A few things:
This is a parenting issue and your friend seems to be one of those laid back easy going hippie type wanna be their kids friend type parents. She's clueless because she "trusts" her daughter and her judgement. Just pure cluelessness and adopting teenage logic.
Another thing where's the dad? Is he down with this "open" type of parenting style or philosophy?
As far as the kid of course this could just be a childhood phase or just part of the kids personality and learning process. She is certainly not judgmental and probably really wants to support the gay agenda. The real question is why? That will take a discussion and a sit down with the kid from an older wiser parent and not just her buddy or homegirl who will just be a trusting yes man for whatever she wants.
And the whole gay issue or gay agenda just in the last few years I mean less than a decade has taken off like gangbusters. No need to be overly fearful or overly emotional or too reactionary but the whole gay thing is just bananas right now. This isn't homophobia or gay bashing. But the gay issue and agenda will just keep growing and growing and creeping into grade schools and genderless bathrooms and all kinds of craziness. And if you say a couple words about it then YOU are now the bad guy.
So we have child rearing and parenting styles, the gay agenda and a curious and enthusiastic teenager. It all begins with the parent. The kid could be going in one or more of several directions but if moms is clueless that just compounds matters.
Good points.
She is divorced from the father of her daughter, she lives on the west coast and he lives on the east coast. She moved a year ago..going to marry her high school sweetheart she reunited with.
She's not a "hippie, I'm your friend type", but more like those Christian type sistas who don't go to church, but always talking about God and how "God is good"...she always makes things better than they seem with her kid and her family, but she is quick to talk about what other people should be doing with their kids.
How she has let her kid watch Netflix, etc. with no fucking supervision, didn't know that her child was watching "orange is the new black" and anybody who watches that knows it lesbian soft porn!
I had to school her on that a few months ago and she came back and made it now seem like her daughter hadn't watched those many episodes. Yeah right.
Im concerned because she is my Goddaughter and I want the best for her. She is being influenced and her mama needs to wake up. If she really is a lesbian, there won't be any stopping it, but her mama needs to be REAL with her daughter.
She told me all this inflammatory shit and asked for my opinion, now she is acting like it didn't happen.
I told her her that she should not align herself with a group where she is not one of those groups (LGBT). I told her that she can support gays by being nice to them, etc. Who the fuck would join a gay group and they aren't gay!
My friend is acting like none of it happened.
