Why Are So Many Black Men Going MGTOW?
February 22, 2017 Donovan Sharpe Men's rights 10
The term ‘MGTOW’ is loosely defined as men who’ve decided to go their own way in that they’ve sworn off dating, consumerism, and the overall narrative that vilifies them as men and glorifies women.
More and more brothers are turning to this activity
Overall lifestyle varies from MGTOW to MGTOW. Some have decided it’s not worth it to have their own place to live so they live with their parents or other relatives. Some men have decided not to take care of their bodies to attract women (because let’s face it….we work out to get laid….period) and some have decided to work a job that requires the least amount of mental and/or physical exertion. In their minds why work hard if you’re not going to be rewarded for it?
Black men are joining this movement in droves and it seems they’re doing this at a higher rate than any other race in this area of the world. While each one has their own personal reasons and experiences that have driven them to this lifestyle, there are a few that most if not all have in common.
Sisters are undateable
It’s no secret how I feel about black women within the context of a sexual relationship. Not surprisingly I catch a lot of heat from sisters and their army of simps about how I’m a race traitor, a sell out, etc.
But facts are facts. Black women are not only the lowest on the sexual totem pole in terms of aesthetic attractiveness, they’re the lowest quality significant others out there. Between the baggage that comes standard with just about all of them (multiple kids, attitude, masculinity, et al.) and their laughable entitlement complexes it’s no wonder hoards of brothers are checking out.
The better a man improves himself, the more sisters want. If you’re in great shape it’s ‘Why don’t you have abs?’ If you make a decent living it’s ‘Why don’t you make more?’ If you have a decent place to live it’s ‘Why don’t you live in that exclusive uptown community?’ If you have a decent ride it’s ‘You should drive a BMW.’
Black women have unrealistic expectations and no matter how high your value is, they always want more. In a MGTOW’s mind there’s no need to engage in self improvement activities if it’s not going to get him more pussy.
No, pussy should never be a man’s main goal in life but we all know it’s important. We’re men. We like to fuck. And if a man is busting his ass in the gym, at work, and in life and not having success with sisters because their standards are too high, at some point he’s going to stop caring.
The bipolar definition of success
The black community at large pushes a bipolar definition of success. You’re either going to be wildly successful or you’ll be a bum. There’s no in between. To be fair it’s probably not that extreme but it’s clear that if you’re not super successful (read: rich) you’re looked at as a failure in the eyes of the black community.
When I was a kid, my mother used to push the “get your education” narrative ad nauseam. It was always “Donovan, you’re not going to be successful if you don’t go to college!” African Americans seem to have this idea that getting a college education is the one and only key to success and there were no two ways about it.
We see countless Tyler Perry movies showing black men and women in the typical business or executive type roles driving Range Rovers, living in luxury downtown apartments or owning big beautiful homes. At some point in the movie it’s revealed that he (or she) went to xyz university and that’s the reason for their success.
It’s either this or nothing
Naturally, black men go to college out of high school dreaming of success the minute they walk the stage and get their degrees. But when they get out into the real world and discover the piece of paper they got at the end of their stint in college is just a piece of paper, they have a rude awakening.
At some point they end up working somewhere their college degree means nothing and if they’re working in the area they grew up, people call him a “failure” and talk about how he never reached his potential simply because he’s driving a forklift rather than having a corner office. Then, of course, he’s dealing with sisters not giving him a chance because he drives a Honda rather than a Lexus.
So the brother works hard, has a decent job, drives a decent vehicle, and lives by himself (as opposed to with his parents or a relative) and he’s looked at as an abject failure by his own people. Thanks to feminism his modest, stable lifestyle doesn’t attract females or provides him with the opportunities with women.
It’s only a matter of time when he throws up his hands and says “I’m done with this” and goes his own way.
Too much in house hate
One of the many reasons I left Atlanta for the second time is the hate I caught from other black men simply for being who I am. During my first stint in the ATL I had a warehouse job and quickly rose through the ranks on account of my discipline and solid work ethic.
I showed up to work on time every day without exception and never missed a day of work…..ever. The bosses took notice very quickly and promoted me only 6 months after I started there. Not bad for a guy who’d just moved up from Florida and was originally hired on as a seasonal temp.
Too many brothers drinkin’ this
My tenure as a shift supervisor was short lived because my crew simply didn’t do what they were supposed to. One of the few people I’d become friends with at that facility told me that the fix was in to get me out the door and that everyone was in on it. Their plan was to intentionally fall below their daily quotas and that I’d be held responsible (rightfully so) and eventually removed from the position.
I resigned the next day and moved back to North Carolina. Seven years later I gave it another try and experienced the same thing. This time I moved to the west coast and haven’t looked back since.
I’ve experienced this kind of hate from other black men for as long as I can remember. I’m a good looking, well spoken, confident man with a great work ethic and a desire to succeed and for whatever reason other brothers don’t like seeing that.
I could go on about why I think this is but the truth is, I couldn’t give less of a shit. But it’s sad to see that in a world where we have built in disadvantages, we can’t stand by and raise up and even emulate our own.
This is one of the major reasons more African American men are going MGTOW. Nevermind the shit they get from sisters on a daily basis what with their complaining, their unrealistic expectations, and their entitlement issues. To have to deal with other black men who hate on them for trying to do better and be successful is debilitating to one’s psyche.
Unfortunately most black men don’t have the balls to pack up and move to another coast where they won’t catch so much hate so they end up going MGTOW and becoming worthless piles of mush like everyone else around them.
Conclusion
There are scores of other reasons black men are completely checking out but you’ll often find at least one of these three elements at the core of most if not al of their rationale for going MGTOW.
When black women aren’t giving you the time of day despite having a solid stable job and not living at home, then dealing with the constant disapproval of your lack of “success” then dealing with hate from brothers when you achieve any modicum of success you’re either going to fold or you’re going to focus.
So what’s it gonna be playa?
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Peace,
Pseudo intellectual coonery at its most incoherent.
Pseudo intellectual coonery at its most incoherent.
i think this site you're referring to needs a hand check. one of the books they're pushing was written by white man!
Translation: I have no game so I'm going to sit in the corner . . . mad at the guys who do.
Lol.....
Yeah that's coonery
I wonder how those swirling coonfused sisters
Feel about this video..
It's the other side of their coin
Yeah that's coonery
I wonder how those swirling coonfused sisters
Feel about this video..
It's the other side of their coin
2:38 THAT'S A WOMAN!! RAINBOW KITE AND ALL.
WHAT IS SANDMAN TRYING TO PUSH? WHAT'S WITH THE IR AT THE END?
WHAT IS SANDMAN TRYING TO PUSH? WHAT'S WITH THE IR AT THE END?
Why should men have to have "game" ?
That's like asking why do Presidents have to have charisma.
Elijah gave us to much knowledge for this bullshit
I define MGTOW as " Don't make women a #1 priority in life, focus your time and energy on your own personal goals in life, and they are a bad business investment in the long term."
90% of MGTOW either can't get the woman they want, can't find a quality woman, or have been burned so much financially by woman through dating or marriage, that they decide to give up on having a serious relationship with a woman. They were searching for a perfect woman.
I think they still like pussy, and still fuck bitches, just see the "chase" and serious relationship as a waste of time and money.
A dude under 50 with this mentality is a sad individual. I have been in some long term relationships with woman, some good, some bad, but I could never see myself just "turning my back" on women completely, living like a hermit, and just let myself go because I do not feel the need to look presentable to woman.
Can't be me, love new pussy, love smell of sexy woman, and enjoy conquering different races of women all over the world. If you have a diverse approach to these women, and know how to say "no", it is easy as hell out here.
MGTOW cats, are basically, fed up simps or ex cuckolds. Some of them will be ok, just stuck in Left Field ....
90% of MGTOW either can't get the woman they want, can't find a quality woman, or have been burned so much financially by woman through dating or marriage, that they decide to give up on having a serious relationship with a woman. They were searching for a perfect woman.
I think they still like pussy, and still fuck bitches, just see the "chase" and serious relationship as a waste of time and money.
A dude under 50 with this mentality is a sad individual. I have been in some long term relationships with woman, some good, some bad, but I could never see myself just "turning my back" on women completely, living like a hermit, and just let myself go because I do not feel the need to look presentable to woman.
Can't be me, love new pussy, love smell of sexy woman, and enjoy conquering different races of women all over the world. If you have a diverse approach to these women, and know how to say "no", it is easy as hell out here.
MGTOW cats, are basically, fed up simps or ex cuckolds. Some of them will be ok, just stuck in Left Field ....
that was some self hating bullshit, i only read it because MGTOW has some valid points like not marrying. but that article was trash. didn't bother to watch the vid
I KNEW this video was going to come up. There are levels to MGTOW:
I agree with some of what you said. I know a spanish dude who is a level 2 MGTOW. He will fuck with women, but won't marry them.
Anyone that is a level 3 or up is a fucked up individual.
I agree with some of what you said. I know a spanish dude who is a level 2 MGTOW. He will fuck with women, but won't marry them.
Anyone that is a level 3 or up is a fucked up individual.
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you aint gettin no quality pussy without it..
its everything from the way you talk, to what you wear, and how you carry yourself... the backbone of game
is confidence...
Not necessarily. Some dudes think that the risk of marriage or long-term relationships outweighs the reward.
I don't agree with that Donovan Sharp dude though.
I always wonder why people who write these type of articles feel the NEED to write these type of articles. To generalize an entire race or gender or both based on your experiences is pathetic. Be strong enough in being you and get on with it. Nobody out here gives af about your life choices; we're too busy with our own lives.
Why shit on me ?
Maybe so .but after a certain age ..I don't think you should nesscarily have to have "game" you feel me ?..
Yep. My grandfather is 90. He got divorced in his 40's and never remarried. He went back to school, got his degree and opened a business. He had chicks on the side but he said no more long-term commitments. He just wanted to live his life.
50 is too young to give up on establishing relationships with women. I see cats 70 and 80 out of country, still trying to get pussy. A 50 year old with his money right, and in decent shape, can still bag some bad 30 and 40 somethings, and still fuck bad bitches internationally.
50 is too young to give up on establishing relationships with women. I see cats 70 and 80 out of country, still trying to get pussy. A 50 year old with his money right, and in decent shape, can still bag some bad 30 and 40 somethings, and still fuck bad bitches internationally.
Shit you'd definitely call me "Mr loser " if I told you my age. Lol...
But real talk Western society and modern realtionships ..can really skew your thinking man ...factor that in with social media not many good women around of a certain age bro
What do you think if your grandpa did the same..but said fuck the realtionships part ?
well sort of, at a certain age you should have confidence
in yourself and know your likes and dont likes..
you should always want to look and feel your best...
as far as worryin with other folks think of you.. in terms of
how you want to live your life..
yea at a certain age you should be waaay beyond that shit..
Almost 4 billion women in the world. Women make up 49.6 % percent of the population, so you can't avoid seeing or meeting them everywhere you go. Out of almost 4 billion women in the world, you don't like any of them or would not have a relationship with one?
Women are the most plentiful thing on Earth for men, other than dirt and water, and some of them are cool to be around, and definitely fun to fuck. I ain't quitting until I can't move.
being a native new yorker I find that very hard to believe...
then again I dont know your definition of "good woman'
I think like your gramps.. I did the long term relationship thingy... it was dope, but
I value my freedom more than anything else..
Im truly lookin forward to my mid life crisis...
Im talkin motorcycles and all that
I agree wanting to look your best and feeling your best....the funny thing is confidence is kind of subjective...for instance someone can like computers and anime etc or other non main stream things and be confident in it and not swim in pussy ..
are they confident in the computers and amime or confident in themselves?
most dudes over thirty really into computers and amime tend to be introverts...
Almost 4 billion women in the world. Women make up 49.6 % percent of the population, so you can't avoid seeing or meeting them everywhere you go. Out of almost 4 billion women in the world, you don't like any of them or would not have a relationship with one?
Women are the most plentiful thing on Earth for men, other than dirt and water, and some of them are cool to be around, and definitely fun to fuck. I ain't quitting until I can't move.
Freedom is most important women tend to drag you down from my experience ...so no I don't want a relationship with one ..adding in the financial burn that can occur..the ROI isn't worth it to me
The fun to fuck part is true...that's for sure
I would have no problem if he said, "Fuck relationships" if he was putting his energy into something positive like getting his degree.
If he sat around bitter and mad at all women after the divorce then I'd call him a loser.
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