s all supply and demand.

Would you pay $60,000 for a busted Toyota when you can get a brand new Benz?
 
Thugs become unpopular when women get older because that’s when they have more responsibility’s. They usually have kids, rent, mortgage, etc.. So having a dusty thug that’s usually a bum gets old.

They usually want Rich guys, but it’s too late because they are usually old with kids, and Rich guys have a lot of options. Why would he want to fuck some old bitch with 2-3 kids when he can get fresh new pussy that turned 18 with no kids or baggage.
So you are implying that they want rich men, but in their brains, they equate it to needing them? If this is the case then those broad really have mental issues in plain site!
 
All of this. So many women waste so much time dating and fucking knuckleheads because they got a big dick or can fuck.

Many of these women end up having kids with these assholes knuckleheads. If they end up in this category than their fucked up in the game. Nobody wants a woman with a bunch of kids. Women need to learn men do not want to take care of or even see someone else's kids

If the women are lucky and able to escape having kids by the asshole knuckleheads, now they want a rich dude. They don't want a brother who's trying to get his, who's going to work everyday, who's paying his bills and everything

They think they're too good for the Working Man a. The problem is a lot of those Rich guys are players. So he's played in the pussy for a while then he leaves her.

Now she's fucked complaining that where are the good men. As someone said earlier, the good man was sitting next to you in Psychology while you were trying to get with the drug dealer or the hood dude with a big dick that everyone said was a good fuck

I'm going to close with this, the biggest reason that women are so fucked up in the game is the rise of the single black mother.

There was no man, at least no good men around these women growing up. Same problem with the men. There were not any good men around these boys growing up.

How are the girls supposed to grow up to know who to date when their mother never gave them an example? How are these boys supposed to grow up and know who to emulate if their mother never gave them an example or their father was no example?

We've all been to the zoo and know what a lion looks like. But for someone who doesn't know what a lion looks like, ask them to act like a lion. They got no idea.

That's what the boys born from 1975 - present have to deal with because most Black women from that period are/were single mothers, and the sons and daughters of those women repeated the cycle
This post reeks of penis envy.. just look at your first line..than somewhere in the middle you pretty much repeat it.. now think you don’t have to be a thug in order to be packing or know how to fuck.. so literally if you knew how to sling dick these woman would be down to fuck.. so all you needed to do is have the skill set.. so only person who would be mad at these requirements are individuals who couldn’t fill those shoes.. just think if you knew how to tickle the pussy right you to would’ve been chosen
 
.... on the flip side I know many brothers who can say the same, in fact most black men do want relationships with black women but rather than looking for financial status and educational level we are more interesting in a woman's pride, dignity and attitude... having a degree and financial security does not automatically make a women a prime choice to be wifey material.
amen
 
In general people don't realize how fleeting life is. 20 years can go by like nothing and many are still in the same place mentally.

That's the issue. Physically people are adults but mentally they want to live as 20 year olds. And it's always the other person's fault. No....you're responsible for your own happiness.

Brah.. A bitch just told me..I make her Sad...I told her...Naw Bitch...I make you Upset...You sad...cause of yo dam self...go find some happiness...cause that ain't my job.... hoe
 
All of this. So many women waste so much time dating and fucking knuckleheads because they got a big dick or can fuck.

Many of these women end up having kids with these assholes knuckleheads. If they end up in this category than their fucked up in the game. Nobody wants a woman with a bunch of kids. Women need to learn men do not want to take care of or even see someone else's kids

If the women are lucky and able to escape having kids by the asshole knuckleheads, now they want a rich dude. They don't want a brother who's trying to get his, who's going to work everyday, who's paying his bills and everything

They think they're too good for the Working Man a. The problem is a lot of those Rich guys are players. So he's played in the pussy for a while then he leaves her.

Now she's fucked complaining that where are the good men. As someone said earlier, the good man was sitting next to you in Psychology while you were trying to get with the drug dealer or the hood dude with a big dick that everyone said was a good fuck

I'm going to close with this, the biggest reason that women are so fucked up in the game is the rise of the single black mother.

There was no man, at least no good men around these women growing up. Same problem with the men. There were not any good men around these boys growing up.

How are the girls supposed to grow up to know who to date when their mother never gave them an example? How are these boys supposed to grow up and know who to emulate if their mother never gave them an example or their father was no example?

We've all been to the zoo and know what a lion looks like. But for someone who doesn't know what a lion looks like, ask them to act like a lion. They got no idea.

That's what the boys born from 1975 - present have to deal with because most Black women from that period are/were single mothers, and the sons and daughters of those women repeated the cycle

I'll disagree slightly only that SOME women will marry a good dude, get pregnant by that good dude, but will run that dude into the ground! Divorce him and then expect the next guy to come in and take care of another mans child.

Look I don't want this to turn into a He-Mans Woman Hater Bash All Women club. Men have our fair share of problems as well. The dynamic has changed. You can't have 1950 values with a 2020 mindset! The two conflict with each other.
 
What women don’t understand is what they think makes them wifey material almost never matters to men. Men can wife a chick working at McDonalds. Women look for men based on status and finance. That’s not the same for men because we aren’t wired to look for security and protection.
I just laugh when I read a chick’s dating profile and she talking about having her own money, place and career status. Cool I got all that too. But, an you cook, fuck, support your man and not nag a dude to death? I’ll take a McDonald’s chick that do all that verses a chick with her nose up in the air cause she got a degree.
This mf spittin today boi!

Excellent response .. kinsfolk
 
It isn't the numbers. Black women are starting too late.
18-25 is your window. They're sitting next to their "husbands" in class.
But young women don't want college men.
How many girls in school are dating the neighborhood knucklehead all the
while the guy next to them in Psychology is trying to get their attention?
Master's degree? 150k? That's a grown ass woman.
What were they doing in their twenties? Fucking everything in sight.
Oh, now you want to settle down? Also social media has messed
everything up. Pussy is just a swipe away. Marriage? Settle down?
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This post reeks of penis envy.. just look at your first line..than somewhere in the middle you pretty much repeat it.. now think you don’t have to be a thug in order to be packing or know how to fuck.. so literally if you knew how to sling dick these woman would be down to fuck.. so all you needed to do is have the skill set.. so only person who would be mad at these requirements are individuals who couldn’t fill those shoes.. just think if you knew how to tickle the pussy right you to would’ve been chosen
Dude doesn't understand men like this always get the last laugh at the end. This rejection is going to happen in your 20s. If you have some game and now how to hit, you should be still smashin, they just have all of their emotions and long term flings with losers. You shouldn't even be considering long term relationships anyway. Just smash n dash. By the time you are established in your late thirties and forties, those same women that now want to settle down and has kids with trauma, you pass on them and let them live. You have your choice of younger women without issues, overseas women, and you can sit back and pick the best one because all of them want you now.
 
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Been around the world and I have dealt with all kinds of women. Black women are the worst and they bought into these white liberal feminist lies about independence and why you don't need a man. Only to be 40+, lonely and bitter.

Other Groups likes Whites, Asians and Latinos understand the importance of being subservient and building a family with there male counterpart.
Same here. I’ve countered almost every race and brand of people out there which I said this in the other thread about serving a man a plate.

There are conversations that occur with black women on BASIC femininity that simply do not occur elsewhere.

Other women automatically know what’s up and handle their business, no questions asked.
 
Unpopular statement coming:

As men we complain waaaaay too much about what we caused. (And don’t be the idiot that says “not all men” ) If all these piece of shit kids are raised by single mothers, what’s the REAL problem? The common denominator? Us! I’m tired of the hoodrat, single Mother shit as much as the “there are no good men” shit from woman. If MOST black women are single moms, somebody is fucking em—RAW! Somebody ELSE got em pregnant and possibly again. That means BLACK MEN have low-fucking-standards! If she’s a hoodrat, or something you’d only fuck once, why-do-it-raw???? Stop nutting in women you wouldn’t buy a house with! Goddamn, black men!

The ONLY way these kids are growing up with single moms is their dads don’t give a fuck. Their dads love them, but want nothing to do with them. Or, even worse, because the mom makes it hard for them to see their kids, y’all simply don’t. Or, she ran you through the courts so you just pay what you owe and THEN date other women with kids while ignoring yours. Half the shit these women Say about us is true! I know several fools with a baby by a woman they hate who do little to nothing for them but their knew girlfriend got two kids! :smh: That dude is TRASH! Y’all fucking ugly women with dope bodies and when she’s pregnant you can’t imagine wifing her, now you’ve created another ugly person and a new statistic—AND WE BLAME THE WOMEN! It’s US! No standards whatsoever. The reason the threads suck on this board is because y’all posting trash, photoshopped, tatted up, weaved up bitches when porn is about fantasy. A bitch we all see at the gas station ain’t fantasy! Y’all steady “RAW”!!!! Jokingly, yes, but ehhhh!

The modern black woman is trash because black men love to wallow in trash! I fuckin said it! There’s too many ghetto ratchet fat green hair women with two kids or more for this to her all on the women! No-fucking-standards! My homie invited me over. His wife’s friend like me. She comes over to talk and she is cute but the makeup was caked on and her weave was just too much for me. Even if I was single and she made the pussy easy I would NOT have even taken head from her. I have standards. The women are worse because black men accept worse. They used to just be mouthy-we accepted it. Then they started having more kids in grade school—cool. Dress trashy—she got a fat ass though. Can’t string a sentence together, single mom, ratchet ways—she got some nice titties though. Miss me with the “single moms” ruined black boys shit. His bitch ass dad ain’t around to prevent it so it’s his (our) fault too!!!! Our women are worse because we are worse. Facts.
 
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Teaching young black women at an HBCU gives me an interesting perspective on the mentality many of them have.

Many of these girls are VERY ambitious and there is a stark difference between them and the young men.

I converse with my students to see where their head is at and these young women are really shooting high. I’m not saying the young men isn’t, but not at the same rate as the women.

Now, how that translate into adulthood is a different thing. These same young women are going to become career women and we know how that can pan out later in life if there didn’t settle when they were younger.
 
Absolute bullshit.

How many people make 150k??? Let alone black women? Those women are in the top one percent of earners for black women.

Black women's median salary is ~42k/yr, that's less than every group (male or female) except Hispanic women. How is that running circles around anyone?

Depends where you live. In DC, you can find black women making that. Is it the norm? No. But there's a decent amount of 120k+ black earners.
 
Unpopular statement coming:

As men we complain waaaaay too much about what we caused. (And don’t be the idiot that says “not all men” ) If all these piece of shit kids are raised by single mothers, what’s the REAL problem? The common denominator? Us! I’m tired of the hoodrat, single Mother shit as much as the “there are no good men” shit from woman. If MOST black women are single moms, somebody is fucking em—RAW! Somebody ELSE got em pregnant and possibly again. That means BLACK MEN have low-fucking-standards! If she’s a hoodrat, or something you’d only fuck once, why-do-it-raw???? Stop nutting in women you wouldn’t buy a house with! Goddamn, black men!

The ONLY way these kids are growing up with single moms is their dads don’t give a fuck. Their dads love them, but want nothing to do with them. Or, even worse, because the mom makes it hard for them to see their kids, y’all simply don’t. Or, she ran you through the courts so you just pay what you owe and THEN date other women with kids while ignoring yours. Half the shit these women Say about us is true! I know several fools with a baby by a woman they hate who do little to nothing for them but their knew girlfriend got two kids! :smh: That dude is TRASH! Y’all fucking ugly women with dope bodies and when she’s pregnant you can’t imagine wifing her, now you’ve created another ugly person and a new statistic—AND WE BLAME THE WOMEN! It’s US! No standards whatsoever. The reason the threads suck on this board is because y’all posting trash, photoshopped, tatted up, weaved up bitches when porn is about fantasy. A bitch we all see at the gas station ain’t fantasy! Y’all steady “RAW”!!!! Jokingly, yes, but ehhhh!

The modern black woman is trash because black men love to wallow in trash! I fuckin said it! There’s too many ghetto ratchet fat green hair women with two kids or more for this to her all on the women! No-fucking-standards! My homie invited me over. His wife’s friend like me. She comes over to talk and she is cute but the makeup was caked on and her weave was just too much for me. Even if I was single and she made the pussy easy I would NOT have even taken head from her. I have standards. The women are worse because black men accept worse. They used to just be mouthy-we accepted it. Then they started having more kids in grade school—cool. Dress trashy—she got a fat ass though. Can’t string a sentence together, single mom, ratchet ways—she got some nice titties though. Miss me with the “single moms” ruined black boys shit. His bitch ass dad ain’t around to prevent it so it’s his (our) fault too!!!! Our women are worse because we are worse. Facts.

I would add that people are products of their environment, hence they tend to go towards what they are familiar with.

I loved me some hood chicks growing up. It was what I was used to. Sought them out because they were fun to be around.

My homie went off to college and got with this fine broad. She ended up introducing me to her friend. Me and my homie went to her crib and her parents house was really nice! That was the first time I ever (12th grade) saw a black girl from upper middle class status and she was fine as wine.

But it took me that long to see that! My point is, that some folks just don’t know how or have the ability to step outside what they are used to seeing.

Even when I went to college, I preferred the local hood rats up until my junior year. I probably should have got one preggo, but luckily I didn’t.
 
I would add that people are products of their environment, hence they tend to go towards what they are familiar with.

I loved me some hood chicks growing up. It was what I was used to. Sought them out because they were fun to be around.

My homie went off to college and got with this fine broad. She ended up introducing me to her friend. Me and my homie went to her crib and her parents house was really nice! That was the first time I ever (12th grade) saw a black girl from upper middle class status and she was fine as wine.

But it took me that long to see that! My point is, that some folks just don’t know how or have the ability to step outside what they are used to seeing.

Even when I went to college, I preferred the local hood rats up until my junior year. I probably should have got one preggo, but luckily I didn’t.
Product of their environment and creature of habit are some of the most underrated statements about human behavior and patterns
 
Unpopular statement coming:

As men we complain waaaaay too much about what we caused. (And don’t be the idiot that says “not all men” ) If all these piece of shit kids are raised by single mothers, what’s the REAL problem? The common denominator? Us! I’m tired of the hoodrat, single Mother shit as much as the “there are no good men” shit from woman. If MOST black women are single moms, somebody is fucking em—RAW! Somebody ELSE got em pregnant and possibly again. That means BLACK MEN have low-fucking-standards! If she’s a hoodrat, or something you’d only fuck once, why-do-it-raw???? Stop nutting in women you wouldn’t buy a house with! Goddamn, black men!
Nah this is kinda lame thinking bruh. This is a product of racist social engineering after the civil rights movement. Remove the man from the home, provide only the women with resources and educationn (only if she keeps said man out the home), mass incarcerate the males, glorify things that cause mass incarceration, and watch the family structure collapse within a decade. I didn't even mention how crack was flooded through the hoods to accelerate this shit. So now you have a group of women who believe their success is their own and a group of men talking about his hate for his own women who left him behind. Both groups are being played and it's only getting worse.
 
Teaching young black women at an HBCU gives me an interesting perspective on the mentality many of them have.

Many of these girls are VERY ambitious and there is a stark difference between them and the young men.

I converse with my students to see where their head is at and these young women are really shooting high. I’m not saying the young men isn’t, but not at the same rate as the women.

Now, how that translate into adulthood is a different thing. These same young women are going to become career women and we know how that can pan out later in life if there didn’t settle when they were younger.
Accurate.
When they are 30 and making more than most men they meet they take on the “why should I pump brakes or settle?” I dont blame them. I don’t settle anymore. Once a woman has all the toys, money and status that head is too far in the clouds. That’s what hurts them in relationships.
 
This post reeks of penis envy.. just look at your first line..than somewhere in the middle you pretty much repeat it.. now think you don’t have to be a thug in order to be packing or know how to fuck.. so literally if you knew how to sling dick these woman would be down to fuck.. so all you needed to do is have the skill set.. so only person who would be mad at these requirements are individuals who couldn’t fill those shoes.. just think if you knew how to tickle the pussy right you to would’ve been chosen
Not so much as that, maybe a little bothered due to erectile dysfunction due to injury.

When I was young/high school, thug dudes, dudes with the cars got the women. Never had a problem pleasing before the ED, even with ED (since the VA gives me viagra because the injury was their fault) but as a not flashy working guy honestly getting chosen is an issue if I'm being honest
 
In my opinion white feminist movement was designed to derail the civil rights movement similar to how the gay agenda is derailing the black lives matter movement.

The Gay Agenda is just a ruse to get Pedophilia legalize. That's why you see all this transgender nonsense about Men identify as women.

Soon you will see men claiming that they identify as 12 year old and why they can't sleep with young children.

You may laugh but if you can make people believe that a man with a whig can be a women. You can make people believe anything.

A lot of the LGBT movement started with a Group Called NAMBLA. Since the 1970's they were trying to get pedophila legalize.

Its only until the late 80's and the 1990's LGBT drop pedos from there movement, To Gain more acceptance and more traction.

But they still have the same goals. If you read they're manifesto.


 
Accurate.
When they are 30 and making more than most men they meet they take on the “why should I pump brakes or settle?” I dont blame them. I don’t settle anymore. Once a woman has all the toys, money and status that head is too far in the clouds. That’s what hurts them in relationships.

I told one girl that wants to be a lawyer, that she is terrifying. Not because she wants to be a lawyer, but because she is so ambitious that she is going to expect the same mentality from her significant other, which isn’t fair to him if he doesn’t grow as fast.

Of course she shouldn’t halt that mentality because it will make her successful in life. But these women are getting more opportunities than ever and when they are ready to settle, the guys they want have been settled down.
 
Interesting, I really be wanting to dissect the minds of these women to get an understanding of how they actually view black men as a whole.

They see us mostly as bums but I think the real problem is the "love" in the community is different than the "respect".

We the only group of people that literally have to disassociate ourselfves from our past in order to fit into a new standard in America other groups can keep their struggles, we must abandon ours.

I think some brothers low key have resentment for this approach and tend to marry out or when it comes to family stay away from alot of black women solely due to this mindset.
 
Not so much as that, maybe a little bothered due to erectile dysfunction due to injury.

When I was young/high school, thug dudes, dudes with the cars got the women. Never had a problem pleasing before the ED, even with ED (since the VA gives me viagra because the injury was their fault) but as a not flashy working guy honestly getting chosen is an issue if I'm being honest

Open yo mouf....and then you get chose... brah
 
What women don’t understand is what they think makes them wifey material almost never matters to men. Men can wife a chick working at McDonalds. Women look for men based on status and finance. That’s not the same for men because we aren’t wired to look for security and protection.
I just laugh when I read a chick’s dating profile and she talking about having her own money, place and career status. Cool I got all that too. But, an you cook, fuck, support your man and not nag a dude to death? I’ll take a McDonald’s chick that do all that verses a chick with her nose up in the air cause she got a degree.

This is true though, I used to work for a rich white man way back in the day as a courier for his shipping business, that dude was a millionare and guess where he meet his wife?

Thailand

LOL, he flew over there to see her once in a while and helped her get her papers and they got married and she's in the mansion chilling barely speaking english, this was probably 20 years ago.

Those white dudes who loaded like that don't even mess with those gold digger white women like that, they sleep with them and bounce.
 
Black men are sold the bill of goods that being a thug gets you the women. Well, this may be true when you are younger and living with your moms. That scrip flips around the age of 27 when these guys go from getting all the premo-pussy to barely able to get any. Around this age, many of these guys wind up with at least two kids and many end up with some kind of criminal record. Also around this time, they get kicked out of their mom's apartment to fend for themselves. So almost overnight they go from top choice to top scrub. So these guys often are forced to go into survival mode where they become prone to criminal activity, fucking dusty bitches and/or shacking up with fat bitches with kids just for shelter. This is where you see so many former players shacked up with fat chicks with kids Of course this is not absolute but everyone in the hood knows a few guys who life fit this to a tee so its a problem that we rather sweep under the rug than actually deal with by talking about it.

True, I lived like a scrub for years and when I got old I figured out I gained nothing, I still got boys that go out to the bar pushing 50 trying to meet girls to this day, none of the guys I know who broke got women after 35. I'll say the cut off age is probably a little older than 27 though but I will admit once we get older that thug, street shit is worthless and the same hoes who used to give out pussy to swag and style and a rep now looking for doctors and laywers and so forth when they get older.

Educated sisters I know hate them, they want to lay with a broke nigga and be happy since they broke. I know a ton of broads who barely make 35k looking for a nigga making 6 figures to take care of them, these are the main ones talking this "a man" stuff.

white men don't want them and black folks socialize all day and it messes up the bag for alot of hoes, no suckers out there.
 
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