Interracial Relationship Documentary. Are you for it or against it???

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

LI, I just have one serious question... if it were a female family member, would she have been invited to the family picnic? Could she have come with her white man in tow?

Nope. Nope.

This has to be the funniest thread on bgol

i know we all have our lil cac jokes n such but theres nothing that disgust me more in this world than a got damn racist. how the FUCK can u say u dont approve of someone going outside their race for love?? and then say some shit like "dont excpect to be welcomed to my family picnic with whitey, stay over in whitey land". my personal preference is for women of color but i wouldnt rule out dating a white woman and i damn sure wouldnt look down on another for doing so

if i had a family member like u i would wait until u got all this bullshit outta your system in your little rant, spit right smack in the middle of your face and dare you to do something about it if u spew some bullshit like that at me. i see it as disrespect, and theres no logic behind it, only an ignorant fuck stuck in their old ways

If we were all born blind its people like u who would still find sumthing to separate us all even more

It was disrespect for him to bring her to his cousins house. Where he knows what the rules are. It was disrespect to bring her around his mother, his aunts, his grandmother, girl cousins. Who helped raise him. It was disrespect to think that for some reason he could go off and do what he did and come here acting like he didn't know what he was doing. He made his choice. He chose them. So he can stay with them. He chose who was going to "love" him. I'm not begrudging him living with them at all. Do you. Be happy for yourself. Why subject the rest of us to your disrespect though?

Why does he get to disrespect all of us? Your ignorance and arrogance is showing fella.

 

[Olosi]

You're all humans, get over yourselves.

 

[TRUFICTION]

Interestingly ........since were on this topic...
My second daughter comes in last night from a halloween party
and tells me that she met this really cute guy all because
a french song came on that is #1 everywhere else in the world except the states that kanye has sung parts of in english on some cut he made.

She was singing the song in french ....which she speaks fluently
and was then approached by a cat who is from morocco and a engineering student at georgia tech and he wants to take her out. Im glad that my kids dont share my sometimes narrow minded view on race and i hope that the more all kids grow in world knowledge that one day we/they will finally wash out all the stupid bigoted ideas and people can be judged by who they are today and not by what they look like or what their fucked up parents think.

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

Interestingly ........since were on this topic...
My second daughter comes in last night from a halloween party
and tells me that she met this really cute guy all because
a french song came on that is #1 everywhere else in the world except the states that kanye has sung parts of in english on some cut he made.

She was singing the song in french ....which she speaks fluently
and was then approached by a cat who is from morocco and a engineering student at georgia tech and he wants to take her out. Im glad that my kids dont share my sometimes narrow minded view on race and i hope that the more all kids grow in world knowledge that one day we/they will finally wash out all the stupid bigoted ideas and people can be judged by who they are today and not by what they look like or what their fucked up parents think.

 

[LoneStar29]

Kefta i do agree with there will be no black unity. I'm glad i saw you say what you did. Now it makes alot more sense about this post. You've made yourself much more clear to me now. Stay black brother.

 

[john blackcorn]

Nope. Nope.


It was disrespect for him to bring her to his cousins house. Where he knows what the rules are. It was disrespect to bring her around his mother, his aunts, his grandmother, girl cousins. Who helped raise him. It was disrespect to think that for some reason he could go off and do what he did and come here acting like he didn't know what he was doing. He made his choice. He chose them. So he can stay with them. He chose who was going to "love" him. I'm not begrudging him living with them at all. Do you. Be happy for yourself. Why subject the rest of us to your disrespect though?

Why does he get to disrespect all of us? Your ignorance and arrogance is showing fella.

"Son, youve disrespected and brought shame upon us with your white devil wife and half breed children, dont show your face around here"


That sound about right to u?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

"Son, youve disrespected and brought shame upon us with your white devil wife and half breed children, dont show your face around here"


That sound about right to u?

I don't know what you're saying. But you didn't answer my question. Why does he get to disrespect us?

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

I don't know what you're saying. But you didn't answer my question. Why does he get to disrespect us?

wtf, how is a person or a family member disrespecting you by bringing a non-black person to your family reunion, cookout or etc..in the first place??? How old are you???

 

[wiZe]

Well said.

Don't support these relationships within the present context of racism/white supremacy. If the context was different then its all good. LET'S REPLACE RACISM/WHITE SUPREMACY WITH JUSTICE BEFORE JUMPING INTO BED. This applies, equally, to both White and black people!

 

[ansatsusha_gouki]

People should date who they are happy with dating.

c/s

Nobody said, "race doesn't matter", because race is always going to be a factor one way or another. But to call somebody a sell out or coon for dating ouside their race is going too far (I'm not talking direct to you). If a person can find someone who can give them peace and balance in their life, I'm all for it....

Will not understand that logic at all...

wtf, how is a person or a family member disrespecting you by bringing a non-black person to your family reunion, cookout or etc..in the first place??? How old are you???

Why even try


I dont understand why people are so worried about what another person is sleeping with...it makese no sense at all

 

[Deacs]

wtf, how is a person or a family member disrespecting you by bringing a non-black person to your family reunion, cookout or etc..in the first place??? How old are you???

If its a rule in that household, then yes it's a violation... if a person is against mixing ethnic groups, and you bring said circumstance to their door... you disrespected the household. Some people take offense to it and what they are trying to accomplish as a family... some simply prefer not having a cody or becky as family due to their own unresolved unspoken anger against said race.... too many reasons

I know homophobic families which denounce a member....

In fact, my mom in-law's husband is a german doctor..... received a horrible reception from them... cool dude, we played laser tag while the rest fumed, but even when the matriarch came down with abdominal cancer and he diagnosed and offered to ensure her life, they scoffed and stuck by jesus and their old negro spirituals... guess who lost...

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

If its a rule in that household, then yes it's a violation... if a person is against mixing ethnic groups, and you bring said circumstance to their door... you disrespected the household. Some people take offense to it and what they are trying to accomplish as a family... some simply prefer not having a cody or becky as family due to their own unresolved unspoken anger against said race.... too many reasons

I know homophobic families which denounce a member....

In fact, my mom in-law's husband is a german doctor..... received a horrible reception from them... cool dude, we played laser tag while the rest fumed, but even when the matriarch came down with abdominal cancer and he diagnosed and offered to ensure her life, they scoffed and stuck by jesus and their old negro spirituals... guess who lost...

 

[icecool2]

I have never been against minorities dating each other(we share the same life experience) but when a brother or a sister does it I feel they are missing something in their DNA..but to tell the truth I dont give a fuck what anybody does with their life.

Co sign.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

wtf, how is a person or a family member disrespecting you by bringing a non-black person to your family reunion, cookout or etc..in the first place??? How old are you???

I've already explained this though. This family isn't in favor of that sort of thing. And we're DAMN sure not in favor of it at this house. His older cousin didn't allow it when he was alive. And cuz knew it to be disrespect. His disrespected his family. He disrespected the female members of his family. There has never been a white person to step foot inside this house. And as long as i'm alive, there won't be. Ever.

There's several schools of thought with this type of thing. Those of us who respect ourselves and our people. Those of us who care about the spirits of our ancestors and those of us who don't. He has become 1 of those who don't.

There's a BIG difference in caring about who you're screwing. And who you decide to bring to my house. To this families gathering. Screw your white girls to your hearts content. I applaud you to do it. GO. Be happy. I've never said don't do you. Don't be happy. You'll never see me on this board or anywhere else say different. I will not stop you. I will not even speak out against you.

But this is my husbands home. This is my family. And i uphold what the family values and believes in.

 

[john blackcorn]

I don't know what you're saying. But you didn't answer my question. Why does he get to disrespect us?

What makes it disrespect in the first place?? because they person they bring home is of a different race?? last time i checked thats not something a person has a choice in. your born the color u are, the choices u make in life and the relationships u build with people shouldnt be based off a genetic factor that cant be altered in any way shape or for naturally.

this is not like when someone is gay, theres no scientific proof that a person is born that way. this is not like religion where u can change it at any time. u can "act white" or "act black" all u want but at the end of the day u cannot change the color of your skin

its a shame that folks still think with this mindset. What is being lost, (besides skin color) that that cant be taught to the next generation, by mixing races?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

If its a rule in that household, then yes it's a violation... if a person is against mixing ethnic groups, and you bring said circumstance to their door... you disrespected the household. Some people take offense to it and what they are trying to accomplish as a family... some simply prefer not having a cody or becky as family due to their own unresolved unspoken anger against said race.... too many reasons

I know homophobic families which denounce a member....

In fact, my mom in-law's husband is a german doctor..... received a horrible reception from them... cool dude, we played laser tag while the rest fumed, but even when the matriarch came down with abdominal cancer and he diagnosed and offered to ensure her life, they scoffed and stuck by jesus and their old negro spirituals... guess who lost...

People aren't getting the difference in do you at your place. Let me do mine at mine. Don't bring your "do you". To MY place. Black men's entitlement these days is just out of freaking control.

 

[john blackcorn]

People aren't getting the difference in do you at your place. Let me do mine at mine. Don't bring your "do you". To MY place. Black men's entitlement these days is just out of freaking control.

so no cacs in your house right? or are they welcome in your home under any other circumstance with the exclusion interracial couples? why not just admit your racist? or did i miss that in an earlier post of yours

 

[Deuterion]

so no cacs in your house right? or are they welcome in your home under any other circumstance with the exclusion interracial couples? why not just admit your racist? or did i miss that in an earlier post of yours

She is white herself...just in denial.

 

[Deacs]

Does wanting to live an inclusive life make you racist?
Why must people need to deal with those which they don't want to? Yet find it cool to have inclusive neighborhoods, to have their own business and do for them alone? No one says shit to a Jew with their religious group, or asians in their dealings, but you are racist for not having whoever on your dirt?
Hell, indians kicked blacks off the reservation after they got their money after generations of them not co-mingling the bloodlines and it was fair... its not fair to say that whites can go anywhere else but your home?
Really?

You can respect a race since all are equal, but you don't have to mingle with anyone you don't want to by right... can't force a kumbuyah type lifestyle and expect no resentment and anger due to the forcing

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

I've already explained this though. This family isn't in favor of that sort of thing. And we're DAMN sure not in favor of it at this house. His older cousin didn't allow it when he was alive. And cuz knew it to be disrespect. His disrespected his family. He disrespected the female members of his family. There has never been a white person to step foot inside this house. And as long as i'm alive, there won't be. Ever.

There's several schools of thought with this type of thing. Those of us who respect ourselves and our people. Those of us who care about the spirits of our ancestors and those of us who don't. He has become 1 of those who don't.

There's a BIG difference in caring about who you're screwing. And who you decide to bring to my house. To this families gathering. Screw your white girls to your hearts content. I applaud you to do it. GO. Be happy. I've never said don't do you. Don't be happy. You'll never see me on this board or anywhere else say different. I will not stop you. I will not even speak out against you.

But this is my husbands home. This is my family. And i uphold what the family values and believes in.

well, you have every right to make rules in your house because after all, its your house. But, what makes you better than or different from, any other racist person or people in this world???? And do you think that you are more pro black than a person that thinks other wise? If so, why???

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

What makes it disrespect in the first place?? because they person they bring home is of a different race?? last time i checked thats not something a person has a choice in. your born the color u are, the choices u make in life and the relationships u build with people shouldnt be based off a genetic factor that cant be altered in any way shape or for naturally.

this is not like when someone is gay, theres no scientific proof that a person is born that way. this is not like religion where u can change it at any time. u can "act white" or "act black" all u want but at the end of the day u cannot change the color of your skin

its a shame that folks still think with this mindset. What is being lost, (besides skin color) that that cant be taught to the next generation, by mixing races?

Why does he get to disrespect us? If you were related to me. You know how this family is. You are raised by this family. It's not about what she is. It's about what HE did. I don't care if he laid up with her across town and had a 100 babies with her. Thats his life. He tried to enforce what he wanted onto us. And in the process disrespected us. You know how this household is here. And yet you decide to bring this thing to our doorstep. And you think you have the right to spit in MY face?

Why?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

so no cacs in your house right? or are they welcome in your home under any other circumstance with the exclusion interracial couples? why not just admit your racist? or did i miss that in an earlier post of yours

I'd like for you to prove that i have the power to keep white people from attaining any goal they have within this city or country. I cannot make laws to prevent white people from getting jobs. I cannot make laws preventing white people from starting their own businesses at whatever piece of land they want. I cannot build highways through their neighborhoods. I cannot put them in internment camps. I cannot prevent them from receiving medical care. I cannot prevent them from seeking public office. I cannot disrupt their educational process. I cannot take their religion from them and convert them to my own and effect their children.

Please show me where i have the power anywhere to do any of those things and i will admit that i'm a racist.

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

Does wanting to live an inclusive life make you racist?
Why must people need to deal with those which they don't want to? Yet find it cool to have inclusive neighborhoods, to have their own business and do for them alone? No one says shit to a Jew with their religious group, or asians in their dealings, but you are racist for not having whoever on your dirt? Hell, indians kicked blacks off the reservation after they got their money after generations of them not co-mingling the bloodlines and it was fair... its not fair to say that whites can go anywhere else but your home?
Really?

You can respect a race since all are equal, but you don't have to mingle with anyone you don't want to by right... can't force a kumbuyah type lifestyle and expect no resentment and anger due to the forcing

This is true too, but nobody say shit or make as much of a big deal, if its the other way around. Especially, when it comes to black people. Again, this is not about "braking the black family", its about if someone in your race decided to date outside his/her race or fall in love, why does that make them a sell out or a coon?

 

[Goingmark40]

for it.....had two white girlfriends back in Da day and a white girl i,'d kick it with. Only things hated about em was they smoked cigarettes. Taught me a lot cause I never thought I'd go for a white chick. But it'd basically whoever makes whoever happy.....color blinds a whole lot of people

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

well, you have every right to make rules in your house because after all, its your house. But, what makes you better than or different from, any other racist person or people in this world???? And do you think that you are more pro black than a person that thinks other wise? If so, why???

I'm racist by what exactly? I believe in establishing black business. Loving black people. Helping black people. Conjoining with black business owners to get goals accomplished. Getting black neighborhoods flourishing, from under economic oppression by the white power structure. Everyone has their neighborhoods. Everyone has their businesses. Everyone can get their own legislature. But BLACK people. Everything from us is owned by whites. My family and some others want to work and change that. You make strong black families by marrying black people. Those black families should work in those black communities to help create more independent wealth for black people.

This is what we believe in as a family. So if you're against that. Fine. It's not on everyone's "to do" list. Many black people just want to do for self. Many of them just want worry about their own happiness. Which is fine. Just do it over THERE. You trying to do YOUR OWN PERSONAL thing and live your life happy has no place with people who want to work together to build black.

I believe there's room for everyone personally. There's room on this planet for everyone. I don't advocate harming anyone for anything they do not deserve. But neither do i believe you should go around inflicting yourself upon places where you are not wanted. If whites want their own neighborhoods i say FINE. LET THEM HAVE IT. Jews should have their own communities. Hindi people should have theirs. Koreans. Everyone should have their own. Why begrudge us for wanting the same?

If that's racist to you? I can live with that.

 

[LoneStar29]

People aren't getting the difference in do you at your place. Let me do mine at mine. Don't bring your "do you". To MY place. Black men's entitlement these days is just out of freaking control.

True

But truthfully if I had that rule in my home it would exclude like 3/4 of my black male friends and 1/2 of the younger men in my family ... so I cant do that ... I wouldnt have any peoples left if I did rotfl

She is white herself...just in denial.

You're one to talk.......

 

[Deacs]

This is true too, but nobody say shit or make as much of a big deal, if its the other way around. Especially, when it comes to black people. Again, this is not about "braking the black family", its about if someone in your race decided to date outside his/her race or fall in love, why does that make them a sell out or a coon?

Oh...
that doesn't necessarily make you a sell out or coon.... its the reasons which are used to justify it rather than 'we met and fell in love' which make you one... it makes something which is natural tainted because of the illogical reasonings.... and since most interracial couples or at least one of them said 'I don't date or marry black men or women because [x]' that right there makes you those things.

Although it is difficult to sit there and discuss black unity or self determination when the said person does not even choose [yes love is a choice because you chose to let that person rent space in your mind and heart] your own race...

I see coons and sellouts as contradictory in nature... like our discussion about that ivy league teaching, three white women marrying, civil right activating plutocrat hating dude who added getting himself arrested to add to his credit... brilliant man, but no leg to stand on.

Your life should always reflect your words

 

[Deacs]

And why no one told me black men had entitlements? Where was my memo?

 

[LoneStar29]

This is true too, but nobody say shit or make as much of a big deal, if its the other way around. Especially, when it comes to black people. Again, this is not about "braking the black family", its about if someone in your race decided to date outside his/her race or fall in love, why does that make them a sell out or a coon?

The majority of bm who date out do so thinking that ww or other races are better than black women and THAT is what makes them coons cuz they believe what The Klan and Slave Master believe which is that their own women are inferior to their women

You can sit there all day and lie and say that "people just fall in love" but that is bullshit and there are thousands of posts on this site alone from fonts like Rick Ronson, Laughing Man, The Dark Mind, Diamond Duece, Pogoboro, Info, Ionblast, newyorkrealtalk, ansatsusha_gouki, Dr.Truth, etc etc ect that prove my point ... the list goes on and on and I could LITERALLY sit here forever listing names of men on this site, men through the media, men I have encountered in real life who feel this way

These guys are coons, point blank period ... and so are bw who drink the koolaid and think blacks are inferior to whites and other races ... thing is the percentage of bw who think that is much lower

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

I'm racist by what exactly? I believe in establishing black business. Loving black people. Helping black people. Conjoining with black business owners to get goals accomplished. Getting black neighborhoods flourishing, from under economic oppression by the white power structure. Everyone has their neighborhoods. Everyone has their businesses. Everyone can get their own legislature. But BLACK people. Everything from us is owned by whites. My family and some others want to work and change that. You make strong black families by marrying black people. Those black families should work in those black communities to help create more independent wealth for black people.

This is what we believe in as a family. So if you're against that. Fine. It's not on everyone's "to do" list. Many black people just want to do for self. Many of them just want worry about their own happiness. Which is fine. Just do it over THERE. You trying to do YOUR OWN PERSONAL thing and live your life happy has no place with people who want to work together to build black.

I believe there's room for everyone personally. There's room on this planet for everyone. I don't advocate harming anyone for anything they do not deserve. But neither do i believe you should go around inflicting yourself upon places where you are not wanted. If whites want their own neighborhoods i say FINE. LET THEM HAVE IT. Jews should have their own communities. Hindi people should have theirs. Koreans. Everyone should have their own. Why begrudge us for wanting the same?

If that's racist to you? I can live with that.

You're changing the subject, WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff. But since that's the direction you're going, you don't think a person can date outside thier race and still help the family business and build black unity?

The majority of bm who date out do so thinking that ww or other races are better than black women and THAT is what makes them coons cuz they believe what The Klan and Slave Master believe which is that their own women are inferior to their women

You can sit there all day and lie and say that "people just fall in love" but that is bullshit and there are thousands of posts on this site alone from fonts like Rick Ronson, Laughing Man, The Dark Mind, Diamond Duece, Pogoboro, Info, Ionblast, newyorkrealtalk, ansatsusha_gouki, Dr.Truth, etc etc ect that prove my point ... the list goes on and on and I could LITERALLY sit here forever listing names of men on this site, men through the media, men I have encountered in real life

These guys are coons, point blank period ... and so are bw who drink the koolaid and think blacks are inferior to whites and other races ... thing is the percentage of bw who think that is much lower

Lonestar, that might be the case for most of those guys, but everybody is not the same. You said it yourself that ,"I'm done with black men", so what does that make you???

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

True

But truthfully if I had that rule in my home it would exclude like 3/4 of my black male friends and 1/2 of the younger men in my family ... so I cant do that ... I wouldnt have any peoples left if I did rotfl



You're one to talk.......

I understand. But we believe your home of all other things should be a place where YOU are safe. YOU have comfort. In many ways it's like black men have taken on white peoples entitlement. They think they belong anywhere and everywhere. Even if they're unwanted. They think they should be places and have access to anything that just doesn't belong to them.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

You're changing the subject, WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff. But since that's the direction you're going, you don't think a person can date outside thier race and still help the family business and build black unity?

I didn't change the subject. The subject is about relationships. That's what my posts have been about. You asked me about pro blackness i responded to that as well. No, i don't believe you can marry a white woman and build black business in the black community.

Deacs posted a pretty good response already.

Speaking of whom...

And why no one told me black men had entitlements? Where was my memo?

Pay attention to these posts. You'll see it. lol just because you THINK them doesn't mean you actually GET them. The rape thread is an example of what i mean about entitlement as well. And also Deuterion's post to me about him believing he has the right to come to my house and spit in my face.

IJS

 

[john blackcorn]

Why does he get to disrespect us? If you were related to me. You know how this family is. You are raised by this family. It's not about what she is. It's about what HE did. I don't care if he laid up with her across town and had a 100 babies with her. Thats his life. He tried to enforce what he wanted onto us. And in the process disrespected us. You know how this household is here. And yet you decide to bring this thing to our doorstep. And you think you have the right to spit in MY face?

Why?

ok lets just x out the whole spitting in the face thing. thats irrelevant at this point. i cant answer your question because i dont know which aspect of bringing home a person to meet the parents is disrespectful. is it because your scared? is it just because u said so??

the fact that u could have so much hate for another human being because of the shade of their skin color that they are excluded from contact with you or your family baffles me and i really think it deserves an explanation

and i would apply these same questions to anyone of any race

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

ok lets just x out the whole spitting in the face thing. thats irrelevant at this point. i cant answer your question because i dont know which aspect of bringing home a person to meet the parents is disrespectful. is it because your scared? is it just because u said so??

the fact that u could have so much hate for another human being because of the shade of their skin color that they are excluded from contact with you or your family baffles me and i really think it deserves an explanation

and i would apply these same questions to anyone of any race

X'ed then. But you're the 1 who said, you'd spit in my face and dare me to retaliate because you came to my house and disrespected me. For the record. I didn't threaten anyone. I didn't call anyone any names. I just wanted my house and my family respected.

I have no hate. You see the logic leaps you make? Nowhere have i ever said i hated anyone because of skin color. I've never even alluded to me hating anyone. I've actually said quite frequently if you choose to do something it's your RIGHT to do.

My question is, why do your rights get to supersede mine? Why is what YOU want supposed to be greater than what the family wants and believes in?

 

[DMXtreem]

Very interesting that niether had a father in the house. Also, seemingly, she had a child with a black man before this guy. A very predictable outcome here!!!