I'm going through this now with my son, he's starting to get into that mindset of not listening to his parents, but we are on the path of correction by removing his "fun" stuff...im not here to be your best friend, but im here to teach you how to survive when mom and dad are no longer gone....
I know it's a movie but that line from Black Panther where T'Chaka tells him "A man who has not prepared his children for his own death has failed as a father. Have I ever failed you?" rings true every day for me. I can't afford to fail..