BGOL,Am I Overreacting?

[manVzone]

Should I cut this bitch ass nigga off or what?

Ok,I got this nigga Steve
whom sorta is like a best friend,but he does some crazy wierd shit from time to time,that makes me question his realness which im not gonna get into all of it right now,but ima get in on this shyt that happened last night

Past 3 months,this nigga been slowing me down
Lazy,makes excuses not to move up in life,crazy dependent on me to drive him EVERYWHERE,I take his ass to work everyday
Of course,he providing gas money,but should have had a reliable car by now

This nigga CANT learn,He stays on the young hoes(18-24)
I cant be near him when we out,dont want that bs to rub off on me
Im telling this nigga to move to ATL/HOU,or NY with me,He wanna stay where his dusty ass been roaming for the past 28 years
(Memphis)

Basically,not giving up that early adulthood era(We both 28)

Anyway,He says he got TWO girls for both of us later that night
As you know,this nigga would fuck anything and he needs transportation to do so,
Im like,HE told me the girls know ME and HIM are coming
So there should be no "GOTCHA MOMENTS" as the great Judge Belvin Perry used to say

We pull up to the ratchets den,instead of telling me to park in this huge driveway or side of the street NEAR the crib,He tells me to park four houses down from where they live,Im like wtf?

He wants me to stay in the car first,and then he would txt msg me to come in
Im like WHY would we have to do that,the HOES know we both coming,as you say!!!
So fucking wierd and reality didnt sink in till he slammed my car door
He's been in there for 30 mins,while Im sitting in the car horny aza bulldog.........Im constantly txt msg him,He keeps trying to stall me,telling me to STAY COOL

And it came to me,this double fag bitch USED me to bring his ass over to one of his jumpoffs(which is a lengthy drive,30 mins)
So he could fuck ONE bitch,there wasnt never TWO bitches in there
Masterplan was to have me sit in my own car like a bitch while he fuck,He would come back to the car,making excuses to leave immediately

BGOL,the writing was clearly on the windshield
I had to use my auto shield to shoot clean that shit off

I txt msg him on his bullshit,and told him i was gone and have him find a ride back home
Guess what? This nigga took his sweet ass time to even respond back on that,I guess he was caught up in that good puzzzay!!!

So str8 up left his ass and decided to do other shit
Oh yeah,he's blowing my phone for sure right now
The bitch musta told his ass he gtg,his ass walking,freezing cold 2am
Crying,telling me to pick him up,I said HELLA NO!!!!
He wanted me to talk to his girl but
i already know he prepped her to say some shit so he can get picked up

Baasically throughout the convo,Im poking holes in his story
He not as smooth and witty when the pressure is ON!!!!!!!
He says Im not real,blah blah blah
"You should pick me up not about this issue but bcuz of my saftey,I could get robbed or killed!!!"

Nigga,aint nobody want that City Gear azz chinchula

But i gave in on that,cant leave this monkey out there in SOUTH MEMPHIS of all places walking in the cold,dead celly,plus i wanted to believe I was WRONG
Had to give to him raw

told him I was at IHOP ordering a meal,and he has to wait till im finished before i even come to pick him up,send me the address wherever you at right now and STAY THERE!!!!
After i drop you off,we are done in all phases

So real quick ending here,after i chowdown,I run the streets to find his ass,he not at the address he prescribed to me,I retrace,go to the jumpoff's house
Im like "Do you know where Steve is",she like nAh
(she never opened the door,we talking through the mail drop)
then i asked her the deal on tonight,she was reluctant to tell me till i squeezed it,she told me there was never another girl,and he told her to say some shit so he can get picked up

I wanted to be wrong,but as always,Im right
I just went home,fuck him

(he aiight tho,he blowing up my shit right now in the mawnin' and i aint answering)

Whats my OVERREACTION meter looking like?
Am i wrong for not putting extra effort to pick him up?
Its not the pussy thing that got me,I can get pussy by myself
but the ill way he did it to cleary USE me

BGOL,whats up???

 

[doggish_098]

how you going to cut your boy off. you suppose to accept your friends for who they are.


unless you two are in a relationship there is no way another adult can slow you down from getting where you want to get.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Some Tobias shit going on.

 

[Famous1]

get a grip nigga... you damn near 30 yers old... stop riding around with steve and pick up stephanie....

btw...this may not end well for you... just sayin'

 

[Jae]

how you going to cut your boy off. you suppose to accept your friends for who they are.

BS

Your "boy" let you know what he thinks of your ass.
Had this dude up in the car freezing his ass off while he getting some on the low, and on top of that, lied about that sht.
I wish a MF'er would.

 

[JimJones]

I knew a cat that did this shit while i was in the military, this mofo told the brothers it was going to be a party at this chicks house that lived damn near an hour from the base, they get there and he go inside and come back out and say they canceled the party but he going to stay anyway. When they came back to the barracks they got clowned because dude was notorious for doing shit like that. I kid you not, dude would ask to borrow you car to run to the exchange and you would not see your car until Sunday evening and this was before cell phones, we only had pagers then...

as far as your reaction, your boy is bitch made and you have to ask yourself how you have a patna so bitch made and if others see you and him as one in the same,,,

 

[J.E.T.S]

Oooohhhhh he said monnnkkkeeeeyyyyy....

But... I grew up in South Memphis nigga

Sent Collect from the Fulton County Correctional Facility using pay phone.

 

[UptempoDro]

But i gave in on that,cant leave this monkey out there in SOUTH MEMPHIS

stopped giving a fuck about the whole situation right @ this sentence.

 

[william busa]

Dude wasn't never your "boy" to begin with.

You wasn't his friend, you was a tool he used when he needed to.

You was a means to an end, a way to get what HE needed without giving a fuck about you

That's some shit you shouldn't even have to ask about.

Lesson learned....

 

[Cock Head Jones]

Hoping the op is a woman

 

[sammyjax]

all my potnas whipped up tho. quit fuckin with broke niggas, that shit is a fucking no no.

 

[sammyjax]

Hoping the op is a woman

kinda sorta

 

[LSN]

You decent...takes one time only to piss me off forever...once I pieced together what was happening @ that girl crib I woulda left...no text no warning no nothing...not responding to his texts...nor his phone calls...only way that nigga would be able to contact me again is if he came looking for me...and if I see him I'm assuming he's gonna be hostile and will be prepared for that...and why you as a grown man are encouraging another grown ass man to move outta town w/ you??? Handle yours and fuck that nigga...no need for y'all to be holding each others hands like that...but I almost fought a coworker/friend (this was back in NYC) behind similar shit...used to pick him up and give him a ride to the job site...young brother tryna do his thing...car broke down...didn't wanna risk getting fired needed my help...so I could respect that...mind you I had to drive pass the job site to pick him up...as long as he was on time tho no problem...but anyway it got to a point where I had to honk the horn and shit and this nigga wasn't coming out til like 10 minutes later and shit...made me late to work once...so the next time this nigga had me in the car for like 15 min...I said fuck it and bounced...didn't answer his texts nothing...so he came into work late and made a beeline to me but I was already souping myself up to deal w/ this nigga so as soon as he said some slick shit I barked on him and squared up...he squared up too but he didn't make a move so we just both talked shit til cats separated us...but fuck that nigga and any nigga that try to use you...that nigga ain't ya friend...that is some HIGHLY disrespectful shit...he had you sitting in the car like his good little bitch and I'm not saying that to play you cuz that's how I felt when that nigga was taking his sweet time to get ready for work...maybe I'm overreacting...but that is not some shit you do to a friend...that's some shit deserving of an asswhooping almost...end rant

 

[POSTERBOY]

*waits for the "Steve" spin off"

 

[II Dxnum]

Dude wasn't never your "boy" to begin with.

You wasn't his friend, you was a tool he used when he needed to.

You was a means to an end, a way to get what HE needed without giving a fuck about you

That's some shit you shouldn't even have to ask about.

Lesson learned....

This right here.

 

[LSN]

*waits for the "Steve" spin off"

 

[sharkbait28]

Should I cut this bitch ass nigga off or what?

Ok,I got this nigga Steve
whom sorta is like a best friend,but he does some crazy wierd shit from time to time,that makes me question his realness which im not gonna get into all of it right now,but ima get in on this shyt that happened last night

Past 3 months,this nigga been slowing me down
Lazy,makes excuses not to move up in life,crazy dependent on me to drive him EVERYWHERE,I take his ass to work everyday
Of course,he providing gas money,but should have had a reliable car by now

This nigga CANT learn,He stays on the young hoes(18-24)
I cant be near him when we out,dont want that bs to rub off on me
Im telling this nigga to move to ATL/HOU,or NY with me,He wanna stay where his dusty ass been roaming for the past 28 years
(Memphis)

Basically,not giving up that early adulthood era(We both 28)

Anyway,....................................................................................................................................................................

 

[ScottyPiffen745]

Ain't no damn way I'm readin' all that shit.

If you gotta type all that shit about him, you probably already know you gotta cut the nigga off.

 

[2nd2none]

Don't take this the wrong way or nothing but in that dudes eye u was bitch. Steve got to go see his baby mama, don't worry I got ur punk ass to get him there. This dude is not on ur team he is out for him and him alone from what u just told us. Think back on the other shit he did. Did u check him on that? Nope! U let it ride cause that was your people. But this dude knew u weren't going to say shit so he gong to keep u fuckin u over cause there will be no ramifications for it. Also if u trying to move up n the world how is this dude stopping u? Move up don't be side line with this dude. U need to get people around u that has the same mind set as u. Cause on what u just posted right here, he ain't never going any in his life


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[manVzone]

how you going to cut your boy off. you suppose to accept your friends for who they are.


unless you two are in a relationship there is no way another adult can slow you down from getting where you want to get.

Nah,i didnt know he would steep this low
yes he is slowing me down,cause i dont fuck with many people
I like to do things alot ALONE,but if im ya boi
I will no doubt be there for you,help you anyway i can
you gotta help yourself though
kindness for weakness i guess

 

[II Dxnum]

and why you as a grown man are encouraging another grown ass man to move outta town w/ you???

That part stood out to me as well.

I checked out his thread history and found this thread:

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=679964

Which led to this youtube channel:

http://www.youtube.com/user/LeoDerix

Which led to this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJibl31SV0o

I'm guessing the steve in that video is the steve he is speaking of in here. It looks like they do music together, my guess is he's trying to get his "boy" to move with him to a bigger city so they make something happen with the music they're making.

At least I hope that's what it is...

 

[kain]

Dude wasn't never your "boy" to begin with.

You wasn't his friend, you was a tool he used when he needed to.

You was a means to an end, a way to get what HE needed without giving a fuck about you

That's some shit you shouldn't even have to ask about.

Lesson learned....

^^^Couldn't be said better.^^^

You had too much patience with him and he used your loyalty against you, plus he is a BIG ass liar.

The best murderers are good liars!!!!

 

[manVzone]

get a grip nigga... you damn near 30 yers old... stop riding around with steve and pick up stephanie....

btw...this may not end well for you... just sayin'

Sure

 

[LSN]

That part stood out to me as well.

I checked out his thread history and found this thread:

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=679964

Which led to this youtube channel:

http://www.youtube.com/user/LeoDerix

Which led to this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJibl31SV0o

I'm guessing the steve in that video is the steve he is speaking of in here. It looks like they do music together, my guess is he's trying to get his "boy" to move with him to a bigger city so they make something happen with the music they're making.

At least I hope that's what it is...

 

[2nd2none]

That part stood out to me as well.

I checked out his thread history and found this thread:

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=679964

Which led to this youtube channel:

http://www.youtube.com/user/LeoDerix

Which led to this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJibl31SV0o

I'm guessing the steve in that video is the steve he is speaking of in here. It looks like they do music together, my guess is he's trying to get his "boy" to move with him to a bigger city so they make something happen with the music they're making.

At least I hope that's what it is...

CSI is on over watch


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[manVzone]

Oooohhhhh he said monnnkkkeeeeyyyyy....

But... I grew up in South Memphis nigga

Sent Collect from the Fulton County Correctional Facility using pay phone.

Aiight,you need to read more clearly

As for monkey,not tryna go that deep but
this dude really looks like monkey

And no,i didnt grew up in SM,only in Whitehaven
the chick's crib was in South Memphis,he was stranded there

up n'down hairline ass nigga

 

[phanatic]

It's not his fault, it's YOURS. Stop allowing this dude to use you and the problem will eliminate itself...either he'll cut his shit or cut out. You win either way.

 

[manVzone]

Oooohhhhh he said monnnkkkeeeeyyyyy....

But... I grew up in South Memphis nigga

Sent Collect from the Fulton County Correctional Facility using pay phone.

Aiight,you need to read more clearly

As for monkey,not tryna go that deep but
this dude really looks like monkey

And no,i didnt grew up in SM,only in Whitehaven
the chick's crib was in South Memphis,he was stranded there

up n'down hairline ass nigga

 

[manVzone]

Dude wasn't never your "boy" to begin with.

You wasn't his friend, you was a tool he used when he needed to.

You was a means to an end, a way to get what HE needed without giving a fuck about you

That's some shit you shouldn't even have to ask about.

Lesson learned....

yup basically

I just wanted an opinion on it

 

[ScottyPiffen745]

That part stood out to me as well.

I checked out his thread history and found this thread:

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=679964

Which led to this youtube channel:

http://www.youtube.com/user/LeoDerix

Which led to this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJibl31SV0o

I'm guessing the steve in that video is the steve he is speaking of in here. It looks like they do music together, my guess is he's trying to get his "boy" to move with him to a bigger city so they make something happen with the music they're making.

At least I hope that's what it is...

So basically the OP's the big nigga singin' La La La and shit

Niggas...

 

[KnownUnknown]

For a long time I never fathomed rolling solo to places, cause I'm a ppl person. But shit like what the OP said and waiting on motherfuckers to get ready is why I've been doing that for over a year now and loving it!

OP you "overreacted" in the sense that you're clearly upset. Naa, I stopped getting upset. Everyone gets one chance to fuck me over. I stay calm as fuck and make a mental note. Your "boy" would never hear from me again.

On another note tho, you should take another lesson from it. You should review yourself and what makes a seeming bum think he can play YOU? Def a learning moment.


Sent from my Cerebrum.

 

[Mo-Better]

What overreaction meter you talking about. Your shits broke.

 

[manVzone]

You decent...takes one time only to piss me off forever...once I pieced together what was happening @ that girl crib I woulda left...no text no warning no nothing...not responding to his texts...nor his phone calls...only way that nigga would be able to contact me again is if he came looking for me...and if I see him I'm assuming he's gonna be hostile and will be prepared for that...and why you as a grown man are encouraging another grown ass man to move outta town w/ you??? Handle yours and fuck that nigga...no need for y'all to be holding each others hands like that...but I almost fought a coworker/friend (this was back in NYC) behind similar shit...used to pick him up and give him a ride to the job site...young brother tryna do his thing...car broke down...didn't wanna risk getting fired needed my help...so I could respect that...mind you I had to drive pass the job site to pick him up...as long as he was on time tho no problem...but anyway it got to a point where I had to honk the horn and shit and this nigga wasn't coming out til like 10 minutes later and shit...made me late to work once...so the next time this nigga had me in the car for like 15 min...I said fuck it and bounced...didn't answer his texts nothing...so he came into work late and made a beeline to me but I was already souping myself up to deal w/ this nigga so as soon as he said some slick shit I barked on him and squared up...he squared up too but he didn't make a move so we just both talked shit til cats separated us...but fuck that nigga and any nigga that try to use you...that nigga ain't ya friend...that is some HIGHLY disrespectful shit...he had you sitting in the car like his good little bitch and I'm not saying that to play you cuz that's how I felt when that nigga was taking his sweet time to get ready for work...maybe I'm overreacting...but that is not some shit you do to a friend...that's some shit deserving of an asswhooping almost...end rant

It aint about holding hands,I was just trying to show him life OUTSIDE of Memphis which he never left
Im recently divorced,in school,job,working out,etc
my day is pretty busy
Only reason im back in the M,cuz im rebuilding my life after a nasty divorce

erthang else u said

 

[LSN]

It aint about holding hands,I was just trying to show him life OUTSIDE of Memphis which he never left

Leading a horse to water...been there done that

 

[Count23]

That part stood out to me as well.

I checked out his thread history and found this thread:

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=679964

Which led to this youtube channel:

http://www.youtube.com/user/LeoDerix

Which led to this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJibl31SV0o

I'm guessing the steve in that video is the steve he is speaking of in here. It looks like they do music together, my guess is he's trying to get his "boy" to move with him to a bigger city so they make something happen with the music they're making.

At least I hope that's what it is...