Serious Discussion - is intercourse suppose to last longer than 5 minutes?

Theres a difference between sex and foreplay and the humping bumping in out act of intercourse. Thats why I specifically used that term. If your pumping for 20-30 MINUTES.. SOMEBODY is tired they just ain't admitting it..
I have fucked for 2 hrs and wasnt tired. That not including intercourse
 
Serious discussion...

Unfortunately, most times it used to take me hours to cum. Problem is, I wish I could cum faster. God made us all different though.
 
Here's what I've discovered in all of my travels. I've met all kinds of women with differing opinions, but here's the one thing that I found interesting: I've heard women complain that they don't want a 5-10 minute man. Then I've heard those SAME women complain about marathon men. I was hitting this one chick from behind, and she literally pushed me off of her and said, "Damn, it's been about 30 minutes! You got one nut already. Let's take a break!", and this chick was talking that "Fuck all might" shit when I met her. I guess it's a mood thing. There are times where I ain't trying to fuck all night, and there are other times I bring a lunch pail to bed, because I'm 'bout to put in work. It depends when she catches me. and I'd imagine that's how a lot of us are, male or female.
 
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What I meant by is sex supposed to last longer than minutes is that in nature to procreate doesn't require long periods or sessions at least for most mammals. Which is why on average most men can achieve orgasm in less than 5 minutes and certainly less than 10. It seems the whole idea of prolonged sexual sessions is ego driven primarily. Theres a whole industry dedicated to prolonging the duration for men. All kinds of powders and potions and oils and ointments


and then there's the game changer
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All to artificially prolong something that should NATURALLY last less than ten minutes.

Its difficult to have this discussion on a honest level most kats ego kicks in and the thread devolves into dudes posting their duration times like a pissing contest and that really derails the point.

Sex is great and the totality of sexual ACTIVITY (the touching oral etc etc) is great... but lets be REAL here...

NOBODY IS DOING THIS

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FOR 45 MINUTES STRAIGHT. :hmm::hmm::hmm:

It's another unfortunate fact of life that the average man require far less time to reach orgasm than the average woman. Most men can orgasm in under five minutes, while women typically require 20 minutes.

Many women take longer to climax than their male partners, and that's perfectly normal, says Stern. In fact, according to statistics, most women require at least 20 minutes of sexual activity to climax. "If you find that your partner often reaches orgasm before you do, there are ways to help him slow down," she says. "Mental exercises can sometimes work, and so can firm pressure around the base of the penis. If premature ejaculation is a concern, your partner may want to see a primary care doctor or urologist to find some techniques that might help."

https://www.bustle.com/articles/347...come-how-to-stop-worrying-and-start-orgasming

That article is why I asked AND ARE WOMEN SUPPOSE TO ENJOY IT IN THE SAME WAY MEN DO?? On average by the time women are getting started men have long been finished. And they want to call that PREMATURE ejaculation....PREMATURE FOR WHO?? We're WIRED to cum in less than five minutes. Anything longer than that is us MAKING AN EFFORT..:grin:

What would be the point of that time disparity? But then again most female mammals never really look like they enjoy mating all that much either.
 
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What I meant by is sex supposed to last longer than minutes is that in nature to procreate doesn't require long periods or sessions at least for most mammals. Which is why on average most men can achieve orgasm in less than 5 minutes and certainly less than 10. It seems the whole idea of prolonged sexual sessions is ego driven primarily. Theres a whole industry dedicated to prolonging the duration for men. All kinds of powders and potions and oils and ointments
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and then there's the game changer

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All to artificially prolong something that should NATURALLY last less than ten minutes.

Its difficult to have this discussion on a honest level most kats ego kicks in and the thread devolves into dudes posting their duration times like a pissing contest and that really derails the point.

Sex is great and the totality of sexual ACTIVITY (the touching oral etc etc) is great... but lets be REAL here...

NOBODY IS DOING THIS

tumblr_ohwoprIR1B1usvzq3o1_400.gif


FOR 45 MINUTES STRAIGHT. :hmm::hmm::hmm:

It's another unfortunate fact of life that the average man require far less time to reach orgasm than the average woman. Most men can orgasm in under five minutes, while women typically require 20 minutes.

Many women take longer to climax than their male partners, and that's perfectly normal, says Stern. In fact, according to statistics, most women require at least 20 minutes of sexual activity to climax. "If you find that your partner often reaches orgasm before you do, there are ways to help him slow down," she says. "Mental exercises can sometimes work, and so can firm pressure around the base of the penis. If premature ejaculation is a concern, your partner may want to see a primary care doctor or urologist to find some techniques that might help."

https://www.bustle.com/articles/347...come-how-to-stop-worrying-and-start-orgasming

That article is why I asked AND ARE WOMEN SUPPOSE TO ENJOY IT IN THE SAME WAY MEN DO?? On average by the time women are getting started men have long been finished. And they want to call that PREMATURE ejaculation....PREMATURE FOR WHO?? We're WIRED to cum in less than five minutes. Anything longer than that is us MAKING AN EFFORT..:grin:

What would be the point of that time disparity? But then again most female mammals never really look like they enjoy mating all that much either.
the human species for the most part differs from most mammals when it comes to sex cause we actually care about the female orgasm for the most part...we also have sex more for pleasure than actual creation of life that mentality differs from other mammals..so with this new concept and mindset yes you're suppose to last longer than 5 mins..if u was juss on some mark your territory/create life shit than yeah 5 mins would be your cup of tea
 
I can't stand the women thst cant last 5 min :angry:

Will start fucking
Few minutes later she talking about ..SHEs CUMMING
Then she push me off laying there shaking..
Won't let me get mine
first time im like. Ok
But..everytime
And ...she calls me over

I would quit going..but she has a wet phat gripping pussy....

Ok I'm doing it one more time..just to see....:oops:
 
Im 36, so if i can get 15-20mins off the first nut..im good if i like you!!..:D:yes::yes:...if its a chick i dont givea fuck about and just want a nut off..10mins or less!!..:D
 
I can't stand the women thst cant last 5 min :angry:

Will start fucking
Few minutes later she talking about ..SHEs CUMMING
Then she push me off laying there shaking..
Won't let me get mine
first time im like. Ok
But..everytime
And ...she calls me over

I would quit going..but she has a wet phat gripping pussy....

Ok I'm doing it one more time..just to see....:oops:

...A good phat wet tight hot pussy is undefeated..U can try to finesse that pussy..But in the end that pussy gonna get u..U gonna bust in ten or less unless u singing kumbaya or some shit...brah
 
What I find hilarious is that in a thread like this, dudes feel strangely "compelled" to comment on their personal staying power and endurance. :lol:
Dude's are like; "I usually go for 30/45/60 minutes before I cum...".:roflmao:

It's like every dude is a combination of:
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:lol2::lol2::lol2::lol2:
 
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Last 2 women I was in a relationship with, I could stroke them bitches and have them cumming within in 5 minutes, and be done, that type of fucking would be done for that before work morning sex or them tired nights and trying to get ours then get the fuck to sleep.

Other occasions it would be 20 to 30 mins.


Nothing like some new pussy though, because ready to fuck all day/night with multiple sessions.
 
What I find hilarious is that in a thread like this, dudes feel strangely "compelled" to comment on their personal staying power and endurance. :lol:
Dude's are like; "I usually go for 30/45/60 minutes before I cum...".:roflmao:

It's like every dude is a combination of:
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:lol2::lol2::lol2::lol2:
Thats why its difficult to have these kinds of conversations with dudes and in particular black men because its like an insult to the ego or cats feel the need to PROVE some shit even tho NO ONE asked how they fuck.
 
Thats why its difficult to have these kinds of conversations with dudes and in particular black men because its like an insult to the ego or cats feel the need to PROVE some shit even tho NO ONE asked how they fuck.

Exactly.
These cats all make it seem like every time they get with their woman they're bringing their A+ game and are blowing her back out during EVERY session.
Like every woman even wants sex to last for extensive time periods.
Dudes are saying crazy shit like "I'm angry if a woman can't last more then 5 minutes...". :lol:
I don't know a lot of women who regularly want to be bent over in the doggy style position for extended amounts of time or to having her legs pinned over her head for long.
But if you look at these cats responses; their women's pussy is always sopping wet, she's always open to their advances, she's never too tired nor does she ever say "no".
When in fact she's probably tired, bored, sore and dried up...
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:bullshit:

Dudes watch way too much porn...:roflmao3:
 
I'm not keeping track of time.
I follow the Notorious B.I.G. Story To Tell Rule of Thumb.
"She came twice I came last"
So however long it takes for her to get 2 then I start thinking about myself and when I'm done I'm done.
This is spot on. I'll do what I can to make sure she gets 2-3, then it's mine and I'm out.

Everyone wins.
 
Some of us are blessed with women that can cum in 5 mins and multiple times in a half hour to a hour.

You should know why she is ready to tap out and then you can start your countdown.

Time is not the determining factor.

Aim for mutual satisfaction.
 
I average about 15 minutes with my wife, but I consider myself lucky. Shes my fit as Martin would say. I could nut sooner, but my goal is to get her nut off and try to cum at the same time. My mental be like naw fuck this nut, we in this together :lol:. When I'm feeling really good I'll take her to 25 minutes making her cum over and over again just to remind her ass......but that is by no means everyday.
 
I've gone an hour plus and I've gone 5 minutes, some pussies I wore out some wore me out, but I can force myself to go longer, if I need to, except my child's mom....which is why she's a mom, that pussy was crazy, I miss that pussy
 
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If you need an hour of intercourse then one of you mofokrs is doing it wrong...



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oh shit I get it now....you using those alternative facts

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I am talking about the entire session from start to finish. I happen to just love being in the pussy. I always start with some pussy eating so a chick always get the 1st nutt. I also control my own nutt. I don't give in to a female control when I bust. I decide when I bust. but my mental satisfaction must come before my physical satisfaction. Also, many times, I decide not to bust because I don't like the finality of busting so I will decide to hold back. I'm a bit of a control freak.
Alternate shit is for the chump lovers here. Not me.
 
...A good phat wet tight hot pussy is undefeated..U can try to finesse that pussy..But in the end that pussy gonna get u..U gonna bust in ten or less unless u singing kumbaya or some shit...brah
But we need yall to hold out just a little bit longer. Give me at least 25 good minutes lol
 
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I can only think of one time in my life where it lasted for 5 minutes, and that was when I hadn't seen the lady I was with for a while because it was long distance. I trained myself to last, because I thought that was what women wanted. Sometimes it would take a long time to bust, and my shit would just get numb. She was feeling great, though. Women would always tell me about other men they were with that lasted 2 minutes. I had always thought it was supposed to last 20-30 minutes before these women told me about the 2 minute guys, and these women would be saying they loved my stamina. But some women would want to stop after they had one real strong nut, and they're good for the night, but you might not be done. Now, if it was my second nut of the night...it would be much longer, but not necessarily better.

Marathon fucking is somewhat overrated, though. Sometimes you and her just want to fuck for the sake of fucking and getting off quickly. The best woman is one who be versatile...sometimes slow lovemaking, but sometimes straight hard fucking just to break each other off real quick.
 
Bruh think cuz he weak everybody is
naw...he's wondering why people are posting their own personal sexual histories when the topic is how men and women are naturally wired differently for intercourse and instead of accepting that we turn it into a negative.

In nature men are at 5 minutes to reach orgasm on average and women are at 20 minutes... and theres a whole industry designed to have men hold out longer....

how about doing something that makes women orgasm faster?

Lets break it down...at those times then whats a quikie for women REALLY?? Whats a 10 minute broom closet fuck at break time doing for her REALLY?

Quickies work for men because we can bust a nut fast but whats it doing for HER if she needs more than 10 minutes just to get worked up??
 
I am talking about the entire session from start to finish. I happen to just love being in the pussy. I always start with some pussy eating so a chick always get the 1st nutt. I also control my own nutt. I don't give in to a female control when I bust. I decide when I bust. but my mental satisfaction must come before my physical satisfaction. Also, many times, I decide not to bust because I don't like the finality of busting so I will decide to hold back. I'm a bit of a control freak.
Alternate shit is for the chump lovers here. Not me.


see what happens when cats move goalposts ?

the topic is intercourse duration....

not foreplay

not if you squeeze out the first one before she gets there

not seconds after a sammich and a nap.

not numbing the head with some blow

stay focused young grasshopper

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naw...he's wondering why people are posting their own personal sexual histories when the topic is how men and women are naturally wired differently for intercourse and instead of accepting that we turn it into a negative.

In nature men are at 5 minutes to reach orgasm on average and women are at 20 minutes... and theres a whole industry designed to have men hold out longer....

how about doing something that makes women orgasm faster?

Lets break it down...at those times then whats a quikie for women REALLY?? Whats a 10 minute broom closet fuck at break time doing for her REALLY?

Quickies work for men because we can bust a nut fast but whats it doing for HER if she needs more than 10 minutes just to get worked up??
Some chicks get off just from being penetrated. Women like quickies too, why, well you'd have to ask a woman. Honestly, most of the women Ive ever smashed aint need a whole lot of time nor stroking to get charged up. There's a lot of "alternative facts" on the internet.
 
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