Men..help me understand

[kogalee_mohammed]

lotta thirsty ass niggaahz running around!
they dnt have any money to take you anyplace
they dnt know where to take you
they think a date is chilling @ ya house trying to fuck & smoke weed!
they dnt realize they are busters!

Shut the fuck up you simp ass nigga, sittin up her bragging about trickin off on a bitch. You the type of nigga that will take a bitch out and feed all her friends and holla that you's a real man. Somma you niggas need to get a hold of this Islam and learn the goddam difference between being a man and being a sucka ass lame!

 

[J.E.T.S]

It never bothered me if hoz don't want me over to their crib. There are plenty of women who do and that's exactly where I'll be until this new chick gets comfortable enough to let me come by. But that door swings both ways. I won't let her know where I stay either. That will give me extra time with my other women until I feel like letting her over.

Word. That's how you're supposed to do it really.

I stopped reading there.

Delusional broad.

I wouldn't say that she's delusional. All women aren't hoes, nor should they trust dudes that they meet because niggas are lunatics and rapists.

My thing is, I know I'm neither, but I'm not waiting no weeks to go to her crib. I've waited before when i was younger and never even end up smelling the pussy.

Hoes couldn't come to my house even when I was single and living alone tho. It took me two bad experiences to cut that shit out.

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[kogalee_mohammed]

so if y'all just met do you go dutch?


but for real if we just met i probably don't want you at my house

Fuck yeah!

Either that bitch agree to go dutch or she ain't goin at all.

And if you don't want me at yoh house, then I would tell you to get all the way the fuck out my damn face!

 

[J.E.T.S]

lotta thirsty ass niggaahz running around!
they dnt have any money to take you anyplace
they dnt know where to take you
they think a date is chilling @ ya house trying to fuck & smoke weed!
they dnt realize they are busters! [emoji38][emoji38][emoji38]

Shut the fuck up you simp ass nigga, sittin up her bragging about trickin off on a bitch. You the type of nigga that will take a bitch out and feed all her friends and holla that you's a real man. Somma you niggas need to get a hold of this Islam and learn the goddam difference between being a man and being a sucka ass lame!

God I hope this turns into a fight. This shit would be funny as fuck!! I can see it now. [emoji38]

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[Mrfreddygoodbud]

I believe they call that a Thotfit.

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[Mello Mello]

lets say u just met a woman recently...why do some of yall get upset/offended when a woman tells you she isn't comfotable having u come over yet

I never understood this...its not like u cant come over...just not right now

What time frame = just met tho?

Like have you went on 4 dates already or idk you just met in a bar?

If dude can't understand that after just meeting you he is far too desperate and likely weirdo. I'd move on. You probably not that attracted to him anyway.

 

[bgbtylvr]

she has what you want playa, not the other way.

She isn't the ONLY one that has it.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

She isn't the ONLY one that has it.

And you're not the only one with lunch money.

 

[The Untouchable GDFOLKS]

you guys have to stop gassing up these fat chicks.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

you guys have to stop gassing up these fat chicks.

Bruh, when did niggas stop fucking fat chicks?

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

well you want the truth,

Here is the truth..


NO matter how much you tried to hide it,

he knows you want to fuck him, and detected

the freak in you.


Also you might be playing a role, in the way you flirt,

sheeeet and if you guys are having phone, text or skype sex...


then you just fuckin wit him..



Either dude is in a relationship with children,


or he could be doing a lot better financially...



not knowing how desperate he is acting,

but if he too thirsty.... you might wanna

rethink this whole thing...

 

[dHustla]

Bae! Why you out here like this? All in da streets! Deez niggas don't care nuttin 'bout chu!

Not like I DO!

BAE! JUST COME HOME!!!

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[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Bae! Why you out here like this? All in da streets! Deez niggas don't care nuttin 'bout chu!

Not like I DO!

BAE! JUST COME HOME!!!

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I heard the weirdest guy yesterday. Apparently, the guys wife was being washed by some guy at the church. she was in his house and the guy was banging on the door. Screaming and crying. I called the cops.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Bae! Why you out here like this? All in da streets! Deez niggas don't care nuttin 'bout chu!

Not like I DO!

BAE! JUST COME HOME!!!

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[dHustla]

"If she'on fuck on the first night, won't be a second"

Timing is everything!

Don't give out the vibe that it "can" happen, then renege. I call that "playing hokey pokey with the pussy".

Seriously, who got time to waste? If you waste my time on the first day/date, why would I give you another opportunity to waste MORE of my time?

And it's not a "just wanna fuck" thing either. It's an "adult" thing, adults fuck. If you got a lot of stipulations on the pussy, well just let me know when your pussy pass through congress. My point is... it ain't that fucking serious. If we like each other we fuck.

Lemme ask you this....
If you fucked him and it don't work out, what do you lose?

Pussy is one of the few things you can give away and still retain ownership of.
And miss me with that "soul ties" shit, use condoms & won't nobody be tied.

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[simonmarcel]

Well recently=last Saturday...and dude was 40 something years old..not no young buck...i didnt want a relationship with him either...barely knew the dude...well we talked for a long time when we met but i wasnt very sober so i dont remember much

I honently trying to have a sober conversation to make sure he was sane before i did give up any cookies


Again this isnt the first time this has happened to me or women i know

Scenario #2 is the exact reason i dont want someone i know very well in my home



im just curious on why this phenomenon happens to women and what makes men feel a certain way

There are some men that are just crazy but.......You said you wanted to have a sober conversation with him before giving up the cookies. So, you were, at some point thinking about fucking him. You also can't get drunk the first time you meet a man and be surprised he thinks he can fuck you. Please stop with these "I'm a good girl, why do men act like this" threads when you are getting drunk on the first date and giving off a vibe that he can fuck. You and your friends give off a hoe vibe.

There's no big mystery. A man's main objective is inserting his dick into you. Please don't think men would give a fuck about anything you had to say you if they didn't think they could fuck.

 

[Coldchi]

i aint bout them games.......if i ask to come over....it aint cuz im tryin to fuck.....just makin sure u aint living with another nigga.
the last thing i want, is for that nigga to step thru the door and see me hulk smashin his bitch......and her loving it.

 

[i 1 2 4 Q]

question is how many times yall been out, how long you 2 been seeing each other. and how many times you said no. you might be the one playing games.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

question is how many times yall been out, how long you 2 been seeing each other. and how many times you said no. you might be the one playing games.

She is. You may be old, but you never lose the ability to play the game.

 

[$Money_XXL]

tdude isnt even my type...im just curious on why this phenomenon happens to women and what makes men feel a certain way

So why are you entertaining him? You're enjoying the dates?

question is how many times yall been out, how long you 2 been seeing each other. and how many times you said no. you might be the one playing games.

Exactly, how long is "recently"?

How many dates?

I think around the 4th date is chilling time at home, yours or mine. It shouldn't be like the 10th time y'all see each other, what woman is worth that time? Let's get down to the "nitty gritty" and see if you'll be a permanent fixture in the bedroom or not.

I don't know some of these men that go all out spending on dates, it's usually, "I pay this date", "you pay next"...no one should be taking a girl out 4 times and be the only one spending.

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

So there you have it...


The only thing for YOU to understand..desi dahling...


is the role YOU play in making men want

to check out that new jump off pad on the fly!!

 

[dHustla]

I had a chick I was talking to call me over to her crib, her daughter was away. I really liked her, I had to because I stopped talking to baby mama's.
We chilled, drank, watched movies. It got late and I could tell she prolly wanted me to spend the night, it wasn't until I got in her bed that I could tell she planned it (I know, I'm slow). Shit was awkward as fuck. She said she ain't wanna fuck, but... iunno, something seemed off. She was making it available but her words & convo were to the contrary, and I'm of the mind that we are both over 30 so all that middle school "tell him no when you really mean yes" shit is what get niggas doing football numbers.
After tossing & turning for a few, I went on and gave her the dick. Angst made me nut quick, and I tried to power through and keep my dick hard, and she tried to keep it up and work with it, but nawl . And usually I can be back up in the time it take to change condoms, why that was the only condom I had?
Bitch got up and start doing laundry.

Fast forward to next date, we at a bar shooting pool & eating. We feeling each other even better, chemistry was perfect.... I'm tryna redeem myself cuz dis bih done fucked up my record, I was undefeated before her.
I walk her to her car & she was all over me and vice versa, bitch ain't have on no panties with a skin tight dress. So she got her arms around my neck & face in my neck, I'm grab assing like hell, she fuck around and felt my dick get on hard, and said something ... I'm like "oh now you feel it?" We bust out laughing.
She ain't wanna go home with me, or me follow her home. I play it cool but in my head I'm , & kinda

Timing is everything. The date was the perfect storm to go home & fuck. But nnaaawwwlll! Bitch only wanna fuck after she done created an air of anxiety!

FUCK ASS BITCH!

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[$Money_XXL]

Angst made me nut quick, and I tried to power through and keep my dick hard, and she tried to keep it up and work with it, but nawl .

She ain't wanna go home with me, or me follow her home. I play it cool but in my head I'm , & kinda

Timing is everything. The date was the perfect storm to go home & fuck. But nnaaawwwlll! Bitch only wanna fuck after she done created an air of anxiety!

FUCK ASS BITCH!

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Well she thought you'd just be a tease again, you lost all kind of credibility, You didn't blow her back out the first time, usually most women understand the first time guys can be nervous...they be too.

 

[dHustla]

[emoji38][emoji38][emoji38]

Well she thought you'd just be a tease again, you lost all kind of credibility, You didn't blow her back out the first time, usually most women understand the first time guys can be nervous...they be too.

First, I did blow her back out, it was just short-lived.

And she did say that exact thing. "The first time was a little off or awkward, we getting used to each other".

That's when I shoulda asked her crazy ass "Why the fuck you say you wasn't having sex, when you really wanted to?! Bitch, I got a cousin doing 60 years behind a bitch actions not matching her words!"

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[dHustla]

"If she'on fuck on the first night, won't be a second"

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[DeSiRe]

My guess would be that he thought he had you all ready to fuck and then you hit him with the curve ball and it fucked him up.

He probably took it as a shot to his ego.

"Oh my game wasn't tight enough? I wasn't nice enough? I wasn't aggressive enough? I didn't spend enough money?"

If you don't give him a specific reason why he can't come up (not a general answer like "I'm not ready", "it's too soon" "not right now"), he's probably going to have thoughts like that, and it can only go bad from there.

Sounds like you got yourself an egomaniac.

I told him i was tried (long day) but we could meet anywhere but my place...reason being i met scary men in the past and im cautious now...Hes a cancer and he told me he gets in his feels...not surprised he got butthurt by hearing "no"...like i said...im not trippin on dude...im looking at the bigger pitcure because this happens to other women across the board....regardless of the circumstances

Bitch ass Dallas niggas.

Simple question and she gets taken on an epic journey....to nowhere.

Question... is he the guy that got ROASTED on twitter a couple days ago for showing up for the date in his Xfinity work truck and then got TIGHT when baby girl ordered a $17.99 entree?

No..i dunno who this is

Wasn't even your type. Went on a date drunk. And he's the issue? And youre an old woman too?

The one i went on a date with was my type and no i wasnt drunk...i met the recent one at the club...we didnt go on a date and dude was like 10 years older than me

Because y'all act like groupies around some thug negro but trip when a brother with a job wants to come over.

Lol...what? Nah son. I dont entertain thugs

See this is where women get it fucked up. Ya'll fail to realize that every relationship no matter what its nature, is an exchange. This for that. Women seem to think that being in their presence constitutes something equal in value to someone else's labor (money). You're wrong. My presence is just as valuable as yours so when a man spends money he has an expectation of something of value in return. If you don't want men to have that expectation pay for your own shit and maintain the balance. Relationships only get fucked up when the balance is off.

Nice perspective

so if y'all just met do you go dutch?



but for real if we just met i probably don't want you at my house

Nobody paid shit...we met at the club...he wasnt buying drinks and if he did offer i sho wouldnt have accepted

I dont want some of my coworkers in my home..why would i invite a stranger? I am very protective over my space

A woman needs to understand that most men know you got a maintenance dude smashing it on the low until you come up on a simp to wife or cuff. We know that you aint going months or years without dick even if you're single. So we KNOW somebody getting up in that ass that isn't putting in half the hustle we are to get to know you. So, if you aren't comfortable with my stepping inside your front door, don't be so comfortable eating the food or letting me cop New Edition tickets. Consider your home/pussy my wallet and make the comfort levels equal. I value my money, job, effort and self just as much as you, so don't let me extend, exert or spend when you are on the fence. Wait to go out with me when you're sure.

U are wrong.....im going on several months....i dont have a maintence man...homie coulda been one if he didnt jump left...

well you want the truth,

Here is the truth..


NO matter how much you tried to hide it,

he knows you want to fuck him, and detected

the freak in you.


Also you might be playing a role, in the way you flirt,

sheeeet and if you guys are having phone, text or skype sex...


then you just fuckin wit him..



Either dude is in a relationship with children,


or he could be doing a lot better financially...



not knowing how desperate he is acting,

but if he too thirsty.... you might wanna

rethink this whole thing...

Lets say i sent some signals that i was interested in sex...why trip like that...a yellow light is better than a red one...

I dont care about this dude at all...lol...im glad he showed out earlier so i dont have to waste time or adjust my scheule to accommodate bullshit

Bae! Why you out here like this? All in da streets! Deez niggas don't care nuttin 'bout chu!

Not like I DO!

BAE! JUST COME HOME!!!

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Lol...you still mean?

question is how many times yall been out, how long you 2 been seeing each other. and how many times you said no. you might be the one playing games.

Literally saw dude once last Saturday...lol...he asked to come by tuesday and got butthurt

"If she'on fuck on the first night, won't be a second"

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Not true at all

 

[dHustla]

U are wrong.....im going on several months....i dont have a maintence man...homie coulda been one if he didnt jump left...

Lets say i sent some signals that i was interested in sex...why trip like that...a yellow light is better than a red one...

Bae, many men, like myself, don't like to be policed or metered. It's either off or on. That red light, green light shit.... is game, a child's game.

Lol...you still mean?

See... why you doin that? All in front of comp'ny & shit..

And NO, I've gotten better! A lot better.

Not true at all

It is on my end.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

A Dallas Cancer man at that? UGH. I don't understand you. I told you about cancers. BitchniggasNumero Uno. Water sign men = Just BAD all around BAD. Pitiful and pathetic. lol dudes want you to fuck on the first not to call you a hoe. And then keep thinking of you that way. lol

 

[J.E.T.S]

A Dallas Cancer man at that? UGH. I don't understand you. I told you about cancers. BitchniggasNumero Uno. Water sign men = Just BAD all around BAD. Pitiful and pathetic. lol dudes want you to fuck on the first not to call you a hoe. And then keep thinking of you that way. lol

What about Virgo tuff?

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[DeSiRe]

A Dallas Cancer man at that? UGH. I don't understand you. I told you about cancers. BitchniggasNumero Uno. Water sign men = Just BAD all around BAD. Pitiful and pathetic. lol dudes want you to fuck on the first not to call you a hoe. And then keep thinking of you that way. lol

-_____-

Raise up off the water signs

 

[SoulPatch]

Question... is he the guy that got ROASTED on twitter a couple days ago for showing up for the date in his Xfinity work truck and then got TIGHT when baby girl ordered a $17.99 entree?

Link?

 

[The Untouchable GDFOLKS]

Bruh, when did niggas stop fucking fat chicks?

Never but gassing up a fat bitch making her think she is not fat is what is fucking up the game.

This dude got emotional about going over this broads house is some simp sandwich shit...nigga must have been really thirsty cause if a fat broad aint sucking a dick or busting it open in 15 minutes she is cut immediately.

 

[DeSiRe]

Bae, many men, like myself, don't like to be policed or metered. It's either off or on. That red light, green light shit.... is game, a child's game.


See... why you doin that? All in front of comp'ny & shit..

And NO, I've gotten better! A lot better.



It is on my end.

My life aint a game...

Im not trying to stay at someones house or find someone to stay with me cause im scared to be at home...nope not gonna put myself in that spot

Good to hear u doing better...u can catch way more with honey than vinegar

 

[dHustla]

My phone need to ring today, and yo number need to show up

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[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

My life aint a game...

Im not trying to stay at someones house or find someone to stay with me cause im scared to be at home...nope not gonna put myself in that spot

Good to hear u doing better...u can catch way more with honey than vinegar

Stephanie got you on some bullshit. Go find you a dude in a tshirt and sandals at Cafe Brazil.