Marques Brownlee.. Reflecting on the Color of My Skin

BKF

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You have an agenda.

No where in my post did I state that a white woman was a better selection.

I simply stated that most Black women aren't into dudes like that.

Are would going to forget that we spent the first few years of the early 2000s talking about Black women and this thug love shit, that still lingers.
That's not a simple statement. Saying most black women is a big and bold statement. Sounds like you're the one with an agenda.
 
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That's not a simple statement. Saying most black women is a big and bold statement. Sounds like you the one with an agenda.

I have no agenda and you can search my posts and you can clearly see that I have no agenda to promote interracial relationships or be against Black women, I am simplying going on what I've seen.
 

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I have no agenda and you can search my posts and you can clearly see that I have no agenda to promote interracial relationships or be against Black women, I am simplying going on what I've seen.
So you've seen what most black women go far?
 

tajshan

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Well, there some of us in here promoting how this dude has no "swag"(is that what they're still calling it?). Unfortunately there is this perception that women, black women, tend to not prefer these types.
 

guyver

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I'm kind of lost as to why people are assuming women/girls didn't find him attractive enough to even date if not fuck .Because he mostly focuses on cellphones, I don't really pay him much attention, but he doesn't seem like he has poor social skills. Also a lot of men were not fucking in high school or middle/Jr. High school and were lying to fit in.

Personally I've never been that social, been into games, into anime and during my school years comics. I didn't play any sports, didnt party often or sell drugs. I'm short and skinny. However, I've never had any issues dating and was doing so throughout my life.

To get women or girls at the time you need social skills and maybe being attractive in some way. You may not have women throwing themselves at you, but the reality is that just makes you the average man. There are very few men who are pulling women like its nothing. In most cases those men are more successful with women because they'll literally go at anything and at anytime. It makes more sense that the more you try, you'll pull different levels of women and more women than those men who are more selective or fearful of rejection.

As far as black women not being into so called nerds that's not exclusive to black women or men for that matter. Its human nature to desire whatever society deems to be attractive That being said there are more factors to attracting the opposite sex than your interest. I knew a few men/boys who played with Pokemon and Yugioh cards, but women/girls still found them attractive so they were fucking. Was this true for 90% of the card players. No, but it more so had to do with them not being seen as physically attractive than them being into Pokemon.

I agree that he may have a white girl because he could have grown up around mostly white people and possibly can relate to them more.i dont believe he couldn't find black women who accepted him for who he is or shared some of his interests. He made a choice to date the white girl and that's his business.

We have to stop with the black women are only into thugs narrative. The reality is women are into assertive men. Of course some are confused about what is an assertive man, but that's not all black women and alot out grow that as they leave certain environments or lifestyles.
 

Blkops

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5 pages of dick watching. :smh:
Commenting on a successful black person giving away their resources to the white community vs building a strong more wealthy black community is not dick watching. We should be placing social pressure on rich black people to build black families not mixed ones. Think about how much black wealth is transfered during divorce. Do you see any other race transfering weath to our communities that way? Dick watching is apparently what you do when watching porn. Why don't you hit up a tube site and let us adults get back to talking. Peace.
 

tallblacknyc

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I'm kind of lost as to why people are assuming women/girls didn't find him attractive enough to even date if not fuck .Because he mostly focuses on cellphones, I don't really pay him much attention, but he doesn't seem like he has poor social skills. Also a lot of men were not fucking in high school or middle/Jr. High school and were lying to fit in.

Personally I've never been that social, been into games, into anime and during my school years comics. I didn't play any sports, didnt party often or sell drugs. I'm short and skinny. However, I've never had any issues dating and was doing so throughout my life.

To get women or girls at the time you need social skills and maybe being attractive in some way. You may not have women throwing themselves at you, but the reality is that just makes you the average man. There are very few men who are pulling women like its nothing. In most cases those men are more successful with women because they'll literally go at anything and at anytime. It makes more sense that the more you try, you'll pull different levels of women and more women than those men who are more selective or fearful of rejection.

As far as black women not being into so called nerds that's not exclusive to black women or men for that matter. Its human nature to desire whatever society deems to be attractive That being said there are more factors to attracting the opposite sex than your interest. I knew a few men/boys who played with Pokemon and Yugioh cards, but women/girls still found them attractive so they were fucking. Was this true for 90% of the card players. No, but it more so had to do with them not being seen as physically attractive than them being into Pokemon.

I agree that he may have a white girl because he could have grown up around mostly white people and possibly can relate to them more.i dont believe he couldn't find black women who accepted him for who he is or shared some of his interests. He made a choice to date the white girl and that's his business.

We have to stop with the black women are only into thugs narrative. The reality is women are into assertive men. Of course some are confused about what is an assertive man, but that's not all black women and alot out grow that as they leave certain environments or lifestyles.
who said anything about black women only being into thugs? The world isn't only made of two types of guys.. Just cause you not a thug doesn't mean you a nerd and just because you not a nerd doesn't mean you a thug... All you have to do is look at his first vid and you can pretty much tell he wasn't getting no pussy at the time.. Just of his personality and his mannerism.. No knock on him some people are late bloomers or just haven't experienced anything yet... It's obvious he eventually did.. A white girl might been the first chick to toss him some ass and white girls might have gravitated to him more.. So being a guy sometimes you like the things that like you.. It could of been Asian chicks, Latin chicks, mideastern chicks, etc... If a certain type of chick keep tossing at you should people be mad that he took the offers the answer is no.. I know some dudes who certain chicks gravitated to more while others didn't and dudes ended up fucking with the 1s that gave them the most play
 

Hey Julian!

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Commenting on a successful black person giving away their resources to the white community vs building a strong more wealthy black community is not dick watching. We should be placing social pressure on rich black people to build black families not mixed ones. Think about how much black wealth is transfered during divorce. Do you see any other race transfering weath to our communities that way? Dick watching is apparently what you do when watching porn. Why don't you hit up a tube site and let us adults get back to talking. Peace.
Shut up nigga you sound like bitch that can't find a man so now it's a successful man's fault for not picking YOU. GTFOH
 

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Complex

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You can tell who's getting offended by the truth.

You're only proving the point
 

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who said anything about black women only being into thugs? The world isn't only made of two types of guys.. Just cause you not a thug doesn't mean you a nerd and just because you not a nerd doesn't mean you a thug... All you have to do is look at his first vid and you can pretty much tell he wasn't getting no pussy at the time.. Just of his personality and his mannerism.. No knock on him some people are late bloomers or just haven't experienced anything yet... It's obvious he eventually did.. A white girl might been the first chick to toss him some ass and white girls might have gravitated to him more.. So being a guy sometimes you like the things that like you.. It could of been Asian chicks, Latin chicks, mideastern chicks, etc... If a certain type of chick keep tossing at you should people be mad that he took the offers the answer is no.. I know some dudes who certain chicks gravitated to more while others didn't and dudes ended up fucking with the 1s that gave them the most play

Dude plays golf and is in to frisbee or whatever he said and tech.

That already puts him certain circles.

I watch a lot of tech channels, especially the black ones beside the MAGA muthafuckas like soldierknowsbest. It's only a couple of black females doing it, hell only one doing it on the regular off the top of my head and she's probably a lesbian.

Dudes are telling on themselves in this topic.
 

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who said anything about black women only being into thugs? The world isn't only made of two types of guys.. Just cause you not a thug doesn't mean you a nerd and just because you not a nerd doesn't mean you a thug... All you have to do is look at his first vid and you can pretty much tell he wasn't getting no pussy at the time.. Just of his personality and his mannerism.. No knock on him some people are late bloomers or just haven't experienced anything yet... It's obvious he eventually did.. A white girl might been the first chick to toss him some ass and white girls might have gravitated to him more.. So being a guy sometimes you like the things that like you.. It could of been Asian chicks, Latin chicks, mideastern chicks, etc... If a certain type of chick keep tossing at you should people be mad that he took the offers the answer is no.. I know some dudes who certain chicks gravitated to more while others didn't and dudes ended up fucking with the 1s that gave them the most play

Are would going to forget that we spent the first few years of the early 2000s talking about Black women and this thug love shit, that still lingers.


My comments are based of more than a few comments that said more of less he didn't get any women because of his interest or black women would not be interested in him. I mentioned the thug thing because of what I quoted above. You can call it women being into bad boys or whatever I don't really care. If people were more so saying generally a lame guy, that's cool too.

Second you're doing exactly what I was speaking too which was assuming he didn't get any attention from women because he didn't fit what you thought was worthy of being desired. You yourself said in first video he looked off ward, but his first video would have been at or around 15 years old (according to wiki). There are alot of 15 year old boys who aren't fucking, but who also get attention from girls and could have a girlfriend.this would be considered normal as far as dating goes.

I could be very wrong but given the fact that his channel probably gave him a little bit of popularity among his peers in high school, I believe he could have pulled women by the time he entered college if not sooner. His content probably wouldn't have mattered depending on how many subscribers he had at the time. Girls or women probably would have been on him just because he seemed to be popular in the YouTube world.Also if nothing else he is 6 or more ft and we all know for a fact women like tall men. I've literally had women tell me it didn't matter if the guy was ugly that they'd still fuck with a dude simply because he was tall lol.

Now if he said it out if his mouth that would be one thing, but again you are assuming and we all know the world isn't that simple.

My argument wasn't that his type was flowing in women but that essentially not everyone's story is the same and there are black women who would have been interested in him assuming he tried to engage with them. I also mentioned that in all likely hood he fucked with white women because he could relate to them more.even with that, I really should have said he could easily relate to suburban like women which would include black and other women from those environments.

Again I dont care what he dates, but dont make excuses for his selection by saying black women didn't want him. I'm not really judging him and I'd fuck with a white woman or any woman I click with.
 

Blkops

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Shut up nigga you sound like bitch that can't find a man so now it's a successful man's fault for not picking YOU. GTFOH
So yo non reading ass missed where I said person right? Always blaming shit on bitches huh? Yeah yo angry ass ain't getting no pussy. When you do you'll lose some of that anger.
 

Hey Julian!

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So yo non reading ass missed where I said person right? Always blaming shit on bitches huh? Yeah yo angry ass ain't getting no pussy. When you do you'll lose some of that anger.
I deciphered that feminine ass energy for what it is. Get pussy? Yeah let me leave this discussion to the adults. Lol
 

tallblacknyc

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My comments are based of more than a few comments that said more of less he didn't get any women because of his interest or black women would not be interested in him. I mentioned the thug thing because of what I quoted above. You can call it women being into bad boys or whatever I don't really care. If people were more so saying generally a lame guy, that's cool too.

Second you're doing exactly what I was speaking too which was assuming he didn't get any attention from women because he didn't fit what you thought was worthy of being desired. You yourself said in first video he looked off ward, but his first video would have been at or around 15 years old (according to wiki). There are alot of 15 year old boys who aren't fucking, but who also get attention from girls and could have a girlfriend.this would be considered normal as far as dating goes.

I could be very wrong but given the fact that his channel probably gave him a little bit of popularity among his peers in high school, I believe he could have pulled women by the time he entered college if not sooner. His content probably wouldn't have mattered depending on how many subscribers he had at the time. Girls or women probably would have been on him just because he seemed to be popular in the YouTube world.Also if nothing else he is 6 or more ft and we all know for a fact women like tall men. I've literally had women tell me it didn't matter if the guy was ugly that they'd still fuck with a dude simply because he was tall lol.

Now if he said it out if his mouth that would be one thing, but again you are assuming and we all know the world isn't that simple.

My argument wasn't that his type was flowing in women but that essentially not everyone's story is the same and there are black women who would have been interested in him assuming he tried to engage with them. I also mentioned that in all likely hood he fucked with white women because he could relate to them more.even with that, I really should have said he could easily relate to suburban like women which would include black and other women from those environments.

Again I dont care what he dates, but dont make excuses for his selection by saying black women didn't want him. I'm not really judging him and I'd fuck with a white woman or any woman I click with.
when he started YouTube wasn't paying yet.. When he started YouTube wasn't on everybody radar /must watch list.. You talking from the 20/20 pov and not the 2009 pov.. Still a 15 yr old dweeb that talked about tech... I also said cacs might have gravitated to him more.. I been said a black man will always be high on the rating list when you compare them to cacs.. A 6 in the black community will be a 8 in a cac community.. So while he might been overlooked in his community he would look like a piece of steak in cac females eyes... If you ever go to diff events with diff cultures you can literally see how you tend to standout more especially in cac events...being 6 ft tall in the black community is regular in the white event it's omg you so tall do you play bball, wow you must got a lot of girlfriends, how big is your feet, I know what they say about black guys.. Trust.. White broads will just randomly spark convos with you, or lust after you for certain things... Ive said on here that back in aol chat days and my late teens we would run around white campus/parties and randomly get sucked off by white broads juss cause of shit like this...so I could see a young him getting tossed some ass from a cac and than more pussy from cacs being tossed and him gravitating towards the easier available pussy options.... People acting like if you had 2 options tonight either get sucked off by some head demon or Chase after a chick who playing hard to get and not showing much interesting in you that you gonna pick the latter for tonight's schedule.. No pretty much everyone going for the automatic head demon and not the broad playing games.. Maybe in his life that's how his options were
 

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Y’all must expect him to be a virgin
Black chicks don’t really fuck with cats like him

You can always tell the dudes that don't have any luck with women and are projecting.

Dude is 6'4" and self sufficient. You really think Black women won't mess with him??
 

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when he started YouTube wasn't paying yet.. When he started YouTube wasn't on everybody radar /must watch list.. You talking from the 20/20 pov and not the 2009 pov.. Still a 15 yr old dweeb that talked about tech... I also said cacs might have gravitated to him more.. I been said a black man will always be high on the rating list when you compare them to cacs.. A 6 in the black community will be a 8 in a cac community.. So while he might been overlooked in his community he would look like a piece of steak in cac females eyes... If you ever go to diff events with diff cultures you can literally see how you tend to standout more especially in cac events...being 6 ft tall in the black community is regular in the white event it's omg you so tall do you play bball, wow you must got a lot of girlfriends, how big is your feet, I know what they say about black guys.. Trust.. White broads will just randomly spark convos with you, or lust after you for certain things... Ive said on here that back in aol chat days and my late teens we would run around white campus/parties and randomly get sucked off by white broads juss cause of shit like this...so I could see a young him getting tossed some ass from a cac and than more pussy from cacs being tossed and him gravitating towards the easier available pussy options.... People acting like if you had 2 options tonight either get sucked off by some head demon or Chase after a chick who playing hard to get and not showing much interesting in you that you gonna pick the latter for tonight's schedule.. No pretty much everyone going for the automatic head demon and not the broad playing games.. Maybe in his life that's how his options were

I never mentioned money. I may agree that everyone may not have watched YouTube like today, but I feel like it was still popular. He's what 25/26 and he had to been doing numbers before he hit college. Didn't he interview Kobe Bryant at some point? That alone would probably get attention for anyone who knew of him at that point in his career.

My point is that regardless of your social circle, personality or interest there is a black girl/women out there for you. At best, you may have men who dont want the women they can get. I agree that he may connect with suburban women because of where he grew up, but that doesn't mean non/suburban black women wouldn't fuck with him now or even then. He found a white woman he likes and choose to be with her for whatever reason even though you believe he is or was a dweeb. Even if you believe not many black women are in his space or went to school with him prior to graduating, he's in the real world now and could have found a black woman who was interested in him.

Like I said before I'm not saying he had to choose a black woman I'm just saying he could have gotten one if thats what he desired.
 

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I’m not sure what the issue is or why there’s a dispute?

Most are speaking in generalities when saying that Black women don’t like the nerdy type. There’s someone for everyone so some are attracted to the needy type and many more are not.

How many times has it been stated that women don’t like nice guys? That’s until they’ve been ran through, had their fun and are now ready to settle down after 2 or 3 kids and now they’re in their in their 30’s?
 

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So a nigga is a coon because he has a white girlfriend?

I don't remember Marques saying anything cooning and I've been watching him for years.

You have to take into account the things that Lord Sinister and YoungSinister said.

The fact is, Black girls usually aren't going for dudes like that.

Uravgconsumer is married to a beautiful Black woman who is also into tech, anime and gundams but she's rare.
not until later, yeah. if he stayed single until his late thirties, he could get a gang of professional women but becky showed up and gave him love. no hate here
 

guyver

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I’m not sure what the issue is or why there’s a dispute?

Most are speaking in generalities when saying that Black women don’t like the nerdy type. There’s someone for everyone so some are attracted to the needy type and many more are not.

How many times has it been stated that women don’t like nice guys? That’s until they’ve been ran through, had their fun and are now ready to settle down after 2 or 3 kids and now they’re in their in their 30’s?

Being nice and being nerdy aren't synonymous though. You could be a nerd and be very comfortable in skin.There is a difference between being nice to women and letting women walk over you seeking validation from women or just trying too hard to win a woman. Women like assertive men first and foremost.

My issue is singling out black women and indirectly maybe unintentionally saying white women are better than black women in this respect. Of course there are women who are guilty of the behavior you describing but that's not an exclusively black thing and I'm not even sure this is true for a lot of women in general.

In my opinion men who normally think this way are mad they couldn't get the women they really wanted in life. Instead of accepting that they don't have desirable traits the women they are interested in would want and finding someone who sees their value they lash out at society. There are women who also share these thoughts about men too. That attitude is part of the reason they aren't successful with women or men in general.
 

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Being nice and being nerdy aren't synonymous though. You could be a nerd and be very comfortable in skin.There is a difference between being nice to women and letting women walk over you seeking validation from women or just trying too hard to win a woman. Women like assertive men first and foremost.

My issue is singling out black women and indirectly maybe unintentionally saying white women are better than black women in this respect. Of course there are women who are guilty of the behavior you describing but that's not an exclusively black thing and I'm not even sure this is true for a lot of women in general.

In my opinion men who normally think this way are mad they couldn't get the women they really wanted in life. Instead of accepting that they don't have desirable traits the women they are interested in would want and finding someone who sees their value they lash out at society. There are women who also share these thoughts about men too. That attitude is part of the reason they aren't successful with women or men in general.

To be honest, I’m not even thinking of it as deeply as you or many on this board. We’ve all heard the term “Nice guys finish last”. That’s not Black or white, that’s just a general saying which many can agree to be true. I’m not speaking in absolutes, just something that many people say and come to believe.

Nerdy, quiet, nice, shy or generally unattractive or uninteresting aren’t qualities that attract the majority of women. In general, I’m not speaking about All women.

It’s a TV show but nobody was knocking down Steve Erkel’s door! :lol:

Let’s think about another person who was also successful in his craft. RG3, the sistas weren’t checking for him and he played football! :roflmao:
 

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To be honest, I’m not even thinking of it as deeply as you or many on this board. We’ve all heard the term “Nice guys finish last”. That’s not Black or white, that’s just a general saying which many can agree to be true. I’m not speaking in absolutes, just something that many people say and come to believe.

Nerdy, quiet, nice, shy or generally unattractive or uninteresting aren’t qualities that attract the majority of women. In general, I’m not speaking about All women.

It’s a TV show but nobody was knocking down Steve Erkel’s door! :lol:

Let’s think about another person who was also successful in his craft. RG3, the sistas weren’t checking for him and he played football! :roflmao:

Man Steve had Myra and she was on him lls. That's kind of what I'm getting at. Instead of wasting his time trying to get Laura he should have spent more time finding more women like Myra who accepted him for what he was. I know it was a tv show but technically Myra was black and into a nerd. Lol

I don't recall much about RG3 to really speak on it, but he came in the league with a white girl so he kind of fucked himself before he even got started. That's just like women were in love with Tay Diggs until they discovered his white girlfriend or wife.
 

tallblacknyc

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Man Steve had Myra and she was on him lls. That's kind of what I'm getting at. Instead of wasting his time trying to get Laura he should have spent more time finding more women like Myra who accepted him for what he was. I know it was a tv show but technically Myra was black and into a nerd. Lol

I don't recall much about RG3 to really speak on it, but he came in the league with a white girl so he kind of fucked himself before he even got started. That's just like women were in love with Tay Diggs until they discovered his white girlfriend or wife.
you just proved my point.. You said why should urkel Chase after laura when Myra was all over him.. What if marques was a cac magnet meanwhile black chicks in his circle wasn't giving him much burn.. Maybe cacs are his myra.. He chose Myra in the end.. Now you mad at urkel for going after the girls who wanted him
 

tallblacknyc

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I never mentioned money. I may agree that everyone may not have watched YouTube like today, but I feel like it was still popular. He's what 25/26 and he had to been doing numbers before he hit college. Didn't he interview Kobe Bryant at some point? That alone would probably get attention for anyone who knew of him at that point in his career.

My point is that regardless of your social circle, personality or interest there is a black girl/women out there for you. At best, you may have men who dont want the women they can get. I agree that he may connect with suburban women because of where he grew up, but that doesn't mean non/suburban black women wouldn't fuck with him now or even then. He found a white woman he likes and choose to be with her for whatever reason even though you believe he is or was a dweeb. Even if you believe not many black women are in his space or went to school with him prior to graduating, he's in the real world now and could have found a black woman who was interested in him.

Like I said before I'm not saying he had to choose a black woman I'm just saying he could have gotten one if thats what he desired.
If a chick wasn't giving you burn for yrs and now all of a sudden she all in your face when you at your highest peak be weary and in some cases curve that broad.. You said he talked to Kobe.. Well if certain chicks all of a sudden all up in your face after that interview be cautious cause that's signs of a user/groupie... When you a millionaire or have nice finances always try to let females think you normal or just ok just to see how she reacts to you.. Never surround yourself with broads who only want to be around when you popping bottles so they can have their cups out , make them think your funds is low to see if they'll offer you a drink or to see if they stick around it they know they can't get free drinks... Its never about when you on top but when you close to the bottom is who you want surrounding you... I'm pretty sure his playing field has increased since his success but certain females aren't worthy joining the team they just there for the free ride and pop the victory champagne.. Keep them bitches at a distance
 
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