To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go???

Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I'm going to say I'll do it tonight. But perhaps tomorrow I'm going to take the time and ready through all these post. I can front. My chick let herself go and its fucking me up big time. :smh:
What was she from tha beginning weight wise and what is she now???
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Nah man mine had already let herself go. :lol: :rolleyes:
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Nah man mine had already let herself go. :lol: :rolleyes:
So you came straight off tha lot with tha big body Precious model. :lol:


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Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

a year ago we were both fat, i had no room to talk then. got myself in shape, she tried, then fell off the wagon. i got in better shape and i look 23 again, so now i aint seen her eat in like 3 days.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

a year ago we were both fat, i had no room to talk then. got myself in shape, she tried, then fell off the wagon. i got in better shape and i look 23 again, so now i aint seen her eat in like 3 days.

:lol: :lol: all you hear from her is her stomach growling. :lol:
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

My wife has not let herself go as well. I think this is because of:

1. I am very vocal with what I like. When you see cats chicks get fat it didnt happen overnight. So you have to check that shit at like 10 lbs vs 40lbs.
2. I keep myself very fucking fit. A lot of cats complain about their chicks and beer belly having mofos themselves. You have to have your wife knowing that you can go out at any time and bag something. If she feels that eh..that fat fuck cant go to the club and bag anything anyway fuck it ice cream tonight.

You have to be very vocal with what you like and keep yourself.

Now this isnt going to be perfect for all but this is what I think has worked for me. Plus...you want a chick that has some vanity about her. That throw shit on/Comfortable bullshit must be checked.

Your chick has to understand that "going out" is going out of the house. Your out...you represent me and you...

My 0.02

i agree... to a point.

women know that other women might get attracted to you bc of how you look... but they also worry about other women approaching their man when he's in a nice car, has a good job, is groomed-up properly... and esp. how he interacts with his kids.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Been off and on with my woman for 2 years. Took her on a short hike when we first starting going out. I damn near had to have her airlifted of the mountain after 1/2 mile in. :smh: We haven't worked out together since. She's not fat but she damn sure isn't in shape. She's slim with a little extra fat around the stomach if you know what I mean. Funny thing is that she was like 30 lbs heavier when I met her. I didn't get with her until she dropped that weight though. It just happened to work out that way. Wasn't intentional. lol

My weight fluctuates. During the summer I drop like 20+ lbs each year. As winter approaches, I go the opposite direction. My ass is glued to the couch during football season. :(
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

absolutely
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

to be honest my girl is 5'8 145-50 she is bottom heavy so you can visually see where her weight goes, recently its been going to her tits tho :yes: so im all good. she gets her metabolism from her dad and dude is 50+ and weighs like 160-70. her mom is heavy and her lil sis is too so i see her mom genes seem to have skipped her. but my girl dislikes fat bitches and they are heavy in bmore (pun intended)

you gotta be a real man and set an example like a couple of posters said. my girl and i go on 2-3 mile walks. i help her do sit-ups and she does the same with me. these other niggas talkin bout lil wayne leading their love lives obviously are lonely because everyone gains weight with age. its just how u handle it as a couple.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

my girl had the perfect coke bottle shape she picked up some weight but i aint complaining. She started kick boxing and zumba so i have to give her an "A" for trying to keep it tight in return i got back on the p90x
 
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Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

My wife has not let herself go as well. I think this is because of:

1. I am very vocal with what I like. When you see cats chicks get fat it didnt happen overnight. So you have to check that shit at like 10 lbs vs 40lbs.
2. I keep myself very fucking fit. A lot of cats complain about their chicks and beer belly having mofos themselves. You have to have your wife knowing that you can go out at any time and bag something. If she feels that eh..that fat fuck cant go to the club and bag anything anyway fuck it ice cream tonight.

You have to be very vocal with what you like and keep yourself.

Now this isnt going to be perfect for all but this is what I think has worked for me. Plus...you want a chick that has some vanity about her. That throw shit on/Comfortable bullshit must be checked.

Your chick has to understand that "going out" is going out of the house. Your out...you represent me and you...

My 0.02



Reslly? Exactly how many times does she need to hear the shit? Can't any body go to the club and bag something? That's your level I guess. Work out with your girl is all that needs to be done.

If I was single it be too damn easy to bag y'all chicks because I swear y'all on some crazy shit.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Been off and on with my woman for 2 years. Took her on a short hike when we first starting going out. I damn near had to have her airlifted of the mountain after 1/2 mile in. :smh: We haven't worked out together since. She's not fat but she damn sure isn't in shape. She's slim with a little extra fat around the stomach if you know what I mean. Funny thing is that she was like 30 lbs heavier when I met her. I didn't get with her until she dropped that weight though. It just happened to work out that way. Wasn't intentional. lol

My weight fluctuates. During the summer I drop like 20+ lbs each year. As winter approaches, I go the opposite direction. My ass is glued to the couch during football season. :(

:dunno: maybe it was the altitude more than her physical well-being.

i'm from La...at sea level and below (in NOLa). when i go to cali to visit friends who live in the mountains, i have to lay down for a while to get used to the altitude.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Nope. She's had some fluctuations over the years especially early when we had a couple failed pregnancies (up to a size 12). But in the last few years she's been really working to keep her weight and shape together. She had gotten down to a size 2 but I think 5 is an easier size for her to maintain.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I got to cosign this, majority of the dudes commenting arent even in long term relationships.

I been dealing with this shit for years and tried everything. Im pretty fit myself but my wife never loses weight. She tries tho but it just doesnt happen. Honestly she was fat when we met 5'1" 170lbs went down to 150lbs when she caught some type of virus, stayed their a couple years then blew up to a lil more than 180lbs.

I was cool with it at first but now after bedding so many more fit chicks it pisses me off. Last night went out for a upscale dinner, i got really aggravated seeing all fit chicks i could be with instead of her.


damn, you ain't hold back.
to think, i'm paranoid about the wife lurking on here and finding some of my posts, lusting over pics/vids...i ain't touching this subject.
close this thread, cats is committing suicide:smh:
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

niggas with their online big talk,, this is 2012 and the usa.. these females aren't muslim women in the middle east.. all this no compromise my way or the high way talk just lets me know ur a no pussy getting eGeek trying to impress men online fronting like u a boss in ur home when u a single no pussy getting fucktard.. no real woman puts up with that nonsense.. relationships are give and take... niggas like u will be single forever:lol:

Come man fam, look at all the guys on here who are in their late 30's and 40's who brag about being single with no kids. You got these grown ass man still having to do their own laundry and cooking their own meals while spending their weekends alone talking shit online acting like that is cool. Now cooking and cleaning aren't the biggest tasks but I've had chics who weren't my mother or relative doing all that shit for me since my early twenties.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Come man fam, look at all the guys on here who are in their late 30's and 40's who brag about being single with no kids. You got these grown ass man still having to do their own laundry and cooking their own meals while spending their weekends alone talking shit online acting like that is cool. Now cooking and cleaning aren't the biggest tasks but I've had chics who weren't my mother or relative doing all that shit for me since my early twenties.

I know a guy who did that, mid 30's and he didn't like living that way at all. Somethings aren't very everyone. These guys are bitter and angry at life. But they're content to be that way. Because they can't be any other way.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Come man fam, look at all the guys on here who are in their late 30's and 40's who brag about being single with no kids. You got these grown ass man still having to do their own laundry and cooking their own meals while spending their weekends alone talking shit online acting like that is cool. Now cooking and cleaning aren't the biggest tasks but I've had chics who weren't my mother or relative doing all that shit for me since my early twenties.

Exactly, niggas be frontin like they single by choice. Bitches just don't want your ethug ass
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

i agree... to a point.

women know that other women might get attracted to you bc of how you look... but they also worry about other women approaching their man when he's in a nice car, has a good job, is groomed-up properly... and esp. how he interacts with his kids.

No shots max, but didn't FUCKYOU or somebody else post your picture and you were fat? I'm trying to understand why you would cosign that post.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

My wife is Korean so Fat is not in her DNA. Even after kids she went back to the same size in like 2 weeks. Only her stomach got a little bigger but went down mad quick. It's usually Mexican and White women who get that barrel shape after pregnancy unless they rich and got trainers or get lipo.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

to a certain extent, getting into a long term relationship of any kind tends to lend itself to being 'settled' or comfortable (default setting)

whereas getting/being in shape is about discomfort, denial, discipline...especially as time goes on

everybody is different...and its tough to keep the pounds off as we get older. as long as each party is clear about what they want for themselves (as well as each other) it can work...

letting yourself go is also a lack of consideration for your partner...both ways
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

My wife is Korean so Fat is not in her DNA. Even after kids she went back to the same size in like 2 weeks. Only her stomach got a little bigger but went down mad quick. It's usually Mexican and White women who get that barrel shape after pregnancy unless they rich and got trainers or get lipo.

Your wife weightless because she don't exist.

:lol:


Sorry couldn't resist.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Your wife weightless because she don't exist.

:lol:


Sorry couldn't resist.

:dunno: If you say so, but I don't know anybody who would lie about being married. If anything I'd sit around here like most of you niggas claiming to have 20 jump offs and freedom, not having a wife and kids. But if it makes you feel better. Aiight.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

:dunno: If you say so, but I don't know anybody who would lie about being married. If anything I'd sit around here like most of you niggas claiming to have 20 jump offs and freedom, not having a wife and kids. But if it makes you feel better. Aiight.

Didn't DaDon have an asian wife? :lol:
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

A few things:

The US has an abundance of fat lazy humans in general.

Thanks to the internet and social networks and all of these thirsty dudes out here these fat bitches think they are dimes. Look at facebook and tagged.

Most wealthy dudes don't fuck with fat bitches unless they met them before the dude got wealthy
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

A few things:

The US has an abundance of fat lazy humans in general.

Thanks to the internet and social networks and all of these thirsty dudes out here these fat bitches think they are dimes. Look at facebook and tagged.

Most wealthy dudes don't fuck with fat bitches unless they met them before the dude got wealthy

Wealthy dudes are and create environments that surrounds themself but nothing but the cream of the top women. Wealthy dudes ain't checking for tag for bitches.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

bump
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

to a certain extent, getting into a long term relationship of any kind tends to lend itself to being 'settled' or comfortable (default setting)

whereas getting/being in shape is about discomfort, denial, discipline...especially as time goes on

everybody is different...and its tough to keep the pounds off as we get older. as long as each party is clear about what they want for themselves (as well as each other) it can work...

letting yourself go is also a lack of consideration for your partner...both ways

Disagree to an extent. Letting yourself go has tons more to do with how you feel about your life, than your partner specifically.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Lyinh ass niggas in here
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Nah, my lady don't work out her genetics are great though. She still a 9 with her ol stanking MILF ass. I love that bitch, I really do.:smh:
 
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