What is the biggest dilemma you've found yourself in?
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Lol no. Mack wasn't even around back then. When we hung out with Cube it was from the CIA days. Sir Jinx (who the homies was about to whoop for trying to keep a borrowed chain) and JD and YOYO.
I go back with all of them before Jerry Heller
Kid disaster aka K Dee?
Y'all need to stop before you get any closer.
Damn, man. This is some sad depressing shit right here!
So you are a white man & got caught up with a hood black chick and her family? That shit sucks that grandpa plays games
Yes. That's exactly what happened.
It was a family that embodied some of the worst stereotypes. When I was married into it I took on a lot of these stereotypes too. Even got involved in the family fraud business. Some of the consequences of those bad decisions follow me to this day.
I also realize that all the people who are deepest in the game are the ones doing the worst. Grandpa's relatively square, he was the cover that everyone else used to hide their dirt. He has a house they don't. My daughter's other aunt got a masters degree and became a squeeky clean professional. She has a six-figure income and no one else's comes close.
Hopefully my daughter realizes this and decides to go the right route. I got out of the game completely and started my own business and now I can make more money in one night DJing a party than I ever did popping checks.
Maybe one day I can show her.
I feel it fam...
I’ve got something similar to your story only difference is I have my son with me. Couldn’t imagine him being with his mother 24/7 or what kinda man he would turn out to be with just her involved in his life. Was your ex wife in on the family biz too?
Once again RIP to the Mrs.
Will read later.
She was. Once she showed me how easy it was to make money off a bank it was a wrap. We lived it up hood rich style. Two broke down cars, shopping sprees at Zales, gambling trips to Oregon, etc. Eventually I ran a scam on Avis and got popped for grand theft auto. That played a big part in losing my daughter. Almost got me deported back to Canada.
She knew how to make a way out of no way, but the stupid thing is that we DID have options. Both of us had degrees. I had two jobs. If we would have been less greedy and impulsive we could have got by just fine without breaking the law. Nothing dumber than having a diamond tennis bracelet and a head full of Bobby Boss complaining that you can't pay the rent. I'm just as guilty as she was though.
Ass gas or cash No one Rides for Free
Fuck that cracka
careful dude he'll put your ass in a coma until they have to wake you up with ammonia
We live and we learn bro. And you’ll see your baby girl soon. Speak it into existence!
Thanks, and I will! Just have to keep saving, growing my business, cutting back my bad habits, and living a Spartan life. Get ready for the day that she knocks on my door.
You still bitter bout that?
My nigga if u need anythingSame shit happened to me in August.
Right before my aunt passed in August, my girl found out she was pregnant. I didn't tell my aunt she was pregnant because I had told her that I wanted to marry my girl first.
Then my aunt died.
My girl is telling everybody, it's both of our first child and she's older so she's excited. Told her mama, and her brother's longtime g/f /babymama and she talk too much, so everybody know on the low.
A few weeks later my girl and I go to the first ultrasound at 8 weeks....doctor says that ot looks like the sac is empty, like it stopped developing at 7 weeks. She said it was a "blighted ovum".
You talmbout disappointed? Dejected?
I held it together for my girl, I knew I had to be there for her. I reassured her that we gon make it through this, we gon tru again. I made sure I let her know that I'm certain about her having my child. We cried outside. She asked if I was still wanted her without a child, I said, "of course". Word had spread that she was pregnant, now word spread that she miscarried and she getting random texts & calls from family. I told her that she shoulda kept it to herself smh.
She was hopeful that there was a chance the baby could survive. She had to pass it, but didnt want to induce until it was confirmed that her hormone levels had dropped. She had her blood work done twice, and got a second opinion... she went ahead with inducing the passing.
My bday was 9/28... she was very emotional, randomly crying, thoughts all over the place, due to her hormones.
2 months later she left me, 11/30, . We had been up and down and bumping heads, not getting along.
For 3 months I been sick! We were going to counseling last year, and we've been a couple times since she left. She say she not focused on relationship now, she working on herself and want me to work on myself, and maybe we can grow back together. She told me when we were still together that she thought counseling was gon push her to leave me, and me being confident, I say, "well maybe that's what we need in order to be happy." I ain't want that to happen, I guess I didn't think it would.
Fam I'on know if I'ma get her back, and I know there are other fish in the sea.... but I... we .... were building something. I want a family.
Now I'm back to coming home to an empty apartment.
Haven't told her I found a house, close on the 26th.
right about now we got coming to the stage a girl with some big ass motherfucking lips
Blessing brothers and board. I was blessed with my second son last year right before my mom passed. My first son is 22. Only two people on this board know but I can tell you it is amazing. My lil dude is a gift and since I'm older and retired there is no struggle. My Gf is a doctor with her own 4 year old. She work 3 jobs, We chilling. Man I know we clown and fuck around but we human. A lot of us go through some real shit. When we share we relieve ourselves of the inner pain and I can only respect that. No judgments, just mutual chill. Stay up fam!
Same shit happened to me in August.
Right before my aunt passed in August, my girl found out she was pregnant. I didn't tell my aunt she was pregnant because I had told her that I wanted to marry my girl first.
Then my aunt died.
My girl is telling everybody, it's both of our first child and she's older so she's excited. Told her mama, and her brother's longtime g/f /babymama and she talk too much, so everybody know on the low.
A few weeks later my girl and I go to the first ultrasound at 8 weeks....doctor says that ot looks like the sac is empty, like it stopped developing at 7 weeks. She said it was a "blighted ovum".
You talmbout disappointed? Dejected?
I held it together for my girl, I knew I had to be there for her. I reassured her that we gon make it through this, we gon tru again. I made sure I let her know that I'm certain about her having my child. We cried outside. She asked if I was still wanted her without a child, I said, "of course". Word had spread that she was pregnant, now word spread that she miscarried and she getting random texts & calls from family. I told her that she shoulda kept it to herself smh.
She was hopeful that there was a chance the baby could survive. She had to pass it, but didnt want to induce until it was confirmed that her hormone levels had dropped. She had her blood work done twice, and got a second opinion... she went ahead with inducing the passing.
My bday was 9/28... she was very emotional, randomly crying, thoughts all over the place, due to her hormones.
2 months later she left me, 11/30, . We had been up and down and bumping heads, not getting along.
For 3 months I been sick! We were going to counseling last year, and we've been a couple times since she left. She say she not focused on relationship now, she working on herself and want me to work on myself, and maybe we can grow back together. She told me when we were still together that she thought counseling was gon push her to leave me, and me being confident, I say, "well maybe that's what we need in order to be happy." I ain't want that to happen, I guess I didn't think it would.
Fam I'on know if I'ma get her back, and I know there are other fish in the sea.... but I... we .... were building something. I want a family.
Now I'm back to coming home to an empty apartment.
Haven't told her I found a house, close on the 26th.
Man, this shit really sucks. life just ain't fair. Gives kids to POS' who really shouldn't be allowed to have kids and when to decent motherfuckers with good heads get together shit like this happen
Shit just ain't fair. I feel you both. I'm 42, I don't have any kids because I want to be a father, not just another baby daddy, you know.
I hear you two guys stories and I tear up. I don't know y'all, but I know y'all, you dig? All I want is a little guy or girl who looks like me to try to be a better man for them than I was shown
That good example. To hear you guys' struggles just...it's fucked up, man. I'm sorry to hear about both of you guys' troubles
Whaaaaaaaaaat Gregory D back up in this bih?Damn bro...
I was thinking about the dilemma of whether to show up at this bar or not after niggas said they'll be there to...
Them hoes still ain’t pay rent
Boy you hell
Aiight is questionable. I ain't been right since she left.
"Life is just an E.Q. of hi's & lo's" -Big K.R.I.T.
I’m dead ass.
U soft as hell
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On base in Ali Al Saleem back in 2006 in Kuwait, I saw a sand viper.
I wasn't the first one who saw it, but everyone around me was freaking out. I was 29, and I had been handling snakes since about eight years old. For the most part, nothing big, just snakes are found in the yard in Ohio (I'm not including the Eastern diamondback I caught in Meridian, Mississippi back in 96). The three venomous snakes in Ohio are all found south of Columbus.
A lot of people are scared of snakes and react poorly when it comes to dealing with them, but on that day I was surprisingly calm.
Some people had weapons drawn, 9mm, one person even had a loaded M-16 (or M-4, I was in the Navy and don't know much about guns). People we're screaming, but I took control of the situation and told everyone to back away.
The worst thing you can do on a base in a war zone, (Kuwait is still considered a war zone), was fire a weapon. those who are around with know that you are shooting at a snake, but those who hear the gunshots would believe we are being attacked and all hell would break loose.
I knew that and calmed everybody the fuck down and told them to back away. Meanwhile, the snake is striking because people are surrounding it.
I had studied snakes for years and knew that the sand viper was the third most venomous snake in the middle East.
I grabbed the M-16, cleared it, and put the butt of the rifle on the snake's head. Once the snake's head was secured I picked it up.
Exclamations from everywhere, "Dude, you're fucking nuts" "Godofwine, you crazy, man." "That ninja think he's the black crocodile Hunter" but I stayed calm, held on to the snake's head, had someone dump out an ammo container and put the snake in there. (Ironically, 2 months later the crocodile hunter was killed)
I walked with the snake in the ammo container about half a mile with a buddy of mine who held the M-16. At one of the farthest fences from the main part of the base, I dumped out the ammo container, used the M-16 to pin down the viper's head so I can pick it up again, and threw it over the fence.
I thought the dilemma was simply if I had gotten bit, I would have had to get anti-venin. What I didn't know, was none of the higher-ups at thought to supply anti-venin on the base!
So, had I NOT known what I was doing and allowed the snake to bite me, I would have had to drive to a base over an hour away for treatment... Which likely would have meant my death.
So, my tempting fate made someone higher up realize that maybe we should supply anti-venin on each of the satellite bases and not just the main base in Kuwait. So it's possible I saved lives by risking my own to get the sand viper off the base. The picture of me holding it is floating around here somewhere
You better than me man...they found a King Cobra in the Mail Depot when I was in Iraq..heard if you got bit by one, the closest antidote was in Jordan...nah im good fam..lol
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