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Not saying you, but people on this site like to talk about men being the leaders. As leaders you shouldn't need a woman to use birth control of any kind. You should protect yourself as you see fit and if need be going without sex from certain women.man or woman you are responsible for a lot of your choices and shouldn't play them victim especially when it comes to having or not having kids.
You're not completely wrong, but there will always be people who are not mentally stable and there is no way to identify all of these people.
Being a leader and being in control of every situation are two distinct and very different things... For example a General may be the leader of the arm but he is not in control of everything that goes on in his platoons..
Now women say that a baby is part of their body and have the final say so when it comes to having a child, I don't challenge that, a man cannot force a woman to take the morning after pill if the condom rip, a man cannot force a woman to have an abortion.
However, with this great power of being able to choose life, should come with great responsibility...
This is where I and others like me have beef..
Let me ask you this, you ever see an Japanese woman have a child out of wedlock? My wife is India from Trinidad and has seven sisters all of them are married except for one and that one father of her child died while he was working. Why is it they don't have children out of wedlock..
Why is it that so many of our women claim their children were accidental birth? How is it possible to have a accident with the morning after pill and so many other birth control methods out there in the market?
Why is it that in NYC women were having accidents left and right, during the 90's but after they cut out a lot of the child support shit, these accidents drop down dramatically?
Open your eyes to see whats really going down, the white man is paying, better yet, they are bribing black women to have children, knowing damn well that what they give up in cash today, will wind up destroying the black family tomorrow..
Black women are reward with money and a child that is all theirs , while the black man is rewarded with pussy and his low esteemed ego stroked. Well thats how it usually starts off, at least..
But once the bait has been snagged, the woman is forced to place a name on the birth certificate, in order to receive her prize, once this happens men, who never wanted to be fathers are often forced to help raise a child by a woman, at this point he cannot stand..
For the most part you will never see women other than American black women having so many children by so many men who cannot stand them...
Many of the women do this, because they have no choice, they know that no guy with brains is going to knowingly love them and have children with them, so often they seek out the most thirstiest, low life form of a shit head guy to have a child with, these shit heads are in demand by these types of women often these guys have up to nine kids about time they are 35, but to these women it don't matter, as long as they have a name they can put down on that paper..
Now lets take a hard look at the situation that often arises from this system..
1- You have young black women looking at having children as a hustle..
2= Young black males are often over stimulated sexually, causing them to be thirsty or as like to call it hyper masculine (a state that a man can be in when he is deprived sex, this is often the case with young men in jail. It causes them to be very aggressive, illogical, and often some of them become homosexuals)
3- These hyper masculine guys seek out sex with out thinking..
4- These young black women many with low self worth hook up with these hyper masculine dudes with the goal of producing a child for some security in life..
5- After some good sex, the hyper masculine men return to a normal state immediatly realizing he is disgusted by the woman he just fucked..
6- The woman is hurt and becomes scorn, vowing to have the child to either make him pay or to use the child to control the man..
7- The child is born out of love, to a woman and a father who don't really love him
8- The father is attacked by the system
9- The shit head of a father realized he's bee doped and goes crazy and its at this point where the mother fucker is liable to kill..
Of course this shit doesn't happen all the time, matter of fact to have it play out like this is very rare, but even if it happens 5% of the time, do you guys know how many children and mothers lives will be at risk?
As long as we keep raising our boys to be hyper sexual, and women to be self centered and greedy then you stack child support on top of that, well a system that on paper is designed to help mother and children becomes a black family destroying machine, and ever since this machine became what it is today, starting at around the year 1970 more and more black families have been destroyed, more and more black children have died, more and more black women have been killed and more and more black men have lost their freedom..
So yes its sad seeing so many black women dead, and black men incarcerated but their individual situation and misfortunes are just symptomatic of the real cause or rather the disease. This disease is called white supremacy and it is the white supremacy that bait traps with sugar using these traps to ultimatly destroy our most precious commodity, that is the minds of our children..