Excellent take on why chicks want men to make more than them
Funny thing hearing her say the guy she wants have to be a believer first foremost. Do you know how far my black woman pussy level dropped when I told them I was atheist?
Being at an HBCU (or living in the south in general), but particularly in college, about 98% of the women there were god fearing women. Around about 19 years old, I stopped believing. I made that decision, the chicks I was dealing with couldn’t understand why or just couldn’t handle the idea of dating an atheist.
I’m not going to lie, as much as I love black women and wanted to be with them, I started loosing hope that I would ever have a relationship with one because I simply didn’t (and still don’t) fuck with Black Jesus or his pops. Granted, my lack of empathy and sympathy was not helping me give them a chance to just be, which I take full accountability in not giving them room to exists without judgment.
I remember one girl ask me to go to church with her and I told her we should probably stop talking now. Another girl told me she felt bad about having premarital sex so she stopped giving me the puss, in which I stopped giving her anymore of my time.
There was no meeting half way with my belief system. I refused to date a god fearing black woman. Luckily, when I met my wife, she was going through a phase of questioning and we connected. She kept an open mind and didn’t give me hell for being a nonbeliever. She is a believer, but not on that Jesus is my daddy shit the brawds be on at times.