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How many don't communicate with their parents?

don't talk to pops at all found out he wasn't claiming me and my lil sister to get ass at his job i don't have the heart to tell her then i needed him to help me with my kids when they mom was neglecting them and i was homeless he took her side and my daughter almost died fuck him, my uncle is my father now
 
nawlinsn931 said:
don't talk to pops at all found out he wasn't claiming me and my lil sister to get ass at his job i don't have the heart to tell her then i needed him to help me with my kids when they mom was neglecting them and i was homeless he took her side and my daughter almost died fuck him, my uncle is my father now
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sound like your uncle always was.....
 
tallblacknyc said:
i wasn't gonna say anything juss let this thread go longer and longer..most behavior patterns can be explain if u dig deep enuff..i was juss trying peep names and responses and be like yep knew such and such would reply like dat lol.. as for me spoke to mother today as for father in 3 months will be 10 yrs since i spoke to that guy :mike::mike::mike: fukkkkkkkkkkkk him
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The red contradicts the blue in my humble opinion.
 
I don't try to control threads but before I let anyone come in here and try to shit on people, I'll delete it. Yeah it explains a lot about some people, but don't try to throw jabs at people. This is some sensitive shit in here and if you don't like it...So what.

Some people get shitted on here because yall be fucking with people.
 
largebillsonlyplease said:
damn this is kind of sad. im sorry for all the bad relationships people have had with their parents.

My dad was perfect in my own eyes. He's gone and i will never get over it. Things he did that i didn't care about showed me just how much he loved me I'm eternally grateful and its the standard for me as to what a father and husband should be.


My Mom she calls me all the time. For whatever reason 2 minutes on the phone with my mom feels like 25 minutes. I always take the call though. I see her all the time and I give her anything and everything she wants. All she has to do is ask and its done. She drives me crazy at times but then i realize she's my mom she's supposed to. The same woman who took care of me who supported me who believed in me and still does, who showed me how a woman should be and who has always given me wonderful advice

the least i can do is everything in my power to make sure the rest of her life is nothing but going shopping, sewing with her sisters, going out to eat, and traveling back and forth from cali to louisiana anytime she feels like it
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I feel the same way about my father. His death hit me hard. He was the hardest working person I ever met. After working his union job during the day, he would go straight to a minimum wage temp job. Come home at midnight and be up at 4 a.m. to do it again. Never once complained.

I feel you on that short conversation feeling like a long time.
 
Lola said:
I'm sorry your mom disowned you, but what could be that bad to make a mother stop loving her child?

:smh::(
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lola, I think its better not to disclose details on the forum.
My mother just has some latent anger from her youth, that is far as I'm going with it.
What used to be a wound for me became then a scar, now just a mark.
I learned/evolved to accept people for who they are.
I harbor no ill will towards my mom.
 
bigirl said:
My real father is dead, never met real mother and the people who raised me a real set of cunts and do not have any contact with them whatsoever. When my dad was still here we hung out as much as possible. He was mad cool. I see no reason to expose myself to these horrid people who raise me.
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Sorry about that boo, but seems like you turned out okay anyway. :)

At least you did get to spend some time with your dad.
 
I was gonna chime in with my own story buuuuut, I see where some of these responses are going. All the oh that why dudes on here are like they are blah blah blah.

I'll just say thanks coco for making the thread.
 
ljinsane said:
I was gonna chime in with my own story buuuuut, I see where some of these responses are going. All the oh that why dudes on here are like they are blah blah blah.

I'll just say thanks coco for making the thread.
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That's why I almost deleted but made the little disclaimer.

And you're welcome because I thought it would be a sensitive subject, so I was hesitant, but I refuse to make light of people's situation to make myself look better.
 
Talk to my Moms pretty much everyday. As for my father, basically when i see him at family gatherings. Or we call each other on birthdays, but thats about it.
 
My father passed some years ago and I talk to my mom every few days. Sometimes 3 times a day depending on what's going on. If I didn't have my mother in my life I'd crumble.
 
ljinsane said:
I was gonna chime in with my own story buuuuut, I see where some of these responses are going. All the oh that why dudes on here are like they are blah blah blah.

I'll just say thanks coco for making the thread.
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This^^^ It's judgefest Twenty13 up in here.. :lol:
 
POSTERBOY said:
The red contradicts the blue in my humble opinion.
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it dosen't cause i have nothing but love for my mother..she is a god in my eyes..a lot of things dat i do to dis day are cause of her..(not drinking, not smoking, no drugs), always wearing protection, doing good deeds for people(especially for da needy), not bowing down or kissing anybodys ass, questioning shit when it sounds suspect no matter where da info comes from, loving blood over everything, making females spoil me or show me that they appreciate my presence, always trying to improve myself or situation, having confidence in myself and abilities, being a leader and not a follower, plus my mom was a clown and mad easy going(which really rubbed up off on me), man i can go on for days the shit that was installed in me by my mother.. if u notice u never hear me bashing allll black woman or talk about relationship problems or juss straight talking negative about woman in general... my father is a dick mosttttt people would agree on dat..he isn't my role model my mother and older brother is so there that go
 
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Interesting thread, coco

Longest I've gone without speaking to my mother is probably around 2 years, multiple times. Its an off and on thing. We were never close.

I don't talk to her now, well only about certain business (but I'm bout to cut that).

I do better when I have no contact with her.

I don't have a father.
 
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cocobeauty said:
wow I guess it is "normal" but I wonder what causes a parent that has raised a child to part with them?


I guess different personalities and views. :dunno:
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Not every parent "raises" their child(ren). Often I find that bonds were never formed correctly or were corrupted very early.

What constitutes "raising"? Providing food, clothes, & shelter? Showing & instilling love, respect, & affection?

Imagine how many go without.
 
Jay-Vill said:
You only get one mother.
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You know what.....

For years I didn't understand what this meant when people said it, until maybe a year or 2 ago... but not everyone's mother is motherly :dunno:

You only get one mother, but you also only get one life and you asked for neither.

You may not be able to choose your mother (or any fam), but you can choose who you deal with and how you deal with them
 
drbangcock said:
Maybe once every 3 months... we live in the same city... When I left home and was on my own I realized that I dont need them. They did their duty as parents, I had a great childhood. They raised me to be independent and I am. I do love them. Really anytime I spend with them is for them not me.
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Do you enjoy spending time with them?
How is your interaction with them?

Do you cherish your relationship with them?
 
cocobeauty said:
I have a two first cousins and they haven't talked to their mom in almost 2 years, they talk to the dad but it's like the mom don't exist. My mom has tried has to find out what's the issue but no one is saying anything. I told her to stop trying that's that family's business.


Well now the dad is sick and I think they should put their differences aside and go help my aunt but my my mom and other aunt is instead.


What's the longest you gone without talking to a parent? For me a week, because she took my sister side on something, but I was missing my mom's voice too much.

Is not talking to your parents normal?
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When my dad was alive we talked all the time about sports or my bad ass kids. One time my dad, brother and me got into a one hour argument about who was the second best basketball play by play man, Gus Johnson or Mike Breen. Yeah, we're weird like that.

I speak and see my mother about once a week. She can't drive so my brother and I check up on her regularly. My barbershop is 3 blocks away from her so it's easy to just swing by after a cut. I'll usually have my son with me and he's her favorite. My daughter runs her ragged. :D

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Have no relationship with moms, communicate with my father on a daily basis.

Sent from my LG Nexus 4 using Tapatalk 2.
 
cocobeauty said:
I don't try to control threads but before I let anyone come in here and try to shit on people, I'll delete it. Yeah it explains a lot about some people, but don't try to throw jabs at people. This is some sensitive shit in here and if you don't like it...So what.

Some people get shitted on here because yall be fucking with people.
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GOD bless you, lady
 
largebillsonlyplease said:
im saying dna dont make the father.

do i need to post the shaq song????
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what shaq song?




max-dawg said:
dna might not make the father, but when he dies, there will be some major misunderstandings about his $$$ & property.
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I don't understand this post? :confused:

When the father dies or uncle dies?

Why would there be misunderstandings about a deceased man's money & property? :confused:

And what does that have to do with Nawlins not talking to him?
 
Dhustla said:
Not every parent "raises" their child(ren). Often I find that bonds were never formed correctly or were corrupted very early.

What constitutes "raising"? Providing food, clothes, & shelter? Showing & instilling love, respect, & affection?

Imagine how many go without.
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I see your point....
 
some real shit in here.

I communicate with my people a couple of times a week. My fam has an interesting relationship with each other. No beef at all. We are all just trying to survive life.
 
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