HBO: Insecure -- Season 5 Official Discussion Thread (Final Season)
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It seems some women and men have a different take on the whole BJ thing (go figure!) Lol.
I, personally, in my single days was all about swallowing...Issa's new to this and probably chose to use her new skills with Daniel because she trusts him, but he was actually the one guy in her "hoe-tation" who responds... But, you gotta be ready for the climax and she wasn't. Rather than take it like a champ, she went all,"OMG! How could you do that?!?"
I can't get over her rejecting poor Lil Nico like that, but she knows she doesn't want a relationship right now. Good call, I guess.
Molly just kills me... Don't want to talk to you momma about your daddy's dirty work when you over there doing your own dirty work with a married man...
I, personally, in my single days was all about swallowing...Issa's new to this and probably chose to use her new skills with Daniel because she trusts him, but he was actually the one guy in her "hoe-tation" who responds... But, you gotta be ready for the climax and she wasn't. Rather than take it like a champ, she went all,"OMG! How could you do that?!?"
I can't get over her rejecting poor Lil Nico like that, but she knows she doesn't want a relationship right now. Good call, I guess.
Molly just kills me... Don't want to talk to you momma about your daddy's dirty work when you over there doing your own dirty work with a married man...
Yeah, her reaction was pretty fucked up. I can understand her not wanting to take the shot, but it's not like it wasn't possible outcome of what they were doing, so what the fuck was she thinking. She'll probably go crawling back at some point, but hopefully she gets the gtfoh.
That software developer chick that told Lawrence about how they didn't like his app..... that chick could get it. Pretty, body looked good from what I could see, but what got me about her was her voice. Issa's voice doesn't do it for me, but this chick had a kinda sultry voice and combined with her looks.....
That software developer chick that told Lawrence about how they didn't like his app..... that chick could get it. Pretty, body looked good from what I could see, but what got me about her was her voice. Issa's voice doesn't do it for me, but this chick had a kinda sultry voice and combined with her looks.....
The entire episode was stupid because Issa is corny.Yeah, her reaction was pretty fucked up. I can understand her not wanting to take the shot, but it's not like it wasn't possible outcome of what they were doing, so what the fuck was she thinking. She'll probably go crawling back at some point, but hopefully she gets the gtfoh.
That software developer chick that told Lawrence about how they didn't like his app..... that chick could get it. Pretty, body looked good from what I could see, but what got me about her was her voice. Issa's voice doesn't do it for me, but this chick had a kinda sultry voice and combined with her looks.....
Yeah, her reaction was pretty fucked up. I can understand her not wanting to take the shot, but it's not like it wasn't possible outcome of what they were doing, so what the fuck was she thinking. She'll probably go crawling back at some point, but hopefully she gets the gtfoh.
That software developer chick that told Lawrence about how they didn't like his app..... that chick could get it. Pretty, body looked good from what I could see, but what got me about her was her voice. Issa's voice doesn't do it for me, but this chick had a kinda sultry voice and combined with her looks.....
Oh yeah that software chick is sexy as hell. Body, face and voice are good. I can see Lawrence tagging that, only thing he has to worry about is that shit causing drama in the workplace. I wonder if they'll delve into that.
To quote the other poster about women giving blowjobs, that is the most backwards logic they have. As he said, a woman expects you to just take all her natural juices and everything when she's cumming, we have no problem with that.... but then reverse the roles and she'll go off the handle like that when a guy cums in her mouth. I say that same thing to every girl I meet who doesn't wanna take the load, like what else do you expect to happen... Eventually the guy is going to climax. These days if you aren't swallowing you're already behind the times and getting out paced by other women.
Tiffany was speaking 100% truth when she made her speech to them about women not giving blowjobs and how she doesn't get it and how it puts them behind other women. Women don't understand, if you can truly give Master level head you can damn near get a dude to do anything you want. Having good pussy is cool for the women that have it, but mastering giving head will take that shit to the next level and is somethin every woman could learn.
I like how the office romance has been organically created. Even in episode 1... your could tell that Lawrence and ol girl had chemistry. Most shows would have started it right there but this one showed a natural friendship begin to start. As most know I'm all on Teamlawrence. The break up with Issa might be the best thing that has happened to him. It forced him to reevaluate his life and now look at the Kat. I just hope the show doesn't fuck up and bring them to together or write off Lawrence next season. Right now the show is doing a great job of continuing to show the effects of a break up on both sides.
She's also a good contrast to the two chicks from the threesome who were only using Lawrence for their mandingo fantasies.
It falls in line with the belief that the next best thing comes around when you least expect it. Lawrence was never looking at old girl at the office like that until he got to a point where he was focusing on his career and not a hook up.
Notice how this episode.. didn't show Lawrence trying to go to a party or hang with his boy or remember his time with Issa.. when Lawrence finally let go of that shit and focused on his app.. he noticed a spark that he didn't see before. That's good shit right there and Fucking real talk.
The complete opposite is happening to Issa because her entire life right now is trying to hide the fact that deep down she knows that she was comfortable with Lawrence and now she doesn't know what to do without a man in life. Hence the title insecure. She is lost right now. She is corny because she hasn't had to date in years.. she became domesticated and now she has realized that it sucks.
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Yea good call on nico
Also Daniel had etiquette he said he was gonna cum idk what she thought was gonna come out
Then she got pissy and felt degraded and all that stuff I get that if it's a random cat who you know don't like you but Daniel didn't look at her like a hoe he was like you know that just happened he wasn't judging he's like I was ready to fuck you stopped me and tried to suck the soul out of me and then when I came like I said I was you flipped it
It's just about being open sexually
A woman will want you to lick her ass
But. ...
Like try telling a woman you don't eat pussy
You won't be getting that pussy much longer will you?
Like nah I don't do that that's nasty she'll be like. ........ok.
And she don't have to swallow for me personally
Just don't act like it's a disease spreading plague and you don't want it anywhere near you.
Many moons ago I had a woman act like it was absolutely disgusting if I came. She was like ewww get it off or ewww not by me cum on a towel.
So we fucked and she started cumming and I pulled out and said ewww and left the entire room
She cut that dumb shit out then cause it fucked up the rest of her orgasm and after shocks cause she was feeling some kind of way about how I reacted to her pleasure
Then she got it.
No problems after that in fact she got really into the actual climax which I appreciated
It's psychological for me
If you want it it's what I want to give you
If you don't I dont either
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Issa and Molly are the over reaction twins. However this season Issa, Molly and Lawrence are all the aint shit triplets this season. Sorry but Issa breaks all the rules and I'm supposed to feel sorry for her? Dude wants to go to dinner.....go eat....why fuck on an empty stomach. Then she rolls up on her other dude WITHOUT CALLING FIRST??? Come on everyone knows that. Finally you decide to give Daniel head, the man TELLS YOU HE'S ABOUT TO NUT and instead of protecting yourself you get mad at him even tho he did his part.
Not sure why but this episode got me annoyed with everyone on the show.
I'm agreeing with you a hundred percent on this man. It's that act of her acting likes it's disgusting or like it's acid that'll burn her skin if it touches her or some shit like that. That will fuck up the moment ten times outta ten mentally. That same chick will want you to lick her ass, take her cum in your face and everything but she'll be quick to dismiss you if you don't or heaven forbid act like her pussy is disgusting in any way. Kelly sounded naive as hell on the show talking about she'd rather eat pussy cause at least that's self cleaning.
If a girl craves you to cum for her and thoroughly enjoys making you nut that shit turns dudes on and puts you in the moment more than anything else.
Exactly Issa wants to hoe, but doesn't know hoe etiquette. She expects these dudes to just be sitting around waiting to serve her whenever she wants some and gets mad when they're busy with other chicks. If you want a dude at your beckoning call that's what a relationship is for. "technically" Relationship is for stability and single life is for freedom, if you gonna play the hoe roll gotta be able to commit to the lifestyle. Some dudes and women just aren't cut out for it. In the process of her acting like a child when she doesn't get her way, she probably fucked up connecting with a good dude with the Mexican guy. If she's not ready for a relationship right now that's cool, she could explain that to the Mexican guy, but it's a way you let somebody down in order not burn bridges because one day I'm sure she'll want a relationship again.
Another web site I was on said that he did hold her head down.
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Are there still sistas out there not sucking dick? I do remember many behaving like on the show but that was like 20 years ago(i'm almost 40). Its been awhile since i've come across a woman that isn't into sucking dick and my dating range is 22-42.
Issa's odd looking ass is annoying as fuck! She's not even fine enough to parlay like she wants too... her whole flow is killing this season and not in a good way... her whole character is unbelievable as fuck....
Sidenote, her red bone friend and Lawrence's co-worker are bad as fuck...
Sidenote, her red bone friend and Lawrence's co-worker are bad as fuck...
These Hoes just agitate me
Issa and her crew all fall in that 26-35 age range. You're never going to find a women that age that acts like sucking dick is some taboo. And the friend Kelli pissed me off. Sorry but you OK with getting fingered in a diner but you draw the line at blowjobs??
GTFOH
I'm not sure of an answer to your question, but their conversation about black women and blow jobs was real. Older millineals didn't get the sex talks often and we don't feel as empowered sexually as younger people do. I remember struggling, when I was single, about how far to go sexually with a guy - like, he could pleasure me orally and that was cool... But, putting his dick in my mouth seemed like such a big line to cross... The logic may seems backwards but some middle-aged black women do have these thoughts.
she lost weight how she's feeling herself.
Amen!
How old are you?I'm almost 40 and remember sistas having these convos and tripping that hard about cum but this was decades ago. I do remember being shocked at how uninhibited white women were when it came to sucking dick.If Issa was in her late 30's and this was set to the 90's-early 2000's then it would totally make sense. But sistas nowadays are far less conservative when it comes to sex. I'd put sistas and white women as neck and neck when it comes to head nowadays.
Nah I can't say neck and neck, there's a reason white women are known for head and I'm sure more than a few brothas can comment on that.
It's a joke but some say white women treat head damn near like a handshake, can't say that for Black women.
In my 30s - my younger girlfriends are much less inhibited talking about sex than I was when I was their age, though, so I understand what you're talking about. However, I think women my age and older do struggle with it. My sister, who's a few years older than me, at her own bridal shower couldn't talk or joke about sex when someone gave her a sexy date kit idea...I mean, you're getting married - we know you're either having sex (or about to have sex.) But, there still exists black women who are prudes...and, regardless of the age, there exists a narrative regarding black women and their hypersexuality. We fear that, as a whole, not just black men but ANY man will only view as sexual property and may "move slower" in some sexual situations for fear of that stereotype.
Maybe it is age or regional because the sistas i've been messing with have been swallowing and deepthroating without much issue. Even Beyonce be talking about swallowing. I do remember when only sistas were like this but it seems over the last decade the sistas really start coming wit it when it comes to giving that noggin.
Interesting....maybe it is regional. I haven't met a really sexually inhibited sista in quite a while.
Beyonce talks about it now because she's in a marriage and wants to pleasure her man - please believe 20, 25 year old Beyonce would have never made a song referencing head. And, even when she did release that song, some black women, especially older black women, criticized her for being public about her sex life because it was considered taboo in their circles.
and it also shows that MOST women can't play by the same rules as men when it comes to hoing.
And she ok with shitty ass food makin her fat but dick is ewww, fuck that hoe
Peace,
I find this to be more of an attitude with sisters from the South. Southern women, particularly the age group to which you're referring, tend to be ultra religious and deeply concerned about their public image. I moved to Dallas about 12 years ago and I encountered sexual attitudes that I hadn't dealt with since childhood.
Not sure if this is the case once you all get behind closed doors but sisters down here seem to be bound by an antiquated moral code that prohibits them from fully exploring their sexual freedom.
I find this to be more of an attitude with sisters from the South. Southern women, particularly the age group to which you're referring, tend to be ultra religious and deeply concerned about their public image. I moved to Dallas about 12 years ago and I encountered sexual attitudes that I hadn't dealt with since childhood.
Not sure if this is the case once you all get behind closed doors but sisters down here seem to be bound by an antiquated moral code that prohibits them from fully exploring their sexual freedom.
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