Then get the hell on lol the fux are you so pressed about?Uh, huh.
Yeah, right.
See you next year when you (or someone else) feels the "need" to discuss this irrelevant topic yet again...
Peace.
Open Relationships/ Polygamy
- Thread starter sorcererforemost
- Start date
So it's ego and selfishness? Or the thought that they aren't the only man who can rock their woman's socks off?
True but it's the understanding that feelings/body is being shared with another.
Thats no different than the men who fuck other women and lick their pussies from front to back, then go home and kiss their wives/kids and let their women suck off the leftover pussy juice on their dicks.
Thats just straight selfishness and a good example of that is in the movie The Best Man when Morris Chestnutt damn near had a mental break down after finding out he wasn't the main man lol
YES to everything you said, I see guys all the time saying monogamy isn’t natural but they want it to only apply to them as a man, they want it to be like one woman can’t satisfy them but they should be all the man their main woman needs.
That train of thought needs to be relinquished if that man wants to have a wife, a side chick, and all the beautiful women he runs across.
I'm a player...when a woman period hit ..what he sposed to do? If she want another nigga...don't ask me for no bread....when she don't want to fuck...don't expect me to lay there with one in the head....if a bish want another Mayne...she better Make sure she can fuck me and suck me everyday first...and be nasty as needed...jackk
Naw...her saying naw. I can't fuck her ass pussy to mouf...better be relinquished... and her period better be relinquished...and her asking me to buy shit..and pay her bills Betta be relinquished.. Jackk
Let's gone end this topic.... only reason why a Mayne cheats...is because these women let him get backed up...If she layeth the ho down...and turn it up...and clean him dry...he won't ever need another bitch...she got 3 holes...and she Betta get handy with em...or expect to get fucked off...no trace... jack
Men cheat because them hoes be loose. Hardest thing to do is say no and them bitches know that.
Shit....if you got a bish at home..that's just drained yo balls....you ain't gone be as willing to cheat...now imagine if you got a bitch at home..that drains yo balls daily...you won't want to have em drained again so quickly...jack
I believe cheating happens for many of reasons but selfishness and greed are the main ones. This is both men and women.
If your woman is not meeting your sexual needs then it needs to be verbally communicated, and if she can't meet you in the middle then set grounds rules or present an ultimatum.
If folks just talked and use communication, all would be better. Many women actually are submissive and will not not mind you seeing at least 1 other woman on the side.
man fuck fairness, lol
but in all seriousness, people of non-european cultures have had polygamy as tradition for thousands of years, and you don't see the women saying they need more than one husband for things to be fair. men and women are built differently. women are way more willing to share a man, than men are to share a woman.
sometimes not even on the side once everyone is onboard. women really can be on board to be sisterwives
LOL. Trust me, i know that. I'm African and have relatives with several wives and kids. Like you alluded to, that will only work there and with little to no success in industrialized countries. The women in the U.S will come up with some reason to want fairness and they won't be far off from being right.
It only works with poor women. Poor people are told what’s good for them. Sometimes they like it most times they resent it.
Who really wants crumbs of a crumb?
It amazes me that middle class/ upper middle class negro families want to engage in such behavior.
Fully agreed
Boy I had one that was ready for that. My main wife wasnt having it in no way, not happening.
yeah in US culture that might be hard to find, but there are women into it out there
I agree. Shit, even the Europeans had it before Christianity. That completely open shit just ain't natural because a man wants to pass on his genes. Think about it. DNA testing is new. What kind of punk, weak ass, bitch would let a woman talk him into a relationship where she goes out and gets dick and comes home. He ends up with 5 kids, none of them his. Bloodline extinct because she wants 'fair.'
Men share whores. Women they give no fucks about. Always been that way.Now if a man wants to turn in his man card after his ol lady can't have kids anymore, that's on him. And if a cat can't get his ol' lady to sign off on other pussy, that's also on him. Cats ending how they start on here, but that's to be expected.
Women a lot more willing to be lead than many of the weak chin fucks know. Some weak men get tricked into thinking educated or rich or 'strong' women are different. Sad when a man ain't a 100 percent man and don't know it. He just gender fluid. Women bring out the woman in him.
I started out saying your argument is wrong, but let me say it is different than the real truth of the matter. Rich people started the shit. People like variety. It ain't jealousy either. It is the cultural mores of the society we live in. In a patriarchal society men (we) worry about whose baby it is. Hell, I don't want to take care of no one else's kid and none of you want to also. However, in a Matriarchy, the community takes care of the child, so, to a point, they don't care who the father is, because all the wealth goes to your sister's son. I think that's how that shit goes. I need to start back reading my shit. Forgetting how this shit goes. Nonetheless, we are conditioned to hate someone else fucking your wife and your wife is conditioned to hate you go find another woman. All of this shit is based off of economics. In your wife case, she don't want you to have outside kids to take away money from her and her kids in the house. Further, back in the day (pre-Agricultural Revolution), people just fucked. Everybody got pussy, the whole village got pussy. They had religious cults where there were nothing but woman ready to fuck for the goddess. Every child created was a gift and they would know everybody would eat the coming year because the gods blessed the community with fertility for the year. So, the way we think stems from the people who are in power. And your whole process of emotions are based on the way your are trained.
Bingo
Bingo
Which rich people are you talking about?
Women with assets aren’t signing up for that shit. Only poor people accept these goofy reasonings.
The land owners, the kings and queens of most old world societies and their royal cousins. Kings would have several wives and sometimes hundreds of concubines. Shit, love used to be free. Some rich, jealous, motherfucka ended the party.
Ain’t no king from 600 years ago let his wife fuck someone.
This is Bullet Era behavior. Small dick homosexuals engaging disgusting fetishes.
I think it is whatever you find agreement on in your realationship.
There are many different couples in all walks of life that participate in different lifestyle choices. Open marriages, cuckolding, swinging, polyamory, polygamy, and of course monogamy. Marriages get in trouble when one partner wants a lifstyle that the other can't get with. Conversely, when both of the people in the couple communicate and are into whatever that lifestyle is, seem super happy with eachother and are really close.
I will say on polygamy, most times the reason that it's one man and multiple women is because there are more women than men in that society....in most societies really. Women outnumber men on earth like 3 to one.
There are many different couples in all walks of life that participate in different lifestyle choices. Open marriages, cuckolding, swinging, polyamory, polygamy, and of course monogamy. Marriages get in trouble when one partner wants a lifstyle that the other can't get with. Conversely, when both of the people in the couple communicate and are into whatever that lifestyle is, seem super happy with eachother and are really close.
I will say on polygamy, most times the reason that it's one man and multiple women is because there are more women than men in that society....in most societies really. Women outnumber men on earth like 3 to one.
Bruh, rich people started monogamy. Some small dick homosexual fuckboy who was afraid he would lose his money start monogamy. Before monogamy love was free. You could get as much pussy as you wanted you just had to help the community. Whether that was being a farmer, soldier, or whatever. Kids belonged to everyone. They way we live life today is because of economics, property rights. It ain't about love or jealousy, it about money. Now, the centuries people have become emotional over the bullshit, but monogamy is about money. Back in the day, no marriage, just do your job for the community and you could get as much pussy as you wanted.
I think a lot of you are missing the fact that women doing what they want is still a new concept. Of course folks back in the day didn't do some things. Women had to deal with whatever the husband said. And there are still women raised like that now so it isn't going away any time soon. So hopefully men and women and others just figure out what works best for them. If your partner isn't it then its best to move on. Life is short so there is no need to feel stuck in what's expected of you.
Right, just present it to women upfront and if they're not ok with it then move on.
The women that deal with men that have multiple children are already sharing that man's resources & time with his baby mama's. Why not plan it out beforehand and be on the same page? It would be better for the children/family.
You are correct
I don't know about the rich, but middleclass chicks with a house and a good job do get on board
"I'm tryna get bout two of dem things 'cuz that's just what I'm used to" -Big Boi
Similar threads
