Why Women Need To Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls

true but that only applies to some cases, what happened to being a nice person?, smile back and if he hollas ,try to end it quick so u can run home to get "dolled up":lol: ready but to kill a potential situation with ur insecurity is a cop out ..shawty in that video was totally dolled up and ready to mingle..shawties in clubs on the streets all dolled up and still got shitty 'tudes ..whats their excuse?

they lack self esteem.

again, women are all about their egos & getting attention. like the other poster said, some broads actually get all dressed up just to see how many guys they can, "shoot down." it's a confidence game, i guess. :dunno:

btw, i just saw this crazy shit on FB. all i could say was, "wow."

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btw, i just saw this crazy shit on FB. all i could say was, "wow."

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Fair enough...:lol:


"If you want to be treated like a queen you must treat me like a king and the queen is the king's BITCH."- Patrice O'Neal.


So there's that...



* two cents *
 
Fair enough...:lol:


"If you want to be treated like a queen you must treat me like a king and the queen is the king's BITCH."- Patrice O'Neal.


So there's that...




* two cents *

She ain't even gotta treat you like a king. If she's with you, she's the king's bitch by default. She has no say so in the matter.
 
That bitch ain't never heard of a fallen angel? If she's living in hell, then that's what she is. Look inward, ho'!

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Angels were born in heaven but the fallen were cast out because they were prideful and treacherous. So if you in hell...

Since hoes comparing themselves to heavenly beings and shit.


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Not too long ago there was video a woman posted on YouTube accusing men of street harassment for approaching women. It snowballed into another feminist campaign to combat "rape culture" :rolleyes: Because apparently that's what approaching women on the street is like. Men have been shamed as creepy, rapey, etc for even having the balls to risk approaching a woman. I use the term risk deliberately because when you approach a woman you risk your reputation being ruined by some false accusation. Most of us still take the risk anyone because social norms say man should approach. But this is the climate that feminist have mad for male female interactions. Then they cry about the consequences later like the girl in this article. Like I said in that street harassment video thread it's only harassment when they don't find you attractive. It's female hypergamy at work. All these laws and social stigmas are to weed out the desirable men from the undesirable. To keep the average guy insecure of himself afraid to approach a woman. But to make it easier for good looking and well established men approach women with no hassle. That's the strategy behind all this rape culture talk. Women are trying to create a social climate that gives a certain demographic of men access to the pussy.

A lot of these women like the author have an over inflated sense of value which causes them to reject decent guys, men who they would be well suited to being with. They will write articles like this all day explaining their frustration because they are trying to access a limited pool of men. Frustration with men = not enough, good looking, ballers, alpha males with game. Talking all this jazz about finding a man who is her equal who knows himself like she knows herself is a crock of crap. You gotta read between the lines of these women statements, her equal means a dude who is better than her. That's how it always been. The essence of feminity is in hero worship, a man who is better than her who she can look up to and bow down to in compliance is her equal. :rolleyes: All this talk is just subterfuge for what they really want and that's to maximize access to the best of the best men they all feel they deserve no matter who they are, whether it's for a one night stand as the alphas nut rag, for some warped perverted social status ala Kim Kardashian or the ultimate compliment of being the one he puts a ring on.

They might fuck a few guys at the bottom from time to time but they have their sights on the narrow few men they consider the top.
 
dude, you're taking that scenario the wrong way.

i had something similar happen to me, and my sister straightened me out about it.

see, it wasn't that she didn't think YOU were good enough to step to her. she gave you the stank face bc she was dressed-down and wasn't feeling like she was ready to be approached.

women like to be approached when they are all dolled-up. all that fake hair and make-up gives them confidence. or another way to look at it... they can't see their own beauty unless is covered-up by some artificial bullshit.

broads want to fool you into being attracted... thru cosmetics. it's the "fake reality" world they live in. the shit is past pitiful. :smh::smh::smh:

OK didn't even look at it in that way. :cool:

Shit now that you say that I realize a situation with one of my ex employees she would act different towards me based on if she wearing make up or not.

No make up she act like she didn't want to be bother with would not even look me in the face when talking to me.

With make up always calling me over for help, flat out just always wanting to talk and shit. Lol without make up she did look rough so I wouldn't be surprised if she did that with all guys.
 
dude, you're taking that scenario the wrong way.

i had something similar happen to me, and my sister straightened me out about it.

see, it wasn't that she didn't think YOU were good enough to step to her. she gave you the stank face bc she was dressed-down and wasn't feeling like she was ready to be approached.

women like to be approached when they are all dolled-up. all that fake hair and make-up gives them confidence. or another way to look at it... they can't see their own beauty unless is covered-up by some artificial bullshit.

broads want to fool you into being attracted... thru cosmetics. it's the "fake reality" world they live in. the shit is past pitiful. :smh::smh::smh:

This is real. I had a girl tell me this too. Saying if a guy approaches her when she feels her hair or make up isn't right she is gong to question his standards and think he must not have many options or respect for himself.

Their control freaks in that regard. They want things to happen to them when they want things to happen to them. They want to fuck with you when they want to fuck with you. He's not Mr. Right if he doesn't approach me at these ideal circumstances when I feel and look the best. They don't know how to just live life, it's like their following some script.
 
What is a decent man? A job and a car do not make you decent. Besides maybe3-4 members of this board. I can pretty much guarantee most of you guys view of "decent" doesn't match my own.
 
What is a decent man? A job and a car do not make you decent. Besides maybe3-4 members of this board. I can pretty much guarantee most of you guys view of "decent" doesn't match my own.

Be careful don't straw man me.

If your referring to my post...

Decent = similar educational background and achievements, economic status, family background, and social IQ.

It's not about some cosmopolitan list of desirable traits that entice a woman.

It's not suppose to match your own definition, it's about matching people by their background and experience.
 
Today it seems like everyone's ideals of a good male/female is skewed based off of our "Burger King - your way, right away" mentality. Both men and women are coming with these lists of does/don'ts, cutting each other off for not meeting a few criteria. People need to stop looking to their friends and the Internet for what pleases you, and look inward - it truly isn't as hard as people make it...
 
as far as ur first response.. easiest way to get pussy is thru other pussy.. go anywhere with some pussy or multiple pussy especially eyecandy and other females will take notice and tend to have a interest/curiousity in u..oldest trick in the book that still works..best part is if u have the pussy that's with u spoil the shit out of u in front of females that raises their interest more to wanting to kno who and what the fuck u do to deserve that kind of treatment



lol.....
When i was in my late teens early 20s i used to have fine ass female friends purposely go around females that i was tryna fuck and talk about me. As if they "been with me" themselves. Shit used to always work. Mainly with younger females....but even with females past 35.


The fact that a lot of Women are attracted to UNAVAILABLE MEN is another topic of discussion.
You want a Man with "power", but your emotions, ego, etc aint ready for the shit that comes with that power.
 
lol.....
When i was in my late teens early 20s i used to have fine ass female friends purposely go around females that i was tryna fuck and talk about me. As if they "been with me" themselves. Shit used to always work. Mainly with younger females....but even with females past 35.


The fact that a lot of Women are attracted to UNAVAILABLE MEN is another topic of discussion.
You want a Man with "power", but your emotions, ego, etc aint ready for the shit that comes with that power.

i had a term called "bait".. that's what it pretty much meant female or females that i dealt with to get other broads.. my fave bait was bi-sexual chicks cause it's always easy for them to get pussy and get 3some's poppin or bringin other chick's to me

by the way nigs sleep on having female friends..other than my road dog's i always prefer chilling/rollin with chicks
 
lol.....
When i was in my late teens early 20s i used to have fine ass female friends purposely go around females that i was tryna fuck and talk about me. As if they "been with me" themselves. Shit used to always work. Mainly with younger females....but even with females past 35.


The fact that a lot of Women are attracted to UNAVAILABLE MEN is another topic of discussion.
You want a Man with "power", but your emotions, ego, etc aint ready for the shit that comes with that power.


Maaaaaayne that HOPE & ARROGANCE is a motherfucker and STAY getting women fucked up in that regard. :lol::smh:

Me and my woman were watching some shit on Oprah network where some THOT was boo hooing because Chris Brown wasn't acting right and my girl cut the nonsense and stated...

'When these chicks going to realize that when a man reaches a certain level of fame, money, power, he's no longer "cheating on you" he's just "fucking other women" and you just the girl he gave a title to.'

The HOPE of a woman is to be with a powerful man. The ARROGANCE of a woman is that he stop being powerful...for her.:hmm:

But you right that's another topic for another thread....:cool:



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OK didn't even look at it in that way. :cool:

Shit now that you say that I realize a situation with one of my ex employees she would act different towards me based on if she wearing make up or not.

No make up she act like she didn't want to be bother with would not even look me in the face when talking to me.

With make up always calling me over for help, flat out just always wanting to talk and shit. Lol without make up she did look rough so I wouldn't be surprised if she did that with all guys.

if a woman can't look at herself, love herself, and accept herself WITHOUT all that bullshit caked on her face, she's NOT a candidate for anything serious, imo.

This is real. I had a girl tell me this too. Saying if a guy approaches her when she feels her hair or make up isn't right she is gong to question his standards and think he must not have many options or respect for himself.

Their control freaks in that regard. They want things to happen to them when they want things to happen to them. They want to fuck with you when they want to fuck with you. He's not Mr. Right if he doesn't approach me at these ideal circumstances when I feel and look the best. They don't know how to just live life, it's like their following some script.

sex and the city & that real housewives garbage = the script. :lol::lol::lol:

but seriously, your 2nd paragraph speaks volumes on this subject. quite simply, women want what they want when THEY want it. any other time-frame is up for extreme judgment and/or scrutiny.

what they're missing in the physical attraction game is that men TYPICALLY aren't interested in all that over-the-top, dolled-up shit.

fuck around and go to bed with miracle watts... then, wake-up next to aunt ester. :eek:

:smh::smh::smh: and then she pulls the, "you should love me for me" card on your ass about how looks really don't matter when it's all she focused on to attract you.
 
I had a woman actually roll her eyes at me because i saw her behind me and i actually waited for her to get to the door so i can hold it. She had a bag in her damn hand! So me being petty i waited for that bitch to come back out and i pushed the door right in her fucking face.

real fucking shit fam i hate that shit. Like every dude aint out to stick his dick in your mouth. If you a 80's baby I'm pretty sure your mom taught your ass how to be a fucking gentlemen. So a lot of the shit i do was taught to me by my mom and stepfather. I got a girl muthafucka i dont want you THATS what i wanna say to some of these bitches but now i just be rude. Its been a few times i've pushed a door in a young hoes face then i turn around and just stir at them.

:lol @ those 811Streetz quotes.

:lol::lol::lol:

Not too long ago there was video a woman posted on YouTube accusing men of street harassment for approaching women. It snowballed into another feminist campaign to combat "rape culture" :rolleyes: Because apparently that's what approaching women on the street is like. Men have been shamed as creepy, rapey, etc for even having the balls to risk approaching a woman. I use the term risk deliberately because when you approach a woman you risk your reputation being ruined by some false accusation. Most of us still take the risk anyone because social norms say man should approach. But this is the climate that feminist have mad for male female interactions. Then they cry about the consequences later like the girl in this article. Like I said in that street harassment video thread it's only harassment when they don't find you attractive. It's female hypergamy at work. All these laws and social stigmas are to weed out the desirable men from the undesirable. To keep the average guy insecure of himself afraid to approach a woman. But to make it easier for good looking and well established men approach women with no hassle. That's the strategy behind all this rape culture talk. Women are trying to create a social climate that gives a certain demographic of men access to the pussy.

A lot of these women like the author have an over inflated sense of value which causes them to reject decent guys, men who they would be well suited to being with. They will write articles like this all day explaining their frustration because they are trying to access a limited pool of men. Frustration with men = not enough, good looking, ballers, alpha males with game. Talking all this jazz about finding a man who is her equal who knows himself like she knows herself is a crock of crap. You gotta read between the lines of these women statements, her equal means a dude who is better than her. That's how it always been. The essence of feminity is in hero worship, a man who is better than her who she can look up to and bow down to in compliance is her equal. :rolleyes: All this talk is just subterfuge for what they really want and that's to maximize access to the best of the best men they all feel they deserve no matter who they are, whether it's for a one night stand as the alphas nut rag, for some warped perverted social status ala Kim Kardashian or the ultimate compliment of being the one he puts a ring on.

They might fuck a few guys at the bottom from time to time but they have their sights on the narrow few men they consider the top.

:itsawrap:
 
Then they go and show men what they should look like, further emasculating men with this fuck boy fashion that has dudes running around wearing female clothes. Tell this chic to go **** herself.

when NBA players arrive for games, you can see this ^^ on full display.

niccas in capri pants. :smh::smh::smh:
 
if a woman can't look at herself, love herself, and accept herself WITHOUT all that bullshit caked on her face, she's NOT a candidate for anything serious, imo.



sex and the city & that real housewives garbage = the script. :lol::lol::lol:

but seriously, your 2nd paragraph speaks volumes on this subject. quite simply, women want what they want when THEY want it. any other time-frame is up for extreme judgment and/or scrutiny.

what they're missing in the physical attraction game is that men TYPICALLY aren't interested in all that over-the-top, dolled-up shit.

fuck around and go to bed with miracle watts... then, wake-up next to aunt ester. :eek:

:smh::smh::smh: and then she pulls the, "you should love me for me" card on your ass about how looks really don't matter when it's all she focused on to attract you.

EXACTLY well stated. Any other time is up for scrutiny.

When you hear that line "you should love me for me", at that instance you should know you just got trapped. Bounce and don't go back. That broad was only good for a nut that's it.

These women have perfected the craft of attracting a man but few of them know how to keep one.


Today it seems like everyone's ideals of a good male/female is skewed based off of our "Burger King - your way, right away" mentality. Both men and women are coming with these lists of does/don'ts, cutting each other off for not meeting a few criteria. People need to stop looking to their friends and the Internet for what pleases you, and look inward - it truly isn't as hard as people make it...
Pride & Prejudice

Pride & Prejudice

There's ready enough in the way of getting together for anything meaningful beyond just sex.

But women done gone and raised the price of pussy for men in the middle and made it easier for men at the top.
 
damn i meant to seriously reply to this

Usually in this case what i do is speak

"How are you doing today" Something along them lines just to see how she responds.

If she dry with the response then Ill keep it moving but if she sound like she a lil interested in a conversation ill throw out some more bait.

Maybe comment on the dog "Thats a cute bitch you got there"

naw im joking but seriously I would probably say something clever about the dog, maybe front like Im looking for one to buy my mom or some bullshit like that.

Then I'll slowly convert the conversation to her. Get to know her for a few minutes and if the conversation is naturally flowing and i dont feel like im pulling teeth then Ill tell her i gotta go but i enjoyed her conversation blah blah blah is it cool if we exchange numbers and boom!

Its either a yes or a no at this point.

See you are a normal guy...u just dont stop and stare...thats the difference

U know how to break the ice too...not something weird i dont know how to respond to lol

dude, you're taking that scenario the wrong way.

i had something similar happen to me, and my sister straightened me out about it.

see, it wasn't that she didn't think YOU were good enough to step to her. she gave you the stank face bc she was dressed-down and wasn't feeling like she was ready to be approached.

women like to be approached when they are all dolled-up. all that fake hair and make-up gives them confidence. or another way to look at it... they can't see their own beauty unless is covered-up by some artificial bullshit.

broads want to fool you into being attracted... thru cosmetics. it's the "fake reality" world they live in. the shit is past pitiful. :smh::smh::smh:

I dunno if it is about being fake...if im out looking busted i dont want to be bothered by anyone...i just wanna get in and get out without being noticed cause im being lazy

One morning at 6am i woke up and took my dog out...like i dont even think i had a bra on...and there was a guy outside taking his dog out who looked exactly like mine

He starts talking to me of this history of our dog's breed...at this point i still cant form coherent thoughts cause im still waking up...and hes chatting away...also im busted...im not trying to be seen...but im a polite person so im doing my best to engage...telling myself as soon as my dog poops im getting the fuck out of there

He started talking about my flip flops and why my man let me outside like that (there was a bunch of snow on the ground)...but my dog finished pooping right at that moment so i just laughed..said bye and ran up stairs...

Its not about being fake...but u gotta have the right timing
 
Be careful don't straw man me.

If your referring to my post...

Decent = similar educational background and achievements, economic status, family background, and social IQ.

It's not about some cosmopolitan list of desirable traits that entice a woman.

It's not suppose to match your own definition, it's about matching people by their background and experience.

If i ever were to strawman i'd just be playing the same game the rest of you do. And no. Your definition of what decent is, is not by any means the common definition. Nor is it mine.

Nothing you stated to me is what a decent man is. I won't say what it is. But your view is not the "common" view. And to me what you said is really what gets people fucked up. Backwards and forwards. Men and women.
 
they lack self esteem.

again, women are all about their egos & getting attention. like the other poster said, some broads actually get all dressed up just to see how many guys they can, "shoot down." it's a confidence game, i guess. :dunno:

btw, i just saw this crazy shit on FB. all i could say was, "wow."

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What ever happened to a woman being a mans "backbone" or support system and them building their life together? I guess all these bitch ass dudes they chose permanetley fucked up the so called "game". Mofo's want a instant microwave situation. It's never really about the destination but the journey, history has proven that time and time again. Mofos are walking around here spiritually frozen.:smh:

Not to mention building "heaven on earth" solely for a woman alone will place a man in hell. I've been there. The only heaven we can build is in our hearts and minds as both men and women individualy and work together to prosper on all levels.
 
See you are a normal guy...u just dont stop and stare...thats the difference

U know how to break the ice too...not something weird i dont know how to respond to lol



I dunno if it is about being fake...if im out looking busted i dont want to be bothered by anyone...i just wanna get in and get out without being noticed cause im being lazy

One morning at 6am i woke up and took my dog out...like i dont even think i had a bra on...and there was a guy outside taking his dog out who looked exactly like mine

He starts talking to me of this history of our dog's breed...at this point i still cant form coherent thoughts cause im still waking up...and hes chatting away...also im busted...im not trying to be seen...but im a polite person so im doing my best to engage...telling myself as soon as my dog poops im getting the fuck out of there

He started talking about my flip flops and why my man let me outside like that (there was a bunch of snow on the ground)...but my dog finished pooping right at that moment so i just laughed..said bye and ran up stairs...

Its not about being fake...but u gotta have the right timing

I can understand that. Whenever I throw some shit on to make a run to target or the market real quick(unshaved, hair not even brushed) I hate to see a woman I might wanna talk to. I have no confidence and wind up avoiding her at all costs.
 
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What ever happened to a woman being a mans "backbone" or support system and them building their life together? I guess all these bitch ass dudes they chose permanently fucked up the so called "game". Mofo's want a instant microwave situation. It's never really about the destination but the journey, history has proven that time and time again. Mofos are walking around here spiritually frozen.:smh:

Not to mention building "heaven on earth" solely for a woman alone will place a man in hell. I've been there. The only heaven we can build is in our hearts and minds as both men and women individually and work together to prosper on all levels.

You men choose the wrong women. The women who're willing to be backbones. Don't get chosen. I've said this a hundred times. Everyone's picking the wrong people. But both sides think the other sex is to blame. Even you right here in this post. You said the dudes they chose. You're talking about women right? So you're saying men don't pick wack women?

You dudes pick the easy lays. You don't date the right women. And women don't date the right men. They look for the material crap and the dude is morally bankrupt. A moral black hole. An entitled prick. Selfish fuck hole of puss. Him coming from this neighborhood and going to that school means dick if he's a piece of shit human being who thinks that it's ok to walk by 2 of his brothers trying to kill 1 another.

Women can be morally corrupt as well. But they tend to be the ones who have sex the earliest. Who are shaped a certain way. And then that's who you guys go for. But don't even care about her views.
 
Do you have something against punctuation?

I mean, I want to read what you wrote but this type. Of response is very hard to. Follow when you're taught. No. When you've learned in school. That you should pause. At every period.

I'm just here so I don't get fined
 
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I dunno if it is about being fake...if im out looking busted i dont want to be bothered by anyone...i just wanna get in and get out without being noticed cause im being lazy

One morning at 6am i woke up and took my dog out...like i dont even think i had a bra on...and there was a guy outside taking his dog out who looked exactly like mine

He starts talking to me of this history of our dog's breed...at this point i still cant form coherent thoughts cause im still waking up...and hes chatting away...also im busted...im not trying to be seen...but im a polite person so im doing my best to engage...telling myself as soon as my dog poops im getting the fuck out of there

He started talking about my flip flops and why my man let me outside like that (there was a bunch of snow on the ground)...but my dog finished pooping right at that moment so i just laughed..said bye and ran up stairs...

Its not about being fake...but u gotta have the right timing

who has to have the right timing... you or him?

he was trying... you seemed to be stressing.

i FULLY respect muslim women bc they have to attract men and KEEP their attraction while only revealing their eyes in public...everything else is covered-up.

in america, women have their asses & tits out, camel toes on full display, fake hair, lips, skin tone, cheek bones... fake tits, fake ass, fake eye color, etc. BUT MOST CAN'T HOLD A CONVERSATION to save their lives.

i once asked a co-worker... "how many men would step to you if all they could see was your eyes?"

her reply, "if he looked deep enough, he could see into my soul and see that i was a good woman."

:lol::lol::lol:deeeelusional. entitled. and dead wrong. bitch is as shallow as they come.


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What ever happened to a woman being a mans "backbone" or support system and them building their life together? I guess all these bitch ass dudes they chose permanetley fucked up the so called "game". Mofo's want a instant microwave situation. It's never really about the destination but the journey, history has proven that time and time again. Mofos are walking around here spiritually frozen.:smh:

Not to mention building "heaven on earth" solely for a woman alone will place a man in hell. I've been there. The only heaven we can build is in our hearts and minds as both men and women individualy and work together to prosper on all levels.

that quote says a lot, but it says a whole lot about how women feel nowadays.

to me, it means, "you build heaven for me... and THEN, when i'm ready, i'll show you how good i am... and will reward you with my presence."

:smh::smh::smh: meanwhile, broads giving up pussy and mouth online by the truckload.

who told these broads that all they needed was make-up, fake hair, a vagina, and "their presence," and it was all good?
 
If i ever were to strawman i'd just be playing the same game the rest of you do. And no. Your definition of what decent is, is not by any means the common definition. Nor is it mine.

Nothing you stated to me is what a decent man is. I won't say what it is. But your view is not the "common" view. And to me what you said is really what gets people fucked up. Backwards and forwards. Men and women.

You asked me what I meant by decent and I told you then you compare it to some common definition of decent, as if to say what I offered isn't good enough. That's a weak analogy.

I told you what I meant by decent within the context of this conversation and my paragraph.

Is there anything you want to add to the conversation or do you just want to nitpick definitions and straw man niggas to death?
 
You men choose the wrong women. The women who're willing to be backbones. Don't get chosen. I've said this a hundred times. Everyone's picking the wrong people. But both sides think the other sex is to blame. Even you right here in this post. You said the dudes they chose. You're talking about women right? So you're saying men don't pick wack women?

You dudes pick the easy lays. You don't date the right women. And women don't date the right men. They look for the material crap and the dude is morally bankrupt. A moral black hole. An entitled prick. Selfish fuck hole of puss. Him coming from this neighborhood and going to that school means dick if he's a piece of shit human being who thinks that it's ok to walk by 2 of his brothers trying to kill 1 another.

Women can be morally corrupt as well. But they tend to be the ones who have sex the earliest. Who are shaped a certain way. And then that's who you guys go for. But don't even care about her views.

But they don't hear you, though...it's easy to point a finger in one direction without looking back in the mirror. Women and men around here chasing fucked up, irrational, egotistical views of relationships and womanhood/manhood, but don't want to give of themselves, be vulnerable, feel shit...the moment I opened up my eyes to vulnerability and more than my selfish ways was the moment I could begin to love someone more than myself...and, I chose love.
 
You men choose the wrong women. The women who're willing to be backbones. Don't get chosen. I've said this a hundred times. Everyone's picking the wrong people. But both sides think the other sex is to blame. Even you right here in this post. You said the dudes they chose. You're talking about women right? So you're saying men don't pick wack women?

You dudes pick the easy lays. You don't date the right women. And women don't date the right men. They look for the material crap and the dude is morally bankrupt. A moral black hole. An entitled prick. Selfish fuck hole of puss. Him coming from this neighborhood and going to that school means dick if he's a piece of shit human being who thinks that it's ok to walk by 2 of his brothers trying to kill 1 another.

Women can be morally corrupt as well. But they tend to be the ones who have sex the earliest. Who are shaped a certain way. And then that's who you guys go for. But don't even care about her views.

You are absolutely right!!! I'm predisposed to speaking from the male perspective but it goes both ways. I've never picked easy lays tho, thats a turn off to me. I agree everyone is picking the wrong people in general tho. A lot of it has to do with the examples set for us when we are young. I have picked plenty a bad women in the past, but I like to think I have learned from my mistakes now (Especially after my last two relationships). I know where and when I fucked up starting at 19 on up, and every single good hearted girl that my ass had passed up chasing other qualities. Everybody is taking each other for granted. anybody that is halfway decent looking to the opposite sex that is of a certain age has had at least 3 good natured people that have been head over heels for them and said individual has been "Meh" about those "interested parties". We have to learn from our mistakes and raise the youth to not place too much emphasis on material and casual sex in relationships. Human currency is what we should be seeking. I mean sex and some material can be used as tools to enhance relationships, so they have a place, but by no means should they be the "sole defining" criteria for choosing a mate.
 
But they don't hear you, though...it's easy to point a finger in one direction without looking back in the mirror. Women and men around here chasing fucked up, irrational, egotistical views of relationships and womanhood/manhood, but don't want to give of themselves, be vulnerable, feel shit...the moment I opened up my eyes to vulnerability and more than my selfish ways was the moment I could begin to love someone more than myself...and, I chose love.

Some of us hear her Jo, we hear you too.;)
 
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You are absolutely right!!! I'm predisposed to speaking from the male perspective but it goes both ways. I've never picked easy lays tho, thats a turn off to me. I agree everyone is picking the wrong people in general tho. A lot of it has to do with the examples set for us when we are young. I have picked plenty a bad women in the past, but I like to think I have learned from my mistakes now (Especially after my last two relationships). I know where and when I fucked up starting at 19 on up, and every single good hearted girl that my ass had passed up chasing other qualities. Everybody is taking each other for granted. anybody that is halfway decent looking to the opposite sex that is of a certain age has had at least 3 good natured people that have been head over heels for them and said individual has been "Meh" about those "interested parties". We have to learn from our mistakes and raise the youth to not place too much emphasis on material and casual sex in relationships. Human currency is what we should be seeking. I mean sex and some material can be used as tools to enhance relationships, so they have a place, but by no means should they be the "sole defining" criteria for choosing a mate.


I disagree with the thesis...

in a free associating market people will pick what most resonates with them...water seeks its own level...

the women complain because they are finding that they are not as bad as they thought they were....

the men because they can't even get a shot....

water seeks its own level....
 
I disagree with the thesis...

in a free associating market people will pick what most resonates with them...water seeks its own level...

the women complain because they are finding that they are not as bad as they thought they were....

the men because they can't even get a shot....

water seeks its own level....

I respect your opinion sir. :yes::cool:

I've always sought women that I thought were equally yoked, Ive also had women seek me that I thought I was "to much" for and my general thoughts would be "bitch please" :hmm: you can't get with this!!! But in hindsight some of those women shared similar qualities as me when I wasn't being driven by my ego. My reasoning was that they were either too conservative in appearance, not creative types or not into so called consciousness or things of an esoteric nature like I was. At the core tho, they could have met all of my basic (And arguably the most fundamental) requirements of what I was seeking in a woman. Like compassion, attentiveness, decorum, virtue etc. I can't say the same for the "cool looking" chicks that I thought were my "equal" as a self professed "cool ass dude".:rolleyes::cool:

In that light I could be considered a dude that was not as "Cool" as he thought! :lol::o
 
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