Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Indeed. And not being so openly thirsty can make a woman attractive to a higher quality of man.

Bruh with most of us here - not coming on to us at all is the best way to get our attention(especially me). Just fucking TALK to me like i'm a person. Talk to me like if we have the same interest. Just talk. Don't try to holla. Don't talk about what i look like. Just be a person.

Yes!!
My heart sinks a little every time I hear someone say or put across that a woman's power is in her pussy. No. That just makes you worth no more than how well you perform sex acts and makes you disposable.
Just as I try to tell men that there is value in learning how to relate to women in a non-sexual way, there is equal value for women in knowing how to talk to men.

UNFORTUNATELY. This is 1 of the biggest things i fight with young ones. That that's where their power is as a woman. And that because they exist they should GET things.



That is sound advice is you're looking to attractive dumb or insecure men who need to feel superior to their woman.
If that's what you want, knock yourself out.

I don't know about "constantly". At some point, I think I've earned the respect to not be challenged at every turn. That shit ain't cute either.

I think that goes into what you consider a challenge. Challenging isn't necessarily combative. It means challenging ideas. It means pushing ideas. It means helping you stay the course.

The saying comes from just what I was saying: constantly challenging your man. Most husbands just want to have a nice life with a happy wife. But if that wife is always challenging you and making everything a battle of wills, you're going to run him off. There's ways to speak your opinion and not be challenging.
You're right, you can't take it away from him (not most men) so when he feels like he's losing too much, he's gone.

Most husbands. Aren't our husband. Our husband and the men we know aren't most men either.

My bar for husband is very rarely someone else's bar. Let a man be a man is ridiculous to me and it was ridiculous to mine because a man, And ADULT. Doesn't let what a woman says dictate to him his actions. Just as i as an an adult... won't let what a man says dictate mine.

It doesn't make sense. Even if i was contentious towards him, he's an adult. He makes his own decisions. I don't do anything to him he doesn't allow. I can't LET him be what he is. If he doesn't like my contentiousness he would leave(if i was so). Because he's an adult. So we agree.

Again there's more ways to challenge than to be combative.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Bruh with most of us here - not coming on to us at all is the best way to get our attention(especially me). Just fucking TALK to me like i'm a person. Talk to me like if we have the same interest. Just talk. Don't try to holla. Don't talk about what i look like. Just be a person.

That has been my style from the beginning and it has always worked. But it's hard to get other guys to try that approach. I think it's a confidence thing.

UNFORTUNATELY. This is 1 of the biggest things i fight with young ones. That that's where their power is as a woman. And that because they exist they should GET things.

Well keep fighting that battle. There are a lot of men and women telling them the opposite and setting them up for failure.

I think that goes into what you consider a challenge. Challenging isn't necessarily combative. It means challenging ideas. It means pushing ideas. It means helping you stay the course.




Most husbands. Aren't our husband. Our husband and the men we know aren't most men either.

My bar for husband is very rarely someone else's bar. Let a man be a man is ridiculous to me and it was ridiculous to mine because a man, And ADULT. Doesn't let what a woman says dictate to him his actions. Just as i as an an adult... won't let what a man says dictate mine.

It doesn't make sense. Even if i was contentious towards him, he's an adult. He makes his own decisions. I don't do anything to him he doesn't allow. I can't LET him be what he is. If he doesn't like my contentiousness he would leave(if i was so). Because he's an adult. So we agree.

Again there's more ways to challenge than to be combative.

Of course and there is an individual and subjective aspect to it.
To me, the phrase is meant as a cautionary one to women because when a man feels like he's not the man in his home (depending on his pain threshold), he'll go be the man of another home. We don't build up homes for our families to feel safe and secure only to not have that same security for ourselves.
A lot of women don't know the difference between being challenging and being combative or contentious.

I know Larry Stroman didn't draw that, did he?

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OMG, he did and I found more.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

That has been my style from the beginning and it has always worked. But it's hard to get other guys to try that approach. I think it's a confidence thing.

It's not a think bout it, lol that's a definite. That's a positively absolutely DEFINITE. It's about confidence.

Assuredly. In your self. Just like dudes talk about women who have low self esteem. And they hide it with whatever. Attitude. Un-Approachability. Men have it the same way.

Men Who have CONFIDENCE.
MEN WHO HAVE THEMSELVES TOGETHER.
MEN WHO AREN'T MISOGYNIST.
MEN WHO DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT ANOTHER THINKS.
And last of all. Men who see PEOPLE. Not just things they can put their dick in.

Men need to be more of that instead of what they currently are. Thank you for pointing that out too. Confidence. And lot more

Well keep fighting that battle. There are a lot of men and women telling them the opposite and setting them up for failure.

What it is Davey is that there's so many of us who've been dropped in that bucket of thinking

And it just gets carried on and on and on generation to generation. How we are as black americans is a generational TEACHING that's happened.

It's the product of the fuckery. And plus sometimes people get beaten up so early and often in life that all they THINK they are IS their genitals.

Of course and there is an individual and subjective aspect to it.
To me, the phrase is meant as a cautionary one to women because when a man feels like he's not the man in his home (depending on his pain threshold), he'll go be the man of another home. We don't build up homes for our families to feel safe and secure only to not have that same security for ourselves.
A lot of women don't know the difference between being challenging and being combative or contentious.

lol i think this is solely about the mate you pick. If you are of right mindedness or if we went back to the days when the elders picked our spouses

None of this would be an issue.

Dat shit don't just pop up. That shit was there before u got with them and your ass just didn't pay it no never mind

 

[Upgrade Dave]

It's not a think bout it, lol that's a definite. That's a positively absolutely DEFINITE. It's about confidence.

Assuredly. In your self. Just like dudes talk about women who have low self esteem. And they hide it with whatever. Attitude. Un-Approachability. Men have it the same way.

Men Who have CONFIDENCE.
MEN WHO HAVE THEMSELVES TOGETHER.
MEN WHO AREN'T MISOGYNIST.
MEN WHO DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT ANOTHER THINKS.
And last of all. Men who see PEOPLE. Not just things they can put their dick in.

Men need to be more of that instead of what they currently are. Thank you for pointing that out too. Confidence. And lot more

What it is Davey is that there's so many of us who've been dropped in that bucket of thinking

And it just gets carried on and on and on generation to generation. How we are as black americans is a generational TEACHING that's happened.

It's the product of the fuckery. And plus sometimes people get beaten up so early and often in life that all they THINK they are IS their genitals.

lol i think this is solely about the mate you pick. If you are of right mindedness or if we went back to the days when the elders picked our spouses

None of this would be an issue.

Dat shit don't just pop up. That shit was there before u got with them and your ass just didn't pay it no never mind [/QUOTE]

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Yes that's Larry Stroman. And i had forgotten all about that book until i was looking through blacksuperheroes.com. As you can tell my country ass wife has decided to respond to you instead of letting me handle my own damn conversation.

 

[LoneStar29]

As you can tell my country ass wife has decided to respond to you instead of letting me handle my own damn conversation.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Yes that's Larry Stroman. And i had forgotten all about that book until i was looking through blacksuperheroes.com. As you can tell my country ass wife has decided to respond to you instead of letting me handle my own damn conversation.

You can't tame those people.

They (we) are just built like that.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

lmaooo those people indeed.

 

[dHustla]

1.

Western civilizations are spending way to much time on trying to figure out romantic relationships between the genders.

What happened to writing some poetry and moving on?

Oh yeah, society is is so dumbed down and lacking the facilities of expression, they are unable to do more than post their business on social media and call in to morning talk shows to ask the most gormless of questions they already know the answers to.

2.




Bassakwards.

Considering most women have offspring, financial resource needs, insatiable fears and destructive insecurities I submit . . . men seeking companionship are forced to give THEMSELVES up to be absorbed into such a situation.

3.

What is intelligence, what makes you smart? It would seem for the purpose of this article it is connected to career, yes.

A career does not make you intelligent, nor does it make you anymore deserving of anything.

Man... if this ain't the muhfucking TRUTH!

I been seriously thinking about writing a book! I ain't even bullshittin, maybe 2 different books.