Why Women Need To Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls

my sister made a facebook post with a quote that said something to the effect of... "where are the real men? i need one that can handle me."

one of our cousins replied, "with men, you have a choice... you get handled or you get loved. make up your mind."

i hate when women say that shit

it was a comedian who was like "bitch handle you?...are you a wild animal or a fucking human being? Handle yo mothafuckin self" lol

i agree with that shit too
 
for example....i notice a guy checking me out...continual staring...ill smile back...and hell just smile back...i guess he wants me to holla :confused:

maybe you had a booger on your face...or he just wanted to see if he could get your attention (your smile) and nothing more...what was the scenario?
 
I hear you :cheers:

The only thing she is conveniently ignoring is that for every action there is a reaction. If a guy got her number called her the next morning at 7am instead of waiting a week like a "lame" she might view him as "thirsty" or a "stalker". Some things are just dammed if you do, dammed if you don't with some women and the average guy is terrified of getting caught up in that. It's better to deal with women whom communication and being around comes "naturally", the catch is thats dudes have to be the ones to break the ice and initiate the relationship in most situations to even find out if they are "compatible". These types don't come about everyday.

One thing I've noticed with most younger broads is that their definition of "Chemistry" is different than older broads. It seems that it's more about "Sexual Chemistry" than a natural organic comunication or synergy between personalities. :smh:

I agree with you 100% on your younger chick chemistry statement. Most of the younger chicks that I smash I have no communication with and I know very little about them. I can call them, they'll come over get they're tune up and leave. Now the older chicks it is always dinner and conversation and just spending time together and it is not always a guaranteed smash, but the connection and companionship make sex much more intimate and intense, and they love it. I fuck with this broad that is 49, she will call or stop by and we will just go hangout maybe eat lunch and just catch up. She likes to talk when she is having a problem or a bad day so I sit and listen, but that is what keeps her coming back and if I even needed anything she would be right there for me and we are really nothing more than fuck buddies.

i agree, DJ... but not with it all.

my point(s):

1. niccas fucking quick & fast because online dating & hooking up makes it that way. you really don't have to "work" for the pussy anymore... broads slanging it around loosely. the online angle brings that QUICK ATTENTION that makes them get wet.

2. chivalry is dead because women killed it. i was taught the same way as you, but i've been "checked" by women for holding doors open for them: "eerr... excuse me, i can open my own doors. thank you." :smh:

3. when walking down the street, i not only ask them to walk on the inside, but i also ask them to wear their purse BETWEEN us (on her inside shoulder) to make it hard for a snatcher in crowds. i also hold car doors open and pull-out chairs too... all dat shit. :D young broads think it's weird... older broads LOVE DAT SHIT. :yes:

I can dig it.
The online thing is another issues, most younger dudes would be like why should I have to take broad out when I can swipe right on Tinder and have pussy at the door in 10 minutes. We are a different breed bruh, there are not a lot of men that subscribe yo the whole courting thing.

I have had women tell me the same that she can open the door herself her arms ain't broke. I just shrug it off and laugh and I make sure that I never attempt to open another door for her. you have to realize even though she might have stopped you from assisting her, in the back of her mind she knows that you are that gentleman.
 
for example....i notice a guy checking me out...continual staring...ill smile back...and hell just smile back...i guess he wants me to holla :confused:

That or you remind him of an ex he's still in love with. A lot of dudes are in a LOT more pain than they will ever care to express or tell. I know for me personally I only make serious relationship moves when I feel I've cleared out most of my baggage from my past relationship. Sometimes that can keep a dude from making a move. Sometimes that can take time, years even. I've been there done that. My last relationship I wasn't ready but the sister was very aggressive about "securing" me as her man. Needless to say it didn't end well for either of us.

It's a double edge sword. It's a good feeling knowing that a woman is interested and initiated that interest, BUT a dude has to be READY because she is basically "putting her heart in your hands" as a dude. You have to be ready to handle it with care, you have to be focused. She has to be "handing her heart" over for the right reasons as well. If they both are in the right mental space it can be a beautiful thing. It's really about people crossing paths at the right place and right times in their life experience. Either way its a learning experience at the least.
 
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I agree with you 100% on your younger chick chemistry statement. Most of the younger chicks that I smash I have no communication with and I know very little about them. I can call them, they'll come over get they're tune up and leave. Now the older chicks it is always dinner and conversation and just spending time together and it is not always a guaranteed smash, but the connection and companionship make sex much more intimate and intense, and they love it. I fuck with this broad that is 49, she will call or stop by and we will just go hangout maybe eat lunch and just catch up. She likes to talk when she is having a problem or a bad day so I sit and listen, but that is what keeps her coming back and if I even needed anything she would be right there for me and we are really nothing more than fuck buddies.
:yes:
 
the answer to both of you... from what i see from my own 3 sisters: WOMEN HAVE NO CLUE WTF THEY WANT. they change their minds like they change their panties.



that's my problem with these young(er) broads... which is 25 - 35 for me. when i'm too direct, they haul ass the other way. when i approach thru friends, or ESP. THRU SOCIAL MEDIA, they're cool.

the older broads (35 -50) like a MAN to approach straight up...no texting, no social media, etc.

older broads are a LOT less trouble, IMO.

all you had to say was this and this thread is done

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maybe you had a booger on your face...or he just wanted to see if he could get your attention (your smile) and nothing more...what was the scenario?

ok heres a scenario...i went to the nike store last week....no boogers...i was wearing leggings and a hoodie...and i got stared down several times...i even had a guy sensually bump into me but i was getting the hell out of that store at that point....i wasnt ready:smh:
 
for example....i notice a guy checking me out...continual staring...ill smile back...and hell just smile back...i guess he wants me to holla :confused:

You hit nail on the head, which goes back to my point on men not wanting to put in any work and max dawg point about the whole Internet thing. The whole casual meeting and coversaton is becoming a thing of the past. When you are trained or conditioned a certain way you act as such. I was taught to come over say hi and offer you a drink. We may exchange numbers we may not, but you smiling at me is definite sign that you are interested and I was interested as well I would be making a bee line to you. Mama always said closed mouths don't get fed.
 
for example....i notice a guy checking me out...continual staring...ill smile back...and hell just smile back...i guess he wants me to holla :confused:

He coulda just been enjoying the view but had something else goin' on.

:dunno:
 
That or you remind him of an ex he's still in love with. A lot of dudes are in a LOT more pain than they will ever care to express or tell. I know for me personally I only make serious relationship moves when I feel I've cleared out most of my baggage from my past relationship. Sometimes that can keep a dude from making a move. Sometimes that can take time, years even. I've been there done that. My last relationship I wasn't ready but the sister was very aggressive about "securing" me as her man. Needless to say it didn't end well for either of us.

It's a double edge sword. It's a good feeling knowing that a woman is interested and initiated that interest, BUT a dude has to be READY because she is basically "putting her heart in your hands" as a dude. You have to be ready to handle it with care, you have to be focused. She has to be "handing her heart" over for the right reasons as well. If they both are in the right mental space it can be a beautiful thing. It's really about people crossing paths at the right place and right times in their life experience. Either way its a learning experience at the least.

makes me feel really uncomfortable to be started at tho :(

smile at me and we swear to zod you getting it where you stand.

:lol:

You hit nail on the head, which goes back to my point on men not wanting to put in any work and max dawg point about the whole Internet thing. The whole casual meeting and coversaton is becoming a thing of the past. When you are trained or conditioned a certain way you act as such. I was taught to come over say hi and offer you a drink. We may exchange numbers we may not, but you smiling at me is definite sign that you are interested and I was interested as well I would be making a bee line to you. Mama always said closed mouths don't get fed.

i can agree with this....easy access has changed alot of things
 
my sister made a facebook post with a quote that said something to the effect of... "where are the real men? i need one that can handle me."

one of our cousins replied, "with men, you have a choice... you get handled or you get loved. make up your mind."


What was your sister's response to your cousins post? (If any)
 
probably not the ones you're talking about
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:lol::lol::lol::lol: dude funny
 
for example....i notice a guy checking me out...continual staring...ill smile back...and hell just smile back...i guess he wants me to holla :confused:

ok heres a scenario...i went to the nike store last week....no boogers...i was wearing leggings and a hoodie...and i got stared down several times...i even had a guy sensually bump into me but i was getting the hell out of that store at that point....i wasnt ready:smh:

:confused:

2 diff pictures painted here...one where a dude didn't step to you after an exchange of smiles and another where cats might've been a lil too forward...I thought you was gonna expand on the first scenario
 
probably not the ones you're talking about
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anyone ever thought about, maybe she wasnt intressted in the brother, casue he was pulling up his pants (why sag in the first place).
wearing them loud ass green shoes?

i would had been disappointed if my sister, or cousin brought him home to dinner.
 

I see what you saying pimpin, but it's not an white women white man issue, it's a woman & man issue. That's how I see it, and that's validated by experience.


Now as far as cats trying to put a black spin on it, contrary to popular belief, most black men fuck with black woman exclusively, so if they see something concerning a male/female dynamic, and it is validated by what they deal with, they're going to make the correlation.

Take the 'white' out of the article and it's another bitch bitching about dudes not being 'man enough' to deal with women. How many specials on Oprah have we seen sistas lament about the same 'issue' under the guise of being strong black and independent. Correlation.


This isn't a race issue. It's a women of our time issue.




* two cents *

getting pussy has never been so easy to get in history of mankind as it is now..if nigs have trouble getting pussy in this day in age there's truthly something wrong with that male..lot of dudes will never admit they're at fault for their dry dickness and blame everything else but the man in the mirror but it's true..i've seen historical lames get buns in this era that 15 yrs ago would've gotten shitted on in the 90's and b4 but now they are even having sex..if it's easy getting pussy in nyc than outtastate is 10 times easier..hell outtastate pussy was always easy so now 4get about it..than throw in the 18-25 yr female squad man them bitches extra aggressive and smutty..shit's twilight zone status rite now pussy is way easy to get yet tricking amongst male has skyrocket shit don't make sense..truth be told my bizz should be at record lows with all this free pussy out here yet my bizz doin all kinda greatness..shit's hella weird but hey i'm benefitting from both so fuck it
 
anyone ever thought about, maybe she wasnt intressted in the brother, casue he was pulling up his pants (why sag in the first place).
wearing them loud ass green shoes?

i would had been disappointed if my sister, or cousin brought him home to dinner.

you are hell bent on finding a way to be a bitch, aint ya?
 
for example....i notice a guy checking me out...continual staring...ill smile back...and hell just smile back...i guess he wants me to holla :confused:

I caught myself doing something like this last Friday.

I was drunk as shit at our bar and I saw this straight beautiful young THOT. Yes she was a THOT by her conversation with her girlfriends, but damn she was stunning to me..

Thing is I'm happily in a relationship...but my imagination is wondering..

So we lock eyes and in that instance I'm debating whether pursuing this broad is worth my relationship.

She smiles and I smile back...unlike ol boy I'm a grown man so I had to talk to her even if I couldn't.

Talked to shorty and bought her a drink but told her I got a girl but if I was a single man it would be on. She looked disappointed but I sent her to my patna who botched the deal..

Ugh...
 
Why don't they make them like they used to? Have that bitch explain that.

she fails to add that dates aren t happening cause there are WAY TOO MANY of her sisterhood eagerly waiting to be that hoe over there.....

and esp in the 20s its......"Take this pizza and hard dick." who needs to date when that s all they expect/demand.
 
Women shouldn't be as rude as they are to men if they aren't feeling them

I understand not all women are like that but she needs to blame her fellow female counterparts as well
 
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I have had women tell me the same that she can open the door herself her arms ain't broke. I just shrug it off and laugh and I make sure that I never attempt to open another door for her. you have to realize even though she might have stopped you from assisting her, in the back of her mind she knows that you are that gentleman.

:yes::yes::yes: it's like they want to tell their friends, "he's weird... trying to hold my door open like i'm crippled," but when they tell their moms what happened, moms be like, :hmm:.

i'll tell you what has increased my pussy rate tho...

when i go out with my lady (CELL PHONES LEFT IN THE CAR), younger broads be looking at how i hold her door open, pull out her chair, smile, ACTUALLY TALK AND HOLD A CONVERSATION WITH HER, hold her hand, touch her face, etc. one broad even said, "y'all look like y'all REALLY love each other."

well, what i do is double back alone to those same spots and you'd be surprised at how many of them remember me as, "that romantic guy." one just walked up and asked for my number without me saying a word.

I'll tell a bitch no with the quickness.

i'm not talking just about fucking tho.

these broads don't wanna hear, "no" to NOTHING. it's like they expect, "yes," to EVERY fucking request they make, and if you say no...

pussy is off the table.
mouth is stuck out, poked out.
arms crossed
mean mugging, etc.

i call it the, "princess syndrome."

What was your sister's response to your cousins post? (If any)

she went defensive QUICK... making posts about how nice she is, how she's not a demanding bitch, how she's easy to get along with, etc.

i'm her brother, and i'm telling you... ain't nobody buying that shit. my sister is a crazy, demanding, never-satisfied, "ain't no nicca good enough for me" whiny bitch about 75% of the time.

everybody knows why she's looking for hubby #3 at 48 yrs old.
 
when i go out with my lady (CELL PHONES LEFT IN THE CAR), younger broads be looking at how i hold her door open, pull out her chair, smile, ACTUALLY TALK AND HOLD A CONVERSATION WITH HER, hold her hand, touch her face, etc. one broad even said, "y'all look like y'all REALLY love each other."

well, what i do is double back alone to those same spots and you'd be surprised at how many of them remember me as, "that romantic guy." one just walked up and asked for my number without me saying a word.

:smh: No no no! Damn bruh not the double back!! I didn't need to read that ugh...

And it's about to be spring too?? :smh:
 
:confused:

2 diff pictures painted here...one where a dude didn't step to you after an exchange of smiles and another where cats might've been a lil too forward...I thought you was gonna expand on the first scenario

ok here is a specific example for u :)

i been taking my dog outside...see a guy looking...i smile...he smiles....more looking...then thats it...i keep it moving:confused:

does that scenario help clarify?
 
man these hoes want to subsribe to feminist principles then go batshit crazy when dudes give it to them

this is the perfect example of having your cake but wanting to eat it too

This...the real problem with women these days is somewhere along the line Men actually listened to them.
 
Women shouldn't be as rude as they are to men if they aren't feeling them

I understand not all women are like that but she needs to blame her fellow female counterparts as well

women are only comfortable with advances from men that THEY FEEL are worthy of approaching them.

it's like this...

as a man, you should ALREADY know your league, and by reading her mind, you should already know that you should NEVER approach her... bc you're not her type.

:lol: when they wear the low cut dress, the pervert is the guy that THEY don't find attractive. the guy they like can look away as she smiles; she wore the dress JUST for him.

i guess they don't know men... bc ALL of us (that like pussy) are going to look. :yes:
 
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