To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go???

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Did you meet your wife/girl and they were in shape/decent shape and now years later they have gotten fat??How are you dealing with it and how long did it take for you to mention to them that they might need to accidentally fall on a tread mill???Did they try to lose tha weight or did they say you need to love them for who they are???
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

This is gonna be good.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

So you niggaz are ashamed of your significant others???
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Whats that beyonce song called again? Irreplaceable! Who says your wifey is like a beyonce song? Unless she your soul mate its a million pretty girls in my city alone that wont say no the moment wifey starts letting go :giggle:
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I let them go before they start to let they self go..cant stand looking at my chic getting fat..:smh:summ women just cant stand to work out for summ reason
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

My girl is pregnant now so I'm scared, don't know what I'll do if she don't bounce back.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I'm curious to know how many men have let themselves go as well, and no I am not trying to deflect the thread, but often times I find we often ask of things in a mate we're not willing to do ourselves.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

My girl is pregnant now so I'm scared, don't know what I'll do if she don't bounce back.

nah my wife is preggo and still a diva:smh: i wish she would let her self go tho.. if one more stranger(middle aged women) tells her shes pretty:smh::smh::smh: her head has gotten bigger over the last year:smh:
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I'm curious to know how many men have let themselves go as well, and no I am not trying to deflect the thread, but often times I find we often ask of things in a mate we're not willing to do ourselves.
I'm generally into my fitness shit.I haven't worked out in a good 6 months due to my schedule but that sense of get to tha gym is hitting me hard right now and i'm not even getting fat.
I'm single at tha moment but I won't deal with a chick long term thats not about their health and staying fit.
Whenever I'm out and I notice older couples in their late 50s and up to their 70s I can tell which one was hitting tha gym.I don't want to be damn near holding my wife up while we are walking.
That 70 year old fitness lady is how I want my wife to be.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

My wife has not let herself go as well. I think this is because of:

1. I am very vocal with what I like. When you see cats chicks get fat it didnt happen overnight. So you have to check that shit at like 10 lbs vs 40lbs.
2. I keep myself very fucking fit. A lot of cats complain about their chicks and beer belly having mofos themselves. You have to have your wife knowing that you can go out at any time and bag something. If she feels that eh..that fat fuck cant go to the club and bag anything anyway fuck it ice cream tonight.

You have to be very vocal with what you like and keep yourself.

Now this isnt going to be perfect for all but this is what I think has worked for me. Plus...you want a chick that has some vanity about her. That throw shit on/Comfortable bullshit must be checked.

Your chick has to understand that "going out" is going out of the house. Your out...you represent me and you...

My 0.02
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Sadly niggas and bitches will only do enough to stay in the race.

And as we all know it doesnt take a lot to stay in the rankings
as far as niggas are concerned cause niggas aim low. As long as
niggas aim low a bitches standards for herself wont be high.

Her standards for you will be high but for herself not so much.

But they get away with it so....fuck can you say or do.

Just dont settle cause she wouldnt if she were in your shoes.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

My girl is pregnant now so I'm scared, don't know what I'll do if she don't bounce back.

They can easily bounce back if they watch what they eat. During pregnacy as well as after.

There is no reason to fucking consume milkshakes and all that other bullshit "because" they are pregnant. Also dont fall for that craving shit. They will have it but that midnight run shit is bullshit. Told the mrs listen after 8pm I am not going a fucking place.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

My wife has not let herself go as well. I think this is because of:

1. I am very vocal with what I like. When you see cats chicks get fat it didnt happen overnight. So you have to check that shit at like 10 lbs vs 40lbs.
2. I keep myself very fucking fit. A lot of cats complain about their chicks and beer belly having mofos themselves. You have to have your wife knowing that you can go out at any time and bag something. If she feels that eh..that fat fuck cant go to the club and bag anything anyway fuck it ice cream tonight.

You have to be very vocal with what you like and keep yourself.

Now this isnt going to be perfect for all but this is what I think has worked for me. Plus...you want a chick that has some vanity about her. That throw shit on/Comfortable bullshit must be checked.

Your chick has to understand that "going out" is going out of the house. Your out...you represent me and you...

My 0.02


Gospel.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I have rules upfront that any female I am with already knows to abide by... listen to Lil Wayne's "Comfortable" and follow it's teachings... know that if I go to the gym and consistently look my best every time I step outside... I demand the same from you... If you can't or are unwilling to follow said instructions... the door is behind you.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I have rules upfront that any female I am with already knows to abide by... listen to Lil Wayne's "Comfortable" and follow it's teachings... know that if I go to the gym and consistently look my best every time I step outside... I demand the same from you... If you can't or are unwilling to follow said instructions... the door is behind you.

niggas with their online big talk,, this is 2012 and the usa.. these females aren't muslim women in the middle east.. all this no compromise my way or the high way talk just lets me know ur a no pussy getting eGeek trying to impress men online fronting like u a boss in ur home when u a single no pussy getting fucktard.. no real woman puts up with that nonsense.. relationships are give and take... niggas like u will be single forever:lol:
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Nope we both in the gym several times a week and she ha a much more strict diet than I do :lol:
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

i date skinny/slim....fat is a size 9 to me
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

*drinks milkshake*

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Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

niggas with their online big talk,, this is 2012 and the usa.. these females aren't muslim women in the middle east.. all this no compromise my way or the high way talk just lets me know ur a no pussy getting eGeek trying to impress men online fronting like u a boss in ur home when u a single no pussy getting fucktard.. no real woman puts up with that nonsense.. relationships are give and take... niggas like u will be single forever:lol:

As real as it gets, and most of these dudes are big and so are their women.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

niggas with their online big talk,, this is 2012 and the usa.. these females aren't muslim women in the middle east.. all this no compromise my way or the high way talk just lets me know ur a no pussy getting eGeek trying to impress men online fronting like u a boss in ur home when u a single no pussy getting fucktard.. no real woman puts up with that nonsense.. relationships are give and take... niggas like u will be single forever:lol:

I got to cosign this, majority of the dudes commenting arent even in long term relationships.

I been dealing with this shit for years and tried everything. Im pretty fit myself but my wife never loses weight. She tries tho but it just doesnt happen. Honestly she was fat when we met 5'1" 170lbs went down to 150lbs when she caught some type of virus, stayed their a couple years then blew up to a lil more than 180lbs.

I was cool with it at first but now after bedding so many more fit chicks it pisses me off. Last night went out for a upscale dinner, i got really aggravated seeing all fit chicks i could be with instead of her.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I got to cosign this, majority of the dudes commenting arent even in long term relationships.

I been dealing with this shit for years and tried everything. Im pretty fit myself but my wife never loses weight. She tries tho but it just doesnt happen. Honestly she was fat when we met 5'1" 170lbs went down to 150lbs when she caught some type of virus, stayed their a couple years then blew up to a lil more than 180lbs.

I was cool with it at first but now after bedding so many more fit chicks it pisses me off. Last night went out for a upscale dinner, i got really aggravated seeing all fit chicks i could be with instead of her.

:lol:
you better not ever leave your phone laying around
better not leave an email open
better not stay logged into bgol
you put too much of your shit out there man
she gone kill you
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

niggas with their online big talk,, this is 2012 and the usa.. these females aren't muslim women in the middle east.. all this no compromise my way or the high way talk just lets me know ur a no pussy getting eGeek trying to impress men online fronting like u a boss in ur home when u a single no pussy getting fucktard.. no real woman puts up with that nonsense.. relationships are give and take... niggas like u will be single forever:lol:

Now that sounds more like the truth.

It's crazy but, I think I got a one and a million marriage.
This women is my soulmate. We click so well and yea, we got our ups and downs. I'm talking weight and the other shit. When we met we were partying, dancing, eating everything and we was slim. But then after a few years when we calmed down on all the partying, we got fat. We would crack fat jokes about each other and all. There would be times where she was going hard at trying to get back in shape. But I was like fuck that I'm drinking my beer and doing what I do. And vice versa. When you got a wife who is really down for you, you don't care about the bullshit, little bitty weight gain. As long as its not out of hand. We both know that if we wanted to we could go catch. I keep her looking good smelling good and everything a man is supposed to do for his wife. And she does everything a man expects from his wife. To each his own. My wife is great. I am a dude, and I am a hunter but I do know when I got something good. And I recognize the 80/20 rule. That shit is real. Peace. I hope you feel me.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I got to cosign this, majority of the dudes commenting arent even in long term relationships.

I been dealing with this shit for years and tried everything. Im pretty fit myself but my wife never loses weight. She tries tho but it just doesnt happen. Honestly she was fat when we met 5'1" 170lbs went down to 150lbs when she caught some type of virus, stayed their a couple years then blew up to a lil more than 180lbs.

I was cool with it at first but now after bedding so many more fit chicks it pisses me off. Last night went out for a upscale dinner, i got really aggravated seeing all fit chicks i could be with instead of her.

u must have been married for a while.. r u sure its the weight or the marriage,, maybe the marriage has run its course... or after getting ur feet wet ur feeling like taking a full dive.. man i dont think its the weight..
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

No, because I have a high demand from her.com
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

:lol:
you better not ever leave your phone laying around
better not leave an email open
better not stay logged into bgol
you put too much of your shit out there man
she gone kill you

Lol some days i feel like being an asshole and just pouring it on her.


u must have been married for a while.. r u sure its the weight or the marriage,, maybe the marriage has run its course... or after getting ur feet wet ur feeling like taking a full dive.. man i dont think its the weight..

Combination of both but im 100% sure i would step out on her way less if she weighed 125lbs. Man her body got banger potential too. Oh well, in my case its true if you want to know what your wife looks like in a few years, just look at her mother. Real talk my father in law complains to me about the same shit, he said he took a cialus and couldnt get it up to fuck his wife. :smh:
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

:lol:
you better not ever leave your phone laying around
better not leave an email open
better not stay logged into bgol
you put too much of your shit out there man
she gone kill you

He's either lying - or wants to get caught. I hope he gets caught. And i hope she railroads the shit out of him.
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

Lol some days i feel like being an asshole and just pouring it on her.




Combination of both but im 100% sure i would step out on her way less if she weighed 125lbs. Man her body got banger potential too. Oh well, in my case its true if you want to know what your wife looks like in a few years, just look at her mother. Real talk my father in law complains to me about the same shit, he said he took a cialus and couldnt get it up to fuck his wife. :smh:

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: ion even know wht to say right now
 
Re: To tha married and long term relationship cats.Has your wife/girl let herself go?

I'm going to say I'll do it tonight. But perhaps tomorrow I'm going to take the time and ready through all these post. I can front. My chick let herself go and its fucking me up big time. :smh:
 
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