What I meant by is sex supposed to last longer than minutes is that in nature to procreate doesn't require long periods or sessions at least for most mammals. Which is why on average most men can achieve orgasm in less than 5 minutes and certainly less than 10. It seems the whole idea of prolonged sexual sessions is ego driven primarily. Theres a whole industry dedicated to prolonging the duration for men. All kinds of powders and potions and oils and ointments
and then there's the game changer
All to artificially prolong something that should NATURALLY last less than ten minutes.
Its difficult to have this discussion on a honest level most kats ego kicks in and the thread devolves into dudes posting their duration times like a pissing contest and that really derails the point.
Sex is great and the totality of sexual ACTIVITY (the touching oral etc etc) is great... but lets be REAL here...
NOBODY IS DOING THIS
FOR 45 MINUTES STRAIGHT.


It's another unfortunate fact of life that the average man require far less time to reach orgasm than the average woman. Most men can orgasm in under five minutes, while women typically require 20 minutes.
Many women take longer to climax than their male partners, and that's perfectly normal, says Stern. In fact, according to statistics, most women require at least 20 minutes of sexual activity to climax. "If you find that your partner often reaches orgasm before you do, there are ways to help him slow down," she says. "Mental exercises can sometimes work, and so can firm pressure around the base of the penis. If premature ejaculation is a concern, your partner may want to see a primary care doctor or urologist to find some techniques that might help."
https://www.bustle.com/articles/347...come-how-to-stop-worrying-and-start-orgasming
That article is why I asked
AND ARE WOMEN SUPPOSE TO ENJOY IT IN THE SAME WAY MEN DO?? On average by the time women are getting started men have long been finished. And they want to call that PREMATURE ejaculation....PREMATURE FOR WHO?? We're WIRED to cum in less than five minutes. Anything longer than that is us MAKING AN EFFORT..
What would be the point of that time disparity? But then again most female mammals never really look like they enjoy mating all that much either.