You still with your bm or nah?

[jasonblacc]

That’s why u moved to Houston?

didn’t she give u a daughter?

don’t quote me bitch

Damn fam!
You hate her or your decisions?

I hate her, my seed beautiful, smart, state ranked athlete if all goes well she’ll be going to Howard in 2. Love her but her mother is demon and even if demon pretends to something other than a demon she’s still a demon. Glad my daughter has seen her for who she is and bounced on her.

 

[CoTtOnMoUf]

Yes.

I try to have a good BM everyday.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

don’t quote me bitch



I hate her, my seed beautiful, smart, state ranked athlete if all goes well she’ll be going to Howard in 2. Love her but her mother is demon and even if demon pretends to something other than a demon she’s still a demon. Glad my daughter has seen her for who she is and bounced on her.

Control yo babymother yo

 

[jasonblacc]

Control yo babymother yo

Control camrons nuts faggit

 

[uptown93]

Hell no, she did her best to trap me and worked for awhile but I knew we wasnt right. got married and it lasted about 3 years but it was hell and she had to go

 

[dHustla]

Man, I'm reading this thread thinking of how I can make sure to avoid a bad situation and still have children

 

[dHustla]

Glad my daughter has seen her for who she is and bounced on her.

You got custody?

 

[dHustla]

I feel you. If it wasnt for the 2 kids I would be out. Trying to power through it til my son graduates in 6 years.

I almost left last week, ready to hit a homeless shelter cause I'm not paying for two places to live.

It's a struggle and I have read and tried to see what works. Some days I just don't care, just focus on the kids and make sure they see me smile. Friends who say they are so in love but they use alcohol or side chicks to keep their sanity. But thats not me. Use to play video games but i play Saturday morning for an hour before anyone is up and its all you do is play video games all the times. Its an hour a week. So i don't play and now its why do you have that if you don't play it.

I don't yell or show any disdain towards her in front or not in front of the kids. Just think one day i will be gone.

I'm sorry to hear this, fam. Update?

I be feeling the same mf way. We broke up before my boy turned 1 year old. We was broke up for about 1 yr and a half, before she started missing me, and calling me again just to talk. Fast fwd, my lil man will be 13 in 2 months, but we have added 2 more to the family. Makes me wanna drive off a cliff sometimes.

Damn, so the bad outweighs the good?

 

[Day_Carver]

is this the new thing... to abbreviate everything?


.

I hate that shit…

 

[SamSneed]

No

 

[BGLR1212000]

I'm sorry to hear this, fam. Update?

Damn, so the bad outweighs the good?

Its ok. Baby boy coming up on 15.

 

[uptown93]

Been done with mine since we divorced almost 20 years ago. I fought tooth and nail to stay together, had to say fuck it...

 

[KA$H]

Nope...... or from time to time, but nope

 

[Hey Julian!]

Nope, we cool though. Never been on CS. Everything split down the middle. Two weeks with kids, two weeks without. No drama.

 

[Da Backshot Champ]

Better question, has anybody baby mom gone terrible? My barber's baby mom even though his kid is grown, baby mom turned into a 600 pound rhino. You know one of those bitches so big you have to move shit out her when she start walking, because you know anything in her path could be trampled and destroyed.

 

[4 Dimensional]

Man, I'm reading this thread thinking of how I can make sure to avoid a bad situation and still have children

if you can accurately predict how a person changes after having children, then you’ll be good. Lol

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Yea. At this stage, its cheaper to keep her.

There's no way you can depreciate the asset?

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

if you can accurately predict how a person changes after having children, then you’ll be good. Lol

What sort of answer is this?

If the women are bad the only solution is to have a womanless birth. That's how you solve this dilemma.

 

[4 Dimensional]

Better question, has anybody baby mom gone terrible? My barber's baby mom even though his kid is grown, baby mom turned into a 600 pound rhino. You know one of those bitches so big you have to move shit out her when she start walking, because you know anything in her path could be trampled and destroyed.

Thats a deal breaker for real for real.

I wouldn’t be able to live with a person that big.

 

[4 Dimensional]

What sort of answer is this?

If the women are bad the only solution is to have a womanless birth. That's how you solve this dilemma.

Im sure some of these guys in this thread didn’t think their baby mother was bad before they had kids.

 

[SamSneed]

Y’all niggas afraid of child support lol

 

[Llano]

Haven't seen or spoken to that B in about 10-14 yrs and loving every second of it.

Do you communicate with your child?

 

[Dannyblueyes]

We're not together but we're close.

 

[mcguyver]

Do you communicate with your child?

They are in their 20s, and of course.

 

[dHustla]

Nope, we cool though. Never been on CS. Everything split down the middle. Two weeks with kids, two weeks without. No drama.

Damn, you won. How you pull that off?

 

[dHustla]

Y’all niggas afraid of child support lol

Not for me, I just don't want the constant resistance to progress that some women present. Any & everything they can do to get in a nigga way, they make sure they do. The constant struggle for control of my own life, and my child(ren)'s life.

Asking for permission to spend quality time with my own offspring?
Court authorization for what I teach my children?

I'll murk a bitch first

 

[850credit]

If you are with her she is not your BM
Or did I miss something

Cats done made up a new term and call it co-parenting.

How ya'll not together but live in the same house with a kid?

To me that just means yall together just having a rough patch or making it work for the kid...but still, together.

If you not gonna claim each other then get separate households in my book...but I'm not in that situation so hey, whatever floats ya boat.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

Not for me, I just don't want the constant resistance to progress that some women present. Any & everything they can do to get in a nigga way, they make sure they do. The constant struggle for control of my own life, and my child(ren)'s life.

Asking for permission to spend quality time with my own offspring?
Court authorization for what I teach my children?

I'll murk a bitch first

On da guys brah

cut a bitch break line

 

[sorcererforemost]

At least none of you found out the boy wasn't his when he turned 10

 

[HotNixon36]

It's never good to double back on ex's or baby mommas just for pussy, pay your child support, and move the fuck on.

Make yourself less accessible, you have bigger fish to fry.

 

[Dannyblueyes]

Y’all niggas afraid of child support lol

There's nothing wrong with supporting your child. The problem is dealing with the government.

 

[Hey Julian!]

Damn, you won. How you pull that off?

Yeah, I guess instinctively I stay away from the crazy ones. I dead drama early on in a relationship. I just don’t have the mental real estate to continuously argue with someone and come home to live in the same house. Learned that from my first serious relationship. Never again. When the crazy behavior starts, I’m cutting bitches off. Even though it didn’t work out between us, we never got into too many fights like that so talking about the terms after the divorce was fairly straightforward. When you’re dealing with a reasonable person(even emotional women) the rational way generally prevails after the feelings calm down.

 

[Give Me 3ft.]

I moved out 7 months after my post in here.

we do a week on and a week off. I pay no

child support! I support, take care of, and

raise my daughter...and love where I'm at

in my life! We get along fine! I was over for

so-called Christmas. I'm on her health

benefits, and decline mine for an extra

300$/month from my job, shes on my

vision/dental(free from my job) for double

coverage. Any scheduling issues, we help

each other out.

co-parent very well...1-10 ,we're a bout a

9!

 

[DJ]

If BM means Bullets misses, yeah we together every time he go away.

 

[BigDaddyBuk]

Man, I'm reading this thread thinking of how I can make sure to avoid a bad situation and still have children

Bruh, it took a good 12 years to train my wife to get along with me.

NOW its pretty good.