Or they watched their moms or sisters get beat and the shit became the normal for them...
OU running back Joe Mixon video released; KO'ed drunken Becky
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Or they watched their moms or sisters get beat and the shit became the normal for them...
Not at all... I notice a lot of you respond to my post out of emotion rather than common sense... I not once said anything BUT, if he'd not come into the store, there would be no issue. She was in the store, he came in to the store, shortened the distance between the two of them, and there was a confrontation...
So, my basic question to you is... She was already in the store... So, whether she motioned for him to come in (which again he could have chosen not to) or not, and he said, 'Fuck this, I don't want to deal with this shit' or whatever, and decided to just bounce and keep it moving and left... would this situation be an issue?
Very simple question Bruh, if he'd walked away and went on about his business, instead of going in to the store, would this be an issue? Could she have initiated or escalated the violence if he didn't walk in the store behind her?
Maybe this or maybe that. What she did was wrong and he responded! Point blank and period. The logic that he could've done anything else is irrelevant to the point that she attacked him first. I'm not emotional at all. Well, maybe happy as fuck with life! Lmao! I get it that don't put yourself in an hostile environment but in this case she didn't have to swing. You wanna put your hands up, then you best be ready to mans up!
Yep... all he had to do was keep it moving instead of following her into the store. Fools don't realize that THAT one thing could fuck him up. Not only did he follow her in to the store but he approached her, entered her space. She shouldn't have touched him no doubt, BUT, if he'd just kept it moving and not followed her to continue the confrontation we wouldn't be talking about this... Anyone who has a problem with that commonsense way of thinking is really slow as fuck...
Fucking truth!!!
I don't see these capes for black women on this board.
Its not point blank period... you can't exclude what he could have done to avoid this shit just to further your point. In ANYTHING in life people have a responsibility to themselves... We always talk about how different the law, judicial system, etc. is towards black men, which is more of a reason to not put yourself in a position to be at the mercy of that shit! If this shit goes bad for him as it relates to the league, all people will be able to do is bitch and moan about why it is unfair, etc. which it would be... However, sometimes you've got to think two steps ahead, and make the best decision for yourself and not put yourself in a position where at a spur of the moment of emotion you make a decision that could alter the course of your life, over some dumb shit! I'll bet if anyone asked him if he could do anything different about that night, one thing he would say is to not have confronted her again in the store...
I am really trouble by why that basic level of common sense is so difficult to grasp for some of you seriously
You must not come here often then...
Its not point blank period... you can't exclude what he could have done to avoid this shit just to further your point. In ANYTHING in life people have a responsibility to themselves... We always talk about how different the law, judicial system, etc. is towards black men, which is more of a reason to not put yourself in a position to be at the mercy of that shit! If this shit goes bad for him as it relates to the league, all people will be able to do is bitch and moan about why it is unfair, etc. which it would be... However, sometimes you've got to think two steps ahead, and make the best decision for yourself and not put yourself in a position where at a spur of the moment of emotion you make a decision that could alter the course of your life, over some dumb shit! I'll bet if anyone asked him if he could do anything different about that night, one thing he would say is to not have confronted her again in the store...
I am really trouble by why that basic level of common sense is so difficult to grasp for some of you seriously
He was drunk. At the end of the day keep your hands to yourself, unless you are willing to deal with the consequences be it a man or women. She should had better respect for herself, and a man, but the problem she prob run around with other bitch made men that let her hit on them, she came across the wrong dude that night, and got dealt with accordingly. He didn't know if she has a knife, gun, etc. He stuck her and kept moving, keep your hands to yourself, and I hope y'all teach your daughters that so they don't end up with a smashed fucking face.
Yep... all he had to do was keep it moving instead of following her into the store. Fools don't realize that THAT one thing could fuck him up. Not only did he follow her in to the store but he approached her, entered her space. She shouldn't have touched him no doubt, BUT, if he'd just kept it moving and not followed her to continue the confrontation we wouldn't be talking about this... Anyone who has a problem with that commonsense way of thinking is really slow as fuck...
She's a dummy also.
Yes, leaps and bounds better.
Much better overall athlete and a much more dynamic back that wasn't as injured as Samaje.
Had Mixon not got in trouble Mixon would have started over Samaje.
He's coming back for another year, people will forget, especially if he has a good season.
His legal team wanted this out.
He wouldn't have been close enough to her to hit or be hit either, if he'd not followed her in the story.... I also see what your real issues are, and I actually feel sorry for you too bruh. I see you trying to mask it with the bait and switch, but I see you for what your issue are. Good luck with them though...
He wouldn't have been close enough to her to hit or be hit either, if he'd not followed her in the story.... I also see what your real issues are, and I actually feel sorry for you too bruh. I see you trying to mask it with the bait and switch, but I see you for what your issue are. Good luck with them though...
So we got issues because we say that she should have had an understanding that she just can't put hands on cats. I mean, I get what your saying but you have to apply that logic to her as well. Maybe this or maybe that and things could've been different. You can't say that about one and not apply to the other is all I'm saying. I understand he is a well accomplished young black man in a predominantly white town, so he has to act accordingly. But, yhay didn't happen here. The point is she shouldn't have put her hands and body fluid on that man.
I'm not saying anything... Still haven't answered my simple question Bruh... Would any of this had happened the way it happened if he didn't follow her into the store? Simple yes or no question I've asked 5 times now but you guys seem to conveniently keep avoiding answering....
9 times out of 10, you've done some shit that you need to be slapped for lol. Am I wrong? You ain't getting slapped for no reason. Does/Did your mom need a reason to slap the shit out of you?I have no idea why women hit men and then expect not to be hit back. It makes absolutely no sense. What ever happened to that girl who is in a coma because a guy at a party hit her after she hit him?
I said it in that other thread of that girl getting knocked out, but you should never initiate a physical fight with a man and not expect to not get hit back.
Every man isn't raised to not hit women.
Keep your hands to yourself. Not worth it! If you are having a confrontation with a man, either leave (if safe to do so) or call the police!
If men could just subscribe to the notion that it's wrong to hit women...period, this shit wouldn't happen. Fuck, walk away. There's a difference to really defending yourself from a woman and that shit she did. He's damn near a professional athlete. Ain't shit that chick can do with her hands to hurt him. While a lot of you subscribe to the "she shouldn't have hit him" doctrine, it's his career that could be impacted, not hers. He has to be aware of that at all times. While yall got his back, I bet he wish he had walked away. I bet Mixon is not on some, "well she shouldn't have touched me shit." That nigga is wishing he had just walked away. Now, the shit that gets me is the fake outrage. Why does seeing it on tape cause such a stir. You heard the details of the punch. You knew that woman got fucked up, why does seeing the punch have such a negative impact. Nothing has change from that incident other than seeing it on tape. Same with the Ray Rice tape.
Exactly.
And you won't.
Not good thinking..... That 2 minutes will cost him dearly. Wasn't caused for either
There are 2 major points in this scenario; 1) the physical assault - chivalry needs to die. Women need to stop getting special treatment just because they're women. She shouldn't hit anyone if they don't want to be hit. Guys that defend her actions are why these things keep happening. There are plenty of women with common sense, she just happens to be one who doesn't. A guy that will retaliate against a woman who hits him isn't going to measure his punch. It was a split-second reaction to being hit. He's going to hit her back with a level of power that is natural for him. He didn't wind up on her, it was a straight punch. He didn't beat her up. He threw a punch in retaliation to being punched. His punch is just naturally stronger than hers. 2) Because there are men that will cape for her, he could be screwed. There are people who will complain, protest, etc. that this guy should be banned from football and so forth. For that reason, he would have been better off walking away. I understand that perspective, but that's like blaming the victim. Should he be hit for something he said? No. But, that's what SHE did. And because people are willing to see her as a victim, he suffers. We're arguing what should be vs. reality.
I'm not caping for the woman. She was wrong. I can't stand white women lol. However I don't think a reasonable response is to knock her the fuck out. The same for any other woman. As I said before, physically, there isn't anything that that woman can do to hurt him. Walk away...restrain her. It seems as though none of you ever had any interaction with a hostile woman, pissed off for whatever reason. Have you been pushed? Did you knock her out? Don't hit women. It's not about chivalry, it's about respect...all women. If niggas respected and loved all women like they do their mamas, shit wouldn't happen. If you could restrain yourself from stealing on your mamas when she got in your ass about something, you can do it for all women.
I dont.
I don't believe in putting hands on anyone.
I also believe in not letting any put their hands on anyone else.
I damn sure don't believe anyone has the right to put their hands on anyone else simply because they are of a specific gender.
To me, you seem to be trying to debate a logical argument with emotion; which isn't like you cause in most posts you're pretty reasonable.
Did a woman in you past get the breaks beat off her for something you deemed trivial and you now forever don the shining armor and cape in her memory? If so I don't agree with it but I'd understand.
Or do you think that women are not equal to men, all these laws that say otherwise are bullshit, and that women should be treated like overgrown children who cant handle their emotions; cause that's what I saw in the video, and adult that let her emotions get the best of her. If you believe that I'll understand.
One of those two, because the only person up in here who thinks an adult who hits another adult shouldn't be hit back is you...and women have been in this thread cosigning my statements.
If anyone holding up a belt pimp it's you.
In closing, Joe Mixon was wrong in hitting her back soley because it would/could affect his career, he not wrong in hitting her back because she is a woman....PERIOD. To say otherwise is to think women deserve differential treatment in comparison to men.....BUT WE EQUALS RIGHT??
*two cents *
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"It's not about entitlement it's about respect....all men. If bitches respected and honored all men like they do their fathers, shit wouldn't happen. If a woman can restrain herself from hauling off on her pops when he said something to rile up her emotions, she can do it for all men."
What I did there, do you see it?
*two cents *
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I was saying this on twitter.
Mixon was also saying that she used a racial slur as well.
Not to many folks *sweet or not* is going to allow that type of shit to go down.
It's amazing,how folks are caping hard for a white bitch that called Mixon over there,put her hands on him and possibly called him a racial slur.....
What kind of shit is that?
What kind of shit is that?
It's amazing,how folks are caping hard for a white bitch that called Mixon over there,put her hands on him and possibly called him a racial slur.....
What kind of shit is that?
Exactly. For all we know, Joe might have thought they were going to bury the hatchet when they called him over. White folks are known for doing that shit. The "sorry bro, let me buy you a drink" game.
I wish there was audio that went with this video.
It's amazing,how folks are caping hard for a white bitch that called Mixon over there,put her hands on him and possibly called him a racial slur.....
What kind of shit is that?
They out here with them capes, LOL
I've never seen my mom or any woman I love do that.
We should respect women but I'm not caping for a bitch getting put in her place.
Don't hit a Woman, but knock a bitch on her ass. You cant play the role of a bitch one minute, then quickly switch to a helpless Woman once you reap the consequences of your actions. The World doesnt work like that!
Or, they watched the Moms and Sisters get beat and are now unable to see when a Woman is at fault; due to bitterness.
Its not about defending a "Woman beater", its more so about teaching females how to stay in their lane and hold themselves accountable when they fuck up.
Or they watched their moms or sisters get beat and the shit became the normal for them...
Or, they watched the Moms and Sisters get beat and are now unable to see when a Woman is at fault; due to bitterness.
Its not about defending a "Woman beater", its more so about teaching females how to stay in their lane and hold themselves accountable when they fuck up.
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"It's not about entitlement it's about respect....all men. If bitches respected and honored all men like they do their fathers, shit wouldn't happen. If a woman can restrain yourself from hauling off on her pops when he said something to rile up her emotions, she can do it for all men."
What I did there, do you see it?
*two cents *
Well played lmao
People want to see what they want. Keep in mind this is the same board that's white girl crazy and will let that girl call them a nigga while they're "hitting it" and they're happy.
Again we'll rally for everyone but our own but call everyone else a coon. Then it becomes those who disagree with Becky must be abusers as well...not even close.
It's like this, we need to put everything in proper context.
Personally I think it's a turn on if a woman talk complete shit in the bed room. If I was fucking a white chick, and she dropped a "nigga" in that session, it's like verbal viagra.
I use my anger for positive things *well try*.
Now, in the mixon case, not to many black folks *including myself* will act differently if that situation presented itself. It's bad enough that she pushed him, and slapped him. She called him a nigga in the process. That's a whole different story there.
She is lucky to be alive.
Ok I completely checked out when you said....it's a verbal viagra. There is no way I can even respect you letting anyone white calling you a nigga and you're ok with it. If that's the case then can't say Mixon was right other than her physically assaulting him, even though I think he was.
Good day.
1. Having sex with someone you know, and its consensual is different than the Mixon situation.
A. These two were completely strangers.
B. She said it out of anger, not dirty talk. Different context.
C. I specifically said that shit talking actually turns me on. It doesn't matter what race that chick can be. Different strokes for different folks.
2. This is why we have to put things in proper context. We need to quit with the blanket outrage about every situation.